Ladies: Do you wear stockings underneath your clothing?
Q. Just a quick question to all those ladies out there. Does anyone actually ever wear stockings underneath their clothes (like on t.v and in movies) or do people just wear leggings? The reason I ask is because if true then... ;-). But anyone I've ever ...
A. 30 September 2012: I wear net stockings or decorative stockings with dress pants slacks because with my shoes it looks nice to see the pattern of the net or designer stockings I do so if it cold too. I also do tights all year round with ling shirts skirts and under ... (read in full...)
Is my husband and the father of my child Gay?
Q. Please help me :'( I've been with my husband since we were 14, we're now 18. When I was 15, I fell pregnant with our daughter, who turns 3 this December. We got married nearly a year ago. I love my husband so very much, but I'm absolutely he...
A. 28 September 2012: He is openly bi sexual you all ready answered this question bi people do gay and lesbian things. Bi people tend to be neutral when asked if there gay or lesbian. Ask him is he go sneak behind your back with male lovers or be upfront of faithful just ... (read in full...)
Am I being set up?
Q. Just need to know that i'm not being set up by an amature. He lives at home and is 5yrs older than i am and to adding to the scenario he has never been w/anyone. first time out I had called him. things moved too fast and already L word was in the ...
A. 26 September 2012: If you feel like its a set up then most likely it is. Set up to be shacking up playing house then marriage happily ever after.... (read in full...)
Is he like this around me because he might feel something for me, or because he's not interested in the least?
Q. I used to have a crush on one of my brothers friends, J. At one point he showed signs of liking me (I caught him looking at me all the time, he'd be talking to a group of people but looking at me, jump on me to wake me up, ask my parents about me, ...
A. 23 September 2012: It's possible he likes you finds you good looking and he flirts with you to see if you are interested. I find about 5 ladies good looking attractive. I want to sleep with them and be friends. Two I want to be in relationship but they don't appea... (read in full...)
I think I've fallen in love with my teacher!
Q. I've had feelings for my teacher for over three years and they've only gotten stronger. I think I'm in love with him and I know I can't do anything about it (I'm clever enough to figure that out). But it's become harder and harder to keep it in, ...
A. 23 September 2012: Its a attraction we get no matter the age. I had a serious crush on too infactuation love is what I called it on this lady once
and I was way past teenager year I still think of her and like her too. Also it's a situation similar To yours this pers... (read in full...)
Masturbation: How do I get past the point I get stuck at?
Q. Recently I have started masturbating, but I've never been able to cum (even though sex). I always get to just before my climax but then get to scared to release, as it feels like I'm going to wet myself, which makes me feel awkward then the climax ...
A. 10 September 2012: I would put something bed cover water proof kinds and continue to masterbate until release. This way I would know how it feels and what's go happen when release occurs. Some men and women have some fluid like urine if not urine similar that happens ... (read in full...)
After years of dating I suddenly find myself questioning his appearance!
Q. Hi all. I've been dating my boyfriend for years and it never bothers me about his height and the looks. Yesterday we both we were watching the mirror so he said' now I see that you are taller than me' we are both 6.2 an I'm maybe 3 inch taller. ...
A. 9 September 2012: Lmao Well if it didn't bother you then why does it now. If you want a beautiful man there out there if you want talk there available. Many fish in the sea. If he isn't pleasant on the eyes find what you want. Find what you like. Maybe you been ... (read in full...)
I'm a plus size woman who has lost weight recently. Why has my Bf made no comments on my weight loss?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a plus sized woman with an average sized boyfriend. He makes me feel so confident with myself and always shows so much respect for me. I have been starting to lose a sigificant amount of weight, and he hasn't mentioned an...
A. 8 September 2012: Possibly could be cause plus is positive and he likes you no matter if you gain or lose weight. Everybody in the universe knows women are sensitive about weight and looks hair makeup fashion. So yes he doesn't want to offend you. Apparently he ... (read in full...)
Ladies only: would you decline to have sex with a man with erectile dysfunction resulting from surgery?
Q. This one is for the Ladies here ONLY!I am asking this for a friend of mines. Thanks Ladies,Say if you was to go out with a guy you met and things became hot and heavy between the 2 of you,then the 2 of you end up at a place that you have picked ...
A. 8 September 2012: I would try if you like each other it can work. I would somehow find a way to let this be known before the heat of the moment. I wouldn't dump someone like this just cause of that it would have to be some other factors also. Plus your hands still ... (read in full...)
I'm scared about my feelings for another woman and what that makes me
Q. I don't know how to feel about a girl. I have never had a relationship before, I am a 22 year old female. I have never had a crush on anyone before until i had one on a female close friend. I told myself it was fleeting, and when she was with her ...
A. 7 September 2012: It's especially odd if you've ever been married with children and come to terms. That your either bisexual or lesbian or curious for the time being. Kiss Her don't worry about what family and friends will say. They will get over it. Why does you ... (read in full...)
Is stealing a shirt really such a horrible thing? Will this affect my job application?
Q. Hello again, I posted a question a few days ago about a test I had to take for a job. Well I passed the test, yay! But now I am into the background check and then onto a lie detector/polygraph test. I have a couple questions about this. One, has a...
A. 7 September 2012: lol I told truth and didn't get the police job. Lie is your best bet. My mom told me too how the game goes. Really don't confess... (read in full...)
How to ask for sex lessions?
Q. I date an older, more experienced guy, whom I recently lost my virginity to. I'm not sure if this happens to everyone, but having sex made me realize it's pretty awesome and made me well.. want way more. Nevertheless, I'm really shy and have qui...
A. 2 September 2012: Oh wow this the kind of ladies we need on the team. I would just whisper it in there ears. Bring new items that you want to try. Mention you like role playing and having fun in bed. And you are willing to learn new things if they want to get into ... (read in full...)
I don't feel the same about him but am afraid of starting the break up.
Q. Hello Cupid. Long time no see and since last time I asked help from people I didn't actually know, I've had a really good nearly 3 years with my boyfriend who is half a year younger than me. We both were eachothers firsts and we've been throu...
A. 2 September 2012: Breaking up is never easy. You just tell him I don't see you in my future your a boy not a man. I also am interested in someone else. He may wanted to break up too but was waiting on you to initiate. You are probably not compatible cause he make ... (read in full...)
He offered me sex instead of a relationship!
Q. Should I be insulted that a guy Ive liked for a while has asked me to be his FWB or 'fuck buddy'? He says he doesnt want a relationship but wants to be more than friends. Im shocked and dont know what to say! Im 29 and hes 28, Im looking for a ...
A. 2 September 2012: I would be shocked but not to offended sometimes like mention people have issues mental financial and still want sex or love making and compassion without it being labeled a relationship. Dont be offended to because he most in likely dont want to ... (read in full...)
This older married woman is giving me mixed signals. Do I persist or finish the relationship?
Q. hi, well i made friends with this woman who is older then me. we got really close. She is married but they dont get on at all i never get a straight answer from her. One day she is ok, saying 'I love you' then next she just doesn't seem to ...
A. 1 September 2012: If I was you I would find someone else because she has decided. She is married and creeping with you. Don't be in the middle, let them work it out. You could be being used for sex or whatever but if all parties dont know about each other that c... (read in full...)
I have really bad acne scars and I'm losing all self confidence over them.
Q. I have really bad skin and it's really getting me down. I have acne scars and a few spots, but more scars and it has started to really get to me. I also have dry skin so wearing make-up to cover it doesn't help, it just makes my skin look really...
A. 1 September 2012: I know this sounds harsh but if your are african American I would use saint eves apricot scrub daily after that I would scrub out skin with dry clean wash cloth and moisterize with oil of olay daily moisterizer. also it could be because of what you... (read in full...)
How do I chose between my mother and my girlfriend?
Q. Dear Readers, I have been thru a lot throughout my lifetime. I seriously, can't take it anymore. I don't know about you but, having to choose between 2 people you love and can't imagine life without 'em is heartbreaking . . . Its be...
A. 1 September 2012: So the fact that your either straight, but being bisexual for the time being, makes choice easy especially if this is experimental. You know just something to do since you have made it very clear you don't like women. Also if the family knows th... (read in full...)
My long distance boyfriend wants to go to prom with me but I'm afraid he won't like me because I am fat.
Q. i have a long distance relationship and he wants me to go with him to his senior prom, i told him i will. HE wants to see me sooner than that and so do i but the problem is im afraid to. I know im fat, but im not really huge like i should be, i ...
A. 1 September 2012: That old saying is classic It's really not important how they look but what matters is how they treat you. Does looks matter it does in society does it with you. Don't stress don't worry. Alot of times I feel like this about my skin color or my bony ... (read in full...)
How can I work on this tendency to keep friends from getting close with someone else?
Q. Hey everyone, I don't know how to put this without making me sound like some crazy freak,I promise I'm not that bad..but I have some major problem.. Well here's the thing I have this problem when someone I love gets close to someone else..su...
A. 1 September 2012: It sounds like you don't want him. And if you can't have him no one else will either. Its the thought of taking him away or being in competition for him. It's a challenge for you a game and they lose you win cause you sabotage relationships and ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend and I want to try different positions, any suggestions?
Q. I’m tall and my boyfriend is short. Both my boyfriend and I enjoy having sex and are willing to try different positions, other than me on top and missionary! got any suggestions?? ...
A. 1 September 2012: We'll I would try new positions but does height make a difference really when love making. I have dealt with two people taller and it didn't matter in bed unless they wanted something bigger. lol It's very commom for women to be taller than men lol ... (read in full...)
Should I accept that I may not be able to lose my extra pregnancy weight?
Q. I'm 27 years old, and I just had my first child, well, not just almost a year ago. I m not nursing anymore and droped about 15 lb since I had my daughter. I m 5.4 and I weigh about 135-137 lb. Everyone around me tells me how beatifull I look and...
A. 31 August 2012: It took me some serious working out and starving lol calorie counting to get my abs back. ..from like when I was in high school before kids and now I don't have them but if you must know you most in likely will always gain some weight Don't stress ... (read in full...)
Why is my husband coming home late every night?
Q. Dear cupid, what do I do? My husband of eyrs with a year old daughter suddenly started keeping late nights. We barely lived in our home in those years coz we always travelled. But this time, we have stayed here for 5mths now. Though he had travelled ...
A. 31 August 2012: It's possible he just hanging with friend could be sleeping with friend. The friend could be decoy and he is out getting bj's and screwing. He might thinks your body vagina should rest or heal cause you recently had baby. So that's why he could be ... (read in full...)
How do I chose between my mother and my girlfriend?
Q. Dear Readers, I have been thru a lot throughout my lifetime. I seriously, can't take it anymore. I don't know about you but, having to choose between 2 people you love and can't imagine life without 'em is heartbreaking . . . Its be...
A. 31 August 2012: Hopefully you will choose girlfriend cause your not sleeping with you mom. She will get it soon although she may hate it you like women. What if you and your girl be the example of a lesbian couple working not matter what anybody saids or thinks . ... (read in full...)
Porn and insecurities
Q. I need help. I know that there are a TON of porn and strip club questions out there, I know. But I really need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year, and it has been great. We get along so well, we have a lot in common, e...
A. 31 August 2012: Don't stress or worry you are what I want and who I love that's what I would tell my significant other. I would mention when Im with you one on one I just have you on my brain and porn is the last thing on the brain. Also basically porn is for self ... (read in full...)
Can a cheating guy mend his ways and change?
Q. Hi. I'm really confused and need help. I'm in a long distance relationship for 3 years. It was really tough to work it out and I was sick of his philandeerin ways and mistreatment. He used to treat me REALLY GOOD when together but back to his ways ...
A. 29 August 2012: It's possible. I was a cheated, many factors cause this lonely,at times. With a person on paper marriage and or serious relationship and you not compatible and you not feeling them. So you go out to find someone to be with. I was alot fearful... (read in full...)
I think I've made a pretty considerable error in judgement within the last few months in regards to my living situation, and I'm looking for some advice on how to deal with it all.
Q. I think I've made a pretty considerable error in judgement within the last few months in regards to my living situation, and I'm looking for some advice on how to deal with it all. I recently finished my undergrad studies and walked quite hap...
A. 28 August 2012: I know I did a move in the past and was like what is this where they do this. I'm not nasty nor raised that way my mom dad made mess and I clean a lot but when I moved I was in heaven like yes this is living. But based of where you live can aff... (read in full...)
It sucks having to choose between 2 people you LOVE the most ... HELP !
Q. Dear Readers, I, seriously don't know what else to do anymore. I have been thru a lot with my girlfriend. We have been thru so much probably more than an actual married couple. Its basically because of the fact that we're lesbians. ...
A. 28 August 2012: Well mothers want to see daughters with rich or good providing husbands. Which they probably didn't have either so they want best for you. Also most times mom don't like men or women there sons or daughters date. It's just laws of nature they think ... (read in full...)
My ex told his sister that he would date me. How do I get it across that there's no chance for us again?
Q. So here it goes.. My ex and I have not spoken much at all since I broke up with him last December. We had a roller coaster relationship, on again off again for almost 2 years. He was my first boyfriend. I did everything for him, I was the only ...
A. 28 August 2012: It's just things that happen rude even if its not meant to be. Don't say anything just ignore him her them. It's over so it really doesnt matter the rudeness factor.... (read in full...)
Will he grow to love our child?
Q. Dear Cupid I am separated from my husband for a year. Had an affair meanwhile and now I'm pregnant. My bf doesnt want anything to do with me or my pregnancy now. Will he ever love my child if I go on with my pregnancy, I don't want my child to be de...
A. 26 August 2012: In a world of possibilities anything is possible. Talk to all parties every person involved to find out the best answer cause you would want to know from the horses mouth how he feels about loving the child. Also if you said he don't want to be ... (read in full...)
How do I learn to love myself with a body that still hasn't recovered from having a baby?
Q. Don't know how to love myself anymore. I have a 3 year old daughter and have been really struggling with the weight ever since I had her. My stomach is COVERED with stretch marks still. And I feel as if my body is ruined. I hate this feeling of ...
A. 26 August 2012: I am a mother of two I don't care for my stretch marks either but it is what it is. I worked hard to get abs a few times but it does take time also strict calorie count I got very sick once also and had to starve myself for a while: no meat, bread, ... (read in full...)
Cheating b/f gave me genital herpes, is there anything natural I can take?
Q. Hi I really need some advice as I am in bits and don't know what to do I recently caught my boyfriend of nearly 2 years cheating on me so I went to a gum clinic to get myself tested for any stis and I found out I have genital herpes I feel so ...
A. 26 August 2012: was this recent if she knows she has it she most in likely went to Doctor to find out, right?... (read in full...)
Do women enjoy small penis, or miss the big ones?
Q. My wife and I had a two month break a few years ago before we got married. During this time she hooked up with another dude. I always assumed he may have been bigger than me or better in bed. Well I overheard my wife tell someone " I've only had ...
A. 25 August 2012: Most like small it fits better. Large is to much pain especially if he wants to be rough and deep they say the deeper the seed goes it makes boys explains why I have girls. Lol you are over reacting Im sure. If she didn't say its to small don't ... (read in full...)
How can an ex lover and ex Boyfriend successfully become a friend? Or am I wasting my time caring about him?
Q. I have a Ex-boyfriend who I still have feelings for AND miss. When I first started him he was very generous AND kind as he still is. I was scared to get too close to him because we were very different with out race, religion, AND race. From p...
A. 25 August 2012: Seriously we like tapping it when it's given but he make only want sex friend also friends with benefits. This includes him sleeping with you having emotions played over! yes honey let it go if you don't want to get hurt. If you can handle only sex ... (read in full...)
My husband has been sneaky lately and I found a flavored condom in his pocket that he blamed on our son!
Q. Lately, my husband of 9 yrs. has been a little sneaky. he talks to all kinds of women, first of all he's a photographer OK. Now it's one particular friend that he tells her he loves her. Just recently, while I was doing laundry,a flavored condom ...
A. 23 August 2012: Perhaps he is getting some fellatio and wants the other person to enjoy the taste and spice things up while he is cheating doing extracurriculum activities perhaps that he don't want you to do or you choose not to do. Really why would he blame the ... (read in full...)
My father saps my confidence but my real problem is how do I forgive my mother for not protecting me enough, when I was a child?
Q. Hi, small background of the situation being: When i was 12-14 i got regularly mentally, physically, emotionally and verbally abused by my father for years. My mother had just has my younger brother and states she did not know , but the reality ...
A. 23 August 2012: I just don't get it Im in a very similar situation also. My own family members dog me out but I fight them back. They lie manipulate all type of scenerios in my life job personal business it's Control. I'm not a child but at times feel like it. They ... (read in full...)
Does this mean he likes me now if he will wait for sex?
Q. This guy and I have known each other for awhile and our relationship/friendship is always bumpy. For the longest time he would Chase me and not give up and he is a very horny guy. He would always tell me how hot I was etc. I refused to have sex for ...
A. 23 August 2012: In this scenario he likes you even if he still tried. He likes you cause he wasn't just self concerned with himself. We all want to be wanted mutually so that it don't feel like you forcing yourself on someone. It's a time and place for everything.... (read in full...)
What should I say to him? Let alone do about him? Should I ask him out? Or let him do that?
Q. ok i,ve known this boy (X) since last august we met in school and we've been slight friends ever since. well in april i went to this concert with my mom and my 2 friends well when we were there my mom said my name and i was ma'am and she was like...
A. 23 August 2012: It appears if you don't ask out you may miss out. I personally don't make any first moves. Once I have the person was involved but that was too bold on my part. If he has shown interest then you should be bold and find out the next move. They can ... (read in full...)
What to do down there?
Q. pubic hair , what do i do with it ? i have a long term boyfriend he says he doesnt mind about my pubes but i still shave for him and me as well a litte i guess, but the thing is its starting to hurt me with spots and i heardyou can pass them on ...
A. 22 August 2012: Keep the hair! Its up for debate about transmission of ingrown hairs or any thing else.Especially in the area where you life force fluids and liquids are located. Really sacRed area but it depends on the skin of the people. Also if it is or becomes ... (read in full...)
I need someone to help push me and motivate me!
Q. This is a weird request but here it goes. Im soo fed up of feeling and looking like crap. I have a bad case of PCOS and with that I have the side effects of being over-weight, have more hair than any woman would like and spots. Those are my ma...
A. 22 August 2012: Why do you eat for comfort is there something bothering you or is it anger what makes that happen [email address removed due to site guidelines, the poster can choose to send a PM to this aunt to initiate contact in that way --mod.] so I can emai... (read in full...)
I am a cheater but is that really so bad?
Q. I am cheating on my GF. should i stop. i cant help it i like the excitement of chasing new women and when i see a beautiful woman im curious how it feels to be with her. but i like having something guaranteed at home. but people make it seem like a ...
A. 22 August 2012: Its using people when I was a big time cheater it boils down to self happiness I was lying and deceiving but I was hurting them even thought they thought they could work with it and one party involved messed around as well and she still got hurt by ... (read in full...)
I met an older guy, I told him I'd call him and I didn't now he is ignoring me, Should I call him?
Q. Ive been spending a lot of time with my parents. While on one of our outings, I met a guy. He is a little older than me. I am 23 and he is probably in his mid-late 30s. The first occasion, he asked me for my name. The second time, he actually...
A. 20 August 2012: Call him! Well I would there's never been harm in communication a quick call of hi how are you is easy. You never know til you call and find out also.... (read in full...)
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