Ive been sleeping with another guy, he wants to end it, do I know come clean to my BF ?
Q. Hi. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs. In November, I started sleeping with a guy from my class, he has a girlfriend of 6 years. We both know that it has to stop sometine. We get on really well and recently he said that when it does stop he ...
A. 5 April 2007: you should of come clean at the begining but obviously you chose to be selfish and deny your bf a chance to find someone who understands what a loyal faithfull relationship actually is and who deserves his love instead of abusing it.
in short, yes ... (read in full...)
I've been having an affair for 2yrs with my husbands friend! I'm trying to end it and do the right thing, but he keeps threatening suicide! What do I do!?
Q. I am in such a mess and I don’t know what to do anymore. Without going into loads of detail and not wanting you to condemn me straight away, I have been having an affair for the last 2 years. Thing is, my husband is lovely, we have been together ...
A. 4 April 2007: yet another wife who says she loves her husband while shes sleeping with his 'friend' in the marital bed. its taken you two years to come clean so why bother now? because your scared eventually yours and his decieptfull 'friends' lies will get disc... (read in full...)
Im due to get married but cant get the other guy out of my head despite him being distant! What should I do ?
Q. About 5 years ago I had a relationship with the most fantastic guy I have ever known. After a while he had to move away with his job, I had commitments and couldnt go with him. We carried on seeing each other for a while but eventually decided it ...
A. 3 April 2007: be honest with your fiance...especially if your now cheating on him. if you cant commit to a relationship the last thing you should do is marry. this guy disapears then seems sad youve met someone else after all his time away?..whos he to expect y... (read in full...)
My lover wants me to leave my bf! What should I do?
Q. Im in a relationship with a guy for 7 yrs, and I just started having an affair. Now my lover wants me to leave the guy Ive been with. Can you please help?...
A. 28 March 2007: i think you should of left your bf BEFORE you became a liar, SORRY i mean cheat.
own up to your bf as to why your tearing out his out and explain to him its nothing to do with him but its all your fault. im sure youll lie about why your dumping him ... (read in full...)
How likely is it that the baby I'm having is my ex-boyfriend's?
Q. i recentl found out i was pregnant me and my current boyfriend didn't use a condom but i slept with my ex-boyfriend and we did use a condom how likely is it that the baby i'm having is my ex-boyfriend?...
A. 28 March 2007: play with fire get your fingers burnt! why are you sleeping with your 'ex' while with your current bf?
i hope for the sake of your current bf its your exs baby, then he can leave your dishonest cheating relationship guilt free... (read in full...)
Im seeing an older guy and all we do is have sex, plus Im not sure if I trust him!
Q. I have been seeing a guy alot older than me 4 about 2mths now, however all we do is just have sex.. he has made suggestions of going out but we haven't yet, the only thing that bothers me is he lives with his baby's mum and says he is there for ...
A. 28 March 2007: read through what youve said.
he lives with his babies mother, do you really think its all for the baby?
all you do is have sex when together
he keeps telling you you'll go out, but something always comes up right?
hes using you for fun ... (read in full...)
He blurted out about another girl being 18 and a virgin and laughed! But so am I, whats he gonna think!?
Q. Ok firstly I want you to know that this man I'm with is not a d*** head so please don't suggest that I get rid of him based on his ignorance... ...ok now to what I have to say. I have known this guy for a couple of years but only over the past co...
A. 28 March 2007: i totally agree with tellulah, you have nothing to worry about.
its refreshing to know there are still sensible people out there who wait to lose their virginity rather than just rushing in.
i think you should be proud of it, not shy or ashamed.... (read in full...)
Is kissing classed as cheating ? Should I end this relationship ?
Q. hiya im really confused and need some advice, the other day me and my boyfriend of a year n half with a child went out for the night, we were stopping in a hotel so it was an all nighter, half way throught he night we had an argument over nothing ...
A. 26 March 2007: cheating isnt always just physical, it can be a mental act too. if your boyfriend has comited two acts involving women that arent you that shows a disrespect for you and your relationship. its only human to let eyes wonder, the test is whether ... (read in full...)
My bf said we're finished if my kids visit me! I met someone else who i occasionally sleep with. What should I do?
Q. I met my b/f 3 months after my husband left me. My 21 and 23yr old who live away from home, cant stand him, won't speak to him and cut him dead if they meet. He says that if they come to my house and he finds out we are finished. He has a temper ...
A. 26 March 2007: im sorry but theyre your children and blood is thicker than water, no one has the right to stop a parent seeing a child. secondly stop cheating, end one or other or both, cheating does nothing but damage... (read in full...)
My husband has been seeing prostitutes behind my back!!!!!
Q. Hi, Just found out after 30 years of marriage hubby has been using prostitutes for 4 years behind my back, I had no idea, none whatsoever and I feel such a fool, he is begging for me to stay and work this out but I feel it is so hard to forgive ...
A. 26 March 2007: firstly I'm glad to hear your both still healthy after this incident. Any form of cheating is distructive whether it be a sex worker or 'normal' person, the difference his was a sex worker is minimal and ineffectual bar the social perceptions of p... (read in full...)
My ex was mean to me after I cheated on him - how do I get over him??
Q. omg i need help!! i cheated on my ex while i was a camp....oh i don't know a long time ago! and after that he hated me for a really long time (like 5 months) but then we went out again, and things didn't work out for either of us. things were kinda ...
A. 26 March 2007: totally agree with the previous advice, it seems you have no respect for yourself, so how can you expect others to respect you?..your under 15 and sending pictures of yourself to boys and having 'many guys'. your still just a young woman, if you d... (read in full...)
He wants to leave his wife for me, and me to leave my husband... But I'm not ready!
Q. i'm a married woman who met a nice man last year at a conference. the sex was great now i think he is falling in love with me. he wants to live his wife for me but i'm not ready and i don't want to leave my husband and kids. i'm still having sex ...
A. 24 March 2007: i think you made the desicion to leave your husband and kids when you started cheating on them. your staying with them purely for selfish reasons.
blaming the other man for the continuation of the affair is wrong too, if you really wanted it stop... (read in full...)
I suspected he liked another female and he denied it. Now he's dumped me and I am crushed! What can I do to move on?
Q. My boyfriend of 3 years and I broke up in January. We lived together for nearly 2 years... and although we had our issues it was going well especially up until October. Then this girl at work becomes interested (which i insisted she was regardless ...
A. 24 March 2007: theres no special formula to move on. it hurts to be dumped/ cheated on always, it will never change in life. the only thing you can do is move in time.
remind yourself of your good qwualities, it was him that was wrong, and just get out onto the ... (read in full...)
I love my bf so much but I'm falling for my male friend! So what do I do?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now, I love him so much and couldnt imagine my life without him, hes amazing, he still makes me feel like we did when we were first together and now so much better!! weve had our rough times and weve ...
A. 24 March 2007: if you really love your bf then youll do all u can to make sure you stay with him, you kno ur falling for this guy, so distance yourself. dont put yourself in situations where your going to be burnt like being alone with him.
when you think some... (read in full...)
I cheated, and then found out, to get back at me-he cheated on me! How do we sort out this mess?
Q. I cheated on my boyfriend of 5 years with a guy i used to work with. My boyfriend found texts on my phone and I owned up what I did. I felt so guilty and it made me realise how much I loved my BF and how I didn't want to lose him. He forgave me, ...
A. 22 March 2007: the problem with cheating is it erodes all trust and confidence, it really is a question of getting back to basics and starting a new.
you need to work out what created the spark in the first place and build on it, go out more, switch the tele off ... (read in full...)
Any ideas has to how I can get to see more of him without making it obvious ?
Q. Hey everyone. I'm going out with boy who I've liked for 2 years, we started going out just 2 days ago (Monday). I really like him, and we've hugged a few times. However, I stay in a classroom at breaktime and lunch, and he's not allowed in. I ...
A. 21 March 2007: hmmm memories of school politics come flooding back to me.. each too scared to approach each other because your worried about what each others friends will think and what the skool gossipers will start. well all you have to remember is that... (read in full...)
If I'm pregnant from the sex two nights ago, could I miss my upcoming period, or is it too early?
Q. My husband an I had sex two nights ago and he ejaculated inside me. I'm due for my period in a week. If I'm pregnant from the sex two nights ago, could I miss my upcoming period, or is it too early?...
A. 21 March 2007: from what i understand of female fertility two nights beforehand is cutting it very fine to fertilise an egg. dont get me wrong it could be a possibility but a womans most fertile time is roughly the 3rd week of her cycle. im not sure if your ... (read in full...)
Im due to meet my fiance's family, Im American breed, they are British, I want to make a good impression, whats the expected etiquette?
Q. I'm meeting my fiance's family for the first time. They're British and live in London and we'll staying at their house for a week. I know this could sound silly, but I was born and raised in America in a family where "proper" etiquette wasn't ...
A. 21 March 2007: us british arent all as stiff as you americans think we are. but yes theyre are social differences. the tube isnt really an issue of manners other than if theres an elderly or pregnant passanger itd be nice if youd set an example and give up your ... (read in full...)
I accidently called out someone else's name while in bed with my BF, he now wont talk to me!!!!
Q. I Called out someone else's name when making love to my boyfriend. I've recently been dating a guy whose 11 years my junior - I'm 36 and he's 25. Despite the age-gap we get on really well, but I believe that he does have insecurity issues as wel...
A. 21 March 2007: firstly i think any man would be furious if their lover called out another mans name. you say he has a short temper, unfortunantly thats often the case with us young ones, it happened six days ago which really isnt much of a cooling off time, es... (read in full...)
My affair left me an emotional wreck! Should I go back to my husband?
Q. im in trouble!! and need advice..i met this guy at work and i felt really close to him and admire him when he told me how he treat his wife and on the other hand he admire me because i am a very good wife/mother and had a very succesesful career, ...
A. 21 March 2007: you say you were a good wife and mother yet you broke up your marriage and family, how is that remotely possible?
i say you leave your husband for good and let him find someone who can be honest and faithfull and commited, who knows what marr... (read in full...)
I told him I had been with someone else when I hadn't! What should I do?
Q. a couple of weeks ago my boyfriend took me home and drove off an left me there.i was so angry that i told him that i had been with someone else when i havent.i dont even remember that night because i was so angry.but hes saying i said these ...
A. 21 March 2007: i dont understand. why would you tell someone youd cheated on them just because you were angry? it doesnt make any sence, surely you realised that would create a bigger issue.
or are you affraid hes making up this arguement as a way of escaping this... (read in full...)
I can't shake the fear that some other girl will take my bf! What should I do?
Q. Hi my "friend" developed feelings for my boyfriend and would do anything to spend time alone with him at a party she had i found them jus sitting in the kitchen talking (fair enuff) then in the living room, and when i walked in she walked out, ...
A. 21 March 2007: i have a very simular past to yours and its a horrid feeling to be rejected. you question your worth and constantly dwell and stufy what happened.
the only reasurance there is, is that everyone is different, just because it happened in the past does... (read in full...)
How do I position myself ontop??
Q. I want to know how to make my boyfriend cum when i am on top cant figure out how to position myself?...
A. 20 March 2007: in my experience you could be doing hand stands and hed still be able to, getting a young man to orgasm is like shooting fish in barrels.
it all depends on what time of man he is and what kind of moment you find yourself in, ie slow and sensual pass... (read in full...)
Do I keep my guilt to myself or do I confess all?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We have been going through a bit of as rocky patch and I was unsure whether I wanted to continue the relationship. Went out last week and got far too drunk and woke up the next morning in bed with a male ...
A. 18 March 2007: if your genuine about having an honest,open, faithfull relationship is having a large secret the best start?
your not 100% sure of what happened so it cant be classed as cheating fully, but it does count as dishonest and unfaithfull. youve hope... (read in full...)
I am having an affair with a married woman from work. Is anyone else in a situation similar and if so, how do you deal with the guilt?
Q. I have been having an affair for 4 years with a married woman at work, We meet up about once every 4 weeks. We are very careful but each time I feel guilty but can't stop as the physical side is good. I'd really like to know if anyone else is i...
A. 18 March 2007: how do you deal with the guilt of ruining another mans marriage?..
simple
you end it with her and tell her if she doesnt love her husband enough to be faithfull then she shouldnt be married... (read in full...)
I have just got married but don't know for sure if the baby is his?
Q. Ok me and my boyfriend have been together almost 2 years and and we just got married March 7th and I'm 6 months pregnant with a girl which he already has 2 boys, but I cheated on him once around the same time I got pregnant but that guy said he ...
A. 18 March 2007: i suggest you show some human decency and let him kno exactly what type of woman hes stupidly signed his life over to.
youve commited the ultimate betrayal and are now potentially forcing him to raise the consiquences, yet you show no remorse or g... (read in full...)
Why couldn't he wait a couple more hours instead of jerking off by himself!!!
Q. The other day my boyfriend was trying to get me to have sex with him in the morning when I was still asleep by putting my hand on his penis. However I had gone to bed later than him so was very tired and not in the mood to get up let alone have sex. ...
A. 18 March 2007: maybe he was wrong to do it in front of you, but then again mutual masturbation can actually be a good exercise for couples to do in front of each other.
sex isnt always about love, you can be in a loving relationship and still just need a quic... (read in full...)
He wants me to give him blowjobs all the time but he's only ever given me oral once!
Q. My boyfriend wants me to give him blow jobs all the time however he has only ever given me oral once. I don't know what to do?...
A. 18 March 2007: its unfair to expect a partner to do something then dont give back , sex is a two way thing and both parties should leave the experience happy and satisfied.
without being crude, have you thought of your personal hygene or is it totally his self... (read in full...)
what do guys think about when they are having sex ?
Q. what do guys think about when they are having sex?...
A. 18 March 2007: doing my tax returns, football or what im going to eat after usually lol...joke
personally its usually about how good it feels and if shes happy...you tend not to have 'logical' thought during sex, the animal mechanics take over... (read in full...)
Im 16 and not sure if my teacher is flirting with me or not!!?
Q. hey guys.. so i'm sixteen years old and I'm confused about the way that a teacher of mine has been acting. I cannot decipher if the way he stares at me in the hallways is flirting or what. He was my teacher last yr and I did have a lot of problems...
A. 18 March 2007: i think your wanting him to have a crush on you, your reading things about him that sound trivial. and if by any small fraction you are right and he does have a crush, hed be wrong and moral inept to act on those feelings. apart from teacher/pup... (read in full...)
Everyone else has given up on me except my teacher, trouble is im starting to fancy him!!
Q. Well , i like a lot of people, have been going through a tough time reccently, with , well almost everything, fighting an eating disorder, fighting alcohol abuse and just about everything else. Well my teacher,he has been there for me, to liste...
A. 18 March 2007: your not the first and certainly wont be the last person to develope a crush on a teacher or a person who strictly speaking is out of bounds. the difference is with your feeling emotionally vulnerable and lonely i fear your feeling somethin... (read in full...)
My bf is going to marry the girl he got pregnant. I'm hurt..advice needed!
Q. hi I was in a three year relationship with my boyfriend and he got another female pregnant the girl knew we were together but she didnt care and they went on with this now i think he is going to marry her this is heartbreaking for me because i was ...
A. 14 March 2007: it hurts to lose someone but from what youve said about this guy. youve got away lucky, shes going to have to look after two kids when shes married him. move on and in time youll find the guy worthy of your attention and obvious loving nature... (read in full...)
My teacher called me "a lying toad" and I'm wondering whether he meant it or not?
Q. I'm probably going to sound soo stupid here.. but when i'm on my way to school, i quickly take the long skirt that my mum thinks i wear off, and leave the shorter one one. My teacher asked me today whether I had rolled my skirt up (i hadn't) and i ...
A. 14 March 2007: he sounds like my old history teacher, dont go to a school in Reading do you lol. i dont think youve anything to worry about, even if he meant it, its just words and you know the truth. as long as you know your innocent theres no harm.... (read in full...)
After 3 years she said she needs a break, 2 days later and she sleeps with another guy! How can I get her back again?
Q. i was seeing a girl for 3 years and one day she says she needs a break. then she sleeps with another guy two days later. Its been 3 weeks now and i still love and miss her what can i do to get her back? if anything?...
A. 13 March 2007: sorry mate thats a painfull thing to feel i know, been there. the fact she hit the ground running after leaving you suggests she you werent even a thought to her and she sees your relationship as one thats run its course. its cold and blunt t... (read in full...)
Is it unreasonable to ask my boyfriend to get an STD test before we stop using condoms?
Q. Is it unreasonable to ask my boyfriend to get an STD test before we stop using condoms? We've been together for three years and hes cheated on me before, we split recently for 2 months, and I think he slept with other women although he wouldn't ...
A. 13 March 2007: its not unreasonable at all, its clever. the problem is, how would you feel if someone said they wouldnt sleep with you without one? pretty dirty most likely, so it is tricky. i suggest you have one together to lessen the potential of him feeling o... (read in full...)
How do I tell my gf I know she's cheating w/out making her niece look like a snitch?
Q. My girlfriend's told me that she wants her niece that she wants her to go live with the other man as a shallow excuse to see him. How do I tell her I know she's cheating without making the niece look a snitch. ...
A. 13 March 2007: your right to consider the young girls relationship with her family, but she was in the right to tell you. and you shouldnt be scared to use what she said to confront your gf. shes a lying dirty cheat and should be told so, if she takes it out on h... (read in full...)
I'm 20, my bf is 40! How can I make my Dad accept this relationship?
Q. am 20years old and my boyfriend is 40. my dad is not happy with this at all, how can imake him change his mind?...
A. 13 March 2007: your dad should except what makes you truely happy.
but be warned, from a mans point of view its very rare that a father is going to except that his little girl is seeing someone old enough to be him. he may gloss over it and put a front on with ... (read in full...)
Now there's going to be a picture of them hugging on the internet. Should I be worried?
Q. hi, not that long ago i was out in town with my girlfriend and my mates. I became upset over something silly, my mate tricked me out of some money. while i was sitting on my own, i saw my mate looking in my direction with a strange look on his face. ...
A. 13 March 2007: your mate doesnt sound like a mate at all... tricking you out of money?. id say ditch the guy
from what youve said its just a hug, but this 'mate' doesnt sound like he can be trusted so if you have your uncertainties the only thing you can do is a... (read in full...)
He asked me out and I said no. Now he's got with my friend and I've realised I DO like him, how do I get him back?
Q. Last year i went 2 a party and i met a boy there who really liked me. He got my email address form somebody and we emailed each other. He asked me out, but i weren't interested. Weeks later, my friend told me that he had asked her out and she said ...
A. 13 March 2007: sorry hun but you let this one slip, just be a good friend to them both and support their relationship as chasing him could damage your friendship with them.
its sad but youll get over him, your still young and relationships rarely last at your age.... (read in full...)
Why does my vagina keep making this farting noise? It's extremely embarrassing!!!!
Q. please could you give me some advice,when my partner and i start to make love my vagina makes the most awful farting sound; it doesnt bother him but i find it extremely embarrasing, please could you help me i am getting married in six weeks...
A. 13 March 2007: its no big deal. its embarrasing and kills the mood for sure but from the limited amount of partners that ive had i can tell you its pretty much standard.
its just the 'pistoning' trapping air withing you. it tends to happen more in positions wher... (read in full...)
What should I do here... stick with the boyfriend and ditch the lover?
Q. Trapped between 2 men Hello there I ve been with my bf for 5 years, last 3 of them we are living together. Last couple years i ve started feeling very unhappy, although its not really my partner's fault. I still love him very much, but its a differ...
A. 8 March 2007: your bf is honest about everything then you go cheat on him? he should ditch you. split up with both and stay clear of relationships until u can be faithful, loyal and commited to one!... (read in full...)
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