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She dumped me because I lied about my virginity! What do I do now?

Q.   ok i told my good friend that i wasnt a virgin and told her to not to tell anyone... then i started dating this girl i really like and care for... and one day she asked if i was a virgin and i told her yes and she said ok.. then today my good ...

A.   4 September 2008: I think dumping you was a bit drastic. You ARE a virgin, now if you lied and said that you were a virgin and she found out that you've been with many girls that would be a totally different story. You should talk to her and explain your feelings, ... (read in full...)

Should I just 'go for it' so she'll know I'm interested?

Q.   Hey there, I am really liking a girl at the moment- to the point where i can't stop thinking about her and am having trouble sleeping but i can't tell how she feels about me. I am very unexperienced in these situations so am feeling pretty lost. I'...

A.   4 September 2008: I wouldn't go for the kiss, that can make her uncomfortable and you too. You should tell her how you feel. (what you've said here) That you like her and etc,...it seems that she likes hanging with you. If the response is positive, ask her for a ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is scaring me! She just blows up and takes it out on me...

Q.   So, I've been dating my girlfriend for 7 months now. we're in our early 20s. She's my first and the relationship seemed really good at first. We would spend time together but over the past few months she's changed. She throws tantrums and takes ...

A.   4 September 2008: So, I talked to my gf about the night she was angry with me. She told me that I was lucky not to get beaten up that night. This totally shocked me because she said that even if she wasn't pregnant she would have reacted the same...I told her that ... (read in full...)

Is it rape if it was your boyfriend?

Q.   Was hanging out with my boyfriend one night and he wanted us to go to the drive in later that night after dinner so i agreed and when we got there we let all of the seats down to get comfortable and in the middle of the movie he starts unbuttoning ...

A.   3 September 2008: It is 100% rape. Its rape when one person wants to have sex and the other doesn't want it yet the other person forces them to do it. You should talk to someone about it, don't keep it in because its not your fault. Don't ever blame yourself. ... (read in full...)

Too confused. Husband not interested in sex with me, just wants threesomes or foursomes. Am I inadequate?

Q.   Hi its me again. Ever since that foursome episode, my husband and I have not had sex with each other since we do not live together. (Its a discrete marriage) Now, we had made a plan to spend the whole day together and guess what? He hs asked me s...

A.   31 August 2008: You should talk to him and tell him that you understand he wants fun, but that you want to spend time alone with him. Tell him that you cherish those intimate moments just between the two of you. He should understand.... (read in full...)

Is the guy I am dating toying with my emotions and feelings? I never know if today I will be loved or ignored.

Q.   I've heard of this trend in the dating scene where a guy purposely makes a girl feel insecure (through put downs, ignoring etc), just so she will feel bad about herself, more desperate for him, vunerable and hopefully (for the guys) easier to get ...

A.   31 August 2008: I feel that he is playing with your emotions. I would like to think that maybe he's got things going on and is maybe unsure of his feelings but I truly doubt that. You should wait for him to call you, don't call him for a while. If he's ... (read in full...)

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