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He says he can't accept my son and the predictability, when days before we were making plans to move together!

Q.   I need some support. Although I have a pretty good support system of friends...I just need to hear it from other people, I guess. I was with a guy for over 2 years, on and off. We were friends for almost 10 years before that. Didn't have much ...

A.   5 March 2012: If he wants you in his life he has to accept your son in his life as well. ... (read in full...)

I can't get my girlfriends past sex life out my head

Q.   Hi - hope you can help. Have been going out with my girlfriend for 5 months and just found out that she has been a lot more sexually active than I - sleeping with at least 14 different partners (she is 32). I think this is a lot personally, I am ...

A.   19 February 2012: Being honest man, either you stay with her or find someone who's past you can tolerate. Everyone has standards, F**k the just love her and get over it speech. If that was the case you wouldn't really care about her past. You can't change how you ... (read in full...)

Should I be upset that my gf keeps giving out her phone number to guys who clearly like her?

Q.   So me and my new girlfriend have been together for 6 months. I'm 25 and she's 20. Things were going really well or so I thought...we started having problems when she started talking to guys and giving her phone number to them, usually on the bus ...

A.   10 April 2011: sorry didn't mean to enter that twice.... (read in full...)

Should I be upset that my gf keeps giving out her phone number to guys who clearly like her?

Q.   So me and my new girlfriend have been together for 6 months. I'm 25 and she's 20. Things were going really well or so I thought...we started having problems when she started talking to guys and giving her phone number to them, usually on the bus ...

A.   10 April 2011: yeah, and today she said that this guy she met on the bus (a month or two ago) was someone she knew before me. so then the argument was about why didn't she say he was a friend instead of saying she talked to some guy on the bus? saying i met some ... (read in full...)

Should I be upset that my gf keeps giving out her phone number to guys who clearly like her?

Q.   So me and my new girlfriend have been together for 6 months. I'm 25 and she's 20. Things were going really well or so I thought...we started having problems when she started talking to guys and giving her phone number to them, usually on the bus ...

A.   10 April 2011: yeah, and today she said that this guy she met on the bus (a month or two ago) was someone she knew before me. so then the argument was about why didn't she say he was a friend instead of saying she talked to some guy on the bus? saying i met some ... (read in full...)

Should I be upset that my gf keeps giving out her phone number to guys who clearly like her?

Q.   So me and my new girlfriend have been together for 6 months. I'm 25 and she's 20. Things were going really well or so I thought...we started having problems when she started talking to guys and giving her phone number to them, usually on the bus ...

A.   9 April 2011: You know I was thinking the same thing, a part of me wants to really wants to let her go the other half is just in denial hoping that I'm wrong. I know she can be passive (she says she has a hard time telling people no and that she just responds ... (read in full...)

Am I crazy for wanting my nipples to be sucked?

Q.   Why my nipples are forever yearning to be sucked I love sex but i always fantasize abt having my nipples sucked by two men then wud reward them by f*cking me. I think i am crazy. Currently I am not in a relationship and hoping to fulfill this ...

A.   2 August 2009: Nothing wrong with having fantasies. You said that you want to find someone. I don't know if you mean to fullfill your fantasies or if you want to have a threesome before you get into a future relationship. But, if it is the second one I would ... (read in full...)

She dumped me because I lied about my virginity! What do I do now?

Q.   ok i told my good friend that i wasnt a virgin and told her to not to tell anyone... then i started dating this girl i really like and care for... and one day she asked if i was a virgin and i told her yes and she said ok.. then today my good ...

A.   4 September 2008: I think dumping you was a bit drastic. You ARE a virgin, now if you lied and said that you were a virgin and she found out that you've been with many girls that would be a totally different story. You should talk to her and explain your feelings, ... (read in full...)

Should I just 'go for it' so she'll know I'm interested?

Q.   Hey there, I am really liking a girl at the moment- to the point where i can't stop thinking about her and am having trouble sleeping but i can't tell how she feels about me. I am very unexperienced in these situations so am feeling pretty lost. I'...

A.   4 September 2008: I wouldn't go for the kiss, that can make her uncomfortable and you too. You should tell her how you feel. (what you've said here) That you like her and etc,...it seems that she likes hanging with you. If the response is positive, ask her for a ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is scaring me! She just blows up and takes it out on me...

Q.   So, I've been dating my girlfriend for 7 months now. we're in our early 20s. She's my first and the relationship seemed really good at first. We would spend time together but over the past few months she's changed. She throws tantrums and takes ...

A.   4 September 2008: So, I talked to my gf about the night she was angry with me. She told me that I was lucky not to get beaten up that night. This totally shocked me because she said that even if she wasn't pregnant she would have reacted the same...I told her that ... (read in full...)

Is it rape if it was your boyfriend?

Q.   Was hanging out with my boyfriend one night and he wanted us to go to the drive in later that night after dinner so i agreed and when we got there we let all of the seats down to get comfortable and in the middle of the movie he starts unbuttoning ...

A.   3 September 2008: It is 100% rape. Its rape when one person wants to have sex and the other doesn't want it yet the other person forces them to do it. You should talk to someone about it, don't keep it in because its not your fault. Don't ever blame yourself. ... (read in full...)

Too confused. Husband not interested in sex with me, just wants threesomes or foursomes. Am I inadequate?

Q.   Hi its me again. Ever since that foursome episode, my husband and I have not had sex with each other since we do not live together. (Its a discrete marriage) Now, we had made a plan to spend the whole day together and guess what? He hs asked me s...

A.   31 August 2008: You should talk to him and tell him that you understand he wants fun, but that you want to spend time alone with him. Tell him that you cherish those intimate moments just between the two of you. He should understand.... (read in full...)

Is the guy I am dating toying with my emotions and feelings? I never know if today I will be loved or ignored.

Q.   I've heard of this trend in the dating scene where a guy purposely makes a girl feel insecure (through put downs, ignoring etc), just so she will feel bad about herself, more desperate for him, vunerable and hopefully (for the guys) easier to get ...

A.   31 August 2008: I feel that he is playing with your emotions. I would like to think that maybe he's got things going on and is maybe unsure of his feelings but I truly doubt that. You should wait for him to call you, don't call him for a while. If he's ... (read in full...)

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