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My boyfriend wants a threesom but I would rather it just be me and another woman! Is this selfish of me?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and we are extremely happy. He always talks about wanting to try new things and I am usually completely up for it. But lately he has talked about having a threesome with another girl. For awhile I ...

A.   7 September 2007: He may feel hurt that you would rather be alone with a woman than have him involved to. You should explain that you have been together so long that it would hurt you to watch him with another woman. Good luck let me know how it goes.... (read in full...)

I'm 12 and want to have sex! I'm scared but I want to. Should I???

Q.   i am 12 i want to have sex with my boyfriend. what should i do? i am so scarde but i want to, so should i have sex with him ...

A.   7 September 2007: No you shouldn't, it sounds like you're being pressured into it. You should have sex when you're ready, and you may feel you are but ou obviously aren't otherwise youwouldn't be asking people on here whether or not you should. You need to wait until ... (read in full...)

Whenever I masturbate I can never orgasm or cum....

Q.   Whenever I masturbate I can never orgasm or cum.... why not...? I tried looking at porn and imagining things but it just won't work... I always lay down and that helps a little from anything else but whenever I feel just a little away from an ...

A.   7 September 2007: Sounds like you are scared of letting yourself go. Maybe because you dont want people to hear. It could be for many reasons. Try using a vibrator or something like that. Good luck at if you need anymore advice contact me directly.... (read in full...)

When we were doing it I made a horrible 'windy' noise from my privates...

Q.   Last night was so embarrassing!!! I stayed over my boyfriends (I've been with him a month) and when we were doing it I made a horrible 'windy' noise from my privates - I was so embarrassed and he stopped and didn't really know what to say!! I'm so ...

A.   7 September 2007: It is normal, it's caused by the air inside. Many people refeer to it as a "fanny fart". Not very charming I know, but everyone does it. Don't be worried. And if you have anymore problems contact me dirctly.... (read in full...)

I hate giving oral sex! How can I get over it?

Q.   i'm worried about how my girlfriend feels because i don't give her oral sex. we've been together 4 months and having sex for 3. she has never said anything about it but i really want to please her but it disgusts me even thinking about doing it. my ...

A.   7 September 2007: You need to tell her how you feel. I'm sure she'll understand. And why are you letting a couple of bad experiences put you off. Try going down on her and if you still dont enjoy it then tell her. You never know you may supprise yourself. Good luck ... (read in full...)

Any tips for oral stimulation of breasts?

Q.   What are the tips for oral stimulation of breasts? Having got some good tips on oral sex in my last question, I was wondering -- what tips do the girls out there have for stimulating a womans breasts? I usually just cup or circle with my tongue b...

A.   7 September 2007: Try kissing the breasts slowly and gently then rubbing them. And groaping the breasts while going down on them always works. Good luck let me know if it works.... (read in full...)

She's joined facebook and this angers me... Is this normal?

Q.   It seems that it only takes my ex-girlfriend to join Facebook.com to get me rattled up. I've been having a pretty good day. Been feeling fairly comfortable about the relationship ending (2 months and 2 weeks ago), but then suddenly I find ...

A.   7 September 2007: I know you are annoyed, but surely you cant be that supprised as almost everyone has it now. Maybe it's because you know she could me talking to men on there and you cant see what's going on. Or maybe it is because it's a part of her life that you ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to date my step cousin?

Q.   is it wrong for me to date my step-cousin? i have this step cousin of mine that i have had strong deep feeling for and chasing after for more than a year and an a half. the good thing is that she knows about and confronted me about. what she say was ...

A.   7 September 2007: At the end of the day, you are only step cousins, so it's legal and if you love eachother then you shouldn't care what everyone else thinks. But you said, she said she thinks of you as a cousin!! Which could mean she wants you as a cousin and no ... (read in full...)

Should I be upset or just be happy to spend time with him?

Q.   The guy i dated all summer and i are now back at different schools. We got very close over the summer and then it was time to leave. We did not say we were seeing each other exclusively because we r at different colleges. He asked me to come down ...

A.   7 September 2007: Sounds like this guy has alot of growing up to do, have you considered the fact that maybe you're better off without him. This guy obviously doesn't like you that much, my advice would be to stay away as he may have several girls doing the same ... (read in full...)

I'm a lebian and i'm 13. I'm fine with it but how do I tell my mum and dad?

Q.   Heya every1, please can you help me with something. I am 13 and am a lesbian. I am fine with it and don't mind what the outside world thinks of me but I am worrid about how my mum and dad will react if i tell them i'm a lesbian.I would hate to upset...

A.   6 September 2007: I don't mean to sound ageist but are you sure it's not just a phase that many girls your age go through? If not, don't worry about what they think at the end of the day, you're they're daughter and they will love you no matter what. And if you're h... (read in full...)

Why is he behaving like this - it makes me wonder if one of them has been unfaithful...

Q.   I've got a friend who has been married for two years. At my son's christening recently they announced that they were seperating. I was shocked and because they were smiling I didn't believe them until they showed me their fingers without the ...

A.   6 September 2007: It sounds like even they don't know what's going on, basically you have a choice you can either ask them outright what they're playing at. Or you can stay out of it and wait for it all to blow over. good luck... (read in full...)

She's thinking of dumping her boyfriend, am I in with a chance?

Q.   Hi, I'm having a slight dilemma here, there's this girl I like, I'm pretty sure she likes me as well cause she flirts with me a lot but she's got a boyfriend though and they've been going out for a year, she's spoken to people about dumping him ...

A.   6 September 2007: Hi, If she really likes you then you wont need to ask her out as soon as they split up, as chances are in a few weeks she will ask you. And if she doesn't feel the same way it could ruin your friendship if you make a move straight away. You need to ... (read in full...)

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