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I am gay and love my partner very much, he wants to come out the closet but is worried as his mother would tell him to pack his bags.

Q.   I am a gay guy (23) and I am in a relationship with the most perfect guy (22) I am just worried about him because I know he hurts. See I am out to my parents and everyone is very happy for us. But he is not out to his parents yet. He does want to ...

A.   5 March 2007: I had the same empty threat of being kicked out onto the street from my parents, note I said empty threat... His parents will always love him no matter what and although its really hard for some parents to come to terms with the fact their son i... (read in full...)

I'm gay and my boyfriend moved in with me... But he's sooo lazy and has a large dog which is running riot!

Q.   I'm gay and have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. Last year he left everything, moved 120 miles, took a new job and moved in with me. Since moving in he has done nothing to help with keeping the house or paying bills unless I specifically ...

A.   5 March 2007: Being lazy, in my opinion, isnt a valid reason for acting the way that he does. Yes hes moved a long distance to be with you so he obviously likes you, but he cant carry on being like that or acting like that if he wont pull his weight. You cant let ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is talking to other men online saying how hot and sexy they look, when confronted he said he only wants friends for us to socialise with. How do I handle this?

Q.   My bf of 11 months and I have been having many trust related problems since we met. I just discovered that 1 month ago he created an online profile looking for friends. It is on a website that caters to the specific type of men he is sexually ...

A.   5 March 2007: In all honesty i would not be comfortable with my boyfriend doing this at all. It seems that him not wanting you to know about what hes doing, suggests hes hiding something. I really wouldnt be happy about it and theres other ways of making friend... (read in full...)

i seem to have man boobs, is this normal and does it go away when you lose weight?

Q.   dear agony aunts im the guy that previously posted about my parents arguing because of me. i would like to give you guys an update and say that they worked things out this morning and started talking with each other. my other problem is, i se...

A.   5 March 2007: Depending on age and assuming you are going through Puberty, this is something that happens to teenage boys around this time. Sometimes the breast area becomes inflated and nipples erect and/or sensitive. DONT WORRY, its just something that h... (read in full...)

What does love actually mean... and is falling in love painful?

Q.   hey guys just wanted to know, what does love actually mean???? and is falling in love painful???...

A.   5 March 2007: Wanting to take a diversion to walk past their house or place of work, thinking about them all the time, wanting to be with them - these are symptoms of a crush Love is so much stronger and you have a connection with this person that no-one else... (read in full...)

I have been burned bad in my past relationships, how can I start trusting again?

Q.   I have been burned real bad in my last past relationship and now I have met a new girl and have very strong feelings for her but I am not sure on how to trust her. How do I start trusting again?...

A.   5 March 2007: Ive been badly mistreated and cheated on and I cant say that Ive fully recovered. It hurts but you want to move on - although their actions still live with you because you dont want to get hurt again. I still get paranoid and I find it hard to ... (read in full...)

Is it normal for Urine to pass at the point of ejaculation ??

Q.   IS it normal if urine follows the semen after ejaculation? Not just a small proportion, but something equal to when we go to piss? ...

A.   5 March 2007: To urinate straight after ejaculation? As in a couple of seconds after - i would say that could be a slight problem but im sure nothing serious, But i cant say it has ever happened to me. As far as I know you cant urinate whilst ejaculating because ... (read in full...)

I think I might be gay! How can you tell if you're gay? Realm????

Q.   ok.I'm confussed. I might be gay, but I'm not sure. I like always hug boys.......like all the time.....and i had feelings for one once. any ideas?...

A.   5 March 2007: Theres no definitive way of telling if you are gay or not, as you mature you will be more open with your feelings and sexuality and start to understand how you feel more.. Its easy to get confused and many younger teens experiment at your age, its... (read in full...)

The guy I'm with wants to date other women, too! I'm uncomfortable with that. What should I do?

Q.   Im new to the dating scene I guess, always been in a relationship. Right now, I'm dating one guy but to him it's okay for him to date other women. I'm not really comfortable with that. I'm sort of selfish when it comes to men I dont like to share ...

A.   15 February 2007: I think I would choose someone with higher standards. I cant say that I like casual dating. If im going out with someone I go out with them and them only, find out more about them as you date and then you will naturally decide if you want to stay ... (read in full...)

How do I find out if my friend is gay or not w/out acting suspicious?

Q.   How do you get an opinion of gays from a guy that you dont know if he is gay or not without making him suspicous. P.S i cant be straight up with him because he is my mate and we go to school. Please any advice would be great. ...

A.   15 February 2007: Mmm, im not sure if I understand this question but there really is no easy way of finding out to be honest with you. Does he seem interested in women? Sometimes the smallest little hints can build up to the answer. If you just wanted his opinion on ... (read in full...)

I came home to find a note saying my husband moved into a flat! I think he's seeing another woman again. I am devestated.

Q.   What do I do? My husband and I have been together for 12 years (married 7). About 3 years ago he had an affair, it was completely unexpected and I didn't realise we even had any problems. I forgave him and he promised me it was all over. Abo...

A.   15 February 2007: Also its very upsetting that its making you feel like this :- "I must be really ugly, or unsexy or just crap compared to the other woman" Just because he doesnt see it, it doesnt mean that you're not beautiful, dont let anybody ever bring you down... (read in full...)

How can I help my guy to get a higher sex drive?

Q.   HI I am in a six month relationship with a 26yo professional male. Our relationship is ideal on a number of levels. We have great respect for one another and our interests and hobbies align perfectly. Socially our friends and family all get a...

A.   15 February 2007: Hmm.. myself and my partner both have a high sex drive so I cant imagine what it would be like being in your situation other than extremely frustrating. It might be a case of him having a low sex drive and you a high one which would be the worst ... (read in full...)

I came home to find a note saying my husband moved into a flat! I think he's seeing another woman again. I am devestated.

Q.   What do I do? My husband and I have been together for 12 years (married 7). About 3 years ago he had an affair, it was completely unexpected and I didn't realise we even had any problems. I forgave him and he promised me it was all over. Abo...

A.   15 February 2007: I cant say that Im the most experienced in this field but I have been cheated on and I know how it feels. You need to let him go, even though your heart might want him back its not the right thing to do. Give it some time and Im sure that you will... (read in full...)

I came home to find a note saying my husband moved into a flat! I think he's seeing another woman again. I am devestated.

Q.   What do I do? My husband and I have been together for 12 years (married 7). About 3 years ago he had an affair, it was completely unexpected and I didn't realise we even had any problems. I forgave him and he promised me it was all over. Abo...

A.   15 February 2007: I cant say that Im the most experienced in this field but I have been cheated on and I know how it feels. You need to let him go, even though your heart might want him back its not the right thing to do. Give it some time and Im sure that you will... (read in full...)

How can I be less clingy in my relationships?

Q.   Hey, Im 17, Ive always called myself Bi but tend to fancy Guys much more kinda accepted the fact that Im Gay. I met this amazing guy, not been with him for a really long amount of time but im seeing him next in two days. I know that its probabl...

A.   15 February 2007: Hey, thanks for your advice. We were having a great chat tonight and I managed to talk to him about how my ex made me feel and he understood completly which made me feel a lot better about myself. I didnt meantion the fact that I felt he was ... (read in full...)

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