We used to laugh together but now I'm not laughing with him
Q. How do I tell my boyfriend that he is seriously hurting my feelings? We've always been the best of friends for almost 5 years, the kind of friends that could cut up together, with sarcasm, and humor. We've said some of the most rudest, meanest ...
A. 12 March 2014: Excuse my french f him and his father. It appears he may be trying to make you the but of his jokes. So what alot of people sleep with someone before I love you is thought of. I wouldnt be bothered by his trying to embarrass you with the help of ... (read in full...)
He's 22 years younger and wants to date me!
Q. I have just come out of a horrible one year relationship with a guy I really loved but am gradually feeling better. I met a lovely guy who said he was 38 to get my attentional. He is 26. He is good looking fit intelligent mature and a lot of fun...
A. 10 March 2014: I wouldnt say your a pervert so age is way off by 20+plus years. I wouldnt care the age long as they not children. I have met more women that look young and am shocked by there age. And they feeling some type of way. I guess they start being all in ... (read in full...)
I am insecure about my body ........
Q. I really need help on overcoming my insecurity and body image issues . I have been married almost twenty years and am now separated . I have met someone and am extremely nervous about getting naked with him . I know he has been with women who have ...
A. 10 March 2014: Alot of women have insecurities about there body. I have many scars 2 children rolls alligator skin but I wouldnt be worried unless you are planning on making movies lol. I would just keep it simple What you see is what you get if they cant accept ... (read in full...)
None of the guys I've dated since has been able to accept the fact that I'm friends with an old ex!
Q. Why do men find it such a big problem that im good friends with an old ex? Background- I got together with my first proper boyfriend when I was 15. We were together for 4 years and he was my first love and my first everything. We had a good young...
A. 10 March 2014: I wouldnt care if you not sleeping with them. I have ex friends some choose to make contact some dont. At times they feel social at times they dont. I know alot of times I have to cut some.ties from time to time to do me 1$t and foremost. Its ... (read in full...)
We are emotionally perfect but sexually not compatible!
Q. I had earlier posted a question about losing spark with my long term boyfriend. We have been together for 9 years and ever since then he has had insecurity issues. Finally when he moved to another city 2 yrs back , our communication stopped ...
A. 8 March 2014: All I can say is things happen for a reason it may not be your doing. I feel like this about my ex its like the only time I ever enjoyed sex was the first night and I got pregnant thank God he didnt and I didnt and we dont have Hiv and other ... (read in full...)
I love him and he loves me but since he isn't in the right space emotionally, we cant be together. What do I do in the meantime?
Q. I was in a relationship for almost four years with a man and we broke up this past October. Him and I are very connected and best friends. We broke up because he emotionally isn't very healthy and has many issues to deal with before he can have a ...
A. 8 March 2014: I see what you mean but I fail to fully understand what your implying when you mention you and him meaning we need to go see therapist together. So you know he has emotional issues from his past why would you need to go to therapy with him unless ... (read in full...)
My fiancée says she isn't sexually active, so how does she have herpes? Now I'm rethinking our engagement!
Q. Hi, I need your help, I recently found out my fiancée has herpes. She said she isn't sexually active. Can one get herpes even without being sexually active? Also, what does it mean if she has herpes? shall I break off my engagement becau...
A. 5 March 2014: I would ask her the questions first about was she, has she, can tell you better than we can. You can google about it also web md is good to do research. It makes sense not to be sexually active with and sti or std unless you with someone who has it. ... (read in full...)
My fab new BF ticks all my boxes but won't give oral
Q. Dear all Please advise. I ve been dating this fabulous guy for around a monthnow. He is kind, intelligent, reliable, handsome and has loads of otger great qualities. We get on very well and I could not ask for more except he doesn' t do oral whi...
A. 1 March 2014: If it was the other way around and you didnt do oral what do you think would happen. I have been met with this issue even with my ex husband and his shot out teeth. I know the guy might of had a bad experience. But you said he 48 and dont eat fish ... (read in full...)
Work, sex, friendships and a web of secrets and lies.
Q. A guy I work with is a player. He used to see my friend about 2 years ago. She still liked him. We all work together. He built a friendship with me. It quickly turned into constant attention and he pursued me for about 3 months. We got really close ...
A. 1 March 2014: Alright you both in long term relationships with others. So why are you even bothered by a player who liked you tried it out cause if you in a long term then it was go never be more. If he in a long term and its not working out then he has done ... (read in full...)
What is left to do safely without getting HPV?
Q. I am a a 31 year old female recently divorced and now dating again. Recently I got out of an almost year long relationship with a man, and I now test positive for HPV after my Pap Smear. Here is the situation: We did everything right, we both ...
A. 24 February 2014: Its always a risk in lovemaking sexual intercourse anytime even with marry people that don't have any stds on there results so to speak. I understand you issue and feeling first hand. I'm really more threatened by AIDs and HIV than HPV or herpers or ... (read in full...)
43 with no children of my own. I'd like to have a child with my gay friend
Q. I am 43 and childless. I would love to have a child but the odds are stacked against me. I would love to have a child for a gay friend. My best friend is gay and I'd love to be able to broach the subject with him but I don't know how I should bro...
A. 23 February 2014: I dont see a problem with it to a degree long as you and him have things work out things that are best for the child or children. I know people that are gay and bi and they have children. People been having children even if they are pretending to be ... (read in full...)
He's intelligent and confident and I'm worried I couldn't keep up!
Q. I am really attracted to someone - I know he likes me too. The problem is that one of the reasons that I like him is that he is absolutely amazingly intelligent, extremely knowledgeable on loads and loads of topics or, if he isn't, you feel with ...
A. 23 February 2014: I felt like this kinda cause I didn't have appropriate moneys for someone I was interested in. My confidence on the inside was low and my home boy was like what you got to offer them. I was like good point not much. I was more use to and involved ... (read in full...)
Should I ask him out first?
Q. There is this one guy I'm interested in he often sends off mixed signals about his feelings towards me. So I've been thinking about either telling him I like him or ask him out to test the waters. but Im not so sure if I should be the one asking him ...
A. 18 February 2014: You will Miss out being.cultured and close mouths dont get feed really. I would just put it out there you like him and go from there. If he takes the bait you win if not you might just want to ask him out it happens all the time even though its ... (read in full...)
Should I let one ex help me get over another?
Q. I have just come out of a horrible relationship of 10 months. Another ex contacted me to ask if I was ok. He has been really supportive listening and taking me out to cheer me up. We broke up amicably last year because he wasn't over his ex and I ...
A. 18 February 2014: I don't feel its a problem ex can help you through a rough patch. Its not about claiming and relationships all the time but being there for people you care about and they care for you. I would enjoy it too make the most of it. Support is fine and ... (read in full...)
My friends want to move abroad without their young-adult children
Q. Am interested what you think of this situation. Some friends of min are bith 52, and have 2 kids: girl of 18 and boy of 20. The parents want to emigrate from england to spain on a permanent basis. The kids dont want to go with them. But the p...
A. 18 February 2014: If they want to go some people like sadistic pain I mean spain excuse me apparently the children don't they have not enjoyed there life yet or experience life as they have. So for the parents to want there children to go with them is kinda selfish ... (read in full...)
.Women I am attracted to run when they learn I am also involved with a man
Q. Hey everyone... I'm having some struggles with my sexuality/sexual identity. I am a female, and I am in love with a man. We plan on getting married, we are both very attracted to one another and we're super happy. The thing is, I am also very att...
A. 15 February 2014: All I can tell you from experience is both people plus yourself need to be mature open and talk about it upfront. If the person cant handle you being bi it wont work. I have been married and brought a few women into my life they were willing and I ... (read in full...)
I thought I was doing the right thing by being honest but he turned it against me
Q. I recently met someone and felt it right to be upfront about the fact I had ( several years ago now) been involved in an abusive relationship. I left that relationship with nothing, emotionally,financially and tbh was completely broken and had to ...
A. 12 February 2014: I think its best to express. Even still people go always judge regardless if you together or not. That person might be trying to use you. So someone that is rebuilding may not fit his motive. I feel like that like I dont want to be a burden on ... (read in full...)
Does this mean he's losing interest?
Q. hello im a 36 year old female in a long distance relationship. i really love him and he says he loves me too but, lately i have had some strange feelings. we use to talk every day now we really dont. he use to call me two and three times a day now, ...
A. 12 February 2014: Most likely lost interest is a good assumption. I wouldnt do long distance to much either. To me its no point to long distance. I know to maybe it was some communication issues that wasn't worked out. I know I found out some info about a long ... (read in full...)
Are there guys out there that will look past my body and like me for who I am?
Q. This is a really hard question to ask because I'm fairly certain of the answer, but I was wondering if I will ever find some one because of my size. I'm very small for my age (18), I look much younger I'm very thin. Are there guys out there that ...
A. 12 February 2014: I dont know if you notice but alot of women are trying to be small with a big but. It all depends on the person preference. Some men like thick overweight petite all different sizes. Im small thin Im not like donkey booties but Im not far from it. ... (read in full...)
I feel he prefers porn to me
Q. Been married for three years have a two year old girl just caught my husband looking at pornographers behind my back and lying to me for a year or more.he has already been caught a year ago and promised not to.he knows how bad it hurts me in the ...
A. 8 February 2014: Excuse my gramma aint no way in the world porn is go compensate or be valued over the real thing. I do not know if you are his type but I do know I watch porn and I pleasure myself in it but a person willing is more or value. I know to if you are ... (read in full...)
You wouldn't leave if you were in love, right?
Q. Idk if he loves me. Lots of points please listen and please help me. First during are 15 years he left me 3 times says he had good reasons now i dont think guys people leave the ones they love unless they dont love them. In serious cases like abuse ...
A. 8 February 2014: Three times is a charm. You probably love him a tad bit more than he does you. I do not know. I know I grew to love my ex but not in love with him like I was with others. It was like I was with him out of convience. He help with home children bills ... (read in full...)
Do women ever regret leaving a nice guy and going back to their abusive exes?
Q. Why do some women, do not like romance, they say they would like to meet a nice guy , but when they do, they go back to the guy before, who was mentally, an abusesive, to them? when you start going out ,they tell you how bad their ex was to them,...
A. 8 February 2014: I feel people go back to ex regardless of how they treat them because of comfort. They already know and are familiar with the ex. I dont not know about if they regret not dealing with the nice guy. I think perphaps the nice guys do finish last and ... (read in full...)
Why the sudden drop in contact?
Q. I've been dating a man for about 8 months. Since we got together, we have chatted every day-usually all day, everyday (facebook chat, skype, phone calls, text) We live several states apart, so we've only seen each other in person a few times. The ...
A. 8 February 2014: I know what you mean with lack of contact. All I can say is maybe you hurt him with something mentioned in the texts. It could be to like I mention to my ex he killing me with silence or just ignoring me. Dont look at it as something bad it could be ... (read in full...)
Feeling guilty about bad decisions I've made
Q. Hey I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm in a relationship with a 25 year old man who I am breaking up with on Saturday. I saw controlling signs before but now I've really seen them, I actually feel afraid of him. We have only been together for 3 months ...
A. 7 February 2014: I understand how you feel as far as being forced into controlling relationship it can be very hard to understand. Do not allow yourself to be afraid to move on it's people and relationships to where you won't be force to be in or be abusive. I would ... (read in full...)
Why do women at night clubs dress provocatively?
Q. Why do the girls at the clubs dress like sluts?? We went to a club last weekend and there were many women barely dressed. One had a dress on so short that her ass was showing and she bent over a few times. Do they really need that much attention?...
A. 6 February 2014: Its part of culture you want to attract the best mate with the most money and body parts with language normally will get this. Some women like to be provactive more than others especially during certains seasons. Some women go out trying to get laid ... (read in full...)
Should I tell this new guy about my previous abusive relationship?
Q. I have been dating this guy for almost a month now. We have hit it off very well and get along great, he is like my other half. We have talked about dating before we become official because we want time to get to know each other better before ru...
A. 6 February 2014: I dont see why you cant start sharing information about abuse from your past. I think this is stuff thats need to know information to make your relationship work. I dont seeing nothing wrong with it cause aleast they know what they dealing with ... (read in full...)
How do I move on, when it's clear that there will be no closure?
Q. My ex dumped me, a little over 3 weeks ago. He told me he loved me in a text and then disappeared. He then turned up on facebook a week later and started posting things right after me in order to provoke a response or get my attention, none of ...
A. 4 February 2014: If he upset you moving on then that should be the closure you looking for. He probably still cares about you and loves you thats what you will have ask him to be sure so you can move on. Tell him he just disappeared you dont know whats going on and ... (read in full...)
I suffer from premature climaxing, any advice?
Q. I am a married women in my 30's and I suffer from premature climaxing... My husband and I don't have sex that often (once a week) due to family commitments and work and because of this I'm all pent up with desire, as soon as my husband enters ...
A. 4 February 2014: I wish WELL I always desired that I could get off like this. I always have to stimulate my clitoris. After I do climax I dont really want to continue either so I try to time myself with the guy and request he lets me know he is having a orgasm cause ... (read in full...)
How do I get myself together and keep her from feeling emotionally and sexually rejected?
Q. I get strong performance anxiety when I go to have sex with a girl for the first time. Consequently, I can't achieve an erection about 80% of the time. Usually I get good reactions, the girls are patient. We take a time out, do something else, ...
A. 4 February 2014: I dont understand its at first times but 80% of the time your not fully erect. I know women my mom and other friends who have dated guys who didnt get hard the only time they clown is when they mad. Its alot of men that do get erect. I think this ... (read in full...)
Fallen for my best friend, now he is being stubborn and inflexible
Q. I have known my best male friend for about 6 years. During this time he's been my rock through ups and downs including tumultuous relationships. I live in a different country from where I grew up (where he lives) a lot. I have often sensed that he ...
A. 26 January 2014: I would try to find out if its not possible for him to move and be with you or where you want him then do long distance. Long distance open relationships work until everything is work out with your international travel and both your jobs. He may ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's strange behavior when we are out in public is starting to bother me
Q. I've been seeing someone that I quite like but his behaviour is also beginning to worry me. This might seem an odd thing to bring up but, whenever we are out and he starts to feel really happy with me, or happy in himself, he becomes kind of ...
A. 23 January 2014: It seems you are competing with him thats when it becomes a problem. I agree with the comment of when cowsattack he is normal basic personality cant be change. I doubt your being truthful of his drinking and actions but you want to see what other ... (read in full...)
The 'little black dress' he bought me is too skimpy for my tastes and comfort!
Q. My boyfriend bought me a "little black dress" for a christmas present. It redefines the word "little". It is a nice gift but it is very skimpy. It has spaghetti straps and is very,very short! He asked me to wear it for a new years party, and to a ...
A. 21 January 2014: Lol This was a good laugh. The way you explained the dress and the reactions are to the tee. I would just mention that's its to short and your not wearing it out the house anymore. Lol explain its to much for going out.... (read in full...)
I want to marry a female and have children but I am a gay male.
Q. I want to marry a female and have children but I am a gay male. Please help. ...
A. 19 January 2014: People do this all the time its the norm I see. I think the children suffer the most in these type of deals basically if you like men you plan on putting that on pause to pursue wife and children. I have been married lol Im not all that str8 ... (read in full...)
Does it turn you on to watch your partner masturbate?
Q. Do you masturbate in front of your husband? Does it turn him on to watch you play with yourself? Do you like to watch him play with himself?...
A. 12 January 2014: Yes either way its likeable and stimulating to watch with the right person. I enjoy watching the shyness that most of us get then the action that occurs once things get heated up then I definetly enjoy the finale. ... (read in full...)
Need help dealing with a crush
Q. Hey I really need some help. I'm gay and one of my best friends is bi. We had a mutual crush on eachother, he told me about his but I didn't tell him about mine because he had a girlfriend at the time and I didn't want to be a home wrecker. This ...
A. 9 January 2014: I have had a few crushes. Most end up in a sexual relationship then we date the we move on from there to be friends. I would suggest to dont look to date them just seek and conquer is best with the mind playing crush game types. I would still flirt ... (read in full...)
Do women ever regret breaking the good guy's heart?
Q. Hello, why is it when men meet what it seems a nice women, they start to like they find out that their, exs treated them bad, abuse them, beat them , they say they want to be treated good, but when you do, they dump you an go back to the guy, who ...
A. 1 January 2014: I understand your nice guy feelings. I have been labeled a nice guy or girl and the bad b!;tch and nice girl. I doubt I was a heartbreaker. I dont think the people I dealt with have hearts to some degree if so I been in situations where I know ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend's ex still want to be friends with him?
Q. Hey everyone, you guys give great advice as I have been on here before, but I am back again. The boyfriend and I have been with each other for like 7 months. Long story short, him and his ex from a while ago had a bad break up. She didn't r...
A. 1 January 2014: Its a matter of you not knowing the full story or history of them. If they are not getting back together which is unlikely you should not worry. Its a issue of her perhaps she is doing a investigation to heal past hurt you dont know the full ... (read in full...)
I'm meeting my ex so she can get closure from our breakup but its making me very uncomfortable
Q. Hi, I never thought I'd resort to asking online, but I realize what I really need is an outsider's perspective on the situation. I'm bisexual, btw. Basically, this summer I started going out with a woman and although it was fun in the begin...
A. 1 January 2014: If you feel threaten scared uncomfortable I would suggest not to see the person transgender girl lol. I would suggest you not play with people too you know people act so innocent and when we dig deeper we find out you are not the víctim but her just ... (read in full...)
I'm meeting my ex so she can get closure from our breakup but its making me very uncomfortable
Q. Hi, I never thought I'd resort to asking online, but I realize what I really need is an outsider's perspective on the situation. I'm bisexual, btw. Basically, this summer I started going out with a woman and although it was fun in the begin...
A. 1 January 2014: If you feel threaten scared uncomfortable I would suggest not to see the person transgender girl lol. I would suggest you not play with people too you know people act so innocent and when we dig deeper we find out you are not the víctim but her just ... (read in full...)
Was he serious or was it the booze talking?
Q. Hello agony aunts and uncles, Ok so I was out the other night with a friends and her boyfriend in the same bar as this guy we went to school with years ago. We never chatted in school but knew of each other. Anyways he was really drunk and it took ...
A. 31 December 2013: Its true normally a drunk mind does speak honestly. Its like truth serum. If he adores you then take it at that he adores you.... (read in full...)
Why do they have to ask extensive questions when testing for STDs at the clinic?
Q. Why do they have to ask extensive questions when testing for STDs at the clinic? I believe this is what puts people off going, the only question they should ask is how long since you last had unprotected sex. I also believe they should only ques...
A. 30 December 2013: I dont remember to many questions really. I guess go I go in there full throttle telling them everything lol so they have accurate statics too. I know in other institutions I was asked questions about sexuality and partners which was relevant being ... (read in full...)
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