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When he presses his hard penis against me it drives me crazy

Q.   when me and my boyfriend hug and kiss he sometimes gets hard and when he presses his penis against my vagina (with clothes on) it drives me crazy is this normal? and would he feel the same? thanks in advance ...

A.   28 December 2006: Hmm let me think..are u completly new at this relashionship thing..! yes it's natural..ur a growing girl and he's a growing boy..your gunna have those feelings of "driving you crazy" and you want somthin more right!?.it's ok and I think he might be ... (read in full...)

I love both my girlfriend - and her best friend...

Q.   I'm am attracted to my girlfriend's best friend. We have been going out for 3 years. I love my girlfriend yet I still feel so attracted to her best friend, we seem to get along so well and we are both attracted to each other sexually. What can I do...

A.   13 September 2005: hey theres nothing wrong with choseing secound best.i mean i'm ALWAYS bin secoind best and i think it would be nice if ppl started give the secound person a chance!... (read in full...)

Help! Things are moving too fast. I'm 12 and my boyfriend is 17...

Q.   Hi, I need some advice about my boyfriend. I'm 12 and he's 17, we've been together for 2 months I really love him but things are moving a bit fast for me. We haven't even told my parents yet and he's talking about having sex! He has had sex with...

A.   9 September 2005: GIRL are u out of your mind? lol i'm 12 and i HAD a 17 year old boyfriend... don't do it the night we did it i never ever saw him agai,and i talked to some of his other girlfriends he did the egzact same thing to them,all's he wanted with 12 and 13 ... (read in full...)

During sex, he called out someone else's name... and I know her!

Q.   I'm totally crazy about my boyfriend and thought I could trust him. Now I'm not so sure. A couple of nights ago he called out a girl's name while we were having sex. I know the girl, he always told me that he just thought of her as his mate's ...

A.   26 April 2005: Either he's not really in love with you and likes someone else, or he has some odd obsession that he thinks of someone else while he's with you, because I really don't think that if he was really in love with you that he'd forget your name while ... (read in full...)

I feel unwanted

Q.   Hello :) i have never wrote to anyone about my relationship before i havent talked to anyone either but i really need some help. i meet my fiance 2 years ago online and we moved in together i moved to scotland to be with him. i left my job ...

A.   8 April 2005: I'm sorry but you should dump him and move home. Live with your family until you get a job. Meet someone new, just get away. I'm sorry, but it sounds like there's nothing left with you two. So drop him like a hot cake! ... (read in full...)

We're friends and more... but I don't know if this is going anywhere.

Q.   I met this guy 5 years ago whilst I was travelling, we got on really well and were pretty much inseperable. When we got back to the UK due to distance and other factors it didn't continue. However we kept in touch by text and e-mail and always p...

A.   8 April 2005: Just take a plunge again. Text him and be really soft with him. Say something like "umm are we going to take this into a relationship or do you want to just stay friends, coz we don't have to if you don't want to". Just something simple like that. ... (read in full...)

I kissed a boy now he no longer talks to me

Q.   Last night i went out with some mates. At the end off the night the lad i fancy just kissed me for no reason and i felt really happy. Now he wont talk to me have i done somethings wrong?...

A.   8 April 2005: There's nothing wrong. I just think he's really embarrassed that you didn't like it or something. It's perfectly normal. :) ... (read in full...)

I never get out any more.... my boyfriend acts more like my dad and thinks he owns me!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I moved from my home town to be with him in his home town, and ever since I moved down, he's changed he thinks he owns me. Never lets me go out with friends and acts like my dad. Should I leave him? I h...

A.   7 April 2005: Dump him. You never know if later in life he'll come ABUSIVE so go now while you're young.... (read in full...)

My b/f and I are so close to having sex, but I don't know why I stop him...

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months and we are very happy with each other. I live in Maidstone and he lives in Essex so we only get to see each other about once a month but despite the distance our relationship is very strong. We both think ...

A.   7 April 2005: I think you hold back because you're just as afraid. It's perfectly natural. You're fine and men don't usually get good til college, so you're not really missing anything, but it's fine if you do it.... (read in full...)

My b/f and I are so close to having sex, but I don't know why I stop him...

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months and we are very happy with each other. I live in Maidstone and he lives in Essex so we only get to see each other about once a month but despite the distance our relationship is very strong. We both think ...

A.   7 April 2005: OK, since he is very understanding, then this will be a cinch. :) OK, since you are both virins, the best part is that he won't know the difference. Just do it. I mean, you guys only live once in a lifetime, even though I've heard it's even better ... (read in full...)

My partner left for London, so I've been online and chatting...

Q.   I have been dating my partner for 3 1/2 years but recently he up and went to London. It left me feeling really heart broken. He says he is coming back to Scotland in 1 years time but that is a long time for me to wait. I deeply love him with all...

A.   7 April 2005: You don't know for sure if he's coming back and if he does, you don't know what he did or he might even bring someone home with him. And if he doesn't, what's it hurt to go out with some one who you probubly will braek up with by the time he comes ... (read in full...)

His separation has stalled half way... Do I wait or walk away?

Q.   My boyfriend told me he and his wife were separated. They had agreed on a financial split and she was due to move out but has changed her mind. She is 18 years older than him and now he says that he cannot expect her to move out and start again on...

A.   7 April 2005: Well, it's your choice entirely, but this is what I think: YES, because obviously he's not mature enough to make up his mind over someone who he said he was done with, but he's not. That also shows that you can't trust his word! ... (read in full...)

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