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hello all, im a mad irish woman,

im ash im 20 and

ive done ALOT crazy things in my life.....

when i was 17 i dated a 25 yr old and we nerly got arrested for havin sex in public place!

when i was 18 i dated my 35 yr old married man with 2 babies he was my boss and he nerly got me pregnant,he suggested abortion if i was...so i dumped him!

now im with my lovely 22 yr old boyfrend we going out one and a half years and i love him to bits! hes the best! im so happy!

ive learned from my mistakes...hope you do too!

His jealousy and lack of trust makes me feel horrible-how do I deal with this?

Q.   I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two years. I have never cheated on him or lied or done anything that would cause him to not trust me, but for some reason he still doesn't. He is insanely jealous of my friends (he hates my best ...

A.   6 November 2007: i am in the same boat as you if you wanna chat i am here from ash xxx... (read in full...)

Sex is painful. What's wrong with me?

Q.   My boyfriend of a year has just dumped me because i find sex too painful, sometimes it burns and I never ever enjoy it. What is wrong with me? Can anyone help? I'm never gonna have a boyfriend with this problem. Im too embarrassed to see a dr....

A.   9 October 2007: your bf obviosly doesnt love you if he dumped you. you shud move on to someone who actually cares about you and not just sex.i find sex painful and burning sensation when i pee it very annoying my bf gets very frustrated but he puts up with it . i ... (read in full...)

Where is the g-spot????

Q.   where is the g spot?...

A.   5 September 2007: clit... (read in full...)

I think he's living with someone else. He only calls me during weekends, or when he wants to have sex. How do I let him know I'm not happy with our relationship?

Q.   So ... I am going out with this guy ... he is nice ...few years older than me ... everything was great ... until I found out,he lives with someone. Anyway .. he told me they are breaking up .. and that she is moving out .. so I gave him a ch...

A.   11 June 2007: hello,i was in similar situation as you,i only got calls from my ex for sex in his car or to sleepover at his house when his wife and kids went away for the weekend. i know it hurts alot. but dump him. seriously its such a relief when you do dump ... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant??

Q.   Hi everyone. My boyfriend and i had sex just over a month ago. We used a condom and he did not cum. I got my period a week later but now my period is very late. Like 2 weeks. Is there a chance i'm pregnant? Please write back ...

A.   10 June 2007: you cant get pregnant if he did NOT cum there is no chance you can get pregnant without cum your period is late because of worry,stress...... dont worry and you will get your period xxx... (read in full...)

I'm in love with a married man! Do I break up with my twice-as-old-as-me-boyfriend!?

Q.   I am 20 years old. I have been with my 40 year old boyfriend for two years. About six months ago, I have met this 34 year old man and I fell I love with him. He's married. He is a friend o my family and so is his wife. They got two small kids ...

A.   28 May 2007: i have been in similar situation as you all i can say is please please dont go their its not worth hurt and pain married men never leave their wives trust me i know i know its hard but please stay with your bf good luck xx... (read in full...)

What tips can you give me about making sex better for my boyfriend and I?

Q.   Please help. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly six months and we have started to try and have sex. I can make him come by blow jobs but so far he has only given me handjobs. These used to be very intense for me but recently I just haven't got ...

A.   27 May 2007: make sure you are ready(if you feel very tight and dry down below,maybe you are not ready yet) i was drunk when i lost my virginity so maybe have a few drinks to loosen up! good luck and relax its fun! Xxx... (read in full...)

I seem to have a scar line on the right side of my neck...

Q.   dear cupid i seem to have a scar line on ma right side of the neck, it seems to make my neck like it has some sort of lump or is swollen compared to the left side, i went to the doctors and they tell me its nothing their, i would like to know doe...

A.   22 May 2007: i have a lump on my neck too but doctors say its nothing!!! youll be fine if everybody says its nothing then youll be fine,dont worry ... (read in full...)

He's married and I like him alot! I am down because I know we'll never date...what should I do about my feelings?

Q.   I have very strong feelings for a married man(38) with 3 children. I think about him all day, everyday. I work with him through a charity organisation so am in touch with him now and again and am always trying to think of reasons to contact him. I ...

A.   11 May 2007: DONT GO THERE.... the pain is NOT worth it AT ALL...TRUST ME...... i have been in similar situation..... i(19) worked wit a guy (36) married wit 2 kids ..... i really liked he was so nice and so good looking and very good in bed.... he rang me we ... (read in full...)

I have a crush on a guy at work, I'm 21 hes 40! I cant read the signs, but could he like me too!?

Q.   Please Please Help Me!! I have a major crush on a 40 year old bloke at my work place! I dont know if hes married,divorced or single. I know he has a daughter the same age as me (21) but i dont want to say anything incase he says im too young or...

A.   16 April 2007: i started my paramedic job when i was 18 and i fancied my boss at work he was 35 i thought he was single. so i really fancied him and he always chatted joked laughed with me and he always gave me attention and i loved it. so he asked me 4 my number ... (read in full...)

He dumped me because I texted my ex bf! What can I do?

Q.   my boyfrend(22) and i(19) had been goin out 3months we had a big argument yesterday bcoz i told mi boyfrend that i texted my ex boyfrend a few weeks ago we wer jus chattin about work(the 3 of us work together) but now my boyfrend dumped me today ...

A.   14 April 2007: THANK U FOR UR REPLY ANNOYMUS i was drunk so i texted my ex it was a once off and it was about work and i delted all the messages so my bf actually never saw them but i deleted my ex's number a year ago but i still know it off by heart anyways my b... (read in full...)

Period is overdue by 6 days but pregnancy tests are negative! Could I still be pregnant?

Q.   My period was due a week ago today but I never came on. I took a pregnancy test when I was four days overdue and again when I was six days overdue although both turned out negative. Is there still a chance I could be pregnant?...

A.   13 April 2007: mine was 2months late(due to stress and worry bcoz dat delays ur period) so u shud wait a week or two and take another test goodluck and dont worry it onli makes tings worse... (read in full...)

I'm enjoying his attention and don't want to lose it.

Q.   im 18 and have a boyfriend whom i love . He doesnt work he is still in matric. i have a full time job and there is someone that works with me who is 33, married with one child who is extremely into me! we both wont let anythin happen because of the ...

A.   28 February 2007: three words i have for you TROUBLE TROUBLE TROUBLE and im not being mean im just talkin from experience im lookin out 4 you im 19 and i had an affair wit my 35yr old married wit 2kids BOSS (luckily nobody ever found out!) i STRONGLY advise you ... (read in full...)

I can't stop flirting with the girl at work, but I'm happily married! What do I do?

Q.   Ive been working in my new place for about 18 months now. My department is great and we all seem to get on. Im happily married and there is a younger girl in our department and things have gone where they shouldnt have. I like her and get on ...

A.   4 January 2007: hello there i just had to answer your question DONT go there please dont!!! if you love your wife please do not flirt anymore with the girl at work coz she will flirt back and prob doesnt know that youre married and she mite make a move i have been ... (read in full...)

I think Im in love with my boss!

Q.   Help, i think im in love with my boss. Last xmas we slept together and yes it was awkard after we came back to work purely on my part because i felt guilty as he has a wife. I know its wrong and nothing has happened between us since. But he gets ...

A.   6 October 2006: hi i am in a dilemma too! you are not alone! i am 18 and sleeping with my 35 yr old boss for the last 3months and he has a wife and 2kids and i do feel guilty but i cannot quit my job bacause i signed a contract for 3yrs and when he goes on ... (read in full...)

How do I dump my married man ??

Q.   okay this is the hard part how do i dump him what will i say will i say ''its not fair on your wife and kids'' or will i say ''i have a boyfrend now'' i dont know how hes going to react!!!im so nervous this is my first time dumping a married ...

A.   5 October 2006: well if i dump my married man he mite be very angry towards me at work or he mite fire me or he mite even say ''why its just fun'' i already told him before i hope this doesnt happen again but of course hes sooo charming i slept with him agen. i ... (read in full...)

I can orgasm through masturbation but I don't think I can during sex - it doesn't feel the same!

Q.   How do you know that you're having an orgasm? When having sex it feels really great but i don't seem to reach a definite point in which i reach an actual climax. It gets really good and them i sort of peak and it feels like i've had an orgasm. I am ...

A.   4 October 2006: i have never gotten an orgasm during sex only when he fingers me i get an orgasm when we do have sex it hurts me whats wrong with me???i really like him and he is very good in bed... (read in full...)

I have been seeing my boss for the last 3 months. Does he genuinely like me or is he just after sex?

Q.   What does he want from me? I've been at my job about 8 months and for the last 3 have been seeing my boss. We started out on the hot and heavy side, but have not had sex. I've made it very clear that I don't settle and that he needs to earn it. We ...

A.   24 September 2006: im 18 and sleeping with my 35yr old boss for the last 2months he is married with 2kids and i am single i feel guilty as hell but he does not feel guilty at all!!!!!!!! so he must just be after sex most men are cheating lying bastards... (read in full...)

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