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I am a person of Philosophy: A science of non-contradictory vision. I wish to guide problem related to life, relationships, and sex, through this knowledge of philosophy and in addition, through the knowledge of Tantra Vision. Our modern Individualistic mode of life required such guidance. I will write series of articles on tantra, which anyone can read if feel guiding, and in addition, I will reply to the questioners with quoting relevant materials from articles.

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An Introduction to TANTRA. .As, power of light.

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3 February 2010: Article No 2...MEANING OF OBJECT. ... The object, so conceptualized by the word ‘tantra’ is sex organ in a state of erection. So, the object underlines the ideology of ‘eroticism. Here eroticism is principle, or philosophy, and not sexology...

An Introduction to TANTRA.

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26 January 2010: Tantra is a word belong to ancient Indian Sanskrit language. This word has been used by scholars in many ways, such as [1] It is used as a religious way with the ideas of god and goddess or deva and devis, temples, prayers, meditations, chanting ...

Think sex and Get pleasure..

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10 December 2009: What I am suppose to think? and What I am suppose to do? - in the realm of sex. This one is really hardest problem of life. Let me be the guide for those who want to think for themselves and want to be the original actor, and not a cheap imitator...

Sex existed before religion, and is the reason for relationships

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29 November 2009: Relationship is problem, perhaps most fatal problem. All destructive event like murder to suicide occur from bad terms of relations. It is also true that men cannot live without relating with something or with someone. So, it is quite necessary to ...

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My OBGYN tells me to dump abusive boyfriend, should I?

Q.   Help! My boyfriend says that my vagina does not feel teh same as it did when we began having sex 9 months ago. He refers to it as being loose and accuses me of cheating on him. I have tried kegels (excessively and obsessively) and have been ...

A.   15 December 2009: I have second thought on the question. Your boy friend may not sound as ill as describe by many,[includes me], but sure he is very poor observer, very poor sensually, unable to think logically. What is needed in sex is not automatically clear to ... (read in full...)

I want to seduce my 16 yo son's friend

Q.   I am a 45 year old with 2 kids a 16 year old boy and a 12 year old girl. My son has a friend who is always at our house. He's very cute. Whenever my son isn't around we flirt with each other. Yesterday I bent down to put a pan in the cabinet and my ...

A.   9 December 2009: I would like to make my earlier answer most clear. 1.I am not saying anything in the context of law and social/religious morality, about having sex with teen age by elders. 2. The question is about how far such sexual act give pleasure? And, m... (read in full...)

I know guys do, but do girls cum too?

Q.   Why and how do girls cum? I know us guys can but gals?...

A.   7 December 2009: I have second thought on this question: Do women cum? woman do not ejaculate the way male do. This one is fact, and not opinion. There is no such thing as ejaculation and switch off in female, as is in male. Women is quite able to enjoy s... (read in full...)

I have a very silly question .......

Q.   This is probably a really silly question, but I guess if I'm going to ask anyone a stupid sex related question I would really rather ask the people on this site than anyone else! Guys, girls, how exactly can you tell if a girl is loose? It's not...

A.   6 December 2009: The question of loose vagina, implies question of sex pleasure, mind expect to experience in form of sexual tension. When sex became more penetrative, also means it became almost mechanical. More penetration do not means more pleasure. Because, plea... (read in full...)

I want to seduce my 16 yo son's friend

Q.   I am a 45 year old with 2 kids a 16 year old boy and a 12 year old girl. My son has a friend who is always at our house. He's very cute. Whenever my son isn't around we flirt with each other. Yesterday I bent down to put a pan in the cabinet and my ...

A.   6 December 2009: apart from law and social morality, your question deserve some thought. I remember, in my teen I have the same feeling of sex for elders at that time around me, I felt sexual attraction for them who lead my mother's age....even without knowledg... (read in full...)

How do I get my wife to give a decent blow job?

Q.   How can I get my wife to give a decent BJ? She does give a BJ but she doesn't want me to cum in her mouth or on her. she says she is scared.... ...

A.   5 December 2009: Semen is not a thing to be taste. It is certainly a root of divine pleasure, and not a divine food or drink. Alchemy, a science of 'divine pleasure in sexuality' even do not recommend to ejaculate even in vagina, which is considered as perfectl... (read in full...)

How do I tackle this problem of watching too much porn?

Q.   hi cupid, am a young guy of 22. i have a serious issue that disturbed my life sometimes and trying to stop this but it's just like pouring water on the stone. I have sexual feelings whenever I see a woman naked or watch a porn movie not only that, ...

A.   5 December 2009: Your is not problem at all, which required answer. but so far knowledge is concern, which you lack, so you need knowledge only. What you call erection, is not problem but it is a gift of nature, which is required to be value with highest wisdom ... (read in full...)

Questions concerning oral sex

Q.   hey guys! just a few (kinda weird) questions on giving oral sex. my friend was saying something about putting pop rocks in ur mouth right before you give a guy head and that it feels good for them. i dont see how tht would feel good... sounds p...

A.   4 December 2009: let me add something, and make it a good tips. In Upanishad, [ it is also known as Vedant] which is collections of philosophic statements. One such statement about sex is this, ' Pleasure [anand, in sanskrit] is the only subject of sex organ' ... (read in full...)

My brother in law bad mouths our country

Q.   Hi I am currently staying in USA with my sisters family. My brother in law too is an Indian like me but he always grombles and cribs about the Indian system. He always uses foul language while talking about India and says that the country has not ...

A.   3 December 2009: It is good and also one separate thing to love one's own country. I am also Indian, and love my country, but when thing come to respect, then I respect America for certain thing and unable to respect my own country even though I love my country, ... (read in full...)

How do I know what is more important

Q.   Which do you think is more important? Marrying your best friend, or someone who is great in bed?...

A.   3 December 2009: The question is a sort...what come first? a chicken or egg? friendship and sex are inseparable. It is quite possible, I am saying possible in principle..that a prostitute can offer best sex in many terms, do it mean also that for this reason ... (read in full...)

My OBGYN tells me to dump abusive boyfriend, should I?

Q.   Help! My boyfriend says that my vagina does not feel teh same as it did when we began having sex 9 months ago. He refers to it as being loose and accuses me of cheating on him. I have tried kegels (excessively and obsessively) and have been ...

A.   3 December 2009: I have my personal observation about such mentality, is all negative; they do not want and respect sex and even love...be careful for such mentality who ever may possess. Such mentality is killing personality, will never give life or pleasure of ... (read in full...)

My Latin Lover has become a Latin Monster

Q.   I am a Canadian woman, late-20’s, and dated an Italian man for just over three years. At first it was magnificent, the hand holding, gentle face touches, dancing in the dark, romantic romantic romantic. We moved in together and it was downhill from ...

A.   3 December 2009: Love do not and should not means 'suffering' Love means bliss...and if it is not, then doubt the honesty of lover and urgently make solid judgment...... (read in full...)

Questions concerning oral sex

Q.   hey guys! just a few (kinda weird) questions on giving oral sex. my friend was saying something about putting pop rocks in ur mouth right before you give a guy head and that it feels good for them. i dont see how tht would feel good... sounds p...

A.   3 December 2009: sexual activity;- touching to penetration- by oral, manual, or vaginal, is required to be define as these activity are means? or goal. if sex itself means pleasure, then pleasure is goal. And, if pleasure is goal then certainly touching and pene... (read in full...)

Sex is extremely painful for me. What can I do?

Q.   Sex is painful for me. I've been to the doctor, and she can't find anything wrong with me, although it was very painful when she put anything inside me. She said it's probably all in my head. I don't think anybody gets how frustrating hearing that ...

A.   1 December 2009: See, if you take sex as a pleasure, and not as to have child, then foreplay itself is a perfect sexual activity. There is no necessity for vaginal penetration. Penetration end with ejaculation and ejaculation is not pleasure, or even desired goal or ... (read in full...)

When I masturbate I feel dirty and wrong

Q.   I'm 13 and I just started to masterbate last week, but whenever I do it, I feel dirty and wrong. How can I not?...

A.   30 November 2009: The question you ask is about your moral feeling, that you feel something bad and dirt for masturbation. This is justified feeling, everyone in their teen felt. Somehow, it is tendency amongst modern scholar to blame religion vision which inspire ... (read in full...)

Sex existed before religion, and is the reason for relationships

Q.   Relationship is problem, perhaps most fatal problem. All destructive event like murder to suicide occur from bad terms of relations. It is also true that men cannot live without relating with something or with someone. So, it is quite necessary to ...

A.   30 November 2009: I understand your ideas, about language. I will be careful, and sure, I am very much thankful for your suggestion and observation. I feel pleasure that you know about Tantra. Yes, this tantra is really the root of philosophy, or in Indian terms, ... (read in full...)

Sex existed before religion, and is the reason for relationships

Q.   Relationship is problem, perhaps most fatal problem. All destructive event like murder to suicide occur from bad terms of relations. It is also true that men cannot live without relating with something or with someone. So, it is quite necessary to ...

A.   30 November 2009: I note your comment about my language, you observe. You say you know very well about the wisdom of Kamasutra. And, yes here is the differences. Root of my ideas is not Kama-sutra. Kama-sutra is science that talk about relationship between male and ... (read in full...)

The sex is great but I want a REAL man!

Q.   I can't help myself! My on-again-off-again boyfriend is smart, funny, and handsome. But he also smokes and drinks a LOT and rarely has time for me because he's a "writer". Every time I want to do something he has to stay home working on his ...

A.   29 November 2009: Oh ? you are saying something pertaining to me. It is when you say about great sex, even his touch do sex magic!!!! I am also writer, and I know the psychology of writer. Even in great anger against him, you do justice about his greatest achieve... (read in full...)

How do I act when my girlfriend gives me a blow job?

Q.   My girlfriend wants to give me head or bj (i think there the same thing but whatever) because she wants to make me "happy" and she is persitant about it so when she does how am i suppose to react?...

A.   29 November 2009: You thought real question, generally rare mind think, so I congratulate you for nice thought. Sexual experiences is not a simple sensation, as most people think. Of course, it is mainly come out from sense of touch, but its experiences lead... (read in full...)

He says vaginas are gross and doesn't want sex anymore. What can I do to have sex in my marriage?

Q.   My husband and I are very much in love, we have been married less than a year and we have been together about three years. Before we got married, sex was great. I was intimate and exciting. I am very much aware that this stage will fade some as ...

A.   28 November 2009: Dear one, The problem you quote, that marriage make sex life a dull from male. It is not only your problem, but say problem of marriage life as such. Let me analyze the problem first. Sex in its reality is not only great but it is worship abl... (read in full...)

I loved him...

Q.   I still cant believe it. I lost my virginity when i was in 8th grade and only 14 years old. Now its changed my life forever. I dont feel like its a bad thing but when i think about it hard, it kinda disappoints me. Ive had sex with two guys now and ...

A.   28 November 2009: I would like to elaborate two point, one about virginity, and other about love. It is religious preaching who gave too much importance to virginity. In religious vision sex has only one meaning, to religious virginity is mark of seal, like many ... (read in full...)

I know guys do, but do girls cum too?

Q.   Why and how do girls cum? I know us guys can but gals?...

A.   28 November 2009: sex is expressed through 'sex-organ'...it is termed in India as 'linga'...in English it is termed as dick, cock, etc..ling is form [ matter ] that expressed human desire of and for pleasure... Pleasure is the only one attribute of this sex ... (read in full...)

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