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How do I stop being horny all the time?

Q.   Ive been single for about 5 months, which has ment no sex, the problem is im horny all the time, its driving me crazy and its all im thinking about How do i stop thinking about it? and how do i stop being horny 24/7? Should i just go and have a on...

A.   2 September 2008: Yes, sex toys :)... (read in full...)

Is it considered cheating if she kissed another girl?

Q.   Ive beeen dating this girl for over a year and we talk about getting married.So its serious.I know I love her.But something bad happened and it really has hurt our relatoinship. The other night we was drinking with a few friends and she kissed a...

A.   2 September 2008: Hey there, If it really has made you feel that uncomfortable and you can't forgive her, just let her go. The resentment is only going to build otherwise and poison your relationship. -A ... (read in full...)

Should I stop masturbating?

Q.   Masterbation is the best, but my girlfriend told me to stop because she said that it is like killing millions of babies, and one that could have had a chance to live, should I stop, or should I keep masterbating. she said she would dump me if I ...

A.   2 September 2008: Your girlfriend sounds as though she has been brain washed by fanatical Christians. Her statement is utterly stupid. Masturbate and enjoy it.... (read in full...)

Is it considered cheating if she kissed another girl?

Q.   Ive beeen dating this girl for over a year and we talk about getting married.So its serious.I know I love her.But something bad happened and it really has hurt our relatoinship. The other night we was drinking with a few friends and she kissed a...

A.   2 September 2008: I'm sure she was just doing it for a laugh, and didn't realise it would hurt you so much. It was just fun, messing about, nothing serious. She probably thought you'd think it was funny or hot or something. Let her know how you feel, forgive he... (read in full...)

Why do women bring such sentiment and emotion into the bedroom? Why can't they just leave it at the door?...

Q.   with most of the girls ive been with, after i slept with them they developed intense emotional feelings even when we weren't close to intimate prior to the events. so my question is this, why do women bring such sentiment and emotion into the ...

A.   2 September 2008: And just for the record, I have slept with a man who fell in love right away and wanted everything too soon. I slept with one who started to fall in love, but I was moving away and it didn't make any sense to keep a long distance relatio... (read in full...)

Should I tell people my step-dad touches me inappropriately?

Q.   when i was about eight years old my step father began touching me in rude ways. i was to young to understand so i didn't tell anyone he is still doing it should i tell people and do you think they will believe me?...

A.   2 September 2008: People will believe you and stop this from happening to you. ... (read in full...)

I have some questions about sex for the first time.

Q.   hello i'm 17 teen right know and i was talking to my mother about sex cuz i was inrested and i was just wondering if it really hurts the first time? and if you can really bleed? i didnt want to belive my mom a whole lot cuz i was just thinking she ...

A.   2 September 2008: I'd say a little pinch...Nothing to worry about at all. :)... (read in full...)

I like this girl but I think she would be more interested in my mates because they look better than me!

Q.   well there is this girl i fell in love with but now ther is like tow ov my best m8's that like her but they look a lot better then me and she might not like me no more...

A.   2 September 2008: That's awesome!!!... (read in full...)

I like this girl but I think she would be more interested in my mates because they look better than me!

Q.   well there is this girl i fell in love with but now ther is like tow ov my best m8's that like her but they look a lot better then me and she might not like me no more...

A.   1 September 2008: Hello there, I'm sure that's not true. It's worth pursuing her anyway. "Good looking", "fit", "buff" whatever you want to call it, it means a different thing for everybody! And seriously, when it comes to girls and guys it's not even about looks... (read in full...)

He has told me he can't see himself with me in his future. Should I stay with him?

Q.   I have been dating my boyfriend for over 5 years. I thought we were in the same place when it came to marriage, but it seems we may not be. He says he doesn't know if he sees me in his future because I don't have a job and have a lot of medical ...

A.   1 September 2008: Hello there, I'd say end it. It sounds like this relationship has run it's course and that's ok. It happens. Walk away and start afresh. If he says you're not a part of his future that really says it all doesn't it? If you don't split up today, ... (read in full...)

How can I convince people that my 25 year old boyfriend is not wrong for me? I'm only 14

Q.   ok this is hard...im a 14 year old girl...and i have a 25 year old boyfriend...i know he loves me very much...we have promised eachother that we will wait for sex till im 18..and till then we act like normal people...except till we talk on the ...

A.   1 September 2008: Hello there, I agree with the other post, he is manipulating you. A 25 year old man who cannot find a woman his own age clearly has issues. You'll have far fewer regrets if you live life with people going through the same things as you a... (read in full...)

What do you do when you love someone who doesn't love you back?

Q.   okay i having a REAL hard time but can anyone PLEASE help....here goes. what do you do when you love someone that 1-you cant have 2-is not your age 3-doesnt love you back yet,you feel like they are lying you feel as if hes/shes yours and if you...

A.   1 September 2008: Hello there, Just ride it out. I'm going to answer this question and pretend I'm talking to myself 8 years ago, when I was ga-ga over my first major 'crush.' I thought it was love too, and it felt like love, but when someone is treating you poo... (read in full...)

Should I go back to my lazy ex who promises to reform or stick with my new guy

Q.   dilema i was goin out with a realy nice guy for two year the only problem is he got lazy quit his job and became a bore i fell out of love with him but i still have strong feeligs for him we have been broke up about three month now i have a new ...

A.   1 September 2008: Hello there, Don't go back. Keep moving forward. You broke up for what sound like pretty valid reasons; you were getting frustrated. It's too easy to fall back into the patterns you were both accustom to the first time you were together. Pe... (read in full...)

She wants to marry me eventually, but wants to date other guys now. What should I do?

Q.   Im 21 now I started dating my girlfriend when we were 14. Last year we took a break, b/c she said she did not feel the same anymore. And I felt like our love was dying down. After about 7 months we started seeing each other and after 5 years we ...

A.   1 September 2008: Hello there, Funnily enough I am actually in a similar situation to the girl who is causing you problems right now. I am waiting to have this very conversation with my boyfriend, the: 'I really love you but I don't want to be with you right ... (read in full...)

My sister made a comment about guys in college and that has made me re-evaluate my love life!

Q.   In a conversation with my mother, My sister laughed when Mom made a comment that maybe someone at her school would ask her out if she takes a break from her current boyfriend. In response, my Sister explained that nobody askes anyone out on dates ...

A.   1 September 2008: Hello there, Do not change what you're doing in order to get a guy. Most of these 'hook ups' don't end in anything but a one night stand, or perhaps a series of one night stands if you're lucky. If people are into this, great! Let them go out,... (read in full...)

How to get rid of these zits on my face in matter of days?

Q.   well heres my problem i have all of these zits on my face and i want to get rid of them any ways for me to get rid of them like in at least 2 ta 3 days cuz school coming up soon and i dont wanna look like this so any ideas...

A.   27 August 2008: Dalacin is a topical solution that I find works really well at eliminating spots, not major acne, just the odd spot here and there. It's available on prescription the UK, probably has a different brand name in the US but try it if you get the ... (read in full...)

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