How can I encourage him? My boyfriend is not affectionate
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost two months. We have only held hands once. I just find it wierd that he does not want to hold my hand, hug, or kiss me. I try to hint to him that I want him to hold my hand, but I don't think he gets...
A. 11 February 2012: Love means different things to different people and your partner may not be your dream man but what is important is if you both are in love with each other from the core of your heart and if it is so you need not be much bothered,may be you can talk ... (read in full...)
How do I become close to a girl who is in a relationship with another? Should I?
Q. What should i do in order to win the heart of a girl who is in a relationship, even though i might not be able to see her often because of her studies? how do i become very close to her?...
A. 11 February 2012: I think you should not bother the girl if she is in another relationship...accept the fact that she is in love with someone else...there is definitely someone for you too,but may be she is not the one...and it is not chauvinistic to play tricks to ... (read in full...)
He is younger, his parents don't approve and he doesn't contact me much...should I believe that he likes me?
Q. Will you trust a guy if he says he like you but is younger to you, knows his parents wont approve of the relation and does not contact you much except when he wants to go on a date?...
A. 10 February 2012: Are all the five fingers of your hand of the same length??Likewise no two humans are the same...I guess you would not want someone to dictate you on how to lead your life...similarly you should make this decision yourself...you should know with whom ... (read in full...)
This guy's flirting with me and then accusing me of flirting with him! He has me confused. What should my stand be?
Q. Dear cupid' I will make 32 this yr in July.I have never had a guy called a boyfriend and honestly, I don look forward to getting one anymore. I have learned to enjoy my life solo and progress through my career. I am God-fearing so I spend a lot of m...
A. 10 February 2012: I find you very self contradictory dear,you have made up your mind that you would be solo all your life..that's rigidity of the mind and at the same time you proclaim that you are lively...Rigidity and liveliness don't co-exist.
"He calls me frie... (read in full...)
Why do so many people seem okay with such a mindset?
Q. I read it and hear it all the time: "He/She can look all they want, can flirt all they want, etc., but in the end it's me they come home to." What is this?! It seems that we've lowered our standards SO much that we accept this BS aISA "relatio...
A. 10 February 2012: Every one has a point of view on every matter and that's what differentiates us...there is nothing as this is good or that is bad in this world..every thing is relative...you may not like something and some one else adores that very same thing...if ... (read in full...)
He has been sexting another girl and he also flirts on Facebook. Is there hope for this relationship?
Q. Dear Everyone, i have been in a relationship for 9 months with my boyfriend and it has being pretty serious and we have through a lot of struggles like for example i come from a strict family and it took about 7 months to finally accept and respecte...
A. 10 February 2012: It's really unfortunate,if your bfriend is sexting every random girl,but you were the one who started the suspicion in the relationship,but at the same time you were honest to him,but he lacks that honesty which makes things worse...talk to him ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he contact me if he loves me?
Q. my ex left 2 month ago. he said he loved me and that would never change. he has not been in contact for 5 weeks now, no phone call or text message. why does he do this if he says he loves me....
A. 9 February 2012: This is how the world runs dear..we say a lot of things but being in a relationship means much more than saying something in words..its a hard fact...being in a relationship and continuing it is not everyone's cup of tea...i really hope that he ... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend winking at me mean anything?
Q. My boyfriend winks at me a lot, and sometimes raises his eyebrows at me lol. Does this always mean something sexual, or can it mean something else too?. We haven't had sex with each other yet, by the way. I stayed at his house once though, and he ...
A. 9 February 2012: Stop looking at everything under the sun with a question mark...better enjoy the feeling of being in love and better follow your heart than your mind...all the best... (read in full...)
Why does everything get messed up but he keeps coming back?
Q. There's this fella and we have a weird relationship. We're really good friends but we fight so so much and we're like this uniffical couple aswell. We fall out all the time, but we Always work it out. He always comes back. We be great for a few ...
A. 9 February 2012: You see all people have different stories and may be THIS is your love story...don't worry about the little fights that you are...fights at times makes the bond stronger...but if it indeed is bothering you,sit down with your partner and talk about ... (read in full...)
I didn't really care that much, but now I really like her and I am pretty sure she's over me...How do I ask her out?
Q. Well the basics of my problem is that there is this girl that I have sat next to in one of my classes all year and we talk all the time but only in that class and earlier this year I was 100% positive she liked me a lot but for some reason I didn't ...
A. 9 February 2012: Your feeling is spot on so go for it..it doesn't even matter if you stumble with your words while asking her out,be your natural self and ask her out..love is not rocket science..so put your mind at rest and follow your heart...all the best... (read in full...)
I told him I'm a virgin, but I've done things with guys...it turned him off
Q. So.. I've been dating this guy for a week. Im a virgin. He's not. He asked about my past, I had done some things and it totally turned him off. But, I was completely honest with him because I didn't want to lie to him. What do I do?...
A. 9 February 2012: You said that you are a virgin and he is not...you were honest and said him about your past..but my dear you should have reacted,on knowing that he is not a virgin,the way he did,may be that's what he anticipated and since you didn't he gave it back ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him how I feel or should we stay as FWB?
Q. I have a problem with this guy who i used to cam sex with, and he doesn't know that i still like him. Whenever i see him i always feel a certain feeling in my stomach. i don't know if it is butterflies or a stomach. should i tell him how i feel or ...
A. 8 February 2012: Since you feel butterflies in your stomach whenever you see this guy you should better go up to him and disclose him how you feel for him,and if you don't you might still be FWB but he might be going out with someone else and that would be self ... (read in full...)
Is he shy and only rings me when he has a few drinks for courage?
Q. Hi I need your help I met this guy back in September 2011 and I really do like him and we only got together in November 2011 but my problem with him is that I only ever hear from him when he is out with his friends and having afew drinks this is ...
A. 8 February 2012: If your partner is remembers to call you only after a drink,then you are definitely hurting yourself by giving him the importance that you are giving him.Make it clear to him that you are not there to entertain him after his drinks...i think you ... (read in full...)
My mum is being so immature and inconsiderate towards my dad now they have separated, how do I get her to stop?
Q. My mum and dad separated over a year ago. Now my mum's trying to get revenge on him by putting flirty lovey dovey statuses on her fb. It's making me and my brother irritated. I want to tell her to grow up and leave my dad alone. I'm sick and ...
A. 8 February 2012: Speak your mind out to your mum...and let her know that her immaturity is affecting you and that she should stop bothering your dad for your sake..... (read in full...)
Which guy do I choose?
Q. Please help. Which guy do I choose ? Hi long story so I will try to make it short. I have been seeing this guy from another state and he drives up to see me on the weekends . It has only been 3 weeks of seeing each other but we can't keep our hands ...
A. 7 February 2012: In the first place,sit back and relax..you need relaxation 'coz you sound so stressed out.Ask yourself what you want in your MAN and who sort of meets up most of the criteria...it might end up in a close tie and thats when your heart will come to ... (read in full...)
Asked him out over email but heard nothing back...is he laughing at me?
Q. I asked a man out...which I don't often do..by email. And I've heard nothing back. I'm not wondering about rejection but more That is he somewhere laughing at me? Guys would you be thinking "this girl is a loser?". Backstory... We are in t...
A. 7 February 2012: Never mind if that gives him a good laugh..you were spontaneous ...and need not repent your actions..if he doesn't reply may be you can give him a call and ask for a reply..and remember relationships begin with looks but looks are not enough to ... (read in full...)
My daughter is planning on having IVF with her partner, but I know they are unhappy and she has been having an affair. What can I do in this situation?
Q. my daughter is soon to be forty and has decided to have ivf with her partner of 6 years. it appears that for the last 4 years she has been having an affair.her partner is manipulative and calculating and i think he knows what has been going on her ...
A. 7 February 2012: No matter how much old your daughter grows she is still your daughter,sit down with her and have a heart to heart conversation with her...humans can only be won over by affections ...its only a matter of time...you can't leave your child when you ... (read in full...)
It seems like he regrets messing our relationship up, but what does this all mean?
Q. Im a little puzzled about my ex-boyfriend. We have been broken up for a while now but every time we see each other its as if we never have been apart. He recently called me and apologized for something he did. I told him I forgave him and I can tell ...
A. 7 February 2012: Most men tend to be vulnerable in a relationship...it is a possibility that he misses you and have realized his mistake...but you can't never read minds and it is always logical to take your time before taking the plunge,since he has already cheated ... (read in full...)
I cheated, then she cheated but she's still in touch with him!
Q. hi i cheated on my partner 6 years ago ,then she cheated on me around 6 mths later which i found out about 2 weeks ago , since i cheated i have been honest and true to her and i thought her to me she told me it happened once but she as keep in ...
A. 7 February 2012: Try to consolidate your compatibility...her actions might have resulted from an inner vengeance,since you cheated first..have a open discussion with her and see what she has to say...your relationship must be passing through a phase of lack of ... (read in full...)
Do you guys think he's coming around a little and am I going about approaching him the right way?
Q. For all of you who are aware of my situation, I have a crush on a very quiet boy who doesn't really respond to anyone unless it is a small question. I've been in the same class with him for I think a little less than a month. I've been hand...
A. 7 February 2012: Take it easy and don't rush into conclusions....first of all be sure of what you think about him (for him) rather than whats going on his mind...you would be hurting yourself if you react to his behaviour...create a friendship with him and try to ... (read in full...)
My male partner wants to dress as a woman. Can this result in a happy future for us, as a couple, considering his preference?
Q. I feel so confused at the moment and i really do not want to make a mistake, but i just dont have the answers myself nor do i know what the best thing is to do. I will try and make it as brief as possible as there could be lots i could say. Ba...
A. 6 February 2012: your male partner wants to dress like a woman to have a feel of a woman is ok as long as you can tolerate it.If you do not have a problem with it,its not a problem.See leading a happy conjugal life is more than sharing a home, and there are many ... (read in full...)
I don't know if he's sick, a liar, cruel, or manipulative. Do I cut contact considering he will not take my advice?
Q. This is a bit intense. I had this friend that I used to talk to very often. We stopped talking for a brief while because he started dating girls, and I was getting serious with my current relationship. Needless to say, we haven't been really in ...
A. 6 February 2012: From the information provided by you, it is evident that he is deeply into addiction.He does try to lead a normal life but because of his addiction he is unable to do and therefore creates this other person (the bipolar thing)whom he can blame for ... (read in full...)
I feel like I owe it to my husband to have a threesome.
Q. My husband has been wanting a threesome with another women, i was for it at first but after his pushing and searching I started to have my insecruities. I feel tho, it needs to happen. I was unfaithful to him. I kissed a guy. (it might not see...
A. 6 February 2012: Please do not put your dignity at stake because of much horrendous fantasy...it will be better to have a open conversation with your husband than getting involved in a thressome to satisfy your husbands fanantasy...it might turn up to be a ... (read in full...)
A married man continues to pursue me even after I decline
Q. I am working on a divorce. My husband cheated on me with another woman. I'm being honest, it hurts bad. I did meet a friend only to find out he is married too. I am angry and of course we are not together anymore. This stupid married man keep...
A. 6 February 2012: This married man keeps contacting you as he might feel that you are fragile and vulnerable,as your husband cheated on you.Put up a stern face against him and let him know that you don't need a man to face this world,men have this perception that a ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to inform her of the rumour being spread about us?
Q. Would you quit talking to your friend? This girl and I like to joke around. I like to tease her for fun and enjoy her company. I like her as a friend but several reasons she's not the right person for me to date. She has a boyfriend so I r...
A. 6 February 2012: If it is just a rumour,you need not be bothered,you have got nothing to do with it,it will run its course and die out.As for informing her,your were not wrong but you must be sensitive to her needs too,it must her hurt her.Give her some time and be ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to inform her of the rumour being spread about us?
Q. Would you quit talking to your friend? This girl and I like to joke around. I like to tease her for fun and enjoy her company. I like her as a friend but several reasons she's not the right person for me to date. She has a boyfriend so I r...
A. 6 February 2012: if it really is a rumour,it will run its course and die out,ignore it at best.Be your the normal self that you are and do not let it affect you...with due course of time she would also be able to understand that you were just a good friend and that ... (read in full...)
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