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| | *bigailBradbury's profile:Hello there, my name is Abigail Bradbury. (Abbi to my friends) I am nearly 20 years old and I live near Blackpool, Lancashire. I have a 10 month old little girl and she is my entire life. I have a lot of free time because I am a stay at home Mum. I am using my spare time to give advice to you lovely people on this website. I have no qualifications to give you expert advice but being an "agony aunt" has been a dream of mine for years and years. I love listening to people, I like typing and trying to give advice is my favourite hobby. I hope my advice helps! :) |
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My love for him is so strong, but he just plays with my emotions
Q. i have a boyfriend of 1 year and 8 months, we are long distance(live 5 hours/230 miles apart) and we met 6 months before we got together through a friend i went to see for a week, i was with someone else at the time, but that didn't stop me doing ...
A. 29 January 2012: he sounds like a show off. Like he wants everyone to love him!!
I'd bin him.
Don't ever let any man play with your emotions.
I know you like him and it's very hard to switch off feelings, however he's playing you.
You're miles away. so he slee... (read in full...)
14 and not sure if I should come out?
Q. I am a gay 14 year old and I'm sort of unsure if I should come out. I've known I'm gay since I was 12 and the two years following have been really hard because I've been trying to hide my sexuality because when I was 13 I moved school due to bulli...
A. 28 January 2012: YOU SHOULD NEVER BE ASHAMED OF WHO YOU ARE!!
If you feel telling people at school would put you in danger, then maybe you should keep it to yourself and only tell the people you truly trust.
Some people are very cruel, and they are so bored wi... (read in full...)
My husband has joined an online dating site
Q. My husband has joined a sex dating site. Should I be worried. Or is it harmless fun?? ...
A. 28 January 2012: WOW girl. this is not harmless fun. If my boyfriend did this he'd be out on his ear.
You needd to stop this now and sort him out or kick him out.
either way, don't let him walk all over you.
He obviously knows he can have the best of both wor... (read in full...)
Problem looking at other women?
Q. Hi - I am 40, married for 10 years and have 3 amazing and beautiful kids. My wife keeps thinks that I have a problem of looking to other women telling me that I do it also in her presence. As for me I have no idea of what she is talking but I admit ...
A. 28 January 2012: If you feel that you do not do this and it's her being paranoid, then you shouldn't beat yourself up about it. Reassure her that you love her.
do something romantic, get someone to babysit for a few hours and go out on a date, or stay in and do s... (read in full...)
I feel that I m a mother to him, not a wife.
Q. We 've been married forever. Right after my high school. We started out having no money at all to now owning a jewelry store. We split responsibility. I care of administration, my husband actually makes all the repairs and new designs. The probl...
A. 28 January 2012: Wow, it seems to me like you had a lot of good times with this man, and made a lovely daughter together. However, you're now just staying with him because you feel like he wouldn't be able to do anything without you. You sound exhausted and you are ... (read in full...)
He said if things ever go wrong between him and his girlfriend I'd be first on his list. I don't like second-best but I like him so much. Help!
Q. For the first time in my life i beleive i have finally meet someone that i acutally fancy which is really rare for me. Ive been talking to him now for about a month and hes great, hes got a great personality hes a dab hand at ...
A. 26 January 2012: This guy is trying to have the best of both world it seems my love.
He wants his girlfriend for the commitment, however he wants the fun and excitement of talking to you.
I think this guy is bad news babe.
how would you feel if you were his gir... (read in full...)
She has left me for another guy! How do I get her back?
Q. hey friends, im in a really weird situation, i was in a relationship with a girl for about 4 years now, and a year back she cheated on me a lot, i forgave her once, but she kept relation with the other guy,,..... i used to be angry on her for a long ...
A. 26 January 2012: I am really sorry for being harsh love, but if she's over you then you need to move on.
You're really upset. Do you think she is? NO.
Trust me, it's her loss xxx... (read in full...)
What should I do with my girlfriend how do I make myself More of a challenge
Q. So me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 2 and a half months things are going good! We fought a bit about 2 weeks ago but were good now, we were talking about love and she ended up saying to me u love me don't u , I denied it for a while ...
A. 25 January 2012: Why do guys think like this?!
Us guys love a nice guy.
If this girl doesn't want you to be nice, then she should go and get screwed over by a horrible guy and see where she ends up.
Don't make yourself a challenge, be yourself! A relation... (read in full...)
Does he just not love me anymore and is afraid to tell me, or is he dating someone new?
Q. me and my boyfriend has been broke up over a week now... we broke up cause he said he needed a break from the relationship cause he needs to focus on graduating high school, he works and goes to school and he said me being mad at him all the time ...
A. 25 January 2012: You nailed it exactly.
He's either found someone else..
or he's telling the truth but wants you to be there when he's lonely and needs a "cushion".
basically, I would tell him where to go.
He either wants to be in a relationship or he d... (read in full...)
Girlfriend going off physical affection killing relationship
Q. Need some serious advise!.. I'm gay and ive been dating this lovely girl for about 6 months now.. We're both 18 and the first few months of our relationship were fantastic and we had fun and amazing sex.. We broke up for a month last year, and now ...
A. 25 January 2012: This is a really tough one to answer because no one will know what she's thinking apart from her... Has something bad happened to her? It seems like she's scared of doing something maybe? Has she decided she's not gay?Has she dont something with a... (read in full...)
Am I just another notch on his headboard? I don't feel I matter to him!
Q. Boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. During that time, we split twice. The first time was for 3 weeks, the second time was for a month. The first time we split I had assumed he got cold feet. Recently, though, I found out that his girl...
A. 24 January 2012: Wow no offence honey but this is very messed up. This guy sounds very untrustworthy and seems like he knows he can get away with anything with you. If you don't trust him then this is only going to end in tears...probably yours. Sorry to be harsh. ... (read in full...)
He was interested, now he doesn't respond, what should I do??
Q. I met a guy while away in another country and we spent lots of time together. He insisted we exchange phone numbers so we can keep in touch and see each other again. He said he wanted to come visit me for Valentines Day. He gave me his number and ...
A. 23 January 2012: i agree with the other answer. He's probably realised the distance is a problem but didn't want to tell you because he was afraid of hurting you so has probably figured it's easier on you just to ignore you. Stupid i know, but men think like that.
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He says he loves me, but is dating my friend, why??
Q. I am admitingly in love with my best friend, who I've known since I was twelve, so for about six years. He's told me he's loved me in a dating sort of manner for the last year or so, but he started dating one of my friends just a couple of weeks ...
A. 23 January 2012: it sounds like he was just playing you hun. Sorry i know that's probably not what you wanted to hear right now..
he sounds to me like he wants the best of both worlds. Maybe he thinks he can get any girl to fall for him.
I'm sorry to be harsh, bu... (read in full...)
Am I right in wanting more time?
Q. I have been seeing my gf for 10 months now and it has now become apparent that she wants me to decide pretty shortly if I want it to be a lifelong commitment ie marriage and kids. Or not = end of relationship. We have lived together for around 6 ...
A. 23 January 2012: you are right to want more time. You don't ASK for more time. you are your own person don't let her make you say what she wants to hear.
Do what YOU feel is best for you. You have your whole life to commit and if she loves you she'll unde... (read in full...)
Can this relationship really work out for us??
Q. A little over a year ago, I met a guy online. To this day we have never met. We talked a lot, and things got serious, he asked me out, and I said yes. I really really love him, he's 95% what my dream guy would be if I could make one from scratch. We ...
A. 23 January 2012: wow this is a very complicated question.
Ok first off, it's not up to your parents. You have to make your own mistakes in life.
If this guy truly likes you(just bear in mind that the internet is a completely different world hun) then he will wai... (read in full...)
Is he a player?
Q. Hello. Recently I got chatting with a guy on facebook who 's friends with some of my friends. We got on well, made each other laugh, and so after about 2 days of this he invited me for a drink, which also went really well. Fast forward 2 weeks, I've ...
A. 23 January 2012: Sometimes rumours are about a person's PAST.
Give him a chance, but if you're careful. Don't get in too deep and then you have nothing to lose. Say you don't want to sleep with him again until you're sure he is being genuine. you should have too... (read in full...)
Matters down under!
Q. I was wondering how most women have their pubic hair, i guess? Just because idk if a guy will be freaked out if I have hair down there, or if it's normal too. If you don't have hair down there, how do you remove it? What do guys prefer? Is having ...
A. 23 January 2012: At the end of the day love, it's what is comfortable for you. I find that shaving it makes it really itchy which is horrid and then it goes stubbly and it's not very nice.
Waxing hurts way too much.
Just have it how you feel comfortable.... (read in full...)
Am I being petty?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. He had a messy break up with his ex when him and I started dating. This ex of his caused both of us a lot of trouble. I felt especially affected by this because she would go around saying ...
A. 22 January 2012: i have been in this situation before and hun just remember, she's an ex for a reason! I'd just drop it before you lose him babe. I know it's frustrating that he didn't turn to you first, but what's the worst that could happen. At the end of the day ... (read in full...)
Taunts from people about my appearance are upsetting me!
Q. Hi Aunts, this isn't really a relationship question as such but I was hoping that you could give me some advice about dealing with people who make nasty comments. I would have been described as a Tomboy when I was younger as I always played fo...
A. 22 January 2012: I disagree with the girl that said change your look.
At the end of the day you can wear what ever you like to wear, what makes you feel comfortable.
Once you tell yourself that the bullies are just low life scum, you'll become untouchable.... (read in full...)
Is my penpal flirting with me or is it just my imagination?
Q. I have a penpal and yesterday we were talking (we talk 6 hours everyday) and i am starting to fall in love with him but i am not so sure if he feels the same way about me (we will see each other in a couple of weeks in NYC). Yesterday, he ...
A. 22 January 2012: I agree with the other person who has replied to this, don't read too much into this. I know that your feelings can sometimes get the better of you, trust me i've been there. But just be careful. The internet and penpals and things are a whole ... (read in full...)
I want her, but I want to take it slow. any suggestion?
Q. Dear Pal, I want to ask a question. There was a girl, she came to my ICT centre to do something on the internet.Whenever she came, I will help her because she don't know anything on the computer. I like her and she like me too. We exchanged number. ...
A. 22 January 2012: wow, take a step back chick. You might be coming on too strong for her.
Don't be pushy because you'll lose her altogether. Just do what you are doing now and be a friend to her and be there for her. She'll decide in her own time whether she want... (read in full...)
Is there any hope for a second chance with her?
Q. Long story short, I told one of my best friends that I really like her. What I didn't tell her was that I was practically in love with her ever since we met, I was just afraid to tell her because she was, and still is, the only girl I have ever ...
A. 22 January 2012: Wow, I don't really know how to answer this but I'll try and give it a go because I really feel for you after reading this and would kick myself if i dont try and help.
This kind of situation is a big web to be honest. You can't really do right fo... (read in full...)
How do I win her back?
Q. Recently me and my girlfriend broke up (both 20 years old). The past 2 months were stressful and pressuring on us, as we moved house twice over Christmas and new year. Since september, we've seen each other 24/7 (after being rendered jobless) and ...
A. 20 January 2012: ok, the first thing that popped out of this story is the fact you live together and spend all day with each other. As lovely as it is to you, and you're very lucky to be able to live together...this is suffocating and not healthy. I'm not saying ... (read in full...)
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