Thinking of getting back with my ex but he frequently doesn't answer my calls!
Q. my ex and i might get back...we have been talking a little over 2 months. We will probably be meeting within the next few weeks..the thing that bothers me is its been about 5 or 6 times when it will be my turn to call and i do and there is no answer ...
A. 17 November 2009: I totally agree with Vivachacha, this has also worked for me. Although I have not gotten back with my ex but it has only proved my worth to him which I thought I'd lost.
The last time I returned all the stuff my ex has and he returned mine, I ... (read in full...)
What does her text mean? Does it mean anything?
Q. Heya fellas I recently broke up with my ex-girlfriend and need some help and advice. We met when we were both on vacation and stayed together for 10 days, then she left and came back to her country where 'luckily' i study there too. ...
A. 15 October 2009: I can tell as a girl that she still has some feelings for you. Most of the time, a girl will not bother or embarass herself if she doesn't have feelings for you anymore. I mean, why the effort to initiate contact? And even asking how you are ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to wipe an ex from memory?
Q. If you`ve seen "eternal sunshine of the spotless mind," you`ll know what i`m on about. i could do with forgetting i ever met a certain ex. it`s a long story, i`ve posted about her before. i`ve come to the conclusion that she needs to be gone from my ...
A. 13 October 2009: Well, I always cry when I watch that movie as that is one of my all time favorites. And I wish there was someone out there like this doctor who can erase your ex's memory in your brain. I believe it'll happen in the near future but not now.
And t... (read in full...)
Guys: Do you still think of your ex when in relationship with someone else?
Q. Just a qucik question to the guys who come here! Do you still think about your ex gf's or ex wives whilst you are in a relationship? If so how, when and why? Thanks :)...
A. 25 September 2009: I think it depends on the intensity of your ex's love for you and the time you spent together. Also, it depends on the person if he is the type to entertain such thoughts about you. Some people will savor this thought, some try their best to whisk ... (read in full...)
Why was he so intensely into me only to drop me later?
Q. What is it with guys who come on so strong in the beginning, pursue you like crazy, get your hopes up so much and then just drop you like you never mattered at all? I met someone online and I seriously thought he had a lot of potential. The f...
A. 25 September 2009: Yes, I think OzBloke is right. It doesn't just happen to women but to men as well.
On my side, I have seen guys who do that to girls but equally, girls have done that too. There is no universal rule to that.
Something we can be certain about is... (read in full...)
Obsessed with checking up on her...
Q. Hello everyone, I've been broken up with my last girlfriend for about a month now. We had a relationship for somehwhat more than a year. Her reason to break up with me was because I was being immature, although im 18 and starting my first year...
A. 23 September 2009: Hey, you're not alone...I also have the same obsession with my ex that I find it so hard to stop.
But right now, I seem to be succeeding not looking at it. How do I do that? Everytime I have the urge to go to his page, I remember what he has done... (read in full...)
I'm falling in love with my friend's boyfriend... what do I do?
Q. Hi my names jemma. My other best friend has got a boyfriend and so have I, we have been with our boyfriends for the same amount of time, 7 months, But here's the thing, im falling out of love with my boy friend, and im falling in love with her bo...
A. 21 September 2009: Girl, you sound naive to me.
But let me tell you, it is really very disrespectful to betray your friend..even enemies we don't sleep with their partners. Put yourself in her shoes, would you want your friend to do this behind your back?
How ... (read in full...)
He was so rude on while texting me but was the opposite in person...
Q. Hi, i am just confused a bit..if anyone can help. I saw my ex the other day which at first I tried to avoid because I am still too hurt about our break-up and upset that he ignored my IMs and text messages and even my last email. I really feel he...
A. 18 September 2009: Your ex is of the same type as mine. They definitely know what to say on text, chat or whatever using high tech but when you see them, it was as if they had an amnesia and totally acts like a different person. Mine doesn't look depressed but he... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin getting married with questions! Like, why do people call sex "lovemaking"?
Q. Hi, I just had a few questions about sex. I'm getting married in a couple weeks... and I kinda feel embarrassed admitting this but... I'm a virgin. :/ I would just like some tips and stuff.. I wouldn't dare ask my mom these questions because ...
A. 18 September 2009: I am just answering based on the title of your question: In my own experience love making has become literal. Believe me, I met my boyfriend and at first I wasn't that attracted to him but I am comfortable being with him and I enjoy sharing so... (read in full...)
In your opinion whats the best birth control method?
Q. Okay so I am an 18 year old female i have never been on birth control before and was wondering if any one knew how to determine which form is the best for you any suggestions? I was thinking of trying the patch but don't know if its effective or not ...
A. 16 September 2009: You want to know the answer to your question? Unfortunately, the best surest birth control is ABSTINENCE. Nothing can beat it. It is 100% guaranteed from pregnancy and STD, no cost and no side effects. But if you find this impossible in yo... (read in full...)
My LONG story and current situation!
Q. Right this is a VERY long one.. Back in October last year i was seeing another girl casually, i had been single for a long time and well we began talking and a few things lead to another we never slept together though i told her i didn't want sex,...
A. 15 September 2009: Hey, i really feel for you. I know its hard to let go of people we love and wonder why especially the mean ones are the ones we can't let go. I really don't know what to say to you as I am also in the same situation. But from my understanding... (read in full...)
He says we don't have a future together, but he won't let me go
Q. Dear Friends[would really want guys to answer this] I have a situation here. I am dating [3 months now]this guy of arabic origin. He is 25 and we met on facebook. I am a 27 yr old indian girl. Things happened slowly in the beginning. It all s...
A. 12 September 2009: Pls send me a private msg, we have the same case. I would like to share with you my case in private....... (read in full...)
I miss him and I really miss the sex...
Q. Hi, I recently broke up with this guy (about a little more than a month now). I miss him and I really miss the sex. I do feel horny at times but don't know what to do. Any advice......
A. 11 September 2009: Well, you are not alone. I feel the same way too even if I had been broken up with my ex since April 26, 2009. I don't know about others opinion but I saw my ex on July 11 and he wanted us to sleep together right there and then. Yet I refused. ... (read in full...)
Why was my ex so nasty to me?
Q. I am so fed up at the minute and can't understand why my ex is being so nasty to me. We recently split up after an arguement and never spoke about it afterwards. About two weeks before we split up someone had left a voice mail on my phone telling me ...
A. 4 September 2009: Oh, that's absolutely true. I recently broke up with a cheating bf and I whenever I confronted him calmly about it, I noticed he develops a shortness of breathing and gets angry at me.
I mean, why are they like that? My best guess is, they can... (read in full...)
It was my boyfriends idea to have a threesome but he flipped out when me and the other guy started having sex!
Q. My bf of 4 years has been asking me for a 3 sum for a long time, I agreed to have a ffm 3 sum if he would have a mmf 3 sum for me. Since we thought that if we gave in first the other would back out we opted for a group thing with another ...
A. 4 September 2009: Personally, I still could not fathom the thought of group sex with someone I love. I only speak for myself as I know for some people, this is okay..
I think your boyfriend has in his mind that it would be exciting to see you have sex with someone ... (read in full...)
So my FWB wants me to get pregnant. I'm not interested in having kids. What is going on here?
Q. I've been in a friend with benefits "situation" with a guy for 2 years now, and so far everything has been good. Last month he said he wanted me to stop taking my birth control so I can get pregnant. I don't know what 2 think. Is he seriously ...
A. 2 September 2009: Regardless if he is serious or not, do what you like and that is to not get pregnant. Stick with the pills and don't ever miss it. He cannot do anything anyway.... (read in full...)
She's really sending me mixed signals and I'm confused! Any advice on what she's thinking?
Q. OK, so i met this girl a few months back, and I fell for for her very fast. She knew how i felt about her, and for a month and a half or so things were extremely perfect! we never fought, and always enjoyed being around each other. About a month ago ...
A. 26 July 2009: I have two guesses why this is happening: 1. She might be really falling for you but she is trying to control herself as she just ended a relationship and is scared to gamble and get hurt again. 2. She realized that she is still not over the p... (read in full...)
What does sex mean to you as a person? Please, honest answers only!
Q. SEX...what does it mean to you? Just curious to find how different people respond to the matter. To me sex is sex. Its fun. I don't find it overly intimate whereas to me a cuddle is. I can't get enough of it sometimes. I never refer to sex as ma...
A. 22 July 2009: I share the same view with Sincerely Yours. I cannot imagine sex with someone I don't love. I have tried that with my boyfriend before whom I didn't love that time and everytime we do it, I feel used and have thoughts of just disappearing fro... (read in full...)
Is her new guy a bandaid or is she playing mindgames with me?
Q. So, my girlfriend and I of two years broke up. the last year we were living together. We got into a fight and she left the house didn't come home that night. first time she ever did that in a fight. everything was going good the weeks before. I ...
A. 4 July 2009: I agree more with our anonymous aunt here, I really think your ex wants you back and is in fact playing mind games with you. The only problem is that, she cannot live without a man by her side thats why she sticks to this new boyfriend. But i ... (read in full...)
I cant stop thinking about my ex-girl. Should I act on it?
Q. I broke up with my girlfriend after 3 years of ups and downs. I really loved her, but I felt it was the best thing to do given how she was treating me at the time. Funny thing is, I can't stop thinking about her. I tried to date other girls in the ...
A. 3 July 2009: The problem is...she has a boyfriend now. Just email her a very short note to ask her how she is. No pouring out of feelings. That is if you can control yourself not to expect for a reply or any initiative from her. Coz if you email and at the back ... (read in full...)
Help, I need to know... Is my boyfriend cheating on me?
Q. I have found a text message on my boyfriend's mobile phone. From a woman who has cropped up many a time in our past 2 years together. it said 'i miss you, i want you, I need you'. Is he cheating? Should I confront him? Is there any way that thi...
A. 29 June 2009: O my God, this happened to me before and I swear I regretted what I had done and if i had the chance to go back, i would've done a different thing... First thing is, your boyfriend might be cheating on you as you have caught him before saying th... (read in full...)
We were the 'perfect' couple; now he's with his cousin, and I can't get over it
Q. Dear cupid, I really need help. My ex boyfriend broke up with me exactly one year ago and I am SO not over him. We were together for 2 and 1/2 years. The first 18 months were perfect. People used to say we were the perfect couple. We were both...
A. 29 June 2009: I wish you could PM me...
The same thing happened to me. Although, after i have said so many times that I am over with my ex, I still am not..i broke up with him exactly 2 months ago and he left me for another girl.
It is really painful t... (read in full...)
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