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We both love each other, but is love enough? I'm worried about jobs.
Q. I Have a long distance realtionship. We both love eacho ther. I'm crazy for him and i'm sure he does too. The only problem is that he has a better chances for the future for good jobs. For me i may just be working out in a supermarket again. One ...
A. 26 February 2008: well this is a hard equation but i guess it all depends on how his family accept that ,, try to mingle with them to c how they treat you , are they good or looking down at you if u found out that they dont accept that then you shouldnt continue that ... (read in full...)
The man I am dating goes to social events and does not invite me, should I suggest him that I'd like to accompany him?
Q. The man i am dating the last year sometimes he goes out to social occasions without telling me to go with him. He usually tells me after, that he went to a social event. Should i tell him that i would like to invite me to these events or not telling ...
A. 25 February 2008: no its not good if i were u i wouldnt ever asked him to accompany him it should come out of him not me , but u may try to show him that you wish to go such a social events someday and show that you are very intersting in such events and wait for his ... (read in full...)
Do I push for sex or respect my girlfriend's wishes?
Q. i want to have sex but my girlfriend doesnt want to until engagement. Should i try to push for sex or just respect her wishes and hope for the best??...
A. 25 February 2008: respecting her wish well make her love you deeply , when u feel that she really want it just do it ,, and you can discuss it with her ( i m dreaming of having sex with you but i ll not till i feel that you really want to) let her decide if you ... (read in full...)
Will this man marry me, or am I wasting my time?
Q. I have been dating a guy for over 3 yrs - He says he loves me - My b-day just came and went and he jokingly told others his gift to me was that I could be his friend for another year - I am so sad - this is the same man who says he loves me - I ...
A. 25 February 2008: dear , try to speak with him honestly and tell him about your feelings of insecure with him and whats your situation in his life ? he is satisfied in his life he dosent miss anything you take care of him and his kids so why to marry again i guess he ... (read in full...)
New relationship, how long should I wait before having sex, I'm 28?
Q. how long should a nice girl wait before getting naked w/ a new boy? i'm 28 and dating again for the first time in years. my ex was the first guy i ever went 'all the way' with, and we'd been dating close to two years before we did (i was 25 when w...
A. 25 February 2008: Dear ,If you are planning to marry that guy so u should be little patient in having complete sex with him , i mean let him fall in your love first , just give him your romance and love , be mysterious to him because if he likes you really he will ... (read in full...)
I don't trust my boyfriend, its hard financially, but I want another baby, advice please?
Q. Ok so I have a question. Hopefully someone can help. I'm a 24 yr old with a beautiful 3 yr old daughter. Lately I've been eager to have another child eventhough I know I'm definitely not ready. I'm living with my parents due to financial reasons. ...
A. 25 February 2008: Dear , when you became ready to have another baby just do it , but actually you are not ready financially or socially plus you dont trust your husband so wait till you get ready and get sure of your husband in order not to take the whole ... (read in full...)
3 months into the relationship and I am still insecure about his ex...what can I do??
Q. I have been dating my ex best friends ex boyfriend for about 3 months now and I an still insecure that he will leave me and go back to her. Her and I have not been friends for nearly 5 years now and her and my now boyfriend dated for the last 5 ...
A. 19 February 2008: well you may try to be diffrent than her c whats not in her and do it like being more attractive than her and try to make him intersted in your talk and thoughts also your always new look . that he will never think to get apart of u, also dont be ... (read in full...)
I don't want to date other girls...is it because I am not over my ex??
Q. hey, My girlfriend broke up with me some time ago now (about 4 months) and it was extremely hard, we fell out even thought she said she wanted us to stay friends. We have recently started talking more and we are becoming friends again but i ...
A. 19 February 2008: the sense that you are hurting, perhaps the break up was very recent. The bad news is that there is no "easy" or "quick fix". You will need to go through the process of allowing yourself to hurt, to grieve, to feel the feelings of separation. On a ... (read in full...)
I never realised I was unhappy in my marriage until I met this old friend...
Q. I'm a 49 year old man, married for 26 years, unhappily for the last 12 or so. About a month ago I received an e-mail from a high school friend through one of those reunion websites. We knew of each other but never dated. She just asked how I was ...
A. 19 February 2008: did you loved your wife all the time before you meet your old friend , and how was your relation togather , if it was good then your feeling towards the new one just attraction for new person as u know you got board of your life. and u crashed by ... (read in full...)
How do I show her that I am not someone who is all talk but am serious about my actions...? How do I gain her trust again?
Q. I met a woman whom I felt was "perfect" for me in April 07. This being after being introduced, chatting casually and having a fantastic 6 hour date over dinner and drinks. However she had a boyfriend at the time and gradually became confused. ...
A. 18 February 2008: well dear, asking her for marriage was the best thing u did to show her your true serious love and you've really changed. Now it's her decision so i guess you have to ignore her for a while and don't speak to her as a lover, just pretending as u r ... (read in full...)
I'm married and in love with another man.
Q. I am a 23 year old female and I have been married for 8 months. My husband and I have been together since I was 18 years old. I was head over heels in love with my husband up until about 7 months before we got married. I am a christian and my ...
A. 18 February 2008: You should continue with the chrstian one he will make you happy for all your life take an action and destroy all rules just to make your self happy , the one who had an affairs with another woman can do this again in the future . love your self and ... (read in full...)
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