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I like someone online but I have a real boyfriend. How do I get over this crush?

Q.   There is a lot I love about my boyfriend of 3 years but recently I have an online crush with someone from a videogame I play. About this time a year ago, I started to like someone online as well and even told my boyfriend about it because we usual...

A.   19 April 2015: I know how you feel trust me, but no one on wow is worth hurting your irl bf over. Wow FFXIV whichever you play. Trust me I play them too and know how guys are. But I've learned that as long as you're a girl almost every guy will flirt with you.... ... (read in full...)

My best friend stopped all contact with me because his girlfriend asked him to?

Q.   Hello Everybody! My problem is: I have been friends with a guy for more than 10 years. We attended the same high school, and the same university for BA and also for the MA studies. We never tough about being more than friends, though we kissed...

A.   20 March 2015: There's a difference between being friends speaking hanging out vs having a little history of being more than friends and him sleeping at your place or you at his. You don't do that when you have a significant other regardless of how long you've ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend talks the talk but doesn't walk the walk and its making me feel sad and confused

Q.   I've been in an LDR with my bf coming up to a year. I see him a few times a month and the time I get with him is precious. However, I feel lately that he's making no effort in our relationship. He tells me the things I want to hear, like he loves me ...

A.   12 March 2015: I'm assuming sageoldguys post is implying your bf may be cheating since those are some serious signs right there.... (read in full...)

Is it wrong for me to feel a little resentful towards my wealthy boyfriend for not helping me out when he can?

Q.   I ve met my boyfriend 2 years ago and since then we are a couple. I am a widow with 2 teenage daughters. My husband passed away suddenly at the age of 52 from heart attack 6 years ago. He was 16 years older than me and a love of my life, and we s...

A.   7 March 2015: I think you just came up with some off the wall advice none of us gave. No one said he didn't want a future with you. We said you haven't gotten to that part where you share finances etc. He can truly love and want everything with you without ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong for me to feel a little resentful towards my wealthy boyfriend for not helping me out when he can?

Q.   I ve met my boyfriend 2 years ago and since then we are a couple. I am a widow with 2 teenage daughters. My husband passed away suddenly at the age of 52 from heart attack 6 years ago. He was 16 years older than me and a love of my life, and we s...

A.   6 March 2015: Let's put it this way. Sometimes you get completely blinded by money. He's not married to you, he's a boyfriend. He loves you for you, and expects nothing but love in return. You need to do that same thing for him. He shouldn't have to feel ... (read in full...)

Does it sound like he's cheating, or at least flirting with someone else?

Q.   Things my boyfriend, of 4.5 years, does sometimes confuses the hell out of me and makes me paranoid. Example 1: (stupid really but here goes): he posted on my facebook timeline earlier "sexy you are yes". It's so random that it made me think he got ...

A.   14 February 2015: He was joking with you because on Star Wars yoda talks like that constantly so he was saying you are sexy in the same way yoda talks hun, it's actually kind of cute. Don't over analyze that too much it's really just your head going wild. God bless!... (read in full...)

How do I handle this toxic friend of his? She is also an ex of his!

Q.   I recently met a man and we fell deeply in love. He is everything, I ever dreamed of and more. My boyfriend has a lot of friends from highschool and they are big party animals. Included in this group is an ex girlfriend. My boyfriend says there has ...

A.   8 February 2015: I love how a random poster can tell you to get over it. I'm guessing it hits a little close to home for them? Lol... Anyways I happen to agree that she sounds extremely toxic. But men are weird, they literally ignore it or pretend to be oblivious to ... (read in full...)

How do I handle this toxic friend of his? She is also an ex of his!

Q.   I recently met a man and we fell deeply in love. He is everything, I ever dreamed of and more. My boyfriend has a lot of friends from highschool and they are big party animals. Included in this group is an ex girlfriend. My boyfriend says there has ...

A.   6 February 2015: I love how a random poster can tell you to get over it. I'm guessing it hits a little close to home for them? Lol... Anyways I happen to agree that she sounds extremely toxic. But men are weird, they literally ignore it or pretend to be oblivious to ... (read in full...)

How do I handle this toxic friend of his? She is also an ex of his!

Q.   I recently met a man and we fell deeply in love. He is everything, I ever dreamed of and more. My boyfriend has a lot of friends from highschool and they are big party animals. Included in this group is an ex girlfriend. My boyfriend says there has ...

A.   4 February 2015: I love how a random poster can tell you to get over it. I'm guessing it hits a little close to home for them? Lol... Anyways I happen to agree that she sounds extremely toxic. But men are weird, they literally ignore it or pretend to be oblivious to ... (read in full...)

All the signs are there to say he is cheating!

Q.   My boyfriend is the kinda guy that is usually so nice and understanding and not the typical asshole, even when we're super bad and he knows im upset he tries to make everything better. Takes his blame and even some of mine.. and just complete ...

A.   30 January 2015: I'm sorry but just reading this crushed me as if I were in your shoes. He really sounds like he's cheating, or if not that... He's flirting at the least looking for other girls to rub his ego. Focus on you for now. Id give him the cold shoulder and ... (read in full...)

Should I tell her I've never kissed a girl before?

Q.   I have a date with a girl this weekend but I'm nervous because I've never actually kissed a girl before. I'm not saying we're going to kiss on the first date but if it goes well, who knows. What I want to know is, if we do kiss, should I tell her ...

A.   21 October 2014: Personally, I wouldn't tell her straight out. Let her ask first, trust me most girls go on a question spree. I'm victim to that myself, haha! Side Note: Some advice on the kissing part itself... don't SUCK and gag her with tongue. Let your mou... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend gay? Would another guy not want me because of the acne between my legs?

Q.   Ok my boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years the past few months our sex life has been dead! Now we are busy I work all the time an we have kids but we have had times where we can have sex but we both don't act on it I keep telling him I am ...

A.   21 October 2014: No, he is not gay. Guys unfortunately say random things when playing video games. Trust me I know from experience. As for the acne, I've had off/on issues with that myself and it's not a problem. Someone who loves you won't be so silly as to let ... (read in full...)

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