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Why aren't I getting dates? Do I need to be pretty AND popular?

Q.   I'm quite clever, and my family and people close to me, outside of school, say that I'm absolutely gorgeous. However, no-one at school says I'm very pretty.. and I'm never asked out by anyone. I'm not very popular so I'm expecting this to be the ...

A.   7 February 2007: another victim of the 'you need to be pretty to succeed' culture we live in. guys arent very forth comming when it comes to asking out girls, and it actually tends to be the case that the prettier ones actually scare more men away as they tend to ... (read in full...)

I know accountability is important but this seems too much!

Q.   Dear Cupid My girlfriend used to demand I let her know first before I leave my building. A 5-minute drive to the post office, or a walk to the corner store would enrage her if I didn't let her know first. We made some progress and she tolerate...

A.   7 February 2007: do you kno anything about her past? in particular do you know anything that could of created trust issues or any form of personal complexes? its unfair she has such demands on you as it eventually crushes you and your relationship. but it seems... (read in full...)

I'm 15, a virgin and I need to know--how do you give someone head and toss him off?

Q.   Hey im 15 yeah and my boyfriend is 17 i hav been with my lad for 3 months or so and we both decided to have sex,and i am definatley ready i'm a virgin, but my bf isnt i have a cuple of qwestions, firstly, the problem is i havent properley started ...

A.   7 February 2007: firstly id recomend you re consider having sex at a young age, i know at your age a pack of wild horses wont stop you from thinking you know it all. but 15 is still too young not to mention illegal and after 3 months are you sure this guy is 'the ... (read in full...)

Why do men bed you and then tell you...they have a gf?

Q.   Why do men lie to women and try to take them to bed you refuse and then they tell you they have a girlfriend and that they did not want anything but to be friends and then their upset girlfriend answers their phone when you phone to tell this guy ...

A.   7 February 2007: firstly, id like to say on behalf of men. not all of us are like that. some of us are good guys that get bad reputations because of a few bad guys. it seems you need to screen your men a bit better and if the psycho gf comes after you, just poin... (read in full...)

Am I Bi-sexual?

Q.   If i have to question my sexuality does this mean I could be bisexual or is that normal? I have been a worrier all my life about everything. I am now worried i ould be attracted to women. But only ever fany guys. Sure i know if a girls hot but th...

A.   7 February 2007: at some point in most peoples developement they at least have one curious thought, often thats all it is curiousity, sometimes it leads to trying sometimes it leads to a full life change. is it a big deal if your bi sexual? after all, best of both... (read in full...)

I'm 16 and female and I'm in love with a 14 year old boy! Is this normal?

Q.   I am 16 and i am falling in love with a 14 year old boy when i am usually into men from 19 up to about 22 years old. He says he is in love with me, and he wants to start a relationship with me, the age gap is holding me bk? do you think its kinda ...

A.   7 February 2007: its strange in respect that most women your age tend to aim older as they feel older= more mature (not always the truth for sure). but other than that theres nothing wrong with it, if you like him, then knock yourself out and have fun. if your frie... (read in full...)

My boyfriend told me he loved me but I hesitated to say it back to him and now he's never said it again. Should I be worried?

Q.   *replys from guys especially helpful* Hi. Late last year my boyfriend told me that he thought he loved me. I was so shocked when he said that, I didnt answer straight away (hes not the kind of guy that you imagine falling in love, hes the guy that...

A.   7 February 2007: its plausible he noticed the pause and feels that theres no point in saying it if you dont feel the same. but i think its more likely hes a young man, hes not too sure of his feelings and even if he is doesnt feel the need to tell you every 10 seco... (read in full...)

My boyfriend never stops looking at porn! Am I that undesireable???

Q.   I am a 20 year old female and my spouse is 24. We had a baby about 2 years ago and my body just went to hell and back. For about the last year I have been catching my spouse using porn and he will deny it to the bitter end. I tell him how bad it ...

A.   6 February 2007: strangely porn can become an addiction if its not looked after, its a fantasy, an escape world. most men look at porn, many women too its most likely got nothing to do with how he views you. maybe you could encorperate into your sex life, wa... (read in full...)

My mum and dad never stop screaming at each other and it's driving me crazy!

Q.   My parents are always fighting, not physically, but always screaming at each other, down each other's necks! It gets me down all the time and i sometimes wish i was at school! i have no one to talk to at school, and home! i need 2 help them somehow! ...

A.   6 February 2007: its difficult being in that situation, trust me ive been there. my mum and dad are always fighting but luckily im old enough to move out these days. its not only annoying to hear them fight but for same strange reason being the child you alwa... (read in full...)

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