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Why does my husband want me to have sex with a black man?

Q.   Can't understand why husband wants me to have sexual acts with a black man !! Iam soo hurt and can't understand!!...

A.   16 July 2010: It's one of the many fantasies some men have, and this one certainly isn't healthy. The 'white woman having sex with a black man while husband watches' fantasy is a particularly strong one, and I can't exactly tell you why since it's very ... (read in full...)

I've never had a girlfriend and this affects my confidence. What can I do to improve it?

Q.   Nowadays, everywhere you look the media displays sex, and for me it doesn't do well for my esteem which is already low. What I mean is that I feel frustrated and inadequate; tv especially presents sex as a thing that only the popular and the ...

A.   13 July 2010: Thank you all for answering, I really do appreciate them. To the female readers below this post, thank you for being so understanding and kind. For some reason I'm still surprised at how some women, like you, take a positive notion of a young man ... (read in full...)

Was it just a fold in his jeans or something else?

Q.   Ok this has been buggin me for a frickin long time!It was winter and at free period in school we had to go out on the football feild(Normal free time) and I was sitting on the blechers(Good old concret cbleachers from my school x.x). Well my best ...

A.   9 July 2010: Yeah, it's most likely an erection, but it isn't abnormal. Usually around his age, the male body can become very sensitive to even the slightest sexual reference, and is very hard to control. Even when the boy is asleep, the penis sometimes seems to ... (read in full...)

Sooo... I don't go facebook like everyone else

Q.   so i'm 16 and i dont go on facebook like at all. i have one but i just don't go on it at all.i honestly just don't c the obsession and ppl kind of freak out like "omg wat" when i tell them i don't go on it.i mean i know that everyone loves it but ...

A.   7 July 2010: Don't worry, you're not weird. I'm pretty much doing what you're doing: have an account but hardly ever going on it. Facebook was recommmended to me, but I find it terribly boring and prefer to talk to people face to face. Again, you're not boring, ... (read in full...)

How can I build up my self-esteem?

Q.   How can I build up my self-esteem? I don't normally hear black men - or men in general for that matter - talking about this, but I've never had much confidence in my looks or my personality. I've always felt inadequate for relationships with women: ...

A.   26 May 2010: Wow, this was just posted yesterday! Thanks a lot for taking time to comment you guys, your words really do help. It's difficult to remember sometimes that there are people in the world that actually care. ... (read in full...)

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