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My husband had a 2 hr long, intimate conversation with a girl and I cannot believe this is happening to me. What do I do now?

Q.   First of all, I would like to thank everybody that takes the time to answer my question. I would just like to know what people consider cheating in a marriage, or if anyone has been in the same situation. I am 24yrs old, married for t...

A.   22 September 2011: I'm no expert but no decent woman (like you) deserves anything less than honesty, sincerity, happiness, love, and respect from the man that she said "I do" to. Do not sell yourself short, do not believe that what you found was "just killing ... (read in full...)

Should I dump the girl I love to go for a hotter girl?

Q.   Hi I am currently in a relationship with someone I love. My friends say she is gross and ugly. A "hotter" girl likes me but I don't like her. Should I dump my current gf and go for the other one?...

A.   15 October 2010: You've gotta be kidding me. The fact that you're asking this question proves that you're shallow. If you love the girl you're with, and also want to risk losing her love, go for it. Let's hope that your current girlfriend moves on before you ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend's ex died 7 months ago and I feel he is just stringing me along

Q.   Here it goes. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. His ex-girlfriend, who found out she had leukemia about a month before they broke up (about 2 years ago) passed away about 7 months ago. My boyfriend still talks about her, and o...

A.   12 October 2010: And thank you, Auntie Snap, because your response made me cry but put things into perspective. He has not spoken to a grief counselor. The subject is beyond touchy with him, I've only brought it up maybe 2 times in the past 7 months to him. I ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend's ex died 7 months ago and I feel he is just stringing me along

Q.   Here it goes. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. His ex-girlfriend, who found out she had leukemia about a month before they broke up (about 2 years ago) passed away about 7 months ago. My boyfriend still talks about her, and o...

A.   12 October 2010: Funny how I wrote this a couple hours ago because for #1, he called me a few minutes ago and said that his ex girlfriend's mother wrote him a message on Facebook telling him she thinks it's time for him to take the picture down... #2, he said he ... (read in full...)

Afraid my friend is moving too quickly?

Q.   My friend has been with her boyfriend just less than a year now, and six months of that time he has been in different country. She talks about "their wedding" all the time and even emailed him pictures of the ring she wanted and told him her ring ...

A.   12 October 2010: wow, if this question was posted a few months ago i would have thought you were talking about a friend of mine who use to be in the same situation. Only it wasn't her first boyfriend, by any means. I think that you should start sharing your adv... (read in full...)

Why do you answer to these questions?

Q.   I just want to know something, why do you guys answer to these people? what do you plan to get out of it? do you think "God" will reimburse you for your efforts and "love"? do you feel better by helping others you don't know? I really don't see any ...

A.   12 October 2010: welllll if i asked a random question on this website to get unbiased feedback, i'd only assume there's other people on this website doing the same. if everyone only asked questions and never answered any, dearcupid.org would be pointless, now ... (read in full...)

She left her husband for me and now I don't want her!

Q.   I dont think I love my girlfriend of two years anymore. Here is the situation, 2 years ago I met this girl, but she was already married for 4 years but something happened and we started talking with one another and before you know it we were getting ...

A.   12 October 2010: inevitably, you'll realize you can't live the way you're living with this woman and you'll have to break it off. You'll HAVE to hurt someone in the end because there's no other way out, it seems. She'll be forced to move on, find friends, and ... (read in full...)

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