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I'm AngelAgonyaunt here to help you! Im only a teenager, but a very mature one, as everyone tells me =) i love answering peoples problems because it makes me feel like im helping others with their lives and i feel good about myself. Im probably best at teen 10-18 questions, so mail me if you want to talk!
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Why are there so many awkward silences between us now?
Q. my girlfriend stopped talking to me as much and we seem to be having trouble talking to each other. Lately we have been having awkward silences when talking. I don't know what to do.... Does anyone have sugestions on what I could do to make it ...
A. 17 October 2008: Just be completely honest and tell her exactly how you feel. Was the relationship always like this or do you think its just a phase?
Remind her of all the good times you have had together, and be really open. If the relationship is boring you both... (read in full...)
My parents are being extremely over protective!! Help!
Q. hiya im 19 years old and the youngest in my family. my parents are extremely overprotective and they don't let me go out too much. i'm at a point where i dont keep in touch with too many people for fear they might ask me to come out and my parents ...
A. 26 September 2008: So your parents wont let you out full stop?
I mean, you are 19, you have your whole life to live and your parents make you stay in?
I think its time to talk to your folks in the mature way that I'm sure you are, tell them you realise they are tryi... (read in full...)
What's the best way for me to make friends?
Q. Hiya, recently I went through a really bad phase of anxiety attacks. I didn't really want to be out socialising and it went on for about two years, on and off. Now I think I'm over the anxiety and I'm coming into my own; however in that period o...
A. 26 September 2008: Theres loads of things you could do. Like babylove14 said, it would be a good idea to find some old friends. You could also find a new hobby, or get closer to people at work/collage/uni ect. ... (read in full...)
I like this girl but she's taken...
Q. Hi, There is this girl at my college who I really like, i get the bus home with her a lot and I have become friends with her but i kind of want to ask her out. The problem is she is with someone else, obviously it is not possible at the moment fo...
A. 26 September 2008: Well i definately wouldn't recommend making a move, focus on other people and get closer to other girls, who arent taken. Its hard when you really like someone but all you can really do is move on or wait for them to come out of their relationship, ... (read in full...)
I feel I would look stupid kissing guys. How do I take the edge off so I can actually date?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm in high school but am worried about the way i look,like every other girl i guess.Most of my friends have boyfriends or have recently been in a relationship.I have not been in a relationship for over three years. ...
A. 21 September 2008: If you really like someone, it shouldn't matter about all the other stuff. You might think no one else is in the same postiton, but they are, ( like me! ) I really think you should go for it, and if it doesnt work out, he obviously doesnt deserve ... (read in full...)
I can't see him for another month! What am I supposed to do?
Q. my boyfriend got grounded earlier today for a month, when i get ungrounded on monday, we both have strict parents and don't deserve to be punnished as we've done nothing wrong (both for different reasons btw) meaning i can't see him, or talk to him ...
A. 12 September 2008: Before you find someone who likes you, you have to like yourself. 1) Find a hobbie, something you enjoy, it could be rounders, rock-climbing, ice-skating, football, dancing, swimming, an art club, photography, anything! 2) Get talking to diff... (read in full...)
Should I meet up with this online guy I've known for 3 years? I'm scared...
Q. I met this guy online three years ago we talked ever since but he lived in london which is otherside of england to me. we never met up and havent talked for about 6 months. Today i got a text from him, he is in Leeds for a year and wants to meet up ...
A. 12 September 2008: It does seem quite strange,
Have you talked to him on the phone?
Then at least you know what he sounds like.
Also if he was a wierdo i think he wouldn't be patient enough untill you were ready to meet.
Maybe the best thing to do is meet him in t... (read in full...)
I don't have a previous sex life, but she does, how do I get over it?
Q. how can i over come and stop thinking about my girl friends past ? i love her so much and i have waited for her for 4 long years but now that i have her in my life her past just haunts me bcoz i my self never had a past,pleeeeeeeez help ????...
A. 1 September 2008: How cares about the past? She obviously doesnt, otherwise why would she be with you?
Concentrate on the future and make a fresh start with her in your life.
... (read in full...)
He says he loves me and blushes when he sees me! But he has a girlfriend?
Q. Complicated Problem please Help! Ok first of all. I'm 14 and the guy who im in love with is 15. We have been friends through out primary school and when i started my first year of high school i fell for him. Through out that year he kept gi...
A. 23 August 2008: Its seems like you have made out this situation to be more complicated than it actually is! From what you have said, it definatlely sounds like hes into you. You can't trust the rumours 100%, but theres probably a good chance they are true. So her... (read in full...)
What if he has a girlfriend? Should I step back?
Q. Hi! I like a guy. He doesn't talk a lot about past or current relationships and stuff like that so, I don't know if he has a girlfriend or if he likes someone. I'm trying to find out about that. But if he does have a girlfriend, should I step ba...
A. 16 July 2008: It sounds like you need to get him to open up.
Forget all the eye contact, sutle flirting rubbish, i have a few ideas for you.
1) Do some research. you could casually talk to his mates about him and find out if he has a gf.
2)If that tactic doesn... (read in full...)
I think he's coming round and wants to do stuff, what do I do?
Q. i met this boy called dillon 2day and he seems ded nice but he came my house while i got a drink we went up to the water dispencer in my room coz it ice cold anywayyzz we ended up play fighting messin about he through me on the bed and sed nothin ...
A. 16 July 2008: The main question people have been asking in response to this question is where are you parents?
I'm your age and believe me, my parents would stuggle to leave me and a boy they had known very well for ages, for a few MINUTES in a bedroom, let alon... (read in full...)
I want to ask him to the cinema, good idea?
Q. ifancy a boy in my year and i never really talk to him much do you think he will go out with me if i ask him to the cinema...
A. 18 June 2008: I think you should ask him out with a group, then theres not too much pressure ect and then you can see how things go.... (read in full...)
Help me get over this arrogant guy!
Q. I feel awful, recently at a party i got drunk and really humiliated myself in front of someone i care about alot. We were sort of in a relationship for a few weeks about a year and a half ago. We both wanted to end things but about a month after i ...
A. 2 June 2008: It's not pathetic, infact it can be horrible when you get humiliated infront of people, let alone the person you really like on top of that!
I really think he doesnt deserve you, you say after splitting up you went out with other people, and that... (read in full...)
Does he like me or was that a one day thing?
Q. it was 2 days before the last day of school.we were in 4th period about to take our exams.everybody was out in the hall.he came over near me and smiled.i didn't know what was going on so i turned around.i dropped my paper by accident and leaned o...
A. 31 May 2008: Its hard to say but he sounds like a right idiot. You have known him since 4th grade and he has had all that time to confess his feelings, but instead thinks its funny to put his hands down your shirt! I would move on and stop thinking about him.... (read in full...)
Is it possible that he likes me more than just a friend?
Q. what am i supposed to do. theres this boy. and hes like my best friend. we basically tell eachother everything. he was there for me when no1 else was. buht like now he flirts with me alot. hes always touching me. like brushing my hand or sholder or ...
A. 31 May 2008: Well from what you have said, it seems very likely he does fancy you. The dance sounds like a fab way to get together :) If you like him, go for it! ... (read in full...)
Will guys see me as a slut now?
Q. I was wondering if i was a slut. Its been on my mind for a while now. I am 15 and I am not in a relationship but lost my virginity recently. He wasn't my bf, but i really like him and don't regret it. Well anyway I did most things with him (bj, ...
A. 30 May 2008: well... Don't be suprised if you get called one, if the word spreads around, people can be like that.
You're only really a slut if you go round sleeping with loads of lads, but maybe you should have made sure he was your boyfriend first, but as long... (read in full...)
Do you think she likes me?
Q. hi i need some advice i have knowen this girl since 2005, fom school we was good m8s in may-2007 i think she liked me and i like her but was to shy to ask her out then i left my school in the summer holidays(august). and saw her stil but not as m...
A. 23 May 2008: You seem like a really nice guy :)
ok so, hope i can help.
1) Firstly, you could get some othe friends together, and maybe go bowling/cinema ect. Then casually ask her if she wants to join you. This takes the pressure of asking for an atcual da... (read in full...)
How do you know if you're in the "friend zone" with a guy?
Q. how do you know if you're in the friend's zone with a guy?...
A. 5 May 2008: well..
to make it easier i will tell you if you are in the "romance" zone.
1) The guy will look at you alot.
2) He might mess around and joke alot.
3) He will try and show off infront of his friends.
4) His face will light up when he sees yo... (read in full...)
I love this guy so much, but I don't know where I really stand with him. What should I do?
Q. I don't know what to do about him anymore. I have known this guy for three years now, he has not been in a relationship with anyone. Him and I always talk and we keep eachother company all the time. There is not one day that we do not talk. I ...
A. 5 May 2008: This guy seems pretty confusing.One minute hes there telling you all his secrets and that he loves you, and the next he doesnt care. You say he gets jelous if you are with his friend, that might be because he doesnt want anything to come between ... (read in full...)
He is older and we often don't see things eye to eye. He blames everything on me!
Q. My boyfriend is older than me and we often don;t see things eye to eye. He's very jealous and don't admit it, and blames everything on me What do i do? ...
A. 25 April 2008: Ask yourself this question: do you really want to be with him?
Think back to what attracted you to him in the first place, is he really worth it?
If you do still want to be with him, maybe its time to talk to him about how you feel, and make the... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and my girlfriend is extremely shy, she changes the topic when I talk about us, etc. What to do?
Q. Hi im 14 and me and my gf have been going out for a month now and she is really really shy i dunno whether it was the fact that we used to be friends before we went out or what but all my other friends kiss and hug their gf's. but also during conv...
A. 25 April 2008: Some people are quite shy when it comes to a ... (read in full...)
What is the easiest way to let down a friend that wants to be more?
Q. What is the easiest way to let down a friend that wants to be more? I have a friend that I get on well with but am not really really close to me, recently he's been keener and keener about doing things with me(just hanging out and stuff) and texts ...
A. 15 April 2008: Make sure you are just matey, nothing else, then he wont get the wrong idea. If he does tell you how he feels, tell him you think you are both better off as mates, and dont want to ruin the friendship. Also, it would be better to not accept every ... (read in full...)
I have 2 guy friends and want to know of either of them likes me
Q. I have 2 guy friends (we all belong to the same organization in school) and lately, they're driving me insane as I speculate on whether either of them likes me or not, ithat/i way. Lots of times, I think I'm just being paranoid but I want to know ...
A. 15 April 2008: Well it sounds like guy number 1 likes you.
Boys that tease you, look at you a lot and give gifts generally fancy you. Why dont you casually ask him if he has a girlfriend? Then you will know for sure. If you are too embarrased, you could just wait... (read in full...)
Should I bet getting more attention than I am getting??
Q. My boyfriend has been really busy lately but can make time for friends or to play video games or something, but cant seem to find time to just like talk to me or something, am i being paranoid? Should i be getting more attention than what I'm ...
A. 4 April 2008: Thats not very fair. Hes taking you for granted a bit.
Have a chat and work things out.... (read in full...)
Friend and boyfriend problems... help!!!
Q. Hi, ok so my problems quite a big one and its got lots of different things in one, so please carry on reading thanks! I'll start with me and my boyfriend. He means the world to me I love him to bits. The thing is I know I'm too young so please d...
A. 31 March 2008: 1. I know everyone one will probably tell you this, but you arent ready for sex, mentally or physically, trust me, it will not be good. Maybe you want to know a bit more about sex, and you do really need someone to talk openly about your feelings. ... (read in full...)
My friend thinks I should ask him out but I'm too fat and ugly for him to ever like me. What should I do?
Q. hi this is quite long sorry well i am 12 and in year 7 at school and there is this boy in my tutor we talk and laugh together and i really fancy him and want to go out with him, but i am to fat and ugly that he will never go out with me also my ...
A. 22 March 2008: to be honest, i wouldent bother asking this guy out. It sounds like he does fancy you too, but my rule is to never ask a guy out, let them do it. This is just my opinion though, and im sure he would say yes if you did ask him out. Why do you think ... (read in full...)
Does our ages and age difference count?
Q. hello everyone, i really need help. i'm 15 and there's a friend who lives on my street, i have knew him since i was about 6. (he is 13 now by the way so i'm 2 years older). we both fancy eachother. do you think it would be right for us to have sex ...
A. 13 March 2008: You could atcually be charged for this if you were 16. How do you know what you want, do you really think the sex will be fun? And hang on, does this boy want to have sex with you or not? you have said he does, then he doesnt, in your question. If ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with him even though I don't fancy him and hope I develop deeper feelings??
Q. I'm in a new relationship(been with him just over 2 mths now) with a really sweet, kind and generous guy, So i really wana make it work but i'm still in love with my ex who i split up with nearly 3 yeas ago (another very long complicated story) and ...
A. 13 March 2008: Its hard to say, as you havent explained the story behind your ex. But if you still dont fancy the new man now, then you probably never will, and there is no point being in the relationship if you just want to be with him out of sympathy or ... (read in full...)
How can I relax around the guy I like?
Q. Hi, I'm wondering how to stop being so nervous around the guy I like; we're friends, and before I told him I like him, I could be totally normal around him. Now that he knows, and isn't sure how he feels about me, I am extremely nervous around ...
A. 29 February 2008: Just try to think of him as a friend.
Imagine hes just another quy mate and hopefully you wont feel as nervous.
Trust me it works!... (read in full...)
Will he tell?
Q. hi every one, I'm only 14 and i have fallen in love with this guy, but he only likes me for what I did in the past... I have shown him my breasts and I wish I didn't.. I really do. Now he wants me to show it to him again, but I keep on saying no. I ...
A. 29 February 2008: why do you still want to be friends with him? After what hes done to you? You dont deserve this, no girl does, and you have let him use you. Never let any boy push you into something you dont want to do. I no you feel like whatever hes done d... (read in full...)
I have a creepy feeling that this teacher likes me more than usual, what do I do?
Q. I Have Got This Creepy feeling this Teacher likes me more than usual. whether its just that I'm Friendly and because every teacher in the school knows me I am very sociable with them, but, he always smiles at me and if he sees me in the corridors he ...
A. 29 February 2008: Your instincts are telling you something isnt quite right and i think you should listen to them. Maybe you are overreacting, but there is a fine line between being friendly and being pervy. Tell a trusted adult, parent, or teacher how you feel. If ... (read in full...)
Since we're going out should I hold his hand?
Q. I'm a 13yr old girl and I just got asked out by a boy in my class. He's 13 too and he's a real sweet person. I started going out with him today and he's talked to me today abit but he looks really shy. Since we're going out should I hold his hand? ...
A. 22 February 2008: Do what ever comes naturally. You both sound shy, so try to talk to him as much as you can, and dont let anyone push you into doing anything you dont want to. Then arrange a date, and see what happens!... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing by telling him she isn't into him?
Q. Hey, I need some opinions on my situation. There's this girl I know who has been getting textx from a boy all the time, and you can tell he likes her. Problem is though, she hates him. He annoys her and she complains about him all the time. For ...
A. 22 February 2008: Well it wasnt fair what this girl was doing, and although you were trying to do the right thing, maybe u should'nt have got involved. But its done now, and the best thing you can do is leave him to it for a while. If he does like you, he will show ... (read in full...)
Will I ever find a boyfriend?
Q. Help, I've only ever had 1 boyfriend at the age of 24 and it lasted only 5 weeks, he broke it off with me though, he was the one who made the first move and ended it through text saying I need someone on my own level and he did not feel the same, ...
A. 8 February 2008: Do you know what?
Most girls who find the right man is probably because they believe in themselves.
Saying you are ugly wont help your self-esteem! And if friends say you arent, why dont you believe them?
It can be hard, with others having boyfr... (read in full...)
Ready to have sex but too embarrssed!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for over 3 months now. I have sucked him off and given him a hand-job. As he is two years older than me, he says he doesnt want to have sex as i am not ready yet and he says that he is happy with waiting ...
A. 19 January 2008: Its great you are mature enough to wait, and that your boyfriend also repspects your decision.
If you are nervous, dont worry! he probably is too.
The best thing to do is to plan ahead and make sure your special night is perfect, then you will... (read in full...)
Is there any way to boost my confidence and actually talk to him?
Q. Well, I have getting over a lad who has a girlfriend for a while now. I still find him attractive but im doing all the things to stop me thinking about him which is gd :). Well, i have recently started noticing another lad in one of my college ...
A. 11 January 2008: Firstly, well done for getting over the other lad, hopefully now you are ready to move on.
If you have caught him looking at you, there IS probably a chance that he likes you, but he may be shy.
Looking for someone on myspace isnt the best th... (read in full...)
Do I confront him or just wait?
Q. So, I've been after this girl for a long time--two years now--and have become good friends with her, even though I've never made my feelings known to her. One of my friends, someone I've known almost all my life, just recently broke up with hi...
A. 9 January 2008: Hi there,
This is an awful situation! You probably regret not telling her or your friend how you felt before they got together.
Dont feel like because your friend has only just met this girl, and they are already dating, there is something wr... (read in full...)
He shows off with his friends...but when we are alone its different...does he like me??
Q. Does he like me? He always smiles at me and is joking around. But he shows off when hes with friends, hes sooo nice when its just us and he acts like we've got a thing going on but he gets annoyed at me when i talk to his friend and not him!! ...
A. 5 December 2007: He obviously likes you a lot. some boys are great on their own but as soon as they are with their mates, they are a different person. Its because they want to look cool infont of their friends, and hate being teased. However, if he takes this too ... (read in full...)
I am 14 and I feel like my life is almost falling apart.
Q. I am 14 and I feel like my life is almost falling apart. 1. my parents had a huge argument and are still not talking and it's getting to me. 2.my group of friends have totally split now and I only hang around with two other girls. 3.I have...
A. 23 November 2007: 1. You need to talk to your parents and help them understand your feelings. If this doesent work, call a helpline or visit the childline website.
2. Maybe you could try making new friends at school or in your area.
3. at your age, boyfreinds ... (read in full...)
I realise I have friends, but not best friends; I am never invited to parties, etc. I'm usually a happy girl, but this depresses me.
Q. Okay so usually im a happy girl. But lately, its been just so depressing. I realize i have friends, but not best friends. its so horrible. i never get invited to parties, i dont have a boyfriend, and im not miss popular, even thoug...
A. 23 November 2007: hi im your age and it seems like all teenagers go through this sort of situation. You are doing great, you are well-liked, and sure of yourself. You dont follow the crowd like most people. The thing you have to ask yourself is do you really c... (read in full...)
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