After I met him in person he changed and I am so heart broken... what should I do?
Q. To dear cupid, i am having a conflict. i have found my bright sunshine. he make me happy all of the time. i love his personalities. we actually have alot in common.so we chatted through messages for about 2 months already and we've decided to...
A. 25 June 2008: the guy sounds like an a**hole to me. I know it's difficult but move on. Find someone else who will accept you for you.... (read in full...)
Can a gynecologist tell if your a virgin or not?
Q. Hi Me and my boyfriend are going to be having sex soon. but my mum has mentioned to me about going to the gynecologists soon "just to make sure everythings in order". my question is, can the doctor tell that i wasnt a virgin and would she tel...
A. 12 June 2008: Yes your gynecologist can tell whether or not you're a virgin. But what's discussed between you and your doctor should remain confidential unless it's serious and your mother needs to know.... (read in full...)
Should've my friend "remove" me from this situation?
Q. I need to know if anyone out here "has" had an internet trist with someone you now? Meaning sending "naughty pictures and steamy latters". When I was away on a little trip I met some people that I partied with, got so drunk when we were out, my ...
A. 10 June 2008: I agree with Tisha. Couldn't have said it better myself.... (read in full...)
I told him I slept with a guy while we were on a break and he flipped! He doesn't want me now! Advice?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs on and off. I love him with all my heart and he means alot to me. The longest we've ever been apart has been one month, within that month I was dating another guy. The reason for our b...
A. 16 January 2008: Forget about him. He's, how did he put it?, and "average B" You can do better than that jerk. ... (read in full...)
Just want to tell everyone and the whole world....I'M IN LOVE!!
Q. im in love wooooooo! im aware this isnt a question but i wanted to tell the world =]...
A. 16 January 2008: Well then, Congratulations:)... (read in full...)
I work at a school and am having feelings for this young male student. Advice is needed.
Q. I work in a school, and have been working with a 18 year old male student for a number of years. About five months ago I realized that I have strong feelings for him and what an awesome person he is. I have never told him how I felt (its my ...
A. 16 January 2008: Wait till he graduates, then see what happens.... (read in full...)
Got over infatuation, still have reminiscent feelings for my online date, any words of wisdom?
Q. This isn't really a question... I'm more after some advice, a few words of wisdom, or whatever. So anyway... I recently (i.e. a few weeks ago) finally got over a very large and badly handled online infatuation that had lasted about 10 months. I s...
A. 4 January 2008: People should get with the times. A lot of people date nowadays online. And they turn out to be healthy long-term relationships(after meeting in person). What most of these people don't seem to understand is your situation. It is entirely... (read in full...)
I feel so guilty, I deleted a text from his ex girlfriend without him knowing, am I wrong?
Q. I feel so guilty, I saw a text from my boyfriend's ex girlfriend on Christmas Day saying she missed him, and I deleted it, so he has no idea she text. The background on this is that they broke up a year ago, just after Christmas. I have been with...
A. 31 December 2007: Honestly I probably would have done the same thing. I don't think she has any business texting your boyfriend. And anyway it isn't as if she were dying and the message was so important it needed to be said. She wants what she can't have and it ... (read in full...)
We are in love but my parents won't agree to our relationship. What should I do, marry him anyway or forget him?
Q. i love a guy and he too loves me a lot,but my parents wont agree for our relationship, due the circumstances he is telling let us forget and marry the person our parents like. how should i react and wat should i do. should i marry him or forget...
A. 31 December 2007: I understand it's different in your country but I think you should do what feels right to you. Who cares if your parents gives you permission or not. As long as you're happy that's all that matters.... (read in full...)
What does "cute" mean, coming from a guy?
Q. I was wondering if there are any guys on here (chicks are welcome to reply too!) who could put a little perspective on something for me. At work, there is this maintenance guy who is around 19 or 20. His mother told my colleauge that he thinks I...
A. 29 December 2007: Cute means cute. There's nothing derogatory about it. He probably told his mother because he was too shy to tell you himself. Chances are he knew it would get back to you.
He gave you a compliment, take it as such.... (read in full...)
I don't have any friends to go out with or to take my mind off my Internet lover, after the break up, so what do I do?
Q. i just broke up with my boyfriend who i met online but never actually met in person. we were together for one year and he ended it saying its not going anywhere and im wasting his time. he is completely ignoring me now. i love him. believe me ...
A. 26 December 2007: It's possible to fall in love with someone you've never met. For the people who say "it can't happen, you're a naiive fool" are fools themselves. They only say you can't because they've never been through it. I however agree the internet is full ... (read in full...)
I am miserable, help.
Q. Hoping that one of the wonderful agony aunts can give me a hand here. I had a short relationship with a guy last spring.We went out for dinner and he came on really strong in the restaurant no less. I resisted to a point and then we went to a ...
A. 22 December 2007: He dumped you because you wouldn't "put out". It had nothing do with him being married. He most likely just felt like he was wasting his time with someone who kept telling him "no". He'll probably find some other woman to cheat on his wife with. ... (read in full...)
He's emailed many women saying he's bored with his current relationship. Is he being unfaithful or planning to? How do I confront him about this, as he will know I snooped?
Q. I am worried that my boyfriend may have cheated or be planning on cheating on me. I have been with my fiance for nearly 5 years and we have just bought our first house together in october. I had noticed that he was sending totally innocent mes...
A. 21 December 2007: First of all don't feel bad about snooping. Thank god you did because now you know what a lying, cheating ass he is. I would definitely confront him about the matter. Let him know how hurt and pissed off you are. If he can't be faithful then ... (read in full...)
I've been cautioned for assault and am terrified!
Q. I have been cautioned for assault!!!!and I am terrified!! I need to add some background. I am 52 and my fiancee of 3 years is 46( we have been together for 3.5 years). WE have had problems before that I have sought advice on here about before. ...
A. 21 December 2007: Hey, This may sound alittle old-fashioned but i believe a man should never strike a woman. At the same time, you shouldn't have to take her abuse. My advice is to get out of the relationship. Things will only get worse, especially if she doesn't ... (read in full...)
Why are stunning women shunned by plainer women?
Q. Hi I found the most stunning woman, whist chatting on the internet. I had recently come out of a marriage of 12 years, and was at a low because my wife had cheated on me for second time, and I was leaving behind children, though I still see them. A...
A. 17 December 2007: I disagree with that it's not because they are "over-confident" And if they do have confidence in themselves so what? Should they hate themselves and be self-conscious about what they don't like about their appearance like so many other people do ... (read in full...)
I feel he's on the other side of the computer laughing at me...
Q. I am 13 years old 14 in June. I've met this guy who lives like five states away online. He's 18 and I told him I was 14. But that's not really the issue because in my heart I know we'll never meet. He's so great I almost get confused sometimes. He ...
A. 16 December 2007: Yes, he's laughing at you.
You're too young to be having this issue. Find someone your own age and try not to grow up too fast.... (read in full...)
My online friend is threatening to kill himself if I say no to him. I'm 14 he is 19, I'm scared, what shall I do??
Q. please dearcupid approve this quickly! it might be too late otherwise! i have been good friends with this guy on the internet for about 2 years now and he has ever mentionwed having feelings from me. he lives a long way away from me and is 5 years ...
A. 15 December 2007: He's full of sh*t. Either that or he's mentally unstable. Don't be friends with him. Break off all communications immediately. He doesn't love you..you're only a child. He's preying on you because you're easily manipulated. I doubt he'll kill ... (read in full...)
Is it normal, to want to taste his own sperm? (kissing me immediately after I perform oral)
Q. My boyfriend likes to kiss me after i gave him blow job and swallowed cos he likes the taste of himself. It is not just my assumption, he actually told me. Do any other guys like to taste themselves? Do you think it is normal?...
A. 15 December 2007: I think that's extremely erotic:)... (read in full...)
I've asked her a thousand times if she has cheated on me and she denies it, however I still have suspicions. Any way to monitor her online and other activities?
Q. I met my girlfriend online. She lives about 3 states away from me. I suspect that she is cheating on me. We onl get to talk by emails, chat rooms, etc. and she isnt comfortable about her giving me her number. Whenever she does get on, its already ...
A. 15 December 2007: Firstly i just want to say that whole b.s about her religion is laughable. She's playing games with you but who cares it's the internet. Why would you want to moniter her online activities? Are you insane? She's not cheating on you because it's ... (read in full...)
A guy told me he loved me online and I said I loved him, too. But I dont! We barely even know each other!
Q. i need help. there is this guy at school that likes me. he came on msn and hes like i love you.... stuff like that.then hes like you dont like me, dont talk to me. bye i did a stupid thing and told him i loved him then hes like you wanna go out a...
A. 14 December 2007: He's an a** for putting you on the spot like that. If you don't really love him you shouldn't have said it. So what if his feelings get hurt. It would be far worse to fake an emotion you don't feel and then having him find out about it later. ... (read in full...)
Open-relationship is making me self-conscious. What can I do?
Q. I'm not sure if I'm okay with the open relationship I have with my boyfriend. I don't think ordinarily I'd be so worried or upset, but the girls he wants to go after are thinner than me, and it makes me feel very self-conscious. Like, if he's go...
A. 14 December 2007: Talk to him about it. Tell him about your insecurites and that you question your ability to stay in an open-relationship. Ask him if he's willing to try being monogamous. Then you should really sit back and ask yoursef what the real problem is. ... (read in full...)
Shes a fun girl...but her last minuete cancellations throw me off.
Q. Met this girl on a dating website. Talked to her a few times over the phone. I've tried to get her to go on a date with me twice. Both times she's said yes, but both times she's canceled and been really apologetic about it afterwards. She's a really...
A. 14 December 2007: She's probably not who she says she is. Unless you've seen her on webcam you can't really trust that she's the girl in the picture(assuming that you've seen a pic of her). Personally I would pursue someone else. There are plenty of other fun ... (read in full...)
I gave my phone number to an on line acquaintance, he initially said he was 18, then admitted to be much older and asked for a date in matter of days. Should I keep this "friendship" ?
Q. Okay, so we were chatting in a chatroom and I am right now fifteen. I ended up giving out my phone number to this guy who said who was eighteen. We did have good conversations for a while and then today he admitted that he's actually 25...
A. 14 December 2007: First of all it was a really dumb move to give out your number over the internet. And to someone you've only been talking to for a few days no less. How in the hell can you fall in love with somebody you've only been talking to for approximately 3 ... (read in full...)
I'm ashamed of my big clitoris!
Q. I am a woman of 25 and I have big clitories. I am so shy of this to have a relationship with men. I have shown to one of my girlfriend the other day and she said I have to see a doctor so they can circumsize it. do you think it is a good Idea?...
A. 14 December 2007: Honestly i don't believe men care about such things. i can understand why you'd be self-concious about it. But every woman is different. I wouldn't go so far as to get it "circumcised." This could make it very difficult for you to experience ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I like as my friends advised me? I'm 13, he's 27. Worried about ruining our relationship.
Q. Well for the last 3 months I've been talking to this guy. He's turning 27 soon and I"m only 13. We talk all the time and about last month I started to have feeelings for him. My friends say it's not wrong, but the age differance conserns me. They ...
A. 14 December 2007: Just what kind of "friendship" can a 13 year old have with a grown man? Seriously stay in your own age group. To do otherwise could cause alot of problems for both of you. And lets face it...at 13 you're incredilby naive. You're too easily ... (read in full...)
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