I have this mate we're both married we both obviously have our own lives, however I see her as my mate but I don't think she sees me the same.
Q. Can someone please help me with this tough situation. I have this mate we're both married we both obviously have our own lives, however I see her as my mate but I don't think she sees me the same.... i could be wrong. She only calls me when she ...
A. 12 June 2007: Realize that not everyone want a deep relationship. Some people just enjoy going out with their 'freinds' for fun times and laughs. Stop being so critical. If you want a deeper relationship with the person then try to build it gradually. If yo... (read in full...)
How can I get my boyfirnd to pay more attention to me and not push me away all the time?
Q. How can I get my boyfirnd to pay more attention to me and not push me away all the time?...
A. 12 June 2007: Sorry- need more information on the subject to give an objective opinion. But some basic thoughts are find activities that you can do together. Please post more on your issue. I'd love to help.... (read in full...)
She won't have sex with me and I'm getting very bored.
Q. i have a girl friend but she won't do anything with me and i love her lots and i want to have sex fun with her but she just walks away and i am getting very bored with her what shall i do????...
A. 12 June 2007: Suck it up, son. If you dig the girl and she feels the same way- it will eventually happen. If you just NEED to get laid- so much so that you want to get out of your relationship - then you should leave because most likely your not in it for t... (read in full...)
How can I get him to stop being such a mamas boy and grow up and realize he has a family?
Q. my ex would spend his money on other things instead of getting us a place for our family and would listen to everything his mother said how can I get him to stop being such a mamas boy and grow up and realize he has a family.....
A. 12 June 2007: Well if he is your ex- I wouldn't imagine it's much of your problem anymore... am I missing something?... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best friend, would it freak him out if I told him this?
Q. Hey, I'm in love with my best friend. We've recently got a lot closer, but only in a friendly way. Would it ruin our friendship or freak him out if i told him this? thanks x...
A. 12 June 2007: Depends if he likes you too. If yes: then thats great- you have yourself a boyfriend. If no: You have one of the most painful situations you can possibly be in. I say go for it anyway. Tell him how you feel and go in for the kiss. Otherwi... (read in full...)
how can I help our relationship and mend it back together for our child's sake?
Q. Me and my ex broke up because we were always fighting about the fact that he was always working when he did not have to and instead of coming home to me and his daughter he would go out afterwards, how can I help our relationship and mend it back ...
A. 12 June 2007: Well you really didn't lay out much of a backstory- but I'm guessing that the late hours were not the only thing that you were fighting about. You might want to take a hard look at the other issues you had and be honest with yourself if that was the ... (read in full...)
My best guy friend is always holding and touching me, do you think he likes me MORE than a friend?
Q. my best guy friend *john* is always holding me, touching me, and ALWAYS around me. all of our friends say that he likes me, but he denies it. and so do i. but then he goes and does something so romantic and sweet. like this one time at a carnival, i ...
A. 12 June 2007: Yes. He likes you. Congrats. He most likely denies it for fear of rejection. If you feel the same way about him you should tell him so. If not- tell him that too. Be open and honest and don't play games with him and I assure you that everything ... (read in full...)
Can I recover from incest?
Q. Can I recover from incest? I would like to recover from the incest that i had with my brother. I Love my fiance and I dont want to lose him. How can i forgive myself, recover from this and keep with my life and keep living without any harm or heal...
A. 12 June 2007: My god. DO NOT tell your fiance. While we like to believe that love and trust has no boundaries... this is one of them... for a whole lot of people. Sometimes secrets are a good thing. Just realize what you did was most likely not the best pos... (read in full...)
What do you think I should do?
Q. I'm in a relationship with this guy and we've been together for like almost 18 months. On his birth day I gave this friend (a girl) of mine his email address just to wish him happy bday(that was in April. Lately this friend of mine has been ema...
A. 12 June 2007: Simple Answer: You are overreacting. Complex Answer: You have trust issues with your boyfriend. Forwarding email messages is no big deal but it's making you upset because you have that little voice in the back of your head saying that its s... (read in full...)
what do I do or tell her?
Q. My best friend is making me mad she always ask me if I'm seeing anybody and I'm afraid to tell her I am because she always wants there numbers then she will call them and it feels weird what do I do or tell her?...
A. 12 June 2007: Who you date is your business- and no one else's. Obviously this girl is being over protective and that can be strange for not only you but also the guy. You should have a serious talk with her about boundaries. She is a good friend but actin... (read in full...)
How do I conquer my jealousy?
Q. How do I conquer my jealousy? Or stop the inner boiling up? It's not that I'm possessive, it's just that my bf is extremely social. He has many friends who are women, and when he talks to them by telephone, he rarely even mentions me, and I sort o...
A. 12 June 2007: This is a simple one: Stop being jealous. I know that sounds silly but its true. Either you can trust him or you can't. You have to decide one or the other or you are never going to stop worrying (even if there is nothing to worry about) or it is ... (read in full...)
Am I too needy? Does she maybe not understand my emotions? What?
Q. I'm horribly confused. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years now. At the end of both our leases were planning on moving out together. I'm really happy with our situation and finally feel comfortable being near someone so much....
A. 12 June 2007: She's most likely tired of hearing the same story over any over again from you. I know your going through a hard time in your life- but there is a cap on how much support people can give. We all like to think our mates are (or should be) bottemless ... (read in full...)
Since we have been married sex has become an afterthought and we are lucky to do it once a week...
Q. Hello, I have been with my wife for almost 4 years. We got married last year and are quickly approaching our one year anniversary. Before we got married we would have sex on a daily basis and sometimes twice a day! We would do it everywhere we...
A. 12 June 2007: Putting the spark back into a sex life can be difficult but not impossible. Try to bring back into your life some of the things that brought you together before. Be sure to be gentile in your approach (or rough if that is how she likes it) and mix ... (read in full...)
His behaviour has changed and everyone is telling me to break it off with him... but I can't!!
Q. Dear Cupid, I am madly in love with my boyfriend. I would do anything for him. Over the last 8 months or so he has been under house arrest while attending college 2 hours away. I spent every weekend driving to see him even though I myself have a v...
A. 12 June 2007: Time for tough love: Stop dating a douche. I mean he's under house arrest for a reason right? That should be your first clue. Why don't you find a guy that isn't currently in a form of incarseration and get on with your life. 1. Things will... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and he's not... any tips for our relationship?
Q. hi me and my boyfriend are in a serious relationship and we are thinking about having sex but i'm kinda worried because i'm a virgin and he's not what if he breaks up with me because i can't full feel his needs?...
A. 12 June 2007: Completely agree with Yummy. Really cant say it any better than that. Communication is the most important part of a relationship.... (read in full...)
I love sex... is this a problem?!
Q. Okay, this is going to sound very stupid to some people but, urm... I think I might be a bit mad about sex, you know? I always think about doing it, and I mean ALWAYS. I'm not really worried about, but is it normal? Also, I was sat down on the sofa ...
A. 12 June 2007: Can't get more normal that this. Sex is never a bad thing as long as it is done responsibly. Wear protection and indulge. Best of luck to you.... (read in full...)
Why would a woman feel the need to gush about what an amazing man I am rather than just tell me straight that she doesn't want me?
Q. Why would a woman feel the need to gush about what an amazing man I am rather than just tell me straight that she doesn't want me? Telling me that she would be happier with me but she can't leave her current relationship is what is really stopping ...
A. 12 June 2007: This is what people do. She wants to keep you around so you can fawn all of your emotion onto her and she doesn't have to sleep with you for it. Check out http://www.intellectualwhores.com/ because your one of them. I feel bad for you dude- i really ... (read in full...)
I'm 30 years old and still a virgin, is this normal?
Q. I'm 30 years old but still a virgin. Is this normal? Ive never had a girlfriend. I'm not ugly just very shy. Its more out of circumstance than not been "lucky" ie i work weekdays and look after my gran on the weekend. Will i ever get...
A. 12 June 2007: 1. Yes, you will get laid. Stop over thinking it.
2. No this is not normal.
3. Stop being shy- let yourself go and get out there and start meeting women. Find someone you enjoy spending time with and then spend time with them. It's that easy. ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 yrs old and totally confused about love
Q. hi. I'm 15 yrs old and totally confused about love..ya see my problem is I seem to love alot of lads and don no why or who to go for so that were i need your help so plez help me... theres this lad i wrk wit recently i never used to fancy h...
A. 12 June 2007: At 15 love doesn't make any sense- because most teenagers are completely irrational. Try to find someone you enjoy spending time with and then spend time with them. Playing games of "I like you... you don't like me... etc" will just make you ... (read in full...)
I met this girl about 4 months ago and got to know her really well, and decided to ask her out. Unfortunately for me, I didn't know somebody else did, too.
Q. I met this girl about 4 months ago and got to know her really well, and decided to ask her out. Unfortunately for me, I didn't know somebody else did, too. She came clean with me though, and told me how she really didn't like this other guy, but ...
A. 12 June 2007: 1. Refer her to professional help for the cutting.
2. She is too messed up right now to have a relationship. From what I can tell from your post is that you are most likely the type of guy that NEEDS to fix people. Try finding a different girl and... (read in full...)
I cannot leave the military... It's the way of my life but I dont want to lose her either..
Q. I'm in the military and I've been to Iraq twice now and am being sent for the 3rd time. This has taken a great toll on my relationship with my girlfriend. I love her to bits and couldn't have imagined doing my time in Iraq without a picture of her...
A. 12 June 2007: Well two things here- first is your commitment to the service. I must stress: NEVER go AWOL over a girl no matter who it is.
You knew what you were getting into when you signed up- (i was in for 6 years so i know how difficult it can be) but when... (read in full...)
Do guys get turned off by pubic hair?
Q. Do guys get turned off by pubic hair? Im 16 and im scared guys wil think im dirty. plz help ...
A. 12 June 2007: Each guy has his own preference- yes... but the majority of guys like a shaved or at least trimmed girl. You should give it a try cleaning up the area if you are comfortable with it. It gives the appearance that you have good personal grooming ... (read in full...)
I have fallen into deep depression and cry every day and night over the man who left me for his maby momma
Q. I have fallen into deep depression and cry every day and night over the man who left me for his maby momma. I guess i just cant accept that he is gone because everything was so perfrct and this one thing spoiled everything. He is moving on as ...
A. 12 June 2007: A Female- If this fellow has left you to be with the mother of his child- this is a good thing! Playing 3rd wheel can be one of the most difficult things to do in today's society. Suck it up and get back out there and find a new guy. I can assur... (read in full...)
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