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Is it any big deal if I masturbate 2 or 3 times a day, are there any side effects?

Q.   Okay so im a 17 yr old female n i am just wondeting is it weird that I mas turbate 2 or3 times a day ? And does it have any side effects or something ?...

A.   16 July 2009: Nope thats usual for me and most women I know of my age, especially on days off!it works better than a g and t for relaxation. Have fun.... (read in full...)

Before me, my wife had a real 'wild' past..trying to deal with it. Any advice?

Q.   We hear all this about men having chequered pasts as in 100 women , But I have the reverrse I am married to a woman who came clean and admitted to having sex with 16 different men most of the time these liasons were adulterous, some were one night ...

A.   16 July 2009: It was before she met you , it has nothing to do with you unless you are worried she may leave you to start again. I doubt it but unless you are worried about that, just ask her not to mention it anymore. Different people have differing morals with ... (read in full...)

She says she wants to be with me yet wants to lose her virginity to a guy

Q.   Hey I've been with my girlfriend for 3 months. I too am a girl n for her this is her first lesbian relationship yet it is my third. However it is my first sexual lesbian relationship. Were both 17 and I have fell in really deeply and it seems sh...

A.   16 July 2009: First off, stop the jealousy! You will drive her away. Personally though what she has said about a break for her to lose her virginity to a boy is horrible and hurtful. You have feelings and you love her why would it be fine for her to break off to ... (read in full...)

Would you date someone who was the wrong star sign?

Q.   would you avoid dating someone that was the wrong starsign? im seeing a man whose supposed to bethe worst match for me yet we love each other to bits, yet i keep thinking if we were together full time we wouldnt work..any views on this?...

A.   16 July 2009: Yes I have had a great relationship for a decade with my "worst match"If you believe in the stars why not love? ... (read in full...)

I'm a girl having dreams about having a penis

Q.   I'm a sixteen year old girl and I'm bisexual. I find myself sexually attracted to both girls and guys, and I have for a long time. I've been having strange dreams for a few years, in which I have a penis. I never even thought about something as ...

A.   16 July 2009: I wouldn't worry, you probably are just being turned on by the thought of being close to a woman and penetrating her. It is a common dreamn amongst younger less experienced bi or gay women. I run a LGBT support programme in my area and this is ... (read in full...)

Why do women place such importance on the emotional side of sex?

Q.   Okay, I have a question for both men and women. My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year. When it comes to sex, she claims to love it with me and tells me that I make her feel better than anyone has before - physically but then she ...

A.   16 July 2009: As a woman I don't really need emotional aspects to good sex so I am not sure. However you and your partner obviously have differing needs or desires within a relationship. Either you both decide to live with your own desires and perhaps compromise ... (read in full...)

I'm not gay, so why do I get nervous that I am?

Q.   I'm not gay, so why do I get nervous that I am? I'm 44, married for 21 years, with 4 children. For a year now I have been off my cocaine and alcohol addiction but towards the end doing 1/2 ounce of coke a week having a 2 year affair with a naughty ...

A.   16 July 2009: First off, you are only gay if you sexually prefer the same sex. It is not a manhood issue or one that is easily confused. Also if you are gay, it is not the end of the world, only the beginning of a new one for you. Secondly, as your wife was... (read in full...)

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