I want to relieve the stress in my life by losing my virginity.
Q. I am 14 years old and my parents are always fighting so i think if i loose my virginity it will help me relieve stress. What should i do?...
A. 20 April 2011: No way will that relieve any stress for you, it will give you a whole new world of stress. You need to talk to someone. Do you have a family member, an aunt or uncle who you could talk to, or a favourite teacher at school? What about a friends ... (read in full...)
Why does my married employer keep bringing up his ex?
Q. Hi, I have known a certain MARRIED man for the last eight to nine months. I met him at my workplace, as I look after his son. This man has been giving me lifts home from my workplace when he comes to pick his son up quite often. We get on re...
A. 20 April 2011: I would be looking for an alternative ride if I was you. It really isn't appropriate conversation. You could try cutting him off straight away when he brings up the 'ex' conversation, have another subject ready to start instead.... (read in full...)
I can't get over his exes!
Q. My boyfriend is older than me and has had lots of sexual partners. Everytime he mentions them I get really jealous and upset, and I cant stop picturing him with all these different girls. How can I stop doing this? Its starting to affect our ...
A. 20 April 2011: Why would he do that, is he showing off? If he is worth keeping, ask him why he does it, and then ask him to stop doing it. Otherwise, I'd be walking away!... (read in full...)
The place I work at part-time has clients that are addicts....and I think I somehow fell in love with a guy there!
Q. The place I work at part-time has clients that are addicts. I'm not a counselor, and I don't talk to them about their problems or issues or anything, but even with my job I have to remember my boundaries, at least for a certain length of time. ...
A. 20 April 2011: You did the right thing, and handled yourself well. You can't say that you fell in love with the guy, because you didn't get to know him. You may have liked the look of him, had some physical chemistry, but love, no. You can only love someone that ... (read in full...)
I love her but she hurt me so I don't know what to do now....
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for two years now. Recently we got into a huge argument. As a result of the argument I went over her house to talk to her. I told her that I wanted to forget about everything and get try to make it work between us. She ...
A. 18 April 2011: I think, if it were me, I'd be walking away from this girl, and not looking back. "Sexting" is cheating in my book. I wouldn't trust her now. And a relationship without trust isn't a good one. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Why did I tell him I forgive you?
Q. Basicly I dont know why Im still upset about it. well this guy i was with, we were constantly on and off he had a foul temper, he kept telling me over and over "I want you" and I kept giving him Achance and I dont even know what way it was supp...
A. 17 April 2011: Send one last text - 'IGNORE MY LAST TEXT. GOODBYE FOREVER'. You are just young caught up in the drama. It never was a healthy relationship. You should be having fun, not getting mixed-up in a soap opera. Start looking for the next one! ... (read in full...)
I'm still having guilt over an affair even though my husband had one too
Q. I need advise how do i get over the guilt of an affair that i had 10 years ago. I worked with my husband in a family business for 12 years. My husband and his family are Italains. I am not. So you can see already there were quite a few differences ...
A. 17 April 2011: Time to start afresh for you. You have made a mistake and paid the price. Forgive yourself and move on with your new life. ... (read in full...)
She's moved on awfully quickly
Q. Ok been 11 days now since break up Iam going back home tomorrow been away for 5 days to stay with family I spoke to girlfriends mother yesterday and she running around totally fine why is she doing this Iam devastated so basically I want her back ...
A. 17 April 2011: Maybe the girlfriends mother doesn't want you to get back together. Could she be telling a little lie? Just so that you don't seek your girlfriend out and try to get back together! You really need to speak to the girlfriend, to know exactly ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a guy asks you out late at night?
Q. If a guy asks you out around 10pm what does that really mean? Why so late?...
A. 17 April 2011: Worldlywise has got it in one! Don't be expecting too much from this one.... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he end it with me?
Q. hello everyone. . Can you give me some advise please? My boyfriend of five years is very down and i want to help however it seems i am the onlY person that he gets nasty and up tight with. If i was down he wouldn give two hoots but yet its a massive ...
A. 17 April 2011: What I'm thinking is, why don't you end it with him!!!!!! Why would you want to continue to live like that, you sound miserable. Don't waste any more of your life with someone who so obviously doesn't value you. Like really is too short. You ... (read in full...)
I hate the way I look and hate every pretty girl I see
Q. I'm an ugly 22 year old female; sure, I'm smart, kind, talented, all those good "inside" things, but I'm ugly outside and there's no questioning, I've got comments my whole life and I can see it in the mirror anyway... and not much can be done, and ...
A. 17 April 2011: You haven't convinced me that you really believe that you have "all those good 'inside' things"! For someone to dislike themselves this much, I believe that professional help is needed. And no, not from a cosmetic surgeon, but from a psychologist! ... (read in full...)
Want him to think I'm a virgin
Q. {Moderator note: two questions combined} Okay i just wanna know , i lost my virginity about two year ago since then i havent had sex ,it was against my religion and culture to do that .Im due to get marrid in 2 months will i be tight i know i wont b...
A. 17 April 2011: I absolutely agree with the others; you must come clean and tell the truth. Having secrets is not the way to a happy and healthy marriage. The bigger the secret too, the bigger the agony when the truth comes out. And the truth will come out. You ... (read in full...)
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