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My abusive ex is dating again. Would it be weird or wrong if I warn his new Gf about him?

Q.   Hello all, Ok here's the short situation I was married have two kids with the guy. He cheated and abused me verbally and physically. We ended up getting a divorce and I'm finally free of him. He is living in another county now. He does n...

A.   8 January 2017: I was in your position a couple of months ago and after much deliberation I decided to say nothing. Even with the best intention in the world the messenger always gets shot and the chances of her believing you are slim. Guys who are abusive can ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is gaslighting me!

Q.   Can anyone give me some advice on "gaslighting" please?its a technique used by narcissists etc to make people doubt their sanity!I'm having a lot of problems with my boyfriend of 2 years...the main problem is that hes not had sex with me for 6 ...

A.   13 November 2016: I have been you and having broke free from this kind of relationship 9 months ago all I can say to you is get out and break all ties as soon as possible. Tell your friends and family what is happening and use them for support. People with narc... (read in full...)

I found out he's still married, but separated, he lied about his son and he's a borderline hoarder!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have been dating a guy for 2 1/2 years. He is older than me (I am 35 and he is 53), and when we started seeing each other he said he had been single for awhile. He has a house that is in disrepair, and approaching hoarder status. ...

A.   16 July 2016: It's sounds like a complicated set-up. Do you really want that because it sounds like you probably deserve to be treated better. If someone has lied to you once then they will lie to you again. You shouldn't be frustrated and crying. Your lif... (read in full...)

He's abusive and then buys me presents. Mixed signals? What should I do?

Q.   Hi all! Back here again to seek your kind and generous advice. I have been married for 3 years and have a two year old kid. During the past three years I've had a lot of ups and downs with my husband because we have totally different personal...

A.   16 July 2016: The comments so far have given some really good advice. I was in a similar place to you not so long ago. It felt like being on a merry-go-round. I was always trying to figure things out, trying to unravel the behaviour. It wasn't until I left that I ... (read in full...)

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