Used to like this guy, and now we are great friends, does girl/boy friendship exist? Advice
Q. Hi, There is this guy i used to like 3 year ago. We got together, as in kissed, and later on we realised there is no point and honestly i do not think he liked me enough. So, we didnt speak for few months i would say and then we started hanging out ...
A. 7 September 2013: Anything is possible in a world of possibilities... (read in full...)
I think I'm dating an alcoholic. What can I do to help him?
Q. I believe I'm dating an alcoholic. Is there any hope? He's so great when he's sober. We both like to dance and have a few drinks, so for the last 6 months I've been in a bit of denial I guess. Where as I can stop at 3 drinks all night at a night...
A. 30 August 2013: Im not a alcoholic but I was raised by on my mom then I married on no lie true story. So tell Aaron to get aa help a meeting is good for support. I was at war with two mean violent drunken individuals if thats the case for you leave.... (read in full...)
Nothing has been said since I reminded her of her sexual past, should I bring it back up?
Q. I am upset over something but don’t have the right to be. I posted last hear on Dear cupid and got some good feed back. Let me explain and get your reaction. I have suffered from retroactive jealousy for a number of years. I realize the p...
A. 25 August 2013: Why dont you just find a less fast loose women. That would solve this problem of the people she had unprotected sex could be less than 6 perphaps more where you there if not you cant be exact. Also for your son you can warn and talk til hour lips ... (read in full...)
What is this crazy attraction?
Q. I've got a question that's been bugging me for a while and wondering if any of you have had the same thoughts or experience or on the same wavelength. I have fancied this guy ever since I 1st saw him one year ago. But I say 'fancy him' I feel so d...
A. 25 August 2013: I know I like a person too and I find myself wanting tp call and text them. Which I cant I see them and I get very aroused instantly I smell them when Im close. I on purpose touch them in interacting. And I fantasize about them if we went on dates ... (read in full...)
We discussed a FWB relationship but now he's running hot and cold!
Q. I have a coworker who's been hot and cold with me for about a year now. The past month, he's come on strong, being very physical and sexual. I would like to have a friends with benefits situation with him. I'm single, and not interested in a ...
A. 24 August 2013: It must be some cross communication. The arrangement may not have been clear of your wants and desires causd Im sure he would give it to you. It must be something in the way a doubt beyond working together. If its what you want create it obtain your ... (read in full...)
Single parent and scared. Based on his track record and his baggage: Should I be scared?
Q. Hi everyone I need a bit of clarity about my relationship with my ex and I also want to know if you guys think I have done the right thing, because at the moment I an questioning it..please bear with me as this is quite long! Two years ago I met m...
A. 22 August 2013: I would first advise that if he wants a mom then thats weird in itself. Next advise let him get his golden eggs in order. I dont want a mom type dad type prince type princess either a king or queen just me and my money health without the forces of ... (read in full...)
Married and having feelings for someone else
Q. I am a senior executive in a company but I have a problem: I feel that I am falling in love with my administrative assistant. I am married with children and she lives with her boyfriend. She is much younger, very beautiful and reports directly to ...
A. 19 August 2013: I work in a very professional corporate enviorment it's not noticeable when to people really like each other. Unless someone lets the cat out the bag so to speak. I would focus more on yourself and not he young tender. She may also be interested in ... (read in full...)
Do women really enjoy anal sex?
Q. I had a fairly normal but boing sex life with my now divorced wife. I met a nice woman and have been dating her for 6 months. We had our first sex about 2 months into the relationship. She is quite adventurous sexually, way more than my x wife who ...
A. 10 August 2013: With the right tool and lover its great. I was married in the past to a not so great lover uncaring way to rough and hard just wasnt a good or great lover. Some people are not compatiable sexually the oral wasnt good either he didnt listen to me and ... (read in full...)
I'm 34 and never have had a "proper relationship". Is there something fundamentally wrong with me?
Q. Hi, I'm writing this questions as my confidence in having any proper relationship is pretty low. I am wondering where I am going wrong. I'm starting to wonder if there's something fundamentally wrong with me. I'm 34 and never have had a "p...
A. 10 August 2013: Well with me Im in this situation but honestly I don't want a serious relationship cause I was married for many years. It's no need to be jealous believe me you looking from the outside in and some relationships are not what they appear to be. In do ... (read in full...)
I overheard someone make a rather unpleasant remark about my appearance and now my confidence is at an all time low!
Q. Hello there. I just need a bit of help guess. The other day I was walking on the train and I walked past this boy with his girlfriend and I heard him make a rather unpleasant remark about my appearance. Now I know I’m not anything special, but I’ve ...
A. 10 August 2013: My mom very pretty beautiful queen always told me sticks and stones may break your bones but words will never harm you. I grew up being the unattractive but I have confidence even on bad days with or with make up and accessories. I know my value and ... (read in full...)
How do I resolve my feelings about my sexuality? Should I wait until I have my first crush on a girl?
Q. I think im bi. Not completely positive, but i will see another girl sometimes and be totally turned on. Like girls my age. i KNOW i like boys though. but i dont know how to tell my parents or anything. its so wierd. I dont really know what im asking ...
A. 26 July 2013: At any age even 13 to 60 sexuality can be open. I recently learned to think out the box about issues with 100% straight or lesbian or bisexual. Also in dealing with 3 gender people so I perfer to be open without labels and accept people for ... (read in full...)
Does guy from work want something to happen between us all?
Q. Well I seem to have got myself into an interesting situation to say the least. Last year I met a guy at work,I'll call him Sam, well we became friends chatting to each other at work but no contact outside if it, he flirted often with me and one day ...
A. 10 July 2013: I would invite him on a meet and greet type hang out date dinner possible location a sports bar or a decent weekend showtime venue. You and your bf get to mingle and get to know each other and go from there. Thats how I do my invites. After the ... (read in full...)
Is my current relationship worth it?
Q. i am in a relationship of 2 years that generally, i'm content with. i have never had many girlfriends and most of my close friends have always been guys. i do consider myself a tomboy so when a guy hits on me, i'm pretty flattered. my current ...
A. 22 June 2013: I think you enjoy the fact you have the same interest which is very important in friendships and relationships. Its possible thats its the thrill of dealing with someone new and compatible. Its a real good to have same hobbies plus same music ... (read in full...)
I'm absolutely ashamed of myself! I made out with a married friend
Q. This past weekend, I was at an annual camping trip with a bunch of friends. We have been going for a very long time -- our kids all use to come but many of them have grown up now. There are about 30 of us. I still attend although I am single ...
A. 18 June 2013: Forgive yourself seriously two grown adults consented to having a connection and making out. You both enjoyed and liked it. You should not feel to ill cause he is after you. His marriage is perphaps over from the start. Some people are married for ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend always puts his job before me
Q. Dear all, so I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half, his currently serving in the RAF so were semi long distance and only see one another weekends (mostly)the problem is I feel he always puts his job before me. Without sounding...
A. 17 June 2013: I based off experience know for fact that if he a provider or trying to be a main provider to support. I understand that is priorited and prioritized not exactly being put before you. To analyze this as putting his job first over you it is not s... (read in full...)
We are so great together, except that his son doesn't accept the relationship
Q. I am a 36 years old female and seeing a man 58. We started this semi-affair 5 years ago. He ended things abruptly about 2 years in saying one of his five sons felt really uncomfortable with it. (the middle of the 5 and only one who doesnt live on ...
A. 15 June 2013: I have a child similar and other critics as well. They dont like or approve of anybody I really want to be with or like. I sum it up as misery love company. I just tell my child I have to be loved and happy pleasure principles. Then the odd part ... (read in full...)
I met my online date, but do not like him. How do I let this fade away?
Q. I've been exchanging messages with this guy I met online for the past two weeks. We basically wrote lengthy letters to one another, covering a variety of topics. He's basically an open book, and a genuine guy from the "research" I've done on him. ...
A. 14 June 2013: Yes indeed I use Atsweet all over the web oh well I like it. You genuinely like the attention too. Who researches peoples avartars they dont like ha. Gosh if you didnt like him why would you even post this research. You dont have to tell someone ... (read in full...)
Do I give up and move on to try to find happiness? Or do I stay? We have 2 children together.
Q. Please help! I will get straight to the point. My husband and I have been married for 6 years and together total for 10. In the beginning of our dating and married relationship I tried my best to be the best wife I could be. Obviously I know ...
A. 10 June 2013: Lol to shaving head but the drugging part uuggg. It will not work you mentioned staying for the children not cause you love and care for him. Leave for everyone happines aleast you and the children that what I had to do. I tried that stay for the ... (read in full...)
Exclusive or not....what is acceptable?
Q. I want to know if I am being unrealistic or not. How long should you wait before being exclusive with someone? I am 47 years old and I met a man on POF who is soon to be 49 back in March. We are both quite attractive and we have been dating for 3 ...
A. 9 June 2013: If it was so exclusive he wouldnt be creating new accounts. I would move on but first find out why you and him cant be a item. Is it compatibility or is he just not fully ready. It happens that some people dont want to be rushed into relationships. ... (read in full...)
After two years I'm finding him both controlling and dull
Q. Hi. So I've been with my fiance for almost two years next month...(Cheated on him two weeks into our relationship) Anyway, I guess I'm finding him a bit boring and controlling these days... please note my partner has "Autistic tendencies...
A. 9 June 2013: It hard to find the right match. I myself slept alot when working alot. You work hard you play hard. I have issues with trust of people not cheating cause I know grown adults will do what they want when they want. When I was bored I went out to ... (read in full...)
She said she was not sure where it was going.What do you guys think I should do to get her back?
Q. Hi. I was going out with a girl who is 25 and I am 35. We are just perfect for each other and in a really caring and loving relationship. We broke up recently abt a month ago with both of saying and knowing we deeply love each other. We have t...
A. 8 June 2013: So you want to be with her if she changes for you. You are not a item now. She is in pain cause of you this wont work. If she is in pain do to you causing what makes yoh think you can win her back. Plus if you want to be with someone you accept t... (read in full...)
Could dating someone in our group of friends ruin our cohesion ?
Q. I have five male friends that I both work with and go to social events with, such as movies, concerts, restaurants, etc. We are all in the same "group". I am normally considered "one of the guys" as I generally do not hang around other females......
A. 8 June 2013: Its cool really, men compete. Im sure you know this. Its about let the best man wins. The jealousy will come but it shouldn't break you all up.. This is a normal occurrence the girl likes who she likes she chooses who she wants. They go try that... (read in full...)
I'm wondering what's up with this guy? I do have feelings for him, but haven't told him yet.
Q. A guy I work with loves to stare at me all the time. He watches who I'm talking to, especially his close friends. When he is not around me then his friends chat to me. Once he's back on the scene one shuts his mouth and the other looks to see if th...
A. 8 June 2013: He likes you and watches you. To find out if your flirty or social maybe to see who is drawn to you. He wants to see the real you interacting maybe he thinks you like the other guys too. If he is staring often everytime your in his presence he ... (read in full...)
How do I show my b/f I love him without using words?
Q. How can I show my boyfriend I love him without saying it? Words don't mean as much as showing does to him and I'm not sure how to show it....
A. 8 June 2013: Im a show me type also. The kind of love I want to see is just basically about caring. It's about the small details and subtle touches or caresses. I have been loved in a bad way so when the true way comes I know its genuine. Also it's about ta... (read in full...)
How do I show my b/f I love him without using words?
Q. How can I show my boyfriend I love him without saying it? Words don't mean as much as showing does to him and I'm not sure how to show it....
A. 8 June 2013: I'm a show me type also. The kind of love I want to see is just basically about caring. It's about the small details and subtle touches or caresses. I have been loved in a bad way so when the true way comes I know its genuine. Also it's about ta... (read in full...)
I want a more fulfilling relationship and girlfriend spends majority of her time with family and friends
Q. I am having a major problem with my girlfriend. I have a fear that the relationship might end, which I think is making me act a bit irrationally, which is only making it worse. I need a little constructive help... We've been together over 3 ...
A. 6 June 2013: If two people are being selfish which it appears it wont work. Then theres is no point of making it work you not on the same page. Im going through this myself a little with obligations friendship boyfriends part time boyfriends plus controll... (read in full...)
Is it common that I can't orgasm? I'm only 18
Q. Hi people. I am 18, I want to know if it is common for a woman not to be able to orgasm at my age? Or feel that cumming sensation without helping my self during sex? My boyfriend says it's weird and it hasn't happened with any of his ex's. It's ...
A. 6 June 2013: Highly normal for most women. Plus you have to let him know what you like exactly everybody dont like the same stimulation. Im great at giving orgasm but have a hard time catching one without doing it myself also. ... (read in full...)
Crush on a coworker and I'm wondering what his text meant!
Q. There is a man that I'm interested in and he is working with me I asked him today in a text if he needed me and his reply was ( more than you know ) what was he meaning?...
A. 6 June 2013: If I told a employee I fancy this it would clearly mean I want you. I am highly interested. I desire you. Yes I would like to get to know you in always possible morr than you know. Its a burning desire and if you with it he is and has been with it. ... (read in full...)
Why is he saying we are friends and acting another way and why go back on the moving in comment so quickly?
Q. I've been spending a lot of time with this guy lately. We met through work and actually slept together the second time a bunch of friends all went out as a group so there was obviously a big attraction on both parts from the start. After we started ...
A. 5 June 2013: No emotions no feelings. I have had fwb sex partners marriage and lovers only. When dealing with relationships if a person keeps saying they dont want to be with you trust that they dont. It could change. I keep telling this guy that I want to be ... (read in full...)
Part of me still wants to be with this woman even though I don't think she can be what I want
Q. I was in a long distance relationship that has since faded out after 9 months. My problem is there is a piece of me that still wants to spend my life with her although I know she is probably not capable of being the warm, caring compassionate woman ...
A. 5 June 2013: It is possible this was rebound. If you want her be with her if not let her go. If it didnt work in 9 months move on. She may not be the one like you mentioned that you are desiring or looking for. If you into caring compassionate th... (read in full...)
To forgive or not to forgive?
Q. Hiya guys, i really hope someone out there can give me a good perspective on my situation. Im not going to go into detail but my dilemma is really the whole 'forgive or not forgive' scenario. I became friends with a guy and we decided to see e...
A. 5 June 2013: It had taken alot of self talk and re, evaluating the situation for me to forgive a few people. I just come to terms and say what would I do if I was in there shoes. Thats the only way to bring closure and understanding to the situation even if you ... (read in full...)
He is very confusing! I want to know what the hell he is thinking? Does he like me is he unsure because I am still legally married?
Q. I am seperated and have been seeing the neighbor boy who is 26. I am 37. We have slept together a few times, But also he has stayed the night and just cuddled without sex. He will text me and I will text him, but sometimes he will go 3-4 weeks ...
A. 4 June 2013: Okay women post on here there dating and married man. This is just the same except gender change. He probaly knows the outcome your going to use him emotionally and physically like married men do to there lovers. He knows most people dont get ... (read in full...)
When is it time to tell him I don't want sex before marriage?
Q. Hey everyone, I have been dating this guy for a month and a half now..we really like each other but may be things with us just happened too soon cuz there was soo much chemistry and sparks! There is one thing about me that I need him to know 'I ...
A. 4 June 2013: Of course you tell. Then he propose you get engaged then married and live happily ever after. To easy no a days no lady wants to keep or start sleeping around until you find the right one. You just let him know he probaly wants to marry you anyway. ... (read in full...)
I'm in panic mode and wondering what I can do to turn this around!
Q. I am in panic mode, I met a man on line whom I love greatly. We have been spending each weekend together, he has spent time with my son and myself and I have met his family, but unfortunately I keep having insecurity issues because he is a huge ...
A. 4 June 2013: I have a friend like this as Im myself am a flirt. Only when Im exclusive do I end my flirting tactics. If the relationship is good dont be insecure. It seems like there is something else going on either way. I myself when Im with you Im with you ... (read in full...)
Every time I tell him of my feelings for him he stops contacting me
Q. I am 34 year old woman, been single for 5yrs. Mainly it is because of trust issue. Well last year I find my self attractive to a young man at my job (he is 26). We became good friends but I never told him that I had a crush or had feeling for him ...
A. 2 June 2013: I understand you uncertainty here. Sometimes we have to fight for what we really want. It validates that he is what you really want cause you persude. Then it lets the person know you are serious and for real. It's a good point I might add he may... (read in full...)
Could I be putting myself in danger by allowing my Ex back in my new life?
Q. Dear Cupid,I have been single for ten years now and I want to be back with my ex he is my daughter father I moved to another state to get my life together I stopped drinking and getting high( pot) .Now that we are going older the children are grown ...
A. 30 May 2013: Its only dangerous if he a volitile abusive drunk. Give him a 2nd or another chance. People do change and mature and grow up. We know when we are putting ourselves in danger. Its call womens intution. If he will be a responsible drinker I dont see a ... (read in full...)
Is my recent ex dating already?
Q. Dated ex gf for year and half. She broke up with me 5 months ago. A few weeks ago she contacts me and says still in love with me, misses me, and wanted to spend all kinds of time together. It was great because I still loved her. She then says ...
A. 29 May 2013: Lol at tell her to f^^k off comment. She obviously don't trust you. That's what I get from this of why she don't want to be exclusive. If you have expressed what you desire and she doesnt agree its not meant to be. Now if you have no fully expresse... (read in full...)
Is marriage a deal breaker?
Q. I've been with my partner for 3 1/2 yrs now and we still don't live together because of both our situations. He going through a divorce and almost at the end and me because 'im not working. I love him very much and he loves me too, i would really l...
A. 28 May 2013: I feel like your friend after divorcing you want to get yourself back to some what normal. Especially if it was a bad marriage with a bad ending. This makes one never ever wanting to ever get involved or married to anyone. If I couldn't pick the ... (read in full...)
Why do I miss my abusive ex boyfriend?
Q. I have been dealing with a personal and confusing issue with my now ex-boyfriend, and have no idea what to do. We started dating a year ago. It was a very high and low relationship. Many fights. He did not want me to be friends with any male ...
A. 28 May 2013: It appears he has no respect for you because of the names he calls you. I would not be proving anything to him about me going men to men. Its none of his business if you broke up. Im sure he is going women to women. So dont fool yourself thinking ... (read in full...)
I have a question for men or women, whether you have cheated, or cheat, or never cheated
Q. I have a question for men or women, whether you have cheated, or cheat, or never cheated: I am not sure if I want to be in love. I mean, I enjoy being loved and to love, but it seems that every man I was with had a tendency to cheat or lie, or...
A. 28 May 2013: I totally agree being in both ends the on cheated on and the cheater. I see both sides of the augument clearly. It's shocking that people don't even intend ti be faithful. Its men and women but mostly man whores. In culture its accepted it's a good ... (read in full...)
I always thought I was straight but recently I've been having sexual thoughts about a guy I know. Am I gay?
Q. I always thought i was straight but recently i've been having sexual thoughts about a guy i know. What do I do? Tell him? Ignore it? Am i gay? Also, i know this guy because he is one of my best friends' brother. What do i do?...
A. 28 May 2013: Yes gay or bisexual you should do what you love or like. Many men are gay out the closet or bisexual out the closet. You decide its up to you a choice we make. Like a choice of which clothes we will wear. Try and see if you like anal sex and doing ... (read in full...)
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