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| | Acuriousincident's profile:What can I say? Love giving advise yet it goes against what I stand for, which makes little sense but life never does.
Anyway from the Republic of Ireland but live in Northern Ireland with some great friends and overall a good life.
In the end I just want to show people that there is always another side to the story and that even things that are deemed 'right' can also be viewed as 'wrong', and vice versa of course ;) |
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He has a problem with anger when he gets drunk. Should I give him a second chance?
Q. I have the most wonderful boyfriend. He treats me very well, he's respectful, loving, attentive, everything you could possibly want in a man, and I am madly in love with him. But he has a problem with anger when he gets drunk. Normally, he;s f...
A. 30 March 2008: You love him. It sounds like he loves you. Everyone has their problems and some are more extreme than others. He is trying to at least help make his problem less prevalent, which is a nice thing to do but it may not ever go away. A simpler solution, ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend, who walked out on me years ago, hate my new boyfriend?
Q. I have an ex bf that I have an 12 yr old child with and he was the one to walk out before the child was born and has nothing to do with the child and he started seeing the child but what I dont understand is my ex hates my current bf that I have had ...
A. 30 March 2008: Simple jealousy? He may not like the idea of another man raising his child as his father. He may not like the idea of you with another man also. ... (read in full...)
She insists on keeping her male friends! Is it "Ultimatum" time?
Q. Should I be upset about my girlfriend having male friends?She says they are just friends but I'm not sure I should believe that.I asked her a couple months back if she chatted or got messages from them.She said no then today after I pressed her,she ...
A. 30 March 2008: You are asking her to cut off some of her friends completely, just because you don't like them being around.
She's not going to get rid of her friends for you, as she seems to have said already about keeping her friends no matter what. So if you ... (read in full...)
I've had phone sex with 3 different guys....is that disgusting?
Q. Hi I need some opinions on this . I'm 15 years old and I've had phone sex with 3 different guys in the last two years . ( not at the same time or around the same time....) Two of them it was text sex and the other one ( my boyfriend now)was actually ...
A. 29 March 2008: You don't think it is disgusting, she does. What makes her right and you wrong? Nothing. Decide what you want to do and make the choice yourself. Listen to your friend's advice but remember there are plenty people of different opinion than her (Look ... (read in full...)
He's looking at teen sites, is he a pedophile
Q. So a little background info: Me and my husband, a US Marine, are both 19, and we got married this year in a quick ceremony. Four days before we got married, I found out (thru snooping in his email that he gave me the password to) that he cheated on ...
A. 9 November 2007: Teen is actually usually referring to 18 or 19 year olds, so they are still teens but also legal to have nude pictures of them publicly.
The picture of a 13 year old though is something to worry about. I'd suggest you confront him about it, espe... (read in full...)
Is my teacher right or wrong?
Q. So, I was hugging my girlfriend as usual. Im 13, goin on 14 in january. My teacher saw me huggin her and said " No more physical contact with her". Seriously, I don't get why hes sayin that. He has 3 daughters. Its like huggin is against the law, ...
A. 9 November 2007: Firstly, he can't do that. If your in secondary education unless it states in the rules that hugging is not allowed, then your allowed do it. Obviously in the middle of class etc might end up getting you in trouble probably due to lack of attention ... (read in full...)
I helped a disabled girl-was it the wrong thing to do?
Q. I have a friend who nobody likes because she isn't fake like everyone else; she doesn't wear her hair like them, or make-up, or talk like they've never heard English before. She is very shy and only wants to be liked because she has no friends but ...
A. 9 November 2007: Helping the girl was a very good thing to do, regardless of what your friends say. Chances are if you hadn't of helped her, no one would have and she might have died even (If she could barely breath then its usually a bad sign though you'd need to ... (read in full...)
Would it be stupid to lose my virginity to a random guy?
Q. I'm 16, and last night when me and some friends were drinking in the park, ran into some random guys and we were all just fooling around. Had never met any of them, but I was making out with one at some point and like, he was stroking the inside of ...
A. 2 November 2007: It wouldn't be stupid really. The fact that you don't mind it though is what is the problem. You wouldn't have minded it, but you didn't want it per say. Make sure you want it before you have it, otherwise it will seem cheap when it is quite a ... (read in full...)
Will I gain weight?
Q. Hey .. Okay I have been thinkin about going to the gym. I am naturally very slim but not fit at all whatsoever ! I would like to tone my muscles .. not build them and I would like to use running machines and things like that to enhance my fitness. ...
A. 8 October 2007: In general muscles weigh more than fat and you may gain some weight however the exercise could counter it. If you do gain weight though, it will be through toning your muscles which will only make you look better in the end so really it is a good ... (read in full...)
Can a man be "raped" by a woman?
Q. I would like to know if it is possible for a man to have sex with a woman against his will?...
A. 8 October 2007: Essentially the man would either be forced to have sex with the woman or be raped by said woman? It is entirely possible but as with women being raped by men, it tends not to be looked upon very nicely (In other words, it's highly illegal and in the ... (read in full...)
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