I met an older guy, I told him I'd call him and I didn't now he is ignoring me, Should I call him?
Q. Ive been spending a lot of time with my parents. While on one of our outings, I met a guy. He is a little older than me. I am 23 and he is probably in his mid-late 30s. The first occasion, he asked me for my name. The second time, he actually...
A. 20 August 2012: Call him! Well I would there's never been harm in communication a quick call of hi how are you is easy. You never know til you call and find out also.... (read in full...)
Will the age difference come between us? I'm not feeling right about how this is going. Am I worrying too much?
Q. Hi readers. I met a guy a few weeks ago who works 3 weeks on 1 week off. We finished up going to bed the first night and I didn't expect to hear from him again. He has since contacted me and wants to catch up again. He asked me if I'd like to ge...
A. 20 August 2012: If you love him and he loves you age won't matter really opposites attract and that is mostly by the age.... (read in full...)
Why didn't he call me back? Should I call one more time?
Q. I started talking to this guy that my sister hooked me up with. We talked a few times a week on the phone for about a month. We would talk anywhere from one to 4 hours! We finally hung out and I thought it went well. We got along and hung out for ...
A. 19 August 2012: Call again it shows concern if anything not needyness or desperation you never know they may need that call to boost there day to hear your voice and see that you even cared enough to call or text they also might have wanted to contact you also but ... (read in full...)
Second time around and I feel suffocated in this relationship. What can or should I do? Or are there too many problems?
Q. I'm in a relationship with someone, this is the second time around we are together. First time he couldn't decide what he wanted and I moved on. I need advice please, he is 10 years older than I am. I'm just irritated with some things he does. F...
A. 19 August 2012: Oh my wow maybe you are having issues and perhaps you and him can't be together cause you can't talk when people or parents do this one sided talking Im just leaving then whats funny is I hear I have attitude and I need to learn how to talk to ... (read in full...)
How do I answer this question? He's asked me to be his FWB.
Q. I've known this guy for 2 years, we're not best friends but we're good friends. I'll stop by and see him at work, or he'll do the same for me. But last night our mutual friend stranded us both, and we got to talk. In the meantime he said that he...
A. 19 August 2012: Okay you answered the question yourself when you said you didn't see a problem just keep it on the downlow and if he is accepting the its going to happen so let him get a test drive Its also seems you want to test ride him to have fun good luck... (read in full...)
Has anyone else ever felt this cramp in their toes at the point of orgasm? What is it? How is it fixed?
Q. This is going to sound silly, but every time I get close to orgasm, I get the worst cramp ever in my toes, which kinda spoils the moment! It's never been a problem until now....and all this week, my almost orgasms (both solo and with my BF) have ...
A. 19 August 2012: Lol in Chinese foot pressure points its reasons for this it could be nerves also I havr felt thisa few times in different positions which toe is it exactly all or one mines was the long on next to big toe the piggy that stay home it dont hurt ... (read in full...)
Can I trust my lover not to tell my Bf? Or will my Bf find out the man I slept with recently is a player?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend since I was 14 (I am now 30) I have only slept with him and I have never cheated or thought about cheating before. I work with a lot of men and we get on while but lately I found my self flirting and then came the text...
A. 19 August 2012: Uuum a secret can stay secret even if your involved wit a guy that gets alot of attention from people who want to play outside or there relationship or what have you maybe he is not a bragging player just able to get what he deserves and desires ... (read in full...)
I made a mistake and my friends are punishing me for it. And excluding me, Can things get better and how?
Q. How can one mistake I made last a life time. It wasn't even a big one, it was a small insignificant act. When my "friends" organised an outing, I ended going out with one of my others friends in the group, just me and her. The group got drunk, m...
A. 19 August 2012: They may not like you, it's possible. Not many like me either. I guess I don't care they didn't like me in the past so It's possible there bullying your a victims I was suppose to be weak victims oohh my mouth let's me know there just as weak to c... (read in full...)
I made a mistake and my friends are punishing me for it. And excluding me, Can things get better and how?
Q. How can one mistake I made last a life time. It wasn't even a big one, it was a small insignificant act. When my "friends" organised an outing, I ended going out with one of my others friends in the group, just me and her. The group got drunk, m...
A. 19 August 2012: They may not like you it's possible not many like me either I guess I don't care they didn't like me in the past so Its possible there bullying your a victims I was suppose to be weak victims oohh my mouth let's me know there just as weak to cause ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if this is a real date - Is he interested in dating me? Or just a friendship?
Q. Hello Everyone, I have a little dilemma here, and hope you can help me figure it out. I was at a street party with a friend in August 2011 and we bumped into a guy she knew, they got talking and she introduced us. The guy and I got along quit...
A. 19 August 2012: Highly likely he wants you but has someone he don't want and he is getting to know you as in both friend and romance is a plan anyway of course so it is a date even if it's a beer date... (read in full...)
Does my cousin like me? He stares and says sorry a lot. What else could it be?
Q. hey guys ! sooo i have this problem that i keep thinking about it everyday ! sooo i have had a crush on a my cousin since i was 12 years old and he travel a lot so when he leaves i forget about him. Yet when he come back i start liking him. For...
A. 19 August 2012: It's possible cousins could be attracted and date he probably does likes his cousin if he stare in a more personal way like yes he wants some of that ... (read in full...)
What can I do to save our relationship?
Q. Okay so there is this guy that I like but he lives in a different town. Whenever I text him he's always buisy working or hanging out with his friends. I've known him for almost 2 years now but I feel like we're drifting apart. What can I do to save ...
A. 19 August 2012: Call him and text him cause he might think you not ready or just friendly flirting nothing serious are you serious or undecided ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend falling out of love with me?
Q. Ok me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months now and every seems good but his behavior is starting to change. Its bad enough that his parents don't like me lord know why because I am a respectful, ambitious young woman(own job,car and ...
A. 19 August 2012: They maybe don't want him happy or out of their control. They see most in likely he would be happy and might be trying to prevent it and hook him up with someone else? Or he could be in his own world ?... (read in full...)
He lives half the time with me, the other half somewhere else. Should I trust him?
Q. would u trust him?? ive been with this guy since decemeber last year, we met 2 yrs ago on the dating website plenty of fish, Anyway, he moved in with me in start of may and has been bk and forth to another place ever since spending most o...
A. 19 August 2012: I would until I see something that leads me to believe or feel otherwise. So if your worried about cheating just say it. He might feel that way with you too. It may lead to seperate ideas and relationships that lead to breakup If you cant trust ... (read in full...)
My ex no longer loves me after saying it for months and I can't move on
Q. I wrote on here a few months ago about my boyfriend and I who split up, and he was still telling me he loved me but not acting like it. Well its now been 8 months and the situation carried on. He was telling me he was in love with me and want...
A. 19 August 2012: Umm find a new man I think believe a fellow gentleman did this to me it lasted briefly I had no proof, really didnt give a hoot. Because I'm close to him and he likes me, but the passionate lovemaking was ok. We are still cool. He is a woman lover... (read in full...)
Ladies: Is long hair on a man attractive?
Q. is long hair on a man unattractive? i have hair past my shoulders it is always clean and tidy tho. thanks...
A. 19 August 2012: yes braids cornrows so forth plus if its nicely done to not too too much hair curly hair nice to some women jealous of mens or women's long hair too... (read in full...)
How do I get this trainer out of my head? I thought he liked me but apparently he doesnt
Q. What should I do? :( omg I've never felt so stupid in my life:(? So there's this personal trainer at my gym who has been dating at me and watching me through the doors throughout my work out. My friend introduced me to him and said ...
A. 19 August 2012: If and only if a group of women are flirting for this onr guy he will be more attentive of who is most interested in him he may probably fines you attractive but so are the others plus there more open willing and ready or bold not nessasaryly for ... (read in full...)
How do I date when I go out expecting the worst? Girls have hurt me in the past and laughed behind my back about my penis size.
Q. I am 23 years old so I know it wont grow anymore. I am so embarrassed to have sex or even to show myself to a girl when the time comes. I have 4 inch long and 4.5 inch girth penis when erect. I am afraid girls might laugh at me during or afterwards. ...
A. 18 August 2012: I don't care if they laugh I be coming up short too but I puts it down for real ... (read in full...)
Should I text or call her today/
Q. For a while now, I've been going to a local coffee shop where this really cute girl works. I finally built up the balls to ask her for her number, and we exchanged numbers. We were texting for a while yesterday, and next Wednesday (5 says from now) ...
A. 17 August 2012: Call or text they are both communication types lol you should if you interested before others start texting and flirting and dating ... (read in full...)
Do I walk away? Why no 'I love you?' Why is he reluctant to share a life with me?
Q. For almost three years, I have been dating this man. Sometimes, I think there are no moments more perfect than the ones I've had with me. He cares for me deeply but on the flip side, he's reluctant to share a life with me or admit that he does love ...
A. 17 August 2012: I don't know about him but alot of people are not trying to commit especially if they did before and it didn't seem to work out well why commit when you can be single and carefree and don't have to stop this do that type mess all this control ... (read in full...)
My Wedding soon, and I'm on track to lose some weight. Can you help motivate me more, with some happy weight loss stories?
Q. Hi! I will be married in 8 weeks and want to lose some weight (5-6 kilos) I've already talked to a doctor and a nutritionist: they say I can do it and gave me a diet which I'm following. But, man, it's so hard! Can you please tell me some happy we...
A. 17 August 2012: Good luck stay focused for you and your health is most important in the long run even if you eat what's not on diet we all slip get back to the focus and don't worry ... (read in full...)
He has gone all weird. Is he distancing himself from me? Do I keep dating him or ditch him?
Q. Everything was great with this guy I was dating... Until it wasn't. I'm going to skip all the "it was so awesome" examples here- it was. For two months everything was going extremely well when I started dating and getting to know this guy that I'd...
A. 17 August 2012: Im not understanding how people can have any relations without talking texting and physical Im not doing that I tried it's like you not together really but your there waiting don't do it I moved on cause why wait they enjoying there life with or ... (read in full...)
We've been together 2 and 1/2 years. Yet still he kept explicit pictures of his ex's bodies. Am I justified to feel insanely jealous over this?.
Q. A few months ago I found some explicit photos and videos of my fiance and a couple of his exes. I wasn't happy with him having them and told him so, eventually he threw them out. Then I found he had some on his laptop, he said he had forgotte...
A. 17 August 2012: perhaps he is making you jealous on purpose so you will pay him attention and see who really cares or acts like they care people seem to not appreciate what they have or had until they see someone else may want or like them then it becomes a ... (read in full...)
Is it true,if two people are meant to be together, that they'll find their way? we broke up, but I still love her.
Q. I used to date this girl, me and her was together for a long time. It was a long distance relationship but we made it work all the way until we drifted and broke up. We was off and on with talking. I told her i'll wait for her, and we told each...
A. 17 August 2012: Yes possible No if not interested Maybe if you really want it and they do to.... (read in full...)
Trust? Betrayal? My Girlfriend cheated and got pregnant so now what?
Q. my GF cheated and got pregnant and the father of the baby died. now shes begging me not to break up with her.and wants me to help her with the baby... i feel like im just being used should i kick her to the curb help her out or what... and im...
A. 17 August 2012: You already know the answer to this question I would suggest you go with your first choice which is self cause self preservation is important firstly but if you are dating then date if not don't be bothered cause it will cause more drama in the long ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend had an affair with a married man, before I met her, and I'm jealous.
Q. My girlfriend of 1 yr now who is 11yrs my junior had an affair with a married man when she was still married few yrs back. Her then husband was a womanizer and thats when she git involved with this sweet talking guy who happens to be her ex ...
A. 17 August 2012: I must use this classic line dont judge me. but really past is sometimes repeated what would you aspect if he knew of your past and judge you... (read in full...)
Do you see any possibility for us to have a future together?
Q. I met this guy through a friend in my group since 4 months ago while I was still with my last long distance relationship boyfriend who broke up with me 2 months ago. And right after the break up, this guy started to initial contact with me and get ...
A. 17 August 2012: Yes it's a possibility what is the fear about commitment it might not be any fear really so talk date be happy have dessert instead of disaster cause people need to be on same page with dating relationships sex partners or what have you will happen ... (read in full...)
Is Gender Ambiguity considered a major block in the road towards marriage?
Q. Is Gender Ambiguity considered a major block in the road towards marriage? Is it something society is able to accept now? I have found a wonderful person to marry but I do not want to bring her a lifetime of meanness and hatred that some people...
A. 17 August 2012: Umm alot going on so just do it like nike check if it was a guy it wouldn't be a issue but wow and good luck with sex change gender change and so forth it's 2012 people do what they like and want you only live once lol change of identity ... (read in full...)
Emotional baggage and how to avoid dumping it?
Q. So, I am not even sure where I am going to go with this but I'd just like opinions. I recently started a relationship after years of being single/recovering from abusive exes. And my boyfriend is absolutely amazing, well-mannered, g...
A. 16 August 2012: We all have issues drama lol my new name out there is cry baby I didn't cry alot when younger but my mom did now I see why it releases no When I cry it's cause of some bullshyt I don't have time for I am highly angered and tired of being fucked over ... (read in full...)
I'm too shy to make a move so now what?
Q. What should I do about this guy? I really like him:(? So there is this guy who works as a personal trainer at my gym and I really like him. He's cute and quiet and I'm really attracted to him I think about him and I dreamt about him onc...
A. 16 August 2012: I was shy you will miss the boat being shy he also could be shy or cautious cause if he staring and watching he likes what he is seeing when a guy and his friend compare a lady one of them likes there most likely discussing if he would try to get ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy? Or is this evidence strong enough that my girlfriend is indeed developing feelings for JOE?
Q. An overwhelming instinct that my girlfriend of over two years is developing feelings for a coworker has led me to snoop, and the snooping has led me to believe my suspicions are true. Help. What do I do? She's been at this new office for thre...
A. 13 August 2012: lying libras huuummm virgos are virgins like mary They seem cool but libra no your girl might like Joe but it could be innocent flirting cause you may not give her love and attention that she needs most women cheat or move on because of love sex ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy? Or is this evidence strong enough that my girlfriend is indeed developing feelings for JOE?
Q. An overwhelming instinct that my girlfriend of over two years is developing feelings for a coworker has led me to snoop, and the snooping has led me to believe my suspicions are true. Help. What do I do? She's been at this new office for thre...
A. 13 August 2012: Time will tell in the long run when or if they are involved.... (read in full...)
Is it love or lust for this coworker?
Q. I think I am in love, but I am unsure and would like some advice. A guy at work, who I only talk to on the phone because he is outstationed, asked me over the phone if I was going to be in the office the following day. I replied that I would be ...
A. 12 August 2012: Well if they are married and or involved that's probably why they have ring on so that slims down your chances. In my case I am now scoping out a married person I ask them if they was married yes but I still am persuaded that in the future there's a ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I used to self harm?
Q. I'm a former self-harmer and I would really appreciate some advice about how to tell my new boyfriend about my scars. My boyfriend K and I have only been together for a few days, so it's more a question for what to do in the future if (hopefully) we ...
A. 12 August 2012: It depends on how you feel when discussing this topic during the heat of the moment is go be emotional but if advised before it won't be shocking and emotional so before is best for the forwarning so in passionate moments will be passionate without ... (read in full...)
Should I text my guy friend?
Q. He's a friend I made at college and he's awesome. I liked him, he wasn't interested that way, it was a little awkward but we're cool now. I do not want him to know that I'm still into him. We've talked just a few times over the summer (he mostly ...
A. 12 August 2012: Don't worry be happy better yet be care free like me texting is a good way to communicate chat do little check ins or check ups with family and friends so it shouldn't be a problem texting ... (read in full...)
Should I text my guy friend?
Q. He's a friend I made at college and he's awesome. I liked him, he wasn't interested that way, it was a little awkward but we're cool now. I do not want him to know that I'm still into him. We've talked just a few times over the summer (he mostly ...
A. 11 August 2012: Don't worry be happy better yet be care free like me texting is a good way to communicate chat do little check ins or check ups with family and friends so it shouldn't be a problem texting ... (read in full...)
Do I deserve someone better? Or does he?
Q. Hi ,I was with my boyfriend for 2 years when he cheated on me I was that angry that I left flat 2 days after as I find out I am so jealous of him having another and I love him. I was jealous that he liked another girl as they been working together. ...
A. 11 August 2012: well both of you cause youve been cheated and there's no trust ... (read in full...)
I want to move our LDR toward marriage ...
Q. Hi aunty, im in a long distance relationship now. for a year. and we knew for two years he loves me and i love him too, its just the situtaion so difficult hes so frustrated about our distance that were far away from each other, the situation is im ...
A. 11 August 2012: Mention marriage cause that's what you want and like and he will ask you then you will be together happily ever after he most in likely is thinking that same thing but if he weak is that quality what you want in marriage he may not think your ready ... (read in full...)
I would love to be confident like my friends! How can I come out of my shell?
Q. I've always been the quiet one in my group of friends and the one with no confidence but i really want to be like my other friends, they're so confident and know how to start conversations. How do i come out of my shell and be less quiet and hidden?...
A. 10 August 2012: I tend to be both depending on situations you have to be bold that's what I tend to do when I was younger I was shy,insecure and unsure but be yourself there's always a quiet one in a group I perfer those types myself soft spoken is cool people like ... (read in full...)
She's my Dream Girl. But I'm consumed with jealousy over her past. Can someone help me resolve this huge problem?
Q. how do I stop thinking about my Girlfriends past and make sure its not the end of our future? I looked at many sites about guys on this subject but Wow all these dudes think they got it bad with like girlfriends having 3-4 partners more then th...
A. 10 August 2012: find a virgin ... (read in full...)
Can any bisexual women give me advice on how to make the physical side of this relationship work?
Q. Hello, I am 5 months into my first relationship, I am 21, and this relationship is with a girl. I always presumed myself to be straight, but then I never really had reason to question or doubt myself- the only time I did was when friends would tr...
A. 8 August 2012: In dealing and pleasuring women it can be like looking for artifacts in Egypt you will be in the heat of the moment you will sweat because of heat then you must take gentle care of the items they are delicate and valuable and rare there's this ... (read in full...)
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