Why does he look at porn? Am I not good enough for him?
Q. My husband looks at pictures of hot girls in Maxim. He used to look at porn and it made me sick to think he was doing this behind my back. It wouldn't have been as big of deal if he included me in on it. I was a very attractive girl, but now I'...
A. 28 September 2010: He's your husband. Have you actually spoken to him about it?
Communication is so important. It doesn't matter what people tell you on here, you need to know what he's thinking. Moreover, you need to make it clear to him how you feel. Have you done... (read in full...)
Why wont he give me oral sex?
Q. Well, here's the problem. I have been with the same guy for 8 years...he's my first. we have literally done everything together and lately he hasnt been recipricating the favor....I give him oral sex regularly without question and he asks for it. I ...
A. 28 September 2010: The answers are very interesting here. There a quite number who say that you shouldn't give any oral if you don't get any.
However, if it was the other way round- and I have seen questions on here like this asked by a man- the answers would be... (read in full...)
One night stand's statement really turned me off
Q. Hi, I'm just writing to ask for people opinons concerning a one night stand. I met the guy in a club and we quickly ended up back at mine and half way into sex he said "im not going to come inside you". i dont know why but i felt ashamed and push...
A. 28 September 2010: I reckon he probably assumed you would be worried about getting pregnant. You don't say if you were using protection or not, but that would be my guess. ... (read in full...)
Wife resentful because she is breadwinner now but I was for 7 years!
Q. Well, I'm not gonna sit here and try to talk myself up when I tell you all about my situation, but if it turns out that way, then well... its all from my point of view. But first to get this out of the way before I forget. I am sometimes a selfish ...
A. 26 September 2010: Have you spoken to your wife about how you feel? This needs to be your starting point. ... (read in full...)
I found hidden in the closet sex video with wife and her boyfriends...
Q. Please help! So my wife told me I needed to do more around the house. Help her clean mostly. I had never really done it and I felt I should help...wish I never had. I started cleaning out our bedroom. Under the bed, behind dressers, etc......
A. 25 September 2010: I think you really need to know why she is still holding on to the tapes and video if these experiences were so traumatic for her. You have to get to the bottom of that question I think, because the fact that she still has them doesn't seem to tally ... (read in full...)
Why isn't my husband flushing the toilet anymore?
Q. Most of the time I get on really great with my husband who's a great bloke - kind, funny, supportive etc. Just lately though he's started forgetting to flush the loo after he's taken a cr*p. This really bothers me and it's sometimes 2 or 3 times a ...
A. 25 September 2010: Does he forget other things as well?
As he has just started doing this perhaps you need to consider that, as other aunts have said here, it could be some kind of memory issue developing? He probably would deny forgetting to flush, because it's emba... (read in full...)
Am I being over sensitive and paranoid?
Q. Hi, i moved from England to Australia a year ago to live with my partner, who is english, but has worked here for several years and is already established. I gave up a good job, apartment and an independant life to start a new life here. i can hear...
A. 24 September 2010: Hmmmmm, I'm not be thinking "lucky you." I personally wouldn't like to relocate somewhere unless I already had work lined up so I wouldn't be completely reliant on a partner for social interaction and support. I guess that is what has happened ... (read in full...)
How do they manage to sleep at night, tormenting others all day?
Q. Hey all. I need to talk to someone about this. Today I gave notice in my job and I feel utterly deflated. Having been in the job for less than a year, everyday in that office has been a living HELL - to put it mildly. Despite being qualified...
A. 23 September 2010: I think you could make a formal complaint.
If your boss acknowledged to you that they knew this bullying was going on and yet did nothing about it, then you should try and speak to someone about this, in case it happens to someone else.
Is ther... (read in full...)
No sex...no job
Q. Hi, iam a convicted felon that was released from prison december,2008. i jus recently landed a job about 3weeks ago. she gave me sex when i first got out for about a week then she started putin me on pussy probation becuz i didnt have a job. now ...
A. 23 September 2010: She is being very controlling.
I think you should find someone else.... (read in full...)
What gift can I send to my boyfriend in hospital?
Q. Hello Guys, My bf will have a surgery in 2 days.. I was planning to send him flowers to the hospital. Do you think is it good idea sending a guy to flowers to the hospital? or what kind of gift I should send to him considering he will have bypass g...
A. 22 September 2010: Get cheap little mp3 player and load it up with all his favourite songs... (read in full...)
Why does he type my name in his texts?
Q. Ok this is going to be a little short but I'm very curious of this. When ever me and my boyfriend text eachother, he'll say my name in every text (10 times out of the 34 he sent). Sometimes it'll be a little more often than that and I was just ...
A. 21 September 2010: Ten out of thirty four is about one in three. I don't see that as being particularly frequent or infrequent. It doesn't sound like he is doing it constantly. Perhaps you are trying to read into something that isn't there.... (read in full...)
How can I convince my wife that an occasional non emotional sex night is not cheating or a threat to her?
Q. I am happily married. I love my wife very much, and would never contemplate having an affair. No interest. However, I really miss seeing and touching other womens naked bodies. The newness the excitement. It's just more exciting than the same old ...
A. 20 September 2010: It is cheating though. I don't know how you can claim it isn't cheating.
Ask yourself if you would be happy for your wife to go and have non emotional sex with another man. If you would, then I suggest there are some serious problems with the rela... (read in full...)
How to get my virgin girlfriend to have sex with me?
Q. Dear Readers, I would like to have some advise on how to convinced my girlfriend to have a sexual intercourse with me... Since she is still a virgin, it is extremely complicated to convinced her.. She always tells me to wait and wait and wait......
A. 19 September 2010: Thanks for the follow up. Sometimes an outside opinion can really help you see things from a different perspective. Take note of what's been said here, and respect your girlfriend. I hope things work out.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend called me a bitch last night and I can't get over it!
Q. My boyfriend called my a Bitch last night. I can't seem to get over it ever though he's apologized many times. He's never cursed at me before and this really hurt me. He was frustrated because he was trying to do something on his computer. He threw ...
A. 19 September 2010: Mmmm, I would say name-calling in general is bitchy behaviour. It's mean and spiteful. But you called your bf a name, and seemed to think it was acceptable. Why, then, are you upset at being called a name back? You know full well that calling your ... (read in full...)
How to get my virgin girlfriend to have sex with me?
Q. Dear Readers, I would like to have some advise on how to convinced my girlfriend to have a sexual intercourse with me... Since she is still a virgin, it is extremely complicated to convinced her.. She always tells me to wait and wait and wait......
A. 19 September 2010: Good for your girlfriend! She sounds like a strong girl who knows what she wants. I am glad she had the presence of mind to react like she did with a good slap.
It was only what you deserved- in fact you deserve more in my opinion.
1) You ... (read in full...)
My virgin girlfriend wont have sex with me
Q. Im a virgin and so in love with this girl who is also a virgin,recently i talked to her about having sex but she wont give in,she belives in no sex before marriage and it rilly bothers me coz she is only 16years.she lets me touch her private parts ...
A. 18 September 2010: She has already made compromises by letting you touch her. Can you not see that?
Having sex with you is not her making a compromise, it is you getting things the way you want. She will always regret it, and, from how you come across here, the righ... (read in full...)
How do I help raise her daughter knowing she isn't my child?
Q. So, my girlfriend and I broke up when she moved away to go to college. While she was there, Her then boyfriend got her pregnant and turned out to be a deadbeat. She came back, and we're together again and engaged. Recently, she decided she didn't ...
A. 17 September 2010: Good luck! Thanks for the follow-up.
If it's any help, my biological father hasn't been around since I was about 3. My dad, who has brought me up and will walk me down the aisle, married my mum when I was about 4, and he legally adopted me. That... (read in full...)
My girlfriends super jealous of my best friend who is a girl!
Q. ive been with my girlfriend for 7 months, and everything for the most part has been great (we have our wedding colors picked out lol) but i just started my senior year of college 3 weeks ago and a problem has surfaced. last year, i realized that all...
A. 17 September 2010: I don't think this girlfriend is the one for you. A couple of my best friends are guys, but the are also friends with my fiance and there is no problem there. In the same way, one of my fiance's closest friends is a girl who he has known for far ... (read in full...)
I asked my boyfriend a question should I be mad for the answer he gave me?
Q. [Mod note* poster your suggested title was already taken]I asked my man, an "If we were to break up" question. I asked would you still love me? his answer was "probably". But If I was asked this question I would say I def would, without a doubt ...
A. 16 September 2010: Oh what a silly thing to do.
I see that you don't want rude or harsh answers, however I am going to give you an honest one, and you can take it as you like.
These sort of "hypothetical" questions are silly and immature gameplaying.I do... (read in full...)
Glitter on boyfriend's face!
Q. Hi everyone…I’m hoping someone can give me some advice. Last night I went to see my boyfriend after he got off work. When we were sitting together I noticed a small piece of glitter on the bottom of his nostril. Just one piece. I got upset and st...
A. 15 September 2010: Despite what we have all said you STILL seem to be hung up about this. You don't want to believe your boyfriend because you are "afraid to let it go."
I don't even know what you mean by that. But, the way you have reacted over this glitter ... (read in full...)
Frustrating sex life with husband. Thinking of trying anal or becoming bi
Q. i am maried,for 7 yrs and my sex life is not good.my husband dooesnt like sex like me.never had a sex toy cant allow me to have one and same goes for masterbation.lately i have been thinking about anal sex but he refuses saying its wrong is it ...
A. 15 September 2010: I seem to remember you posted recently and received a lot of good answers. From this post it seems that you have chosen to disregard them all. Despite posing your question again, I do not think you will get a lot of different answers. Your hu... (read in full...)
Did I over-react to the nurses comments?
Q. My boyfriend had knee surgery today. We r both in our thirties and the nurse looked about our age. Well she called him sweetie which didn't bother me but then she said babe r u ready to go in,well that mad me mad and I walked out. As I was walking ...
A. 15 September 2010: Calling someone babe like that is not hitting on them.
Yes I would say that is a massive over-reaction. And to walk out and make a scene out of it, even worse.
Are you always like this when women talk to your bf? ... (read in full...)
Glitter on boyfriend's face!
Q. Hi everyone…I’m hoping someone can give me some advice. Last night I went to see my boyfriend after he got off work. When we were sitting together I noticed a small piece of glitter on the bottom of his nostril. Just one piece. I got upset and st...
A. 14 September 2010: Goodness me you sound crazy.
Jumping to immediate conclusions over nothing. I pity your boyfriend, no wonder he is pissed off.
If you want to talk to him I suggest you give him a BIG apology and try to moderate your behaviour next time. It ma... (read in full...)
I have problems with my violent teenager son, who doesn't want me to date!
Q. I am having problems with my teenager. He's 13 and doesn't want me to date or talk to anyone. I decided not to bring any man around until I felt that it was serious. I have found someone who I am very happy with. My son won't accept it. He is very ...
A. 14 September 2010: Your son's behaviour is out of order, no doubt about that.
However, I think that your boyfriend was naked walking around the home that you share with your son is absolutely disgusting and completely inappropriate. Have some respect for this boy... (read in full...)
Son looking at pornography on the computer?
Q. I recently caught my son on the computer looking up pornography and masturbating, i sent him to his room and told him not to ever again, and that it was wrong. i think i did the right thing, but I'm not sure. he's only 11 and it seemed like he was ...
A. 14 September 2010: There's nothing wrong with masturbating per se. But I would agree that looking at porn on a computer (not in the privacy of his own room either, I guess?) is not right for his age. When he is older, however, I personally do not thin that there ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says I nag him, am I a bad girlfriend?
Q. Hi dear cupid advisors, My bf has been pulling away from me recently, i have asked him why here is what he says: he thinks i am a nag, he is in debt, i have been telling him not to spend, save his money, cut up his cards. i have access to his ...
A. 10 September 2010: Just because he finds your behaviour acceptable doesn't mean you have to act that way.
Judging from the reactions on here I would say your behaviour is objectively bad. Even if I was going out with someone who accepted it, I would be ashamed ... (read in full...)
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