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How do I get a perfectly shaven vagina?

Q.   This is sorta embarrassing, I feel like I should know how to do this already! Here goes... I have only ever shaved my vagina once. I let it grow right back out and it got all itchy and pretty much put me off doing it again. But now that I'm old...

A.   19 September 2008: OK, so when i do it, it doesn't always grow back itchy but sometimes. It could be different skin types I'm not sure...but heres what I do. Make sure to use shaving cream or soap. It definately helps. And when you do it shaves backwards after you've ... (read in full...)

How can a 13 year old find the right guy?

Q.   Hi. Im 13 and fell in love for the first time. the guy i love broke my heart and we went out five times. each time i fell for his tricks. and im trying not to again. i dont understand why i dont feel the agonizeing pain like i did before. and i can ...

A.   19 September 2008: Here is the point. You are 13, you haven't experience true romantic love, nor will you for awhile. You have absolutely no conception of the word love. You are young, just have fun. Don't go look for a boyfriend because a good healthy relationship is ... (read in full...)

My friend told me my boyfriend invited her over to his house, what should I do?

Q.   Is it ok if my boyfriend asks my friend which is a girl to go over his place? he never told me but my friend told me that he invited her over. so what should i do ?? honestly i wasn't ok with it, and she didn't go! but should i confront him and ...

A.   12 September 2008: Be careful your not jumping to conclusion here. I mean are you positive he was inviting her over for a sexual or romantic reason? I mean he could possibly just want to be friends and even talk to someone who knew more about you. He could just want ... (read in full...)

Do you think her brother will harm me after I pushed her too far?

Q.   My girlfriend(my best friends sister) is a shy qutie around me, we were sitting at in my room yesterday, just softly kissing each other on the mouth and I started getting rough with her, kissing her all over and fast and I kinda forced her to do it ...

A.   12 September 2008: Its no fun to be forced to do ANYTHING. You need to give her space and leave her alone. You need to deal with the fact you lost control and possibly get help, talk to someone, before you take it too far.... (read in full...)

He suddenly cut me off from his life! I thought we had something special and I'm deeply hurt!

Q.   How do you deal when a friend w/benefits breaks-up with u via email and gives no reason. I'm in a world of hurt? Is it normal for me to feel depressed, suicidal, and devastated being dumped over email with no explanation? I dont date a lot. I...

A.   9 September 2008: OK, so to clear this up... this is a gay relationship correct? And are you sure you were on the same page, I mean maybe you thought things were going somewhere and you more than just FWB, where he thought that was all you were. Just like any ... (read in full...)

Can you get an STD from giving oral?

Q.   Can you contract an STD by giving a blow job?? ...

A.   2 September 2008: I guess I didn't say never did I, I said I didn't plan on it, which doesn't imply I won't. And I was honestly just curious. Thats why I asked because I wasn't sure.... (read in full...)

Can you get an STD from giving oral?

Q.   Can you contract an STD by giving a blow job?? ...

A.   1 September 2008: i've never given a blow job, nor do i plan to.... (read in full...)

Is shaving your pubic hair, an uncommon thing for a girl?

Q.   ok, so...question. is shaving your pussy common? because i thought it was but when i got with this guy about two weeks ago he was shocked that i did and he said that i was the first girl he had been with that did and he has been with quite a few ...

A.   26 August 2008: well sadly enough...in the world we live in, its not that uncommon for girls my age to have a "sex life" and to answer your question, i would say he has actually gone all the way with two girls (including me) but has seen at least 6 or seven ... (read in full...)

I don't want a relationship but at my age (I'm 16, he's 17) is this wrong?

Q.   So me and this guy are what you'd call "freinds with benefits" We're pretty good freinds, and after we have sex its not like awkward to talk to him or just be his freind. I don't even get jealous when were together and he's desperately flirting with ...

A.   25 August 2008: Thank you. And yes I have though about all that through up to the whole divorcing sex from emotions thing. I was talking to my sister about it about a year back and she was saying how, with her current boyfriend, when she had sex, there was a ... (read in full...)

I'm not sure whether I had sex or not

Q.   hey everyone i really need some help... im not sure whether i actually had sex or not... i know that this seems weird but im really not sure, ive been with my partner for a year and a half now yet i always vowed that i was gonna stay a virgin till ...

A.   24 August 2008: i would probably say you did not, i mean my first time hurt like hell. ... (read in full...)

Any information about finding a place and time for sex?

Q.   I am 16 and my boyfriend Joe is 15. We met when he was 8 and I was 9 at school. We hit it off at school and started doing group things together and then eating lunch together. A year later Joe's parents were looking to move to a new neighborhood. ...

A.   24 August 2008: i think it is great that you two have talked it over especially because your so young. i too am 15 and lost my virginity about two weeks ago. we weren't dating or anything just two very good freinds. it was after he got off work and we had both had ... (read in full...)

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