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I've had quite a few relationships and been through some tough emotional times and survived. I think that what doesn't damage you certainly makes you stronger. I believe in the human capacity to help each other when necessary. I love music, reading, football and running and like to cook. I live in the UK in the north of England where we're said to be quite gregarious, down-to-earth types, I like those qualities about the people here.

Should I ditch her completely?

Q.   I've been seeing a girl who has split from a guy who had been beating her, this has happened 4 times now, with increasing severity. We meet every now and again, but she blows hot and cold and never wants to meet when i suggest it, we only meet when ...

A.   5 July 2012: Update. I ensured I was there for her and she wanted to chat and opened up, it turns out she wasn't sure what I wanted and now we're going out. Thanks to everyone who very kindly answered my question, I am very greatful.... (read in full...)

Should I ditch her completely?

Q.   I've been seeing a girl who has split from a guy who had been beating her, this has happened 4 times now, with increasing severity. We meet every now and again, but she blows hot and cold and never wants to meet when i suggest it, we only meet when ...

A.   23 June 2012: In answer to Honeypie's question which I failed to answer, but will now; no, she wants nothing more to do with him.... (read in full...)

Should I ditch her completely?

Q.   I've been seeing a girl who has split from a guy who had been beating her, this has happened 4 times now, with increasing severity. We meet every now and again, but she blows hot and cold and never wants to meet when i suggest it, we only meet when ...

A.   23 June 2012: Thanks to everyone who provided responses, it's much appreciated. In response to some of the questions posed; if I didn't like this girl I'd hardly be with her and certainly wouldn't be posting on this site for advice! I've also attempted to tal... (read in full...)

Ex texted me acting as though we never split up. WHY?

Q.   I have an update to a previous situation with my now ex girlfriend. I'm seeing a new girl, she's more my own age and really nice, we're getting on well and I'm optimistic. There's none of the games that my ex played but I put that down to the age ...

A.   28 April 2010: Thanks for all your comments, much appreciated. Ex texted me and asked what was happening with me so I texted that i was seeing someone and it was going well. It seems my ex was just fishing for info as she asked me about other areas of my life. ... (read in full...)

She wants to meet up with her ex, should I feel anything?

Q.   I'm new to the site, I have a situation which is making me anxious. I met a girl in Feb of this year and we started dating. I was reluctant to at first as she was a lot younger than me, there's an age gap of 16 years, I'm 39. My friends convinced me ...

A.   22 April 2010: I have an update. I'm seeing a new girl, she's more my own age and really nice, we're getting on well and I'm optimistic. There's none of the games that my ex played but I put that down to the age difference. Anyway, I haven't contacted my ex for 3 ... (read in full...)

She wants to meet up with her ex, should I feel anything?

Q.   I'm new to the site, I have a situation which is making me anxious. I met a girl in Feb of this year and we started dating. I was reluctant to at first as she was a lot younger than me, there's an age gap of 16 years, I'm 39. My friends convinced me ...

A.   9 January 2010: One more thing, my ex wanted to spend New Yars Eve with me but I think that's merely as she didn't have anything planned, and I managed to talk her out of it as she was staying at her parents and it wasn't commutable as no buses and taxi fares were ... (read in full...)

She wants to meet up with her ex, should I feel anything?

Q.   I'm new to the site, I have a situation which is making me anxious. I met a girl in Feb of this year and we started dating. I was reluctant to at first as she was a lot younger than me, there's an age gap of 16 years, I'm 39. My friends convinced me ...

A.   9 January 2010: Here's an update in case you're interested. I had a chat with my now ex and told her I was unhappy with the whole situation and wanted to end what we had. It turns out she still loves her ex and was planning on meeting him. Bizarrely enough, the ... (read in full...)

She wants to meet up with her ex, should I feel anything?

Q.   I'm new to the site, I have a situation which is making me anxious. I met a girl in Feb of this year and we started dating. I was reluctant to at first as she was a lot younger than me, there's an age gap of 16 years, I'm 39. My friends convinced me ...

A.   19 December 2009: I asked my girlfriend: 'If there is something there, what then'? She replied: 'There wont be, I dont even know him'. Anyway, we're meeting up over xmas as she's staying with her family. I guess when I see her I'll get an idea of the status of our ... (read in full...)

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