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How do I politely tell my man to man up, and how do I tell my future mother-in-law, politely, to stay out of our affairs and not to interfere in our plans?

Q.   Hi everyone. I need some advice on how to deal with a domineering future mother-in-law. I have been in a relationship with my guy for the past 5 years, who just graduated and is now working. It is not my intention to marry now as I am still ...

A.   2 September 2011: Thank you all for your answers. I really hope something good will come out of this..... (read in full...)

How do I politely tell my man to man up, and how do I tell my future mother-in-law, politely, to stay out of our affairs and not to interfere in our plans?

Q.   Hi everyone. I need some advice on how to deal with a domineering future mother-in-law. I have been in a relationship with my guy for the past 5 years, who just graduated and is now working. It is not my intention to marry now as I am still ...

A.   1 September 2011: My real reasons for not marrying him? Firstly, it is because i would like to complete my studies, with no distractions. I do not want anyone else interfering with my studies. Secondly, i do not know how to describe this feeling, but it is like my ... (read in full...)

How do I politely tell my man to man up, and how do I tell my future mother-in-law, politely, to stay out of our affairs and not to interfere in our plans?

Q.   Hi everyone. I need some advice on how to deal with a domineering future mother-in-law. I have been in a relationship with my guy for the past 5 years, who just graduated and is now working. It is not my intention to marry now as I am still ...

A.   31 August 2011: hi..thanks for the answers..i am trying my level best to remain calm..my future MIL has not directly spoken with me about this matter so far, she is still giving hints through her son..... (read in full...)

Intense training session has made me afraid of my instructor!

Q.   hey, the other day i was with my fitness instructor doing (you guessed it) exercise. then about halfway through my instructor tells me we're going to do a conditioning session. i didn't know it at the time but a conditioning session is basic...

A.   11 August 2011: i am actively involved in taekwondo for the past 17 years..and not even once was i taken advantage of in the manner you speak of..please do a medical check-up, quit the class, make a report on that maniac,and join another class somewhere else..your ... (read in full...)

How can I make him listen to me?

Q.   hi..i have been in a relationship for five years now, since college..i am still continuing my studies, while he had just graduated and is currently working in the medical field..i love my partner very very much..he says that he loves me too..he ...

A.   30 May 2011: thank you for your time ag-55..i really appreciate your advice..i just hope something good comes out of all this..i was starting to feel tired of all this..but i will hold my ground.... (read in full...)

How can I make him listen to me?

Q.   hi..i have been in a relationship for five years now, since college..i am still continuing my studies, while he had just graduated and is currently working in the medical field..i love my partner very very much..he says that he loves me too..he ...

A.   14 May 2011: thanks for your answer a-g55..i could try replicating his behaviour, but will that solve the problem? i am quite a passive person (the type who lets things go), so most probably it was my fault for not putting my foot down in the first place..i have ... (read in full...)

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