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I am a Canadian girl..originally from the beautiful province of Nova Scotia. I now live in Central Canada. I come from a military background and moved from place to place as a child and it shaped who I am. I have a challenging career which really keeps me down to earth and grounded. I really enjoy reading and responding to the questions on this site. |
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Guys don't like me b/c of my hair color, so how do I get the boy I'm after?
Q. None of the boys on my year seem to like me because I have ginger hair. I also really like this one boy. How do I get the boy I'm after?? Please help...
A. 17 July 2007: Hi hun
DO NOT CHANGE YOUR HAIR!! I am a redhead. There are plenty of blondes and brunettes but only so many of us redheads. Trust me sweetie...if a guy really likes you or does not like you it will not be because of your hair. Have you talked t... (read in full...)
Since the abortion in January I think my character has changed: I feel insecure about EVERYTHING
Q. Help! I had an abortion in January, after getting pregnant by my first ever boyfriend who I was - and still am - madly in love with. We both got through it, mainly by keeping it top secret from everyone apart from my parents, who paid for the ...
A. 17 July 2007: Hi sweetie.
You are young and have been through a loss that affects many women in many different ways. Now that the pace of life has calmed down a bit for you are going through a grieving process that needs to be gone through despite everythi... (read in full...)
She said it's not me, it's her. How can someone's feelings just suddenly stop??
Q. I've been in love with this girl for nearly a year and we've been through a lot of ups and downs. She said that she was in love with me, then suddenly she's saying she dosent even fancy me anymore. She says it's not me but she's changed. I just don...
A. 16 July 2007: Hi there. I am sorry to hear of the heartache and the confusion you are feeling. You mention you have been with your girlfriend for nearly a year and there have been a lot of ups and downs. I guess I am wondering if this relationship was bringing ... (read in full...)
He said he likes me just 'as a friend'. Any views?
Q. wat does it mean when u like someone and u ask if they like u n they say only as a friend?...
A. 14 July 2007: Hi Hun
I would move on if I were you. You are not required to be his friend either. You are not a consolation prize...you are a leading lady...just not with this guy. It has always been my experience that if you have shared something with someone ... (read in full...)
What's wrong with us fat girls?
Q. Whats wrong with fat gals? Im a fat gal. I take good care of myself. Better than a lot of skinny gals. Why dont i get noticed? My best friend is skinny and she smells ,always have dog hair all over her cloths ,her handr are dirty ,whx do guys like ...
A. 13 July 2007: Hi Sweetie.
I just read your post and I paticularly liked the input from Carina as she lives in South Africa as you do. I think what a lot of the other posters are saying is that...yes you may not get as much attention as your thinner friend b... (read in full...)
Recently my pet died and i was wondering if there is anything that can give me some advice to help me get over him please?
Q. Recently my pet died and i was wondering if there is anything that can give me some advice to help me get over him please?...
A. 8 July 2007: Hi sweetie
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I guess you feel like you have lost a friend...right?? Do you have photos of your pet? Could you make up a photo album and call it a memory book? I know the feelings you are feeling. I had to have my ... (read in full...)
I am a fulltime carer, how can I manitain my relationship of 6 years with my boyfriend? we are growing a part each day?
Q. I am a fulltime carer, how can I manitain my relationship of 6 years with my boyfriend? we are growing a part each day? ...
A. 8 July 2007: Hi hun
Boy can I relate. Having a full time and challenging career can make a difference to your relationship. I think if you have the right guy he will like and respect you you all the more for your independence. If you have a guy who is willing ... (read in full...)
How can I reduce my sexual desire?
Q. Hi I do not have as many time sex as I desire with my spouse, and I do not like to be disloyal to her. Would you please advise me on how to reduce my sex desire? Thanks...
A. 8 July 2007: Hi there.
This one is tricky. It would not be a great scenerio if you started to go elsewhere to get your needs met. It happens but you obviously have a conscience and care about your wife enough to want to think about an alternative to cheating... (read in full...)
I want my ex back, trouble is I don't think he wants to know
Q. I want my ex back, trouble is I don't think he wants to know I was seeing my ex for 7 months and the last few weeks of this he blew hot and cold, was very busy at work and under pressure so I tried to be supportive and help. Out of the blue he ...
A. 7 July 2007: Hi hun
I read your post a few times and this is a confusing situation. I think we get used to having someone there for us and when it is pulled away....for whatever reason it is hurtful and it is confusing. Sounds like he did a bit of a luke... (read in full...)
How do you find the strength to leave a relationship that you know is not good for you and will probably never change?
Q. How do you find the strength to leave a relationship that you know is not good for you and will probably never change? I know everyone says being alone will be fine, but I have panic attacks just thinking about it. I know I am possibly a bit ...
A. 7 July 2007: Hi Hun
To stay or to go. That is a tough decision. From your post it sounds like you are using your common sense here. You know you are in a bad situation. Your heart seems to be speaking as well though....you are trying to rationalize and expl... (read in full...)
I love my husband even though we've had our bad times but I feel I've missed out on other parts of my life.
Q. I've been married 5 years and got together when I was only 16, I love my husband even though we've had our bad times but I feel I've missed out on other parts of my life. I know I'm being selfish but I can't shake this feeling that there's more to ...
A. 6 July 2007: Hi hun
I am thinking you are in your early to mid twenties and you did hook up your husband when you were sixteen which is a time when a lot of people are dating and trying out different relationships. Some of these unions seem to be fine and ther... (read in full...)
I want to break up with a really nice guy to find someone more exciting and fun
Q. hi Im going out with this guy who is lovely, very honest and one of the nicest people i have ever met.However i am suffering from depression atm and the seriousness of our relationship is not helping me to overcome my depression. Im quite shy a...
A. 5 July 2007: Hi hun.
I did make a note of your age and if there is ever time to be 'flirty and fun' now is the time. It is to your credit that you see that your boyfriend has the great qualities that he does and it seems to be causing you some guilt about le... (read in full...)
My wife is bereaved...how do I help her?
Q. My wife's mother died; she is falling apart and won't accept aid from me and the kids. Now I'm a doctor and busy ALL the time, now I love my kids but I cant earn a living and look after 4 kids and try to help my wife--I love her with all my heart ...
A. 4 July 2007: Hi there.
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. In your post you do not mention when your wife's mother passed away but I would suspect it would be recently. I am also suspecting that your wife is of a senstive nature and this has gutted her. You... (read in full...)
We have a baby, he's in jail, his ex is driving me crazy--help!
Q. I am 21 years old and have a 10 month old baby. My baby's father is 10 years older than me and he has 2 kids with his previous relationship. We always seem to fight because the other girl won't leave him alone. She looks for him and disrespects me ...
A. 4 July 2007: Hi hun.
From the sound of your post you have a lot on your plate right now. You are a young mom in a relationship with a guy who is currently in jail. On top of that he has another family which in his eyes is on equal footing with you...or that is t... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my teacher... well it's an obsessive crush anyway!!
Q. I'm in love with a teacher - well i suppose it's an obsessive crush really! And the thing is, he appears kinda paranoid whenever i stare at him - which is literally whenever he steps outside the staff block! Right, i'm mad about him and i want him ...
A. 4 July 2007: Hi hun.
I am a teacher and I can tell you that you are putting this guy in kind of a bad spot. Part of teaching is getting the material across but the other part is being a role model. Sounds like this guy understands this and cares enough a... (read in full...)
He broke my heart and I am devestated
Q. It's been nearly 7 months since I split up with my ex, and whilst I am gradually feeling happier, I still go through the odd occasion where I am filled with so much anger toward him and I don't know how to get rid of it. I feel like he completely ...
A. 3 July 2007: Hi sweetie. I am hearing you. This is not a good situation. It is not a good thing for you when you open up to someone and then get your heart crushed in the process. What is the saying? Once bitten, twice shy. You said in your post that this ... (read in full...)
In love with 3 men
Q. I dunno how I got involved with 3 mens... but one thing for sure, this is definately no fun!! And this is giving me heart burn. At first we were just friends, and as we spend more hours together, they got emotionally attached to me. I tried to ...
A. 28 June 2006: Do you have any available single friends whom you might steer these guys to.It sounds me to me like you might like the rush that you are getting from this and it is probably feeding your self esteem.Is there one of these men who stands out that you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend got a pig and now I'm being ignored!
Q. Hi, I'm 24 and my boyfriend is 28. Recently he got a new pet pig, and has become obsessed with him, spending all his free time with the pig, taking him out on rides, and playing with him. I feel upset; he seems to be ignoring me, and our relat...
A. 4 May 2006: Well, many of the people on this site are struggling with jealousy issues but I have looked through the archives and this is the first time that the competition has been..well, a pig. Are you an animal lover? Could you not visualise yourself and ... (read in full...)
Feel like Im going crazy because ex has a neew girlfriend, Any advice appreciated..
Q. I feel like im going mad. My ex split up with me a year ago now and im still not over it. Right after he split up with me I got very depressed and and cried alot but time was a great healer and my friends and family helped me through that. I knew I ...
A. 25 April 2006: This does sound like a stressful and difficult situation. I can empathize because my partner of seven years left me and moved back to his hometown and met someone immediately. It is awful, not nice and hurtful but it is also one of those things that ... (read in full...)
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