I'm 15 and pregnant but I'm afraid that my mom will want nothing to do with me....please help
Q. Okay so im kinda new at this "advice" thing so please take it easy on me........okay so my bf and i have been together for going on 11 months and one week after my birthday on 2-28 i broke my virginity..later we had sex again and started to do it ...
A. 30 March 2008: i guess, some people, are born to be mothers. Maybe you too. But don't you think 15 is abit early? And your bf, sure he's 18. But is he able to hold a stable job to look after the both of you, and the baby, and keep a roof over your head, and feed ... (read in full...)
I really love him should I lose my virginity with him?
Q. Hey I'm 15 years old and I have an amazing boyfriend that I really love and I'm thinking of losing my virginity to him soon. I'm kinda nervous for many reasons....STD's.....possible pregnantcy ( i really wudn't mind that though in a way...).....fear ...
A. 30 March 2008: Erm, you're fifteen. If anything happens, like you get found out, he gets into trouble, not you. Even if you dont get pregnant. He'll still get into trouble. And you're too young for something as big as sex, don't you think?
If you two really l... (read in full...)
I'm shy, he's shy, are we having a relationship or what?
Q. last friday night i went, along with several colleagues, to an ex-colleagues wedding party. for a while now, i had been developing feelings for a work mate, but had not acted upon it because 1) i am shy, and 2) i was unsure how he felt in reagards ...
A. 30 March 2008: It's only been around, what a week or two??
Give it time, love. Don't expect to already be in a relationship the very moment you two profess that the emotions are mutual. Wouldn't you like a little wooing and dating? He is afterall very shy.
That ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I feel like I am making love with my dad, as he's 18 years older than me. Am I abnormal?
Q. I've just divorced my husband of 20 years. He is selfish and unkind. Then Im lucky to meet this man 18 years older than me. He helps me to get my life on track. He makes me feel loved and wanted which I've never felt before. However I feel sick ...
A. 30 March 2008: Maybe you feel sick cos you aren't actually 'making love' with him per say, but rather, just having plain sex? There is a difference there you know?... (read in full...)
My teacher likes me, kissed me and is scaring me! I'm feeling awful but no one will believe me if I tell them.
Q. Hi, i have this really bad problem it's about a teacher and it's nothing to do with me liking him its the other way round. We have just broke up from school for the easter holidays. The whole story started when i was walking down the corridor goi...
A. 30 March 2008: Tell your mum, and report it to the cops.
Seriously. Don't let that guy get away with it.
And don't kill yourself cos it's not worth it. You're just letting him get away. Even if by killing yourself they realise the gravitas, they can't charge h... (read in full...)
How do I keep my man interested?
Q. Hello everyone Im wondering how to keep my man interested in me Im 31 and he is 23 Im afriad that he will soon lose interest and leave as Im 8 years older than him what can I do to help him stay interested ?? the sex is great (every night)an...
A. 30 March 2008: It's not about what you do to keep him interested.
Why do you want to be with a guy who is just "interested"? Why not love instead?
You don't buy love, honey. It's just there, if it's suppose to be there.
If you're depending on giving him sex ever... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wont talk to me until I tell him if I will have sex with him or not
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and he is younger then me, he said when he turns 18 will i have sex with him, and now he wont talk to me until i answer him with yes or no help! stuck in the middle ...
A. 30 March 2008: Seriously now. Threatening silence for sex?? Then say no. Simple as that.
How very very immature of him.... (read in full...)
How do I tell my parents he's 20 years older than me?
Q. I have been seeing my partner for about eight months. We are so in love and I really cannot picture life without him. He is 20 years older than me (I am 21 and he is 41) and he is separated with five children. This however, is not the problem. ...
A. 30 March 2008: I am currently in a pretty much similar situation.
And haven't quite figured out what to tell my parents either. Doesn't help that I'm daddy's lil girl too.
The only thing that seems to mitigate the situation, is to prove yourself matured in m... (read in full...)
Are counsellors always right?
Q. I meet my b/f in September. We have been dating ever since. We have had sex and well we keep it all a secret but then someone found out and well here's the catch. See he's 18 and I'm 15, well I'm about to turn 16 in May. We was happy entile ...
A. 30 March 2008: If you're in love with him as much as you say, then leave him. Afterall, as the saying goes, absence makes the heart fonder. You'll know how much he loves you, and you'll know how much you love him.
It was very silly to have sex knowing your age... (read in full...)
He's cheated on me after 18yrs, and I'm a wreck!
Q. Husband of 18 yrs is in love with someone else?? Any advice?? Of course he is handling it well...but i'm a wreck! Another problem is he keeps sending me mixed messages...and he says he is confused, part of me wants to kick this woman's butt, wh...
A. 30 March 2008: 1) Cry, if it helps.
2) Do something that cheers you up. Like maybe something you've been wanting to do for a really long time, but never could do to time constraints or marriage restrictions.
3) Be strong, for yourself. He can have his stupid ... (read in full...)
I think this is right, I think he's the right guy for me. Am I right?
Q. First, some background info on me: 1) As a little girl still in kindergarten, I never liked hanging out with girls. I just didn't like them. I felt they were annoying and a waste of my time. Guys were much more fun. I still feel the same way now...
A. 30 March 2008: To Lazy guy,
I am defending myself from being assumed of as an asian hooker, because, isn't that a normal stereotyped assumption?
I am not one. I don't care for money (the one thing that pisses my parents off loads.) I'm not into anyone else'... (read in full...)
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