When does sex start to feel good?
Q. I've been with this guy for about 2 monthsish and the other night I lost my virginity to him. It was my choice nd I've got no regrets at all. I was just in some kind of numb pain all the way through, and wondered how many times you have sex before ...
A. 15 November 2005: Only when you start to feel comfortable and relaxed about what you are doing generally!!!
You maybe need to spend some more time 'warming up' and feeling relaxed with touching each other!
Good luck!... (read in full...)
My friend says he's in love with me, but I just don't find him attractive...
Q. Hi! I was just looking for some advice on the following problem, it's something I've been trying to figure out for a while now. I'm 17, and I have a close male friend who says he's in love with me. Apparently he has felt this way for a few years ...
A. 15 November 2005: Don't do anything!!!
You can have feelings for someone, and love them, but it doesn't mean that you are in love with them, or should be with them!
If your not attracted to him, your not attracted, it could change (personally I never find that!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said he loves me "differently". This isn't what I expected...
Q. When I asked my bf if he loves me more than he has loved others in the past he said he loves everyone "differently". This makes me want to totally run in the other direction. Is this a valid reaction? Am I wrong to be completely offended by this ...
A. 15 November 2005: Do you love your boyfriend? Do you love him more or less than your parents?
Or do you love him differently to them?
Do you love your cat/dog/pets? More or less than your boyfriend?
Your siblings, your friends?
Love is a funny thing!!! ... (read in full...)
Do I stay with my new girlfriend?
Q. I've been dating this girl for almost 5 years now and i can say that she is fun to be with. We had our shares of ups and downs for the past few years. But i keep on thinking about my ex-girlfriend, whom i've been with for 2 years before my current ...
A. 15 November 2005: I think maybe you need to think firstly of just you and your current girlfriend. Do you want to be with her or not? You said she wouldn't let go of you and is waiting for you to come back, maybe you need to be honest with her and tell her the ... (read in full...)
What are we doing wrong? Oral sex doesn't feel like anything at all...
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 months. He goes down on me and I don't feel anything, and when he tries to finger me it hurts. What is going on?...
A. 11 November 2005: Often fingering can feel uncomfortable if your not relaxed, and it sounds like that might be the problem.
Take time to get to know each others bodies, and feel relaxed, sometimes it can take months, but you always get there!!
If you tell h... (read in full...)
I just can't believe that my wonderful girlfriend was a stripper all those years ago. Sometimes it bothers me...
Q. I love my girlfriend totally. We've been dating for 2 years and talk marriage often. She's 35 and I'm 37, so we're not kids. We are both divorced. She used to be a stripper when she was 19-22. She supported her slacker ex and paid her way through ...
A. 11 November 2005: I guess you need to focus on 'WAS'
We all have skeletons, we've all done things our partners wouldn't be too proud about if they knew!!
I'm sure you too have skeletons, and the fact that she had told you, shows how much confidence and t... (read in full...)
Does the one who had the first crush automatically have "dating rights"?
Q. I'm seventeen, and I'm co-stage-managing a play with a great guy. I met him at the start of the play, and I currently have a huge crush on him. However, a close friend is the lead, and she's also got a crush on him. She's constantly flirting with ...
A. 11 November 2005: Simple facts, he will be with who he wants to be, and if she really is a friend, even if she fancies him, it won't matter at the end of the day.
But the best way to go about it would be to tell her how you feel first!! ... (read in full...)
Should I cheat on my boyfriend? He'd never know!
Q. I am out on a holiday without my boyfriend of a year and a half. I met another man that I really like and know he likes me too. I can't stop thinking about this other man. I am thinking about cheating one my boyfriend as he will never know. I can't ...
A. 11 November 2005: hmm as a serial cheat .. I probably would... but it doesn't make me proud! What I usually find is that you end up in a mess of lies! and the right at the begining you'd identified the reason why you wanted to cheat - that the relationship you... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my boyfriend's brother but I don't know how the brother feels!
Q. I'm in love with my boyfriend's brother. His brother has told me time and time again that he feels the same way. I am not happy with my boyfriend and really don't know what to do. I need to find out whether his brother is stringing me along or if ...
A. 11 November 2005: His brother might or might not be stringing you along.
The important thing is that you're not in love with your boyfriend, and won't be if you stay with him
At least if you break up with your boyfriend you have a chance with his brother!! an... (read in full...)
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