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What should I do about this teacher problem?? Please Help!!!
Q. well theres this teacher who i had a really close relationship with generally, but now my parents have found out everything that we've talked about, seen the emails, the headteacher has been informed and she didnt come into school today as i dont ...
A. 12 June 2008: Hi beth, dont worry about it too much, as long as you havent done anything illegal (like shag) then you havent done anything wrong. Its ok to email your teacher, although it all depends what was in the emails of course. Have you got any more details ... (read in full...)
I love him but he has said his other gf is prettier than me! What do I do?
Q. i met this guy last year.somewhere in february.at first,i dont even find him charming or even sweet and cute.but since he started messaging me in june when i was on a vacation,i feel attracted to him.at that time,he had a really beautiful ...
A. 7 June 2008: Well that was silly of you wasn't it!? Ever heard of Karma? Anyway if he only likes you as a friend then there's nothing you can really do about it is there. Unlucky.... (read in full...)
Do I have a problem with my direction?
Q. Hi! I'm a 15-year-old girl who is straight and who loves boys! My sister is a lesbian and she gave me some episodes of the L World to watch last week.I wasn't ok with that coz'i'm not a dyke!!!I watched the show and I loved it!!! Now when I go on...
A. 3 June 2008: Yes its perfectly normal... I too watch lesbian stuff on youtube. Oh wait you're a girl?! Hmm well I can't really think of any serious advice because I'm in too good a mood so I will just say don't worry yourself about it, and in the future, should ... (read in full...)
Does he like me?
Q. Hi im 14 and i don't know what to do! I really like this guy and evertime we go out with our friends hes all flirty and like hugs me sits on my lap gets me to sit on his and like cuddles me and sometimes holds my hand. Does this mean he fancys m...
A. 1 June 2008: Yes it does... however it also means he probably wants to have sex with you- bear in mind that if you do and you were to get pregnant, he'd be off in a flash and you'd be a young single mum and would probably find that not many other guys will be ... (read in full...)
Do guys think of girls they like when masterbating?
Q. I would like it if a guy answered this. When a guy starts liking somebody, do they masturbate thinking about them? please answer honestly thank you...
A. 26 May 2008: Yes they do. ALthough sometimes they also think about taboo things, that they dont get to do in real life just to make it a bit more exciting. Also, they can combine the 2- think about doing taboo things with the girl or girls they are lusting ... (read in full...)
Are all these horny feelings normal?
Q. i am 14 years old and lately i have been rrly horny and i finger my self and i force my self to pee in bed and i hump pillows and i dream about makingout and have sex with this guy i like who is 16 is this normal and if not how do i make it stop...
A. 25 May 2008: I love horny girls. And yes thats perfectly normal- everyone pees the bed when they're horny- carry on!
(Actually i'm kidding, they dont- but if that's what turns you on, then what the hell, go for it! Just clean it up afterwards yeah?)... (read in full...)
I fancy my teacher, I want him to like me, what can I do?
Q. i fancy my teacher but i want him to like me what can i do? vikbabyxxx...
A. 22 May 2008: Hiya... i'm a trainee teacher and i've seen loads of problems like yours on here. You don't give very much detail in your question so its a bit hard to give u any realy good advice! He may already like you but because of his position as a teacher ... (read in full...)
I need advice from a male or male teacher about a male teacher! Does he like me?
Q. Okay i have a question. yes this is one of many of those teacher student relationship questions, but this time i was wondering if there were any males or actual teachers out there that could give advice rather than women. not that girls dont give ...
A. 21 May 2008: Hiya i'm a male and a teacher (well a trainee teacher) so if you want any advice feel free to msg me. As for what you've told us so far, its hard to say whether he likes you back but you've got to accept that he almost certainly doesn't, at least ... (read in full...)
The situation with my married teacher has intensified, please help me!
Q. A few months ago I posted a question on this site about the close relationship between myself and my married art teacher http://www.dearcupid.org/question/if-he-was-not-married-would-he-see.html Since then it is becoming more serious, althoug...
A. 17 May 2008: well i'll tackle your last question... at the school where i am training at, their policy is tha relationships with pupils even if they have left the school, up to the age of 19 are not ok... you'd get the sack basically... as for other schools, ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my teacher. Should I follow my heart?
Q. Hey!!Ok i've got abit of a problem i'm in love with my teacher but there's a 15 year age gap i'm 12 he's 27!!And has a girlfriend some people say follow your heart but other people say don't be so stupid!!I've a feeling that if i follow i could get ...
A. 17 May 2008: Hey.. im a trainee teacher- please dont do anything- he's around the same age as me and if a 12 year old told me they were in love with me i would really be freaked out... best to just admire him from a distance and impress him by doing as well as ... (read in full...)
He's older. I can't get him out of my head.
Q. Hi Well i have a dilemma there's this guy and we always have a little flirt and there's a lot of chemistry between us when we talk. However it's a forbidden love thing, we're not allowed to be together and he's also considerably older than me, i...
A. 2 May 2008: yep its definitely possible that he likes you, its not all that uncommon. How much older is he than you? And is it forbidden simply because of the age, or is there any other reason why you can't be together? I would say not to get too worried about ... (read in full...)
I just can't help it! My teacher is just soo different to others! I'm madly in love with him.....
Q. Hi i had deep feelings with dis teacher for 2 and a half year now and that feeling keeps coming back to me! i have my SATS next week and i cnt properly study! i think im goin to fail! :( Every time i dont see him i jus feel like cryin :'( in summer ...
A. 30 April 2008: hey.. well im a trainee teacher myself, and yeah there's hundreds of people on here in ur same situation. All you have to think about is this- even if he does feel something back for you, which he might- will he, and do you want him to risk his job, ... (read in full...)
I don't like anyone at school so where else can I meet boys?
Q. Im 14 and getting tired.Ive never had a boyfriend and even though people keep telling me i will get one soon, it never happens. Lots of people fancy me but i want someone decent but never seem to meet them. I dont like anyone at school so where else ...
A. 28 April 2008: how about on here? there's loads of good looking single guys here- me for example lol! x... (read in full...)
I feel so lonely I want a boyfirned to love me and hold me..?
Q. so lonely i want a boyfriend i want someone to hold me and kiss me. take care of me. talk to me and all of that. but it seems that they dont exist or im invisible. all of my mates are loved up so i guess im not pretty enough or invisibl...
A. 28 April 2008: hey dont you worry about it- i know just how u feel (though im not after a bf of course lol!). You just need to wait and eventully someone who appreciates and loves you will just turn up out of the blue. xx... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to be attracted to adults??
Q. hello! is it wrong to be attracted to adults?? i am 15 and i always say i love all these adults and people say it is weird but i dont really care. like i say im gonna marry them and stuff. am i messed up/?? oh and it's not like they say they love ...
A. 27 April 2008: perfectly normal- just keep it as a fantasy though! x... (read in full...)
Question for the guys, is his 'cumming' three times so soon common or unusual?
Q. Question for the guys. I have recently started dating a 39 year old guy. I was just a little amazed that he managed to "cum" 3 times in 2.5 hours. I didn't think men were capable of that?? Is that common or unusual for a 39 year old??...
A. 23 April 2008: anonymous below... 3 times in 2.5 hous is a little slow?! Who are you trying to kid! Poster- i agree that's not bad at all and certainly nothing to be worried about- more times the better right??? I would say enjoy it and take it as a compliment- ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend fingered some other girl and I feel like I'm losing him...
Q. how can i stop this horrible feelings of guilt? my boyfriend fingered some other girl whilst going out with me. i forgave him and and to be honest i couldnt care i just shook it off. but deep down i really care about this boy even though i d...
A. 22 April 2008: I know you think you love this kid, but from what you've said, he's nothing to write home about, and it sounds very much like you are far too good for him. I know its hard, but you will look back one day and be glad that you left him to it- he'll be ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to stop taking the pill so we can try to get pregnant. Should I?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and things are going good. He told me yesterday that he wants me to stop taking the pill and he wants to start trying. Im not really sure im ready. I love him i really do but im not ready im not sure i ev...
A. 22 April 2008: Easy- if you're not sure, then don't do it- its your body and your life, so don't let anyone tell you what to do with them, not even your boyfriend. Saying he wants one because all his friends have one is ridiculous- if all his friends had handlebar ... (read in full...)
Why are guys so obsessed with breasts?
Q. Why are guys so obsessed with breasts? It's unfair! I see so much naked boobs online, and the obsession with whose cleavage is hotter, this and that, and I feel inadequate! In a normal day I feel that my breasts look pretty, but then all this ...
A. 20 April 2008: Actually breast obsessed guys only form about half the male population... the other half, myself included, are more ass and legs oriented... cant beat a good pair of legs... sexxxxxy! x... (read in full...)
Attracted to my little sister but I don't think it's wrong!
Q. So I am attracted to my little sister and I don't think it is wrong. i always have an erection around her and we are home alone a lot. she is just too sexy to ignore. i want to have sex with her but i don't think she wants it with me. if i can't ...
A. 20 April 2008: so hang on... you've gone from effectively saying you want to rape your underage sister, to saying you've now got a girlfriend and are over it... all in the space of less than a day??? Hmmm but of course!!!... (read in full...)
Attracted to my little sister but I don't think it's wrong!
Q. So I am attracted to my little sister and I don't think it is wrong. i always have an erection around her and we are home alone a lot. she is just too sexy to ignore. i want to have sex with her but i don't think she wants it with me. if i can't ...
A. 19 April 2008: Ohhhh! thats horrific! You're kidding right? Leave your poor sister alone, and have a wank. That is gross gross gross! ughh yuck.... (read in full...)
How do I make my teacher kiss me?
Q. how can i get my teacher to kiss me or like be in a relationship with me as im in love with him and i would love to share a kiss with him. im 16 and im leaving in june and i want to share a kiss or more with him at the last day. ...
A. 17 April 2008: yeah its unlikely he's gonna be kissing you i'd say, it would not look good, especially if it was at school in front of other pupils and teachers! there'd be a lot of staffroom gossip going on! So i wouldn't get your hopes up too much- sorry if ... (read in full...)
Please help! Should I tell this amazing man and teacher how I feel if/when I leave school, despite there being a chance that I may be coming back?
Q. I appreciate that there are many posts on here about teacher/student relationships. Please do read this is may appear to be long but I would really appreciate the help! I also have a serious problem with my ex-teacher which has been escalating ...
A. 16 April 2008: i'm with danielle on this one... although as a trainee teacher i should offer u a word of caution... By all means tell him, but dont forget that if you do come back to school next year, you 2 cant be together, and if you were- he could very well ... (read in full...)
I'm in a lesbian relation with my own sister, which was favoured by our father's abuses. How can I end it with her, when I'm all she has got?
Q. This is going to sound weird and I dont know how to put it but me and my sister grew up with only our dad - our mother died when we were young. Our dad abused both of us when we were kids and this made me and my sister very close. When we were olde...
A. 13 April 2008: Oh wow that's a horrible situation to be in and one that probably no1 on here will be able to help you with... i would say the best advice for you is to not try and deal with this on your own- get some help from a proffessional therapist, either ... (read in full...)
I never thought this could happen but I've fallen for my brother. How do I tell my friends?
Q. I never thought this would happen but I fell for my brother. We always got along,arguing every now and then like any brother and sister. One day I was fixing to go out with my boyfriend. As I was in the restroom finishing up my make-up(I had the ...
A. 13 April 2008: Rose, you must be getting naive in your old age- you don't really think this problem is true do you?!!! ... (read in full...)
I never thought this could happen but I've fallen for my brother. How do I tell my friends?
Q. I never thought this would happen but I fell for my brother. We always got along,arguing every now and then like any brother and sister. One day I was fixing to go out with my boyfriend. As I was in the restroom finishing up my make-up(I had the ...
A. 13 April 2008: wow that's actually hot in a really messed up kinda way- i think i wish i was your brother!! Don't tell your friends (or anyone else for that matter) because they will either laugh, throw up or call the cops. If you're gonna carry on doing this, do ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm never going to find a boyfriend with all the competition out there!
Q. I am 28 and havnt had a serious boyfriend for 5 years. I meet several men a year but it never seems to last for longer then two weeks as they usally end up getting bored and leaving me for someone else. I cant help but feel that there is far too ...
A. 9 April 2008: Hey, believe me it feels like its the other way round for me- and there's more guys that girls! I've been told to not look for it and you'll find it- whatever that means!! So good luck, and try not to worry, plenty of people meet their true love who ... (read in full...)
He teaches at a different school, so does that still make it illegal?
Q. Hey everyone, i just need a little bit of advice, so here is my problem: I am 16 and the guy i like is 27, and my friend told me that he likes me too (i met him through her). I found out that he's a teacher, and i know that it is illegal for ...
A. 6 April 2008: Err sorry to disagree with the answer below, but assuming you are in the UK, its legal for you to do anything you want with this guy... if he was a teacher at your school then no it wouldn't be legal, but its fine if he's at a different school. The ... (read in full...)
Is telling someone the only way to go?
Q. I have very deep feelings of affection for a teacher of mine and it's slowly killing me inside - I've already posted a question on this and everyone said to tell someone, but I tried to today and got too scared and couldn't speak. Is there any other ...
A. 3 April 2008: Its impossible to say based on what little i know about uyour feelings, what you can do to make it better- unfortunately sometimes there really is no cure except time, and believe me i know how much of a bugger that is! If you wanna chat in more ... (read in full...)
Ok I'm sooooo not gay or bi so what's the deal with these feelings I have about my teacher?
Q. Just to Let You know that i'm not gay or Bisexual! Okay..I had a crush on this English Teacher. She is young and really pretty and in her 20s (But i'm not gay..i'm straight). this all started since the school trip last june. Yeah..i lik...
A. 1 April 2008: Eh? I'm fairly sure having a crush on someone of the same sex sex falls into the definition of "bi". You don't have to actually do anything about it to make it true. Anyway, nothing wrong with it- the guys will love you for it when you're older. Err ... (read in full...)
Is telling someone the only way to go?
Q. I have very deep feelings of affection for a teacher of mine and it's slowly killing me inside - I've already posted a question on this and everyone said to tell someone, but I tried to today and got too scared and couldn't speak. Is there any other ...
A. 1 April 2008: hard to believe, i'm sure, but its 99% certain that you'll get over this sooner than you can imagine because it almost certainly is just a crush- and yeah i know it feels like so much more. Do your teacher a favour though, and don't let anything ... (read in full...)
Genuine teacher/student problem - urgent advice needed!
Q. Hey, genuinely want advice here guys! Ok, Im 16 and doing my 'A' levels at my school sixth form. There is this one teacher I get along very well with, and im not sure what's happening with us. He is married with children He is genuinely, i b...
A. 1 April 2008: Well i can't disagree with what the posts below say- it is illegal for anything more than friendship to happen between the 2 of you while you are a student at the school where he teaches... however i can't just say oh forget about how you feel and ... (read in full...)
I'm jealous of my stepbrother's girlfriend because WE have a secret relationship!
Q. I am in a secret sexual relationship with my stepbrother. Our parents married when we were teens 15/16 years old. Now we are in our early 20s. We never had intercourse but we have done plenty of dry humping, kissing, and oral sex. The thing is that ...
A. 23 March 2008: lol i'm not usually one to give out this kind of advice but i think this problem is quite an interesting one, and in a kinky kind of way, quite hot! I say get urself a boyfriend and make him jealous! Then you can both dump them and get back together ... (read in full...)
My teacher and I get lost in each other's eyes! I don't know what to do!
Q. well im in 11th grade,17 years old and im love with my goverment teacher,i have know him since 9th grade,hes always there for me,and no lie i love to flirt with him,he does the same but at times he keeps it on the low.alot of girls in my school have ...
A. 23 March 2008: Hiya... loads of girls seem to have this kinda problem. I'm a trainee teacher so i can only give you the teacher's point of view but i'm sure you'll get plenty of answers from people your own age. I have to say that its not a good idea to go any ... (read in full...)
I noticed an itchy, sore and burning sensation around my vaginal area, should I be concerned?
Q. I was recently married, and after a few weeks of being sexually active for the first time, I've started noticing an itchy/sore/burning sensation around my vaginal area. Is this normal, or should I be concerned?...
A. 8 March 2008: I'd certainly be concerned if it happened to me, though that's partly because i'm a guy and so hopefully will never have a vagina of any sort, let alone an itchy, burning, sore one. In all seriousness though, yeah it might be nothing to worry about ... (read in full...)
Did my guitar teacher use me?
Q. Ok,im 16 and ive always had this thing for older men...like a lil fantasy and i always end up infatuated with any older man between the ages of like 25/38 ish who is reasonably attractive, they usually are my teachers which is worse. Sooo i had ...
A. 4 March 2008: sounds like 6 of one half a dozen of the other to me... you both got what you wanted, though he was in the wrong since he's with someone and you are so young. Move on and try get over it i would say.... (read in full...)
Do guys have a "G-spot" as well?
Q. Do guys have a "g-spot" too?...
A. 21 February 2008: Of sorts yeah, but it's called a "prostrate" and it can only be accessed via our asses- so stick to the usual pleasure locations unless that's your kinda thing i guess!... (read in full...)
Having a relationship with my stepmother's brother, should I put an end to it?
Q. hi! im in a very confused situation. i've been having sexual relationship with my stepmom's brother. i used to like him when i was 14, now i'm 19 and he is 24, we live in the same house. i thought it was just a crush, but i think it's more then ...
A. 14 February 2008: Hiya, I'm not going to comment on the rights and wrongs of this relationship- although i personally think a relationship is never off to a good start if you have to keep it a secret. Just to mention though, you can marry him if thats what you ... (read in full...)
Caught my son masturbating, should I buy him some condoms, sextoys and an informative book?
Q. just rececetly i caught my 13 year old son masturbating naked on top of his bed i saw his penis and pubes, this hasnt effected our relationship but i was wondering if i should buy him some condoms and other stuff like a masturbation and sex book or ...
A. 11 February 2008: What!? are you kidding right? You don't have to buy him anything, just because he's masturbating doesn't mean he's going to go out and start screwing anyone he can find! Leave him to it, its a perfectly natural thing to do, and if you really have to ... (read in full...)
He says he likes it but he doesn't come. Is it me?
Q. This is getting me down... My bf says he loves recieving oral, but he just never cums... Why is this? Is it something I'm doing? Has he got a medical condition? What is it?!...
A. 10 February 2008: hiya... honestly, don't worry about this- it could be a psychological thing- maybe his previous girlfriends didnt do that with him and so he's never actually "cum" in this way before... maybe try doing other stuff that does make him cum but stop ... (read in full...)
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