Am I a slut?
Q. Am I a slut? A few people have said it to me and sometimes my friends say it, in a jokey way, but I think they kinda mean it sometimes. I'm 16, I've only ever had 1 proper boyfriend and we went together for about a year. About 10 months in...
A. 20 November 2009: Well do you feel like a slut?
Don't listen to what other people say, if you feel that you can do better then try to do sth about it, if you are happy where you stand then tell you friends what the situation is. I think that that what you did whil... (read in full...)
What does he mean by 'give it some time'?
Q. What does it mean if a guy says "Give it some time we"ll work stuff out either way"? I am going through rough time very stressed, I caused a fight with my boyfriend and said some mean and hurtful things to him and broke up. I have apologiz...
A. 20 November 2009: Well I think that it means after time you guys might work something out so that you can be together again. Sometimes when people get bad they say things they don't really mean, so he understood that you didn't mean all of these stuff. He said that ... (read in full...)
Bedroom issues...
Q. I enjoy sex, the problem is my husband has a small penis that I can't feel. He's clumsy in bed and has never made me orgasm. I have tried talking to him about it and he gets angry and starts saying that I don't love him so I have faked more orgasms ...
A. 19 November 2009: There are other ways to get an orgasm, not just trough sex. try G spot orgasm:
The g spot debate is far from over, and while Dodson doesn’t discount them, she favors clitoral stimulation at least being in the mix, and offers a wary attitude... (read in full...)
Why am I so destructive and jealous?
Q. I am extremely jealous and destructive. I was not always like this and I do not know how to fix myself. In high school I suffered with severe acne and a stye on my eye for almost two years. This was not because I was lazy and not looking for help. I ...
A. 19 November 2009: It is normal to be jealous... it means that you care, that it's not indifferent to you. Better be jealous then to not care at all.... (read in full...)
Why no erection?
Q. hi. i'm 17 boy. i masturbate rarely. except masturbation, i never had a erection in my life. i never had any girlfriend, i don't watch porn. but i get attracted by physical beauty of girls. i've never been closer to any girl. so do you think my not ...
A. 19 November 2009: Well my bf gets an erection nearly every time I just start to kiss him and flits with him with a little more passion... Maybe when you start a sex-life you'll get more erection. All people are different.... (read in full...)
He's getting me a promise ring for Christmas. What should I get him?
Q. What should I get him for Christmas? He's getting me a PROMISE RING. So, im 16 years old and my boyfriend is 17. We've had a great relationship, we've been together for basically 6 months, but we both know that if we met sooner, we would have be...
A. 18 November 2009: You can get him a bracelet with your name on or if that is a bit out of your prize range get him a photo of you two together in a nice frame with a poem in the back or a wallet with a picture of you inside so that when he is not with you, he'll be ... (read in full...)
What songs should I listen to after finding out he doesn't like me?
Q. To cut a long story short I have recently found out that the person I like, likes someone else, and to be honest... I'm gutted. But rather than moping around any longer [I like him A LOT] I want to move on. I need some songs that I can listen to ...
A. 18 November 2009: I agree " I will survive" sounds perfect. You should help yourself get through this not try to feel more sad.
This might sound a bit stupid but listen to your fave songs so that you can cheer up. You should make the best out of life :)... (read in full...)
Am I crazy for thinking my boyfriend might be gay?
Q. hi i have been with my boyfriend for ten months now, but i have known him for a long time... we both love eachother, he tells me alot that he loves me, treats me so good. this is gonna sound a bit crazy but i keep thinking my boyfriend is gay or ...
A. 18 November 2009: Nah I don't think he is gay... but then again I don't know him. Try speaking more to him about similar stuff and see how he reacts. Or try saying it as a joke just to see his reaction. ... (read in full...)
How do I keep my boyfriend happy?
Q. hey i have been with my boyfriend seven months now, but i have known him for years... we both love each other and are very close, i can be myself around him. but sometimes i feel that i could be boring him, do you have any tips on how to keep hold ...
A. 18 November 2009: 2 words... body language... Flirt a lot with him and show that you are happy with him, then he too will be happy :)... (read in full...)
Should I take the leap and tell my boyfriend I love him?
Q. after alot of ups and downs in my relationship my bf and i made back up things are going really good but i have a problem telling him how i really feel because i am afraid to get hurt.i am thinking like this if i let him know that i love him he ...
A. 17 November 2009: Yes I think that if you really love him you should let him know. In this way you'll find out how he feels :) An open relationship is the best kind, don't hold back :)... (read in full...)
Should I hide my emotions from my boyfriend?
Q. Hi im 18 and sometimes i get emotional and i just want to cry my eyes out cuz either im happy or mad and have no other way to let it out. But i dont like to do it around my boyfriend because i think he might think that i am a cry baby or somethin...
A. 16 November 2009: Tears aren't a sign of weakness. If you feel like crying... then cry. We girls are a bit more emotional I think. He might understand you :)... (read in full...)
I've been in love with my sister for 3 years!
Q. i need help i'm in love with my sister shes 17 and really beautiful and i'm 15 and i cant stop thinking about her every time i see her i want to grab her and kiss her and never stop this has bin going on for about 3 years now and i dont know if i ...
A. 16 November 2009: You really need to forget about her, maybe if you meet an other girl you'll forget about her. It will never work out. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my ex that I'm pregnant with his child?
Q. Just yesterday, I found out I was pregnant and it was confirmed by a doctor. My boyfriend and I recently split and he refused to give me a reason. Then only thing he told me was that he loved me but couldnt be with me anymore. But the night before, ...
A. 15 November 2009: Well ya I think you should tell him 'cause it might eat you alive in the future. What you'll do with the baby is an other question, but I think you should tell him.... (read in full...)
Are we ready for sex?
Q. i'm 16 and my girlfriend is 15 we have bin going out for 2 years and she asked me to have sex about 2 weeks ago and shes grabbing my croch and whispering in my ear shes wet and ready for me what sould i do...
A. 15 November 2009: Well buddy, only you can tell if you are ready for sex or not. Believe me, you'll know when you are ready :)... (read in full...)
Help! How can I get him to talk to me more?
Q. I know I am going to sound like Im in middle school writing this, but Im at a loss of words. My social anxiety has never prevented me so. There is this guy in my art class. He is pretty shy as well, though he is very sure of himself when he ...
A. 15 November 2009: Two words - body language. Try to show him that you are interested. Art class hey... Pretend that you dropped your pencil or brush, try to drop it in front of him and see if he will pick it up for you. Just start by saying "hey thanks that's nice of ... (read in full...)
Late period, and pregnancy test is negative! What do I do now?
Q. I just took a pregnancy test because I'm over a week late for my period, the test was negative... Should i take another one? If yes how long should I wait? And what should I do? I'm normally not this late!...
A. 13 November 2009: Just try to relax... don't make things worse.... (read in full...)
I think I.m in love with the tattoo artist,,should I ask him out for a drink?
Q. just under 3 weeks ago i had a tattoo done. it wasn't my first tattoo, it was a cover up of an old one. the tattooist was a man in his late 40s, who didn't look like a typical tattooist at all. he was just an attractive older man. he also had a ...
A. 13 November 2009: Ya girl why not, if you like him that a chance, what have you got to loose :) But start slow, don't rush into anything serious yet. You can go and watch him dance one evening and if you like it... join.... (read in full...)
Did you go against your christian beliefs and have sex before marriage? Input needed!
Q. This question is for practicing Catholics or christians who were taught that sex before marriage is wrong. I want to hear from those who have went against what their churches teach and have had sex before marriage and have happy marriages. I'd ...
A. 13 November 2009: Well I'm christian, I am a strong believer tough I'm still a virgin I've got the feeling that I too might break this rule... Here where I live in Bulgaria nearly no one believes in God (which I'm a bit disappointed in) and I really don't think that ... (read in full...)
Finding out my gf's family secret is really 'eating me up inside'! How do I cope?
Q. Recently I found out that my girlfriend of 5 1/2 years was molested by her brother from the 3rd grade through middle school (she was 9 and he was 14 when it started). Her brother and I met in our freshman year of high school and have been best ...
A. 13 November 2009: Aww man this sounds terrible... I really do feel sorry for you :( This isn't something that you can just forget in an eye blink. Talk to her and tell her that this is to hard to swallow, ask her what she would do if she was in your position, how ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so lonely...?
Q. I feel so lonely suddenly. Now all of friends are happily attached and I seem to be the only left over ones. I am 21 this year doing my third year in the university. Previously, there are some guys who gave chase to me but things don't work out well ...
A. 13 November 2009: Don't ever loose hope, hope dies last. My bf is 27 and he didn't have a gf before me. He tells me everyday how happy he is that he at last he found someone he can be happy with. Just be patients, I believe that God will not leave you alone your ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so lonely...?
Q. I feel so lonely suddenly. Now all of friends are happily attached and I seem to be the only left over ones. I am 21 this year doing my third year in the university. Previously, there are some guys who gave chase to me but things don't work out well ...
A. 12 November 2009: You feel lonely 'cause you long for companionship... You know what, I believe that there is a spacial someone for everyone. I know many people that found their soul mate in there late 20's. You will find yours as well just be patient :)... (read in full...)
Do women like chubby guys?
Q. Do women like chubby guys? My bmi is 26.3 and at 6 ft I wouldn't say that's insanly bad and it's not obese but it's not great either, so what do girls think of chubby guys? Is it really off putting? Is a beer belly enough to make you not want a ...
A. 12 November 2009: Well there are woman who like chubby men just like there are men that likes chubby girls... I have a friend who likes only bigger girls. he says that they are better in sex. There are many different women.... (read in full...)
I no longer have any feelings for my husband any more... what do I do now?
Q. I am 18 and i have a 14 month old baby and I am married... but I do not having feelings for my husband any more. He does not attract me in any way. How do I fix this problem?...
A. 12 November 2009: Try something new for the sake of your marriage and the baby. Try spending time with him alone, get a baby sitter, go out for a drink or a romantic dinner. Try doing something exiting new and fun with your sex life. You two can even go to e ... (read in full...)
I feel so much guilt... what should I do?
Q. I would really appreciate some help . I am going through a divorce. My husband left me after 18 years of marriage. We married young as students . Six months ago I started a friendship with a married man I have known for years. We slept together...
A. 12 November 2009: Well I think that it will be the right thing to end the sex life with him. He is actually the one who should feel guilty 'cause he is the one who is still with his wife. Stay friends with him just don't make him cheat again :)... (read in full...)
Should I continue my flirtation with my maid?
Q. i am 15 year old indian boy. a few days ago, i was alone in my house with my brother, who was downstairs glued to the tv . i went to have a bath and thinking who is gonna see me when i am alone, removed my towel soon as i came out. but what D...
A. 12 November 2009: I agree you should try and forget it.... (read in full...)
Horrible first time sex feeling, anything wrong with me?
Q. Lawn Care Specialist Reply I am 24 and just lost my virginity last night. Almost all my friend lost their virginity during teenage, so I told my bf that I have had sex with few person before but when I saw his penis size, I almost fainted,...
A. 12 November 2009: Don't worry you are normal. It doesn't mean that you don't like him or that he isn't the one for you. It's not like in the movies "perfect". The first time is always weird, strange and very painful for most girls and the blood is also normal. About ... (read in full...)
Can you love someone when you are still in love with your ex?
Q. Can you love someone if you still love your ex and your ex still stays in contact ? How do i move on ?...
A. 12 November 2009: You can't be in love with more then one person. You should give yourself some time to think nicely who you really love. If you truly love someone you wouldn't even think twice who you really want.... (read in full...)
If a man "bucks" during sex, what does it mean?
Q. What does it mean when a guy bucks durning sex? Probbly a stupied question and one I should know but i'm just curious....
A. 11 November 2009: "bucks", maybe he said "bugs" as in "pauses". Idk.... (read in full...)
I would already be engaged to her if it wasnt for her past! How do I overcome this?
Q. I'll try to keep it short. In June 07 I met a girl at a party and ending up sleeping with her that night. Both of us were sober. For the rest of the summer we hooked up here and there - f buddies. About a month after we first met my good friend told ...
A. 11 November 2009: Let the past stay in the past. The future is more important :) If you love her and think that you can trust her then you should really try to forgive and forget. Love her for who she is now, not who she was then :)... (read in full...)
I am unfulfilled in this marriage but divorce terrifies me.
Q. I have been married for 4 year and we have a 2 year old son together. Our relationship has been rocky for a long time. My wife is a good person albeit cold a distant sometimes. Throughout our relationship I have often felt alone and longing for ...
A. 10 November 2009: I agree, don't give up yet. Divorce should be the last option on the list. Try to make is work, try to bring the the passion and love back, do it for the sake of your baby boy. Try new things, go on holiday together as a family or just go for a walk ... (read in full...)
If a man "bucks" during sex, what does it mean?
Q. What does it mean when a guy bucks durning sex? Probbly a stupied question and one I should know but i'm just curious....
A. 10 November 2009: Well I've heard that what a woman pauses then she is having an orgasm, it might be that same for guys...... (read in full...)
Our age difference doesn't bother us, but my father is not speaking to me!
Q. Im 19 and I've fallen in love with robert, a 36 year old. We've been getting to know eachother quite intensively last six months and last week we've had the most amazing sex, every aspect of 'us' is amazing and I can't stop thinking about him. I d...
A. 10 November 2009: I'm in the same position as you are ;( (age difference 9 years)
It really is very sad when they only look at the age difference and not at the good side. I really get very upset when people pushes there noses in other peoples business! I cried ... (read in full...)
HOw can I control my urge to have a baby?
Q. Im 16 years old and i want a baby! i have previously been pregnant two times and miscarried both, which left me very emotional. i have always wanted to have kids but over the past 6months i have wanted one more and more and it can get emotiona...
A. 10 November 2009: Get yourself a puppy or a cat. You're still so small. There will come a time when you'll have children. That time will come when you finish school. You should understand that there is a lot more to it then just to play with it and to love it. With a ... (read in full...)
Age difference has become a problem - after 5 years!
Q. My boyfriend is 17 years my senior. For most of our relationship, this was never a problem, but lately it has started to really bother me. It has nothing to do with our different interests or anything like that, and he certainly doesn't act his ...
A. 10 November 2009: I can't understand why you are looking at the other people and worrying what they might say or think. If he makes you happy then why not be with him. Think of all the positives and negatives, see which one is more. Why all of the sudden after 5 ... (read in full...)
Would this be considerd rape...i don't want to think badly of him...
Q. Mah boyfriend and i had been together for 5 months...we had had sex before but one night we were washing his car in his barn and there is a couch in his barn. Well sprayed him with the hose (juss being goofy) and then ran to couch. he followed too ...
A. 9 November 2009: I must say that I sorta agree with pinktopaz... If you said NO and he kept going then maybe he did rape you. Well, what they call it is not important, you should just be careful and protect yourself and your own body. Maybe this was his way of ... (read in full...)
Can a guy in his late 30's be interested in a girl in her late 20's for a serious relationship?
Q. Could a guy in his late 30s be interested in a woman in her late 20s for a more serious relationship? We are 10 years apart, almost to the exact day....
A. 9 November 2009: Of course! I'm in an age-difference-relationship myself. There is nothing wrong with that and it is very possible :) ... (read in full...)
How do I nicely tell my friend that she is annoying me?
Q. I've got this one friend. We are in the same class. By each passing day she is annoying me more and more. Her boyfriend is in England right now and she is starting to go out with my boyfriend, they are friends and I'm ok with that but now she is all ...
A. 9 November 2009: Thanx 4 the advice guys. I tried talking to her before but it got a little worse. She keeps in touch with her bf every day, she really want attention and when ever we give it to her she makes such a big deal of herself. Anyway thanx again ;)... (read in full...)
Do you think it's okay to send your ex a Happy Birthday message? Or should you just leave it?
Q. Do U think its ok to send your ex happy birthday message or just leave it?...
A. 8 November 2009: Well I thing there is nothing wrong with sending him a msg for his B- day if you are still friends. I sent my ex a sms and he wrote back "I'm glad you remembered". You can still stay in touch. If you have a new bf let him know that you are staying ... (read in full...)
Do you think he blames me for him getting to work late? What is going on with him?!
Q. So my bf was supposed to come over yesterday night, because he needed me to wake him up at 5 in the morning because he has work at 6, he never came over and i called him like at 10 the next morning, asking him why he did not come over again, he said ...
A. 8 November 2009: Even if he is blaming you, you are not to blame. First he didn't come over like he said, second he is responsible for his own actions. He very well knew that he's got work in the morning, he could set the alarm or something.
You should speak to h... (read in full...)
My lesbian cousin wants to date me!
Q. Okay..my first cousin (she's 17 and im 16 year old GIRL) wants to date me. We used to do sexual things(just oral) when we were younger but i didn't think this would happen. I know deep down i feel the same about her but i dont know what to do. She...
A. 8 November 2009: This sound wrong in more ways then one. Don't date her and don't have sex with her. You might regret it.... (read in full...)
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