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My wife is very dry when we have sex...why is this?

Q.   Dear sir/Madam when I had sexual intercourse with my wife the vagina of my wife it is become very Dry I can not move my penis in side the vagina so what you suggest me for my wife she has to go to doctor to check this thing please let me know ...

A.   11 January 2010: Women's bodies produce their own lubricant especially when aroused. Are you doing enough foreplay? Kissing, touching, oral etc.. There is no need to see a doctor just make sure you are arousing her and not just shoving it in, and if foreplay stil... (read in full...)

My pregnant wife or my mistress whom I have met months ago?

Q.   My Wife or my mistress? I am in mid 30s.married for 4 years. Got my wife pregnant and I feel responsible for it. i got the work from another country . where i feel very lonely. until one day when i meet my other woman. she is everything to me....

A.   11 January 2010: The one you fall in love with is the one you marry, simple as that. Unless you were forced into an arranged marriage it was your choice to marry your wife, your choice to move to a different country and your choice to get yourself a mistress. ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and pregnant, help!

Q.   I am 14 pregnant to a 17 year old it was a drunken mistake, i am 1 month gone and not showing yet only small bump no one knows, i have already got morning sickness (i dont know why they call it this i'm sick throughout the day) i cant get rid of i...

A.   10 January 2010: Wow!! I have just spent the last hour or so reading all your posts and first of all I have to say, you are a credit to your family and a credit to yourself. You not only made a huge decision at a young age but you followed through with it in a way ... (read in full...)

I like Chris but I slept with his brother who now says he loves me

Q.   OK well I started the basic training for my job (Navy) about a year ago, this lasts 3 months and we are told from the start that it is the most intense 3 months you will ever have to work. What happens is you are given a date that you will be ...

A.   10 January 2010: This is going to end bad if you don't be honest with these guys.Have you told Chris that you slept with his brother? Have you told Jaiden that it was a drunken mistake? Eventually Chris is going to hear about it, so better to come from you than one ... (read in full...)

I want to be able to reconnect with her sexually as well as personally.

Q.   I have been married for 16 years. i have e.d. when my wife lets me have anal sex i dont stop when its hurting her. i take viagra and it is really hard to control myself. now my wife is having issues with self esteem and wants nothing to do with me ...

A.   10 January 2010: Just be grateful you're still in the same house as her if I were you. Like it or not when she says Stop! or No! and you keep going that's rape.You love her so much but don't mind inflicting pain on her? I tell you what, go buy a cucumber and shove ... (read in full...)

He has been unfaithful and violent but I still love him

Q.   Just to fill you out on the background first: Me and my boyfriend started courting at the slightly young age of thirteen, and now we're fifteen, so we've basically been going out for two years. The first three months of our relationship were no...

A.   10 January 2010: Why did you stay with him when he was treating you like a punching bag? And why the hell did you get further involved with him after he cheated on you? I'm sorry but it baffles me why girls continue to stay with guys who hurt them physically or ... (read in full...)

We have a baby together and he's confessed he lied about his age! How am I supposed to trust him again?

Q.   I have been in a relatioship with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. I fell madly in love with him we have a 5 month old baby together now. He recently confessed that he is actually 12 years older than me. (I am 26) When we first met he told me ...

A.   10 January 2010: Again I will say this is a minor lie, he hasn't infected her with aids, doesn't have wives and children spread across the country, wasn't born a woman, hasn't murdered anyone and I'm guessing he's using his real name.They are big lies, ones that ... (read in full...)

Is my fiancee cheating on me?

Q.   Is my fiancee cheating on me? She is very happy to go to work every day. She is making lots of new friends and decided that she and I need to go out separately with our own friends. She went out of town a few weeks ago for the night with a "female" ...

A.   10 January 2010: Mmmm sorry to say it but I agree with pinktopaz. I really don't think she's going to get a mark like a hickey any other way than how they are normally done. Where are you when she gets picked up/dropped off by this "friend" are you able to see for ... (read in full...)

We have a baby together and he's confessed he lied about his age! How am I supposed to trust him again?

Q.   I have been in a relatioship with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. I fell madly in love with him we have a 5 month old baby together now. He recently confessed that he is actually 12 years older than me. (I am 26) When we first met he told me ...

A.   10 January 2010: Did you love him unconditionally before he told you that he was older than you thought he was? Because that's what real love is, it's unconditional. Yes it was wrong of him to lie to you, but just as he thought, you wouldn't have looked twice at... (read in full...)

Am I doing the right thing by having a girlfriend right now?

Q.   Hi, me and my girlfriend were steady for almost 2 years. I loved her so much and consider her my first true love. In the beginning i fucked up when she said no when i asked her out and i ran back to my ex and then realized it was a mistake and that ...

A.   9 January 2010: I think you already know the relationship with your current girlfrind is doomed, you have been trying to use her as a replacement for your ex and it's just not working huh?Like I said before, she's your first love and you will always have feelings ... (read in full...)

Married a year and only had sex twice!

Q.   my husband and i have been married less than a year and im starting to regret marrying him, we rarely have sex in fact we only had sex twice last year and once the year before that. The thing is he spent the best part of four years cheating on me ...

A.   9 January 2010: Have you tried initiating sex with him? If you thought before he was having sex with you only out of guilt then maybe he's at least not cheating on you anymore. And next time you catch him masturbating ask him if you can give him a "hand" with tha... (read in full...)

Is it too late to make an effort to show him I'm still keen on him or is he not interested in me any more and is getting bored?

Q.   I've been dating a guy for a few months and from the very start he was chasing me, texting, chatting to meet up and take me out on dates. he always took the initiative, even talking to me first on msn. if he doesnt talk first then i wont. iam very ...

A.   7 January 2010: Is he a bit of a party boy? Maybe he's thinking you're too quiet to fit in with his mates? Are you prepared to try and initiate conversations and dates with him to make it work? Message him and tell him that you do like him and want to be with him, ... (read in full...)

Not the lifestyle I want

Q.   okay i have this problem im 20 yrs old and i dont know why im having this doubt that i might be gay first of all i never fantisised bout a man i never looked at a man and said i want to be wit him or sexual toughts i always thought dat was wrong and ...

A.   7 January 2010: At this stage I really don't think you have anything to worry about, you are still young and still exploring your sexuality. Having alot of gay men around you trying to convince you that you're gay probably isn't helping you either.You seem to have ... (read in full...)

Should I send her a letter trying to explain?

Q.   I'm reposting since i didn't get any good advice! About two weeks ago i broke up with my girlfriend over some pretty hurtful things I saw on her phone (yes I looked through her phone). The month before she had told me she didn't know if she want...

A.   7 January 2010: I have to agree with Emilyanswers, writing a letter will if anything just cause you more pain, if she would text that kind of stuff about you, what is she going to do with a letter from you saying you're sorry? Probably have a good laugh with her ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend and porn...

Q.   I've been in a relationship for almost 2 years with my current girlfriend. Things are going great, and we both confide in each other for pretty much everything. Porn has been a little bit of an issue in our relationship, though. I like to watch ...

A.   7 January 2010: Im not a lesbian, but nothing gets me hotter than watching lesbian porn or if Im struggling to come I'll think about it. And just because lesbian porn turns her on doesn't mean she's going to jump the next female she see's, not every fantasy has to ... (read in full...)

Why do guys push the girls head down while she's giving him a blowjob?

Q.   I have a question for guys. Why do you push a girls head farther down while they're giving you head? does it feel good or is it just like, there? My boyfriend does that (i've only given him head twice) and it makes me gag sometimes. and i heard a ...

A.   7 January 2010: Maybe he's just enjoying it, and wants more of him in your mouth. If you're uncomfortable with it, tell him you dont like it when he does it, before you give him head. Put your hand around the base of his penis so YOU can regulate how much of his ... (read in full...)

This woman will do things my wife will not do

Q.   I am currently married 10+ years. Was married nearly 10 previous. Have posted an ad for a descrete sexual relationship and found my potential match. She is willing to do things with me my wife will not. She wants me to do things that my wife would ...

A.   7 January 2010: First of all I kinda know where you are coming from, I'm currently going through a stage where I cant get enough sex and my hubby has just lost interest, however this is the man I married and love and want to spend the rest of my life with, so I ... (read in full...)

Do I get a divorce and go with this new woman or stay with my wife?

Q.   Here are the facts: Married 4 years, prior to that dated for about 6. I am 30, she is 30, we don't have any children. We have owned our own home for about 2 years. Sex is not a problem, we have great sex. Sometimes she nags, but no big d...

A.   7 January 2010: The new woman is great to talk to, easy to get along with blah blah blah, thats because you dont have to talk about the mortgage, the car repayments, who's taking out the trash and she doesnt complain that you left the seat up or that your dirty ... (read in full...)

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