New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244945 questions, 1084256 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap
*bella agony aunt

*bella

United States  (Female   XML/RSS

Like what she writes?
... Add *bella to your favourite agony aunts

Want to get in touch?
... Send *bella a private message

*bella's Ratings
Excellent85%
Average4%
Poor11%
*bella's profile:

"Always be Kinder than necessary"... J M Barrie

I've added some new quotes today (but also kept the earlier ones below)

And the next two quotes are from a wise Uncle on this site called BrownWolf http://www.dearcupid.org/people/brownwolf

“I very thankful for the ounce of common sense I have...because sense is not that common. :) “

"Stay away from foolish people; they have nothing to teach you."

That quote about foolish people from BrownWolf is so true. A weak person cannot be trusted. With a strong person you have more certainty, they are not afraid to stand up and be counted when they are needed.

And I especially like BrownWolf's first quote above on common sense and so I asked BrownWolf for permission to replicate it here. BrownWolf then generously offered the second quote, above, as well.

When you meet a person for the first time, then imagine they are facing their biggest challenge ever:

With this mind-set it reminds us to be kind and use empathy because we can never truly know the extent of personal challenges a person is currently facing.

Badgering a person and humiliation with unreasonable demands for "I have to know" is more likely to harm than help. We do not "have to know". Be kind. Listen carefully and remain supportive. Then the person will willingly reveal more and feel safe to reveal more again.

We can never assume that things are much easier than things are for ourselves.

It encourages one to listen carefully and employ empathy in our dealings with others.

In life we face many things. But with each challenge we can grow a little stronger. When you meet a person with great strength of character it is possible that they grew that strength as a result of some very tough obstacles and some personal tragedies.

Never underestimate such a person.

Strength does not imply brutality nor cruelty and often not even physical strength.

A truly strong person will never seek to harm another. They know their strength and they know that kindness will move mountains more easily than brutality.

Then there is one of my favourites: Sun Tzu.

The wisdom of Sun Tzu is still as fresh as the day he wrote it 4000 years ago:

“A leader leads by example not by force. “

And now some less well known quotes:

“It is much more valuable to look for the strength in others. You can gain nothing by criticizing their imperfections.”

by Daisaku Ikeda

“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.”

by Maya Angelou

“Challenges are what will make us stronger.”

by Zainab Alsaati

Respect other people's feelings. Even if it doesn't mean anything to you, it could mean everything to them. (quoted by many, but generally considered to be by 'unknown')

'As I grow older, I pay less attention to what men say. I just watch what they do.'.....Andrew Carnegie

I also respect the Chinese idea of "face" - there is no need to humiliate people. It demeans the one doing the demeaning. there are better ways to call a person to account with dignity. Focus on the Issue when there is a problem rather than be accusatory to the person

'Spilled water is hard to regain' (fù shu nán shou)

"Constant kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt,

kindness causes misunderstanding, mistrust, and hostility to evaporate." .....Albert Schweitzer

'A sunny disposition is worth more than fortune.

Young people should know that it can be cultivated; that the mind like the body can be moved from the shade into sunshine'. .Andrew Carnegie

"We will not be remembered by our words, but by our kind deeds." ... Author Unknown, from A Great Life Lesson

“It always seems impossible until it's done.”... Nelson Mandella

"Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless." .....Mother Teresa

"Human kindness has never weakened the stamina or softened the fiber of a free people. A nation does not have to be cruel to be tough." .....Franklin D. Roosevelt

'Teamwork is the ability to work together toward a common vision. It is the fuel that allows common people to attain uncommon results.'...Andrew Carnegie

what's your favourite quote?

But all is not sweetness, kindness and light in this complex world.

There really are afflicted and inadequate people in this world who get their pleasure from deliberately trying to hurt others.

They do this out of an inflated sense of their importance in the scheme of things. They feel entitled to be mean to others. They have become arrogant over the years.

Yet they are not the strong individuals they think they are. Instead they are passive aggressive bullies.

There are those afflicted with traits that are so petty and unkind that one wonders what has happened to make them that way?

Their arrogance will not allow them to step back and get help for their afflictions.

Instead, like a bull in a china shop, they just keep on head butting harder and harder, using the same tactics they've been using for years to try to get their own way.

What traits cause the problems for such insecure arrogant persons with an inflated sense of entitlement?

Here are a few of the afflictions that continually cause problems in their relationships:

Negativity?

Passive Aggression?

Being Hate filled towards those they see as ''less'' than themselves = everyone?

Envy

Jealousy

For those afflicted with those horrible traits all I can feel for these tormented souls is pity that they are beset with such inadequacies and negativity.

The traits result in them concocting a lie that they are the victims, when in reality they are instead the bullies, the overly judgmental and nasty arrogant persons who enjoy hurting others.

Just feel sorry for them and their inadequate responses.

Then go forth and find things to enjoy in life. Find the positive, find ways to be supportive and kind to others. It is win win in every way on all sides.

Turn your back on cruel unkind and bitter people. Leave them to scheme alone. Their negativity causes their faces to betray their bitterness within.

Their hearts harden and they wonder why others can be so unaffected by all their schemes to hurt others. They are the losers who think their nastiness towards others is justified.

Latest articles:

Self Confidence - an easy step by step guide to help you develop self confidence.

This question has 5 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
Newest answer was posted

23 June 2013: SELF CONFIDENCE I started writing an answer to a question, namely http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-wants-me-to-change.html and my answer just grew and grew. I recognized it had become an article rather than an answer after I ex...

Answer number 1200000 has been posted. Achievements on dearcupid.org. Who will ask question number 300,000 on this site?

This question has 8 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
Newest answer was posted

22 December 2012: One question this week, a few days before the end of the year 2012 on DearCupid.org has reached a real Zenith. A milestone. And a great achievement for the site dearcupid.org. Poster called CMMP has penned an answer and it is answer number 1200...

Cheating, Players, Betrayal and Trust issues. Should a Player or a Cheat be forgiven? - a collective resource on these issues, with some great responses that may help you.

This question has 1 answer by a reader of DearCupid.ORG.
Newest answer was posted

16 September 2012: CHEATING Today the feature topics are Players and cheating and Trust issues or can you Forgive or should you forgive if your partner Cheats? And the collective wisdom on DearCupid.org on Cheating on Betrayal, Loss of Trust and Forgiveness or n...

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

This question has 28 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
Newest answer was posted

28 August 2012: Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

How do you feel about nick-names in a loving relationship? Do you have a favorite nick-name?

This question has 16 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
Newest answer was posted

28 November 2011: Does your loved one give you nick names? Or a nick name? And which one do you love the most? I think nick-names can be a barometer of a relationship. If the nick-names stopped happening then I would know there was a problem, even if nothing had been ...

What are the attributes and conditions for a successful relationship that works? And what hinders the development of a successful relationship?

This question has 2 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
Newest answer was posted

28 August 2011: I would be intersted to hear from others on what attributes and qualities represent essentials in a successful relationship. And what are deal breakers that can ruin a relationship? By a successful relationship I mean one where both parties a...

Where is the world going? And yes this does affect relationships.

This question has 4 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
Newest answer was posted

21 March 2011: "Where is the World going? And yes this does affect life and relationships." The original question received from an anonymous female in the UK aged 26 to 29 and called "Where is the UK going" inspired this article. And you might think this does ...

Tunnel vision positive thinking - used to your advantage

This question has 10 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
Newest answer was posted

12 December 2010: Life is never perfect. Even people, who look like they have it easy, still have challenges. Maybe different challenges to people doing it much tougher, but challenges all the same. That's when it's much harder to feel positive. Even if we cou...

Coping with bereavement of losing your love to suicide

This question has 15 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
Newest answer was posted

4 December 2010: You can rebuild your life after some very close has died. But you need to do it at your pace. It certainly made me face life without rose colored glasses. And it opened my eyes to the fact that some people do not have honorable intentions. I am ...

< Prev56789101112131415Next > [76 pages, 2985 answers]

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   29 July 2016: and my list of Great Articles written by others needs an addition and here it is: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/just-some-fun.html A little humour goes a long way. The above article was published in 2008 and was written by one of th... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   31 January 2016: and similar to the one with 70 replies is this great contribution with 50 replies on ideas suggested and some implemented to improve the site over the years. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/wanted:-your-input-on-dearcupidorg.html Great t... (read in full...)

Answer number 1200000 has been posted. Achievements on dearcupid.org. Who will ask question number 300,000 on this site?

Q.   One question this week, a few days before the end of the year 2012 on DearCupid.org has reached a real Zenith. A milestone. And a great achievement for the site dearcupid.org. Poster called CMMP has penned an answer and it is answer number 1200...

A.   24 January 2016: Post below refers to an update posted against this article today: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/22--great-articles-from-great-aunts-and.html... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   24 January 2016: This Article is Gold and deserves to be sitting alongside the other star articles, even though it is not an article. But with 70 plus responses I think it qualifies as an article on what you would like to see developed on the dearcupid site. Histo... (read in full...)

Answer number 1200000 has been posted. Achievements on dearcupid.org. Who will ask question number 300,000 on this site?

Q.   One question this week, a few days before the end of the year 2012 on DearCupid.org has reached a real Zenith. A milestone. And a great achievement for the site dearcupid.org. Poster called CMMP has penned an answer and it is answer number 1200...

A.   24 January 2016: In addition to the post today, below, on how the public shaped the Dearcupid.org site by providing many suggestions, you may also like to know the current statistics on the number of posts published on the site: As far as the most up to date sta... (read in full...)

Self Confidence - an easy step by step guide to help you develop self confidence.

Q.   SELF CONFIDENCE I started writing an answer to a question, namely http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-wants-me-to-change.html and my answer just grew and grew. I recognized it had become an article rather than an answer after I ex...

A.   29 December 2015: hi thank you Songwr1ter for your very nice comments regards Abella... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   15 August 2015: this is not an article but it is a gorgeous answer that Missy_25 wrote in reply to a poster. Missy_25 answered the following question - and her answer is worth pinning up somewhere prominent at home. Her advice was AAA all stars and I loved it... (read in full...)

Self Confidence - an easy step by step guide to help you develop self confidence.

Q.   SELF CONFIDENCE I started writing an answer to a question, namely http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-wants-me-to-change.html and my answer just grew and grew. I recognized it had become an article rather than an answer after I ex...

A.   6 June 2015: Thank you Ashly your comments were very well written and reasoned out. Glad if it helps regards Abella... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   21 May 2015: Dating tips. Thanks to a fairly new poster commenting on the following post I would see that this great contribution deserved to be in this compilation. So here it is: Need to think of some questions to ask on a date? Below is a great list o... (read in full...)

The perills of looking young

Q.   Many people have insecurites or issues with aspects of their looks or personality. Often its the most insignificant details that makes us become the most obssessional. Whether it be our height, figure, complexion, breast size/shape or our weight, ...

A.   19 April 2015: 1. public speaking training will develop your inner confidence. the first meeting will be a challenge. from then on you will only get better. I am suggesting an organization that is well respected in the field, namely: http:... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   12 April 2015: Well I just realized that GeeGee255 's article is so good that I have recommended it twice. That's what happens to really good articles. They are enduring. Wise advice is worth sharing with others. And dearcupid.org certainly does have a lot of w... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   12 April 2015: GeeGee is a wise Aunt with three sons and some amazing life experience. She started dispensing advice at age 13 and is now a very busy grandmother. I've let her know that I thought her post was really relevant to teens today and so I am highlighting ... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   2 March 2015: Relationships - it's not plain sailing sometimes. Now the following is not from an article. But the answer from very wise Uncle wiseowle was so good to this question below that I am including the post in this compilation of really Great arti... (read in full...)

We broke up after 3 years and I feel broken as a result. Where do I go? please suggest what I can do?

Q.   I hurt so much, I want to hide inside the dark from reality; I dislike the new day since my girl left. I gave her every thing she wanted, maybe I was buying her love. I bought her what she wanted because I loved her and wanted her to be happy....

A.   1 March 2015: The agony of a break up is real. And you reached out for help. I really applaud you for choosing to ask for held. That is real strength. It gave me hope that you can overcome this challenge and go on to greater things and a nice new Gf at some tim... (read in full...)

My friend confided in me that her husband was a cheater and then later that night he was hitting on me. Now I don't want to be around them! Help!

Q.   Dear Agony Aunts of DearCupid, Something happened to me a few weeks ago that has both shocked and upset me and I don't quite know how to handle it. I am good friends with a married couple who live in the same apartment block. They like a few...

A.   28 February 2015: The vacation idea is a total Nooooo. The vibes I'm getting from this couple are all wrong. Something seems wrong and I think YouWish is onto something with the Grooming suggestion. It rings true. I too think the tears were too convenient. Turn... (read in full...)

My husband wants to name our first child after his father, and for him it is not negotiable!

Q.   I am pregnant and I found out that my husband and I will be having a boy. I am not excited because my husband wants to name our son after his father's name. It is a Lebanese tradition that the eldest son of the family must name his future son's name ...

A.   28 February 2015: I know this type of battle rages in many families. The following are examples I'm aware of: (1)Italian mother/Malaysian Chinese father - the husband's father made it clear that he would be choosing the name. The father of the baby would not op... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   24 February 2015: Looking much younger than your chronological age. What a great article One of the Uncles: mfj78 has written here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/the-perills-of-looking-young.html I love articles that really demonstrate a key is... (read in full...)

Answer number 1200000 has been posted. Achievements on dearcupid.org. Who will ask question number 300,000 on this site?

Q.   One question this week, a few days before the end of the year 2012 on DearCupid.org has reached a real Zenith. A milestone. And a great achievement for the site dearcupid.org. Poster called CMMP has penned an answer and it is answer number 1200...

A.   23 February 2015: I have a new question to look out for. It will be the Question that becomes Question number 320,000 or just over that. It's a goal that's getting closer too - DearCupid has now exceeded 318,000 questions published. It can take great courage to a... (read in full...)

The perills of looking young

Q.   Many people have insecurites or issues with aspects of their looks or personality. Often its the most insignificant details that makes us become the most obssessional. Whether it be our height, figure, complexion, breast size/shape or our weight, ...

A.   23 February 2015: Great article. Liked it very much. Well thought out content and it's true, true, true. I am about to cite two examples of people I have worked with who have faced these challenges and have gone on to greater things. The first is ''E'' who is ... (read in full...)

How can I get rid of my bad reputation in a small town? My new Gf's father said I should not be dating his daughter

Q.   I'm 21 and I just started dating an amazing girl. Unfortunately I did a lot of stupid stuff in my past to make fathers not want me near their innocent daughters. She is 18, a senior in high school and lives at home. Her father liked me the fir...

A.   21 February 2015: Trust is easily lost and very slowly regained. I do not know your history and I do not know what has led to you having a reputation that you think is bad. Maybe it is something small. Maybe it is several things. Please forgive me listi... (read in full...)

How can I cope with this? Hasn't been a good marriage. Wife is leaving me.

Q.   So after five years of marriage my wife is leaving me. It hasn't been a good marriage, with her spending our money and leaving me to pay off he debts, she has ben humiliating me. She makes herself look good, but she rarely helps around the house et...

A.   21 February 2015: Hi Digger81, To help me answer this question I also went back to your 2011 question. Sorry to say that you've been through hell. You've suffered an untidy wife who's not interested in pulling her weight in the home. What's worse is that she not ... (read in full...)

Do I answer her or not? She messages me, I ignore her. She keeps messaging. How to get her to stop?

Q.   Do I answer to this girl or not. We were family friends and became closer two years ago and at first she thought I was a player but as we got closer realized that I was far from it. I was trying to go from a "nice guy" to a jerk and she told me not ...

A.   19 February 2015: You show some manly assertive courage AND you remain a gentleman when you do it. If you are to become successful in your career you will do yourself no favours if you toy with or even (ever again) dare to think of such abusive concepts like slut... (read in full...)

Gift suggestions please to bring happiness to my girl. She loves painting fabric and canvas painting.

Q.   My girl is into painting and she does a lot of cloth/canvas painting. I wanted to gift her something classy to help pursue her hobby. Any suggestions? I will have to send it through some online store serving the US as I am out of the country....

A.   11 February 2015: For something artistic that she can gaze on forever more would be an Elms Jigsaw that incorporates a whole lot of things she likes. You could send them some pictures of places and situations and memories that are dear to both of you. Then Elms will ... (read in full...)

Should I start dressing like a frumpy mom?

Q.   So, I am almost 35 and "look 18", according to my husband (and all the men at the office, ew). I apparently have an "innocent look", despite the fact that I wear makeup and don't go with the trends, I have my own distinct style. Thanks to my genes, ...

A.   10 February 2015: Hi, Absolutely not is my answer to your question. Your good genes are a great asset to have. By the time you reach 70 you just might look like a 30 year old. You are indeed blessed. Maintaining your figure helps you to look years younger and ... (read in full...)

My OCD makes it near impossible to date. How do I deal with this with a new person I might date?

Q.   I'm a 37 year old man. Haven't dated in about 15 years. I don't get asked out, likely because I'm not physically attractive (been told this multiple times). I have OCD. Actually a subset of this (~20%) which results in obsessive, obtrusive thoughts ...

A.   7 February 2015: Guys who are (apparently) successful with women have told me that getting girls is akin to being a salesman, and involves first talking to many prospective potential girls first, for them. One told me that for every extra nice girl, where there wa... (read in full...)

My OCD makes it near impossible to date. How do I deal with this with a new person I might date?

Q.   I'm a 37 year old man. Haven't dated in about 15 years. I don't get asked out, likely because I'm not physically attractive (been told this multiple times). I have OCD. Actually a subset of this (~20%) which results in obsessive, obtrusive thoughts ...

A.   6 February 2015: PS: one little comment extra: You said that you ''Don't get asked out'' much. Adam in a (possibly conservative) rural area it is not the role of others to ask you out. It is you who need to take the initiative to do the asking. So you ... (read in full...)

My OCD makes it near impossible to date. How do I deal with this with a new person I might date?

Q.   I'm a 37 year old man. Haven't dated in about 15 years. I don't get asked out, likely because I'm not physically attractive (been told this multiple times). I have OCD. Actually a subset of this (~20%) which results in obsessive, obtrusive thoughts ...

A.   6 February 2015: Hi Adam, Sometimes stressing over what cannot be, for one particular relationship, is not such a successful strategy as the alternatives. The alternatives involve you working on improving your own self esteem first. Learn to Like you and even... (read in full...)

My OCD makes it near impossible to date. How do I deal with this with a new person I might date?

Q.   I'm a 37 year old man. Haven't dated in about 15 years. I don't get asked out, likely because I'm not physically attractive (been told this multiple times). I have OCD. Actually a subset of this (~20%) which results in obsessive, obtrusive thoughts ...

A.   5 February 2015: Hi Adam, Your writing is very expressive. Have you considered writing? I think there is a story within you that is yearning to be put on to paper. You are expressive and you explain your myriad of difficulties very very well. Separately and addi... (read in full...)

Was I happy with my ex but just didn't get enough reassurance?

Q.   Hi, I should probably apologise for the length of this post prior to posting it, just very confused at the mo and need help. Im gonna use bullet points to give context - -Dad left at 4 mths old -Mum got ill at 4 yrs and went to psych hospi...

A.   5 February 2015: First off, as a guy you are perfectly within your rights to first concentrate on you. And I think you should be the priority first. Not some heartless cold ex who was so busy with her own life that you were prioritized (by her) as a side dish. ... (read in full...)

My was my FWB. Since we broke up he's still friends with other women. So why does he treat me as if I'm ''Not Good enough'' for him?

Q.   Hi. I've never written to a site like this before but i feel like i can't really tell anyone how i'm feeling. I had a casual sexual relationship with a guy a few years ago, which i very much regret as it's not something i'd ever done before and ...

A.   2 February 2015: He's not a good catch for any woman. No matter how charming he can be when he's angling for sex, he's a sleaze. A friend is a person who's honest with you. Listens to you. Encourages you. Remembers your birthday. Can talk over all manner of thing... (read in full...)

When I tell my mother I'll be in serious trouble. So how do I tell my mother I'm dating?

Q.   There's a boy that I have been really close to and a few months ago he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes and since then we have been super close, hugged a lot and kissed a few times. The only thing is, my mom has no clue! She always war...

A.   1 February 2015: Hi Maybe your mother will cope with the fact that you are growing up, maybe she will not. but it is entirely normal to have crushes on boys at your age. Your mother would most appreciate if you can be frank with her. Try to listen to her vie... (read in full...)

How do you deal with an adult son that disrespects his father?

Q.   I'm engaged to a man that his little contact with his son. His son is now engaged to a wonderful girl and is getting married. They are being frugal about their wedding plans so they can go on a honeymoon and save for a house, which we think is ...

A.   22 January 2015: I would NOT show the photo. I think the son wants to upset his father. The son is behaving very immaturely. The son is an adult. If he wants a $1500 suit and his father offered $250 then the son should consider that a nice discount on the cost ... (read in full...)

My beautiful little dog just died and I feel lost

Q.   Hello, My little dog died last January 9th and I feel terrible, guilty and extremely lost. I really need some help because I feel terrible and I don't know how I am going to get over this situation. I try to rescue stray dogs to then find them a ...

A.   19 January 2015: You have lost your beloved dog and it's still too soon to be able to see the future while you are grieving so much for your dog. Your dog was particularly loyal to you and you meant the world to your dog. It is amazing that your dear dog survived... (read in full...)

My dog died and now I feel incredibly depressed and guilty

Q.   Hey guys, This isn't about a romantic relationship but my heart is shattered in pieces all over the floor. I am grieving for my baby angel, a beautiful German Shepherd. She was 15 years old and she gave me unconditional love for half of m...

A.   19 January 2015: Sadly dogs lives are short compared to the lifespan of a human. I hope that you have since been able to put your life back together. Maybe you were able to get a new dog. I do hope so.... (read in full...)

Should I give those 3 or 4 girls, who each hurt me, a second chance?

Q.   Hello everyone, i would love to hear opinions from you all. Suppose, all the girls(3 or 4 girls) i fell in love in different stage of my life pretended to love me, when they actually used me to get their ego boost, and hurt me, and finally push me ...

A.   18 January 2015: None of those girls from the past are worthy of you. They failed to see the real you. You have been ambitious enough to sit for a seriously gruelling exam. You passed with flying colours. You now have a responsible good job. I expect that you are ... (read in full...)

Living with grandmother. I want out. Should I get a job that MAY pay better, or should I take the risk and leave now? Suggestions?

Q.   Currently I'm living with my grandmother. I help her pay bills,but she treats me like a child. Living there is like living in a prison. I can't do this, I can't do that, I can't have friends over(don't have many to begin with) and when I final...

A.   17 January 2015: You are helping your grandmother to pay the bills. That is admirable and very responsible of you. Because your current financial resources must be very very tight. A car is indeed going to stretch your resouces even more. So moving out seems ex... (read in full...)

I still love this guy, my sexual partner and father of my children. But has my declaration about marriage driven him away?

Q.   I have three children. The first two are in their early 20's and left home. My youngest is 11 and from a relationship with a man I have know for over 30 years. He is a great father to the children, but about 2 years ago I decided to stop ...

A.   11 January 2015: I think he is playing a game of brinkmanship. hoping you will back down. I agree with posters who have suggested you stand your ground. His actions are not showing much respect for your position and he feels entitled to hold his position as he thin... (read in full...)

15 year old dating and sneaking around to see 19 year old.

Q.   okay so i recently started dating this guy and he is 19 and im 15.(we have been friends for a couple of months too) which is only 4 years but i really do like him and im currently still a virgin. but everyone is telling me to sneak around and stuff ...

A.   10 January 2015: You think you can handle this but 4 years IS a huge gap when you are a teen and he is 19. He is way more experienced than you. He knows all the right buttons to press to make you feel "special". Your friends though are NOT looking out for ... (read in full...)

Answer number 1200000 has been posted. Achievements on dearcupid.org. Who will ask question number 300,000 on this site?

Q.   One question this week, a few days before the end of the year 2012 on DearCupid.org has reached a real Zenith. A milestone. And a great achievement for the site dearcupid.org. Poster called CMMP has penned an answer and it is answer number 1200...

A.   7 January 2015: And joining CMMP who reached answer number 1,200,000 there is now CattyCakes who reached answer number 1,300,000 with the answer to this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/My-friend-down-the-street-is-befriending-my.html Well done Cat... (read in full...)

Answer number 1200000 has been posted. Achievements on dearcupid.org. Who will ask question number 300,000 on this site?

Q.   One question this week, a few days before the end of the year 2012 on DearCupid.org has reached a real Zenith. A milestone. And a great achievement for the site dearcupid.org. Poster called CMMP has penned an answer and it is answer number 1200...

A.   7 January 2015: another 100,000 plus answers have been posted since this article started. Another milestone reached. Keep those answers flowing and DearCupid.org will reach 1,500,000 answers. Post your answers today to help dearcupid.org achieve that tar... (read in full...)

What can an average looking girl do to grab a guys attention?

Q.   I am wondering if there is anything that an average looking girl could do to grab a guys attention? Is there a (non-slutty) way she could dress? A specific perfume? Any behavior? Something she could say? Have you ever developed an attraction...

A.   6 January 2015: When you meet the right guy you will not be seen as average by him. You will be the one who delights him and impresses him and he will seek you out, want to know everything about you and spend all his time with you. A besotted man has no limit to... (read in full...)

Why show he was really interested in person, and now, the silent treatment? Is he playing hard to get?

Q.   A guy I have known for a few months just recently let me know implicitly that he was very into me. He never said it verbally but it was all in the eyes, and the tons of questions he asked me. He gave me his business card and repeatedly asked me...

A.   6 January 2015: That was very sweet that he let you know, by his actions, that he was attracted to you. It would have been better though if he followed that up by contacting you first, if he was really keen. Why should you be the one to contact him? If he was the ... (read in full...)

How does one get a guy to realise what he's lost? I want him feel the pain he has caused me.

Q.   been friends with this guy for years but he's shown a lack of value and respect towards me, because everytime I send goodbye messages ... then a few days will pass and we will talk again. How do I get him to start taking me seriously? How to be ...

A.   5 January 2015: First of all you wash all thought of that man out of your hair. Then you choose to make thee sexier than before in a classy way. No matter how good you look today, you can improve and go up a notch in classy. See where you can revamp your ... (read in full...)

Airbrushed fron Family History and not sure how to proceed from here

Q.   First thank you to whoever hosts this site and to the many responders with their wisdom. Not sure what advice you can give but any would be appreciated. Will try to be brief. Since I was about 5 years old I always felt different and never really ...

A.   4 January 2015: You have been let down many times and you don't have a strong sense of believing that you do deserve the best. Instead you settle for what others will ''let'' you have. And in view of the past it is no wonder that things are unravelling. You sugg... (read in full...)

I am forced to leave the love of my life for the love of my parents

Q.   I am forced to leave the love of my life for the love for my parents. We have been in love for past 4years.he has made my life as wonderful as a fairy tale. Not all fairy tales have happy ending. My parents are against marriage. We are from differen...

A.   29 December 2014: You don't want to marry anyone else but A. Though you have agreed to meet B - Because you care about the opinions of your parents. You also think B and you are not meant to end up as husband and wife as you think both you and B are not interested i... (read in full...)

I am forced to leave the love of my life for the love of my parents

Q.   I am forced to leave the love of my life for the love for my parents. We have been in love for past 4years.he has made my life as wonderful as a fairy tale. Not all fairy tales have happy ending. My parents are against marriage. We are from differen...

A.   29 December 2014: The traditional view in India is that your parents have already given you everything and therefore the child of those parents should look to their parents for the guidance and the standards that are expected of them. Traditional values in India... (read in full...)

I am forced to leave the love of my life for the love of my parents

Q.   I am forced to leave the love of my life for the love for my parents. We have been in love for past 4years.he has made my life as wonderful as a fairy tale. Not all fairy tales have happy ending. My parents are against marriage. We are from differen...

A.   29 December 2014: I think your father is starting to panic, due to his own health issues. His desperation is not helpful. You know that your parents would be beyond utterly upset if you turned your back on your religion. Your parents would not compromise on that.... (read in full...)

I am forced to leave the love of my life for the love of my parents

Q.   I am forced to leave the love of my life for the love for my parents. We have been in love for past 4years.he has made my life as wonderful as a fairy tale. Not all fairy tales have happy ending. My parents are against marriage. We are from differen...

A.   29 December 2014: I am trying to give you culturally appropriate advice, even though I personally think I would experience extreme opposition to an arranged marriage, if I lived in your country you must be feeling very conflicted indeed. I know that a differenc... (read in full...)

Widowed mother sleeping with someone , I don't know with whom. What to do?

Q.   Hey Guys, I'm From India ( Male ) and my father passed away 8 year ago and today i found a pregnant test at my home, ( i don't have sister, its just me and my mom, no one else live with us, and no she didn't buy for someone else.the one i f...

A.   27 December 2014: Trontagos, you are registered with DearCupid as a female. When did you become a male? Was your mother very understanding and non-judgemental when you chose to change from being a female to a male. If your mother was as young as 16 when she gav... (read in full...)

Self Confidence - an easy step by step guide to help you develop self confidence.

Q.   SELF CONFIDENCE I started writing an answer to a question, namely http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-wants-me-to-change.html and my answer just grew and grew. I recognized it had become an article rather than an answer after I ex...

A.   21 December 2014: The link was current when this article was written in 2013. But I just checked the link again today and found that the site seems to not be available now, So the link to the FREE site and the FREE .pdf below for williamwilkie.com now seems to... (read in full...)

I'm a man who is being emotionally abused by his female partner. What should I do?

Q.   I have reason to believe I am a male in an abusive relationship. I have been with my Fiance for 7 years, we have 2 kids, and she makes me feel completely worthless on a daily basis. In the start she used to make me feel limitless, a companion i ...

A.   21 December 2014: sadly the link to the FREE site and the FREE .pdf mentioned in the article about confidence for williamwilkie.com now seems to have expired. The book Bullying from Backyard to Boardroom is still available. The FREE .pdf was a really good re... (read in full...)

I'm a man who is being emotionally abused by his female partner. What should I do?

Q.   I have reason to believe I am a male in an abusive relationship. I have been with my Fiance for 7 years, we have 2 kids, and she makes me feel completely worthless on a daily basis. In the start she used to make me feel limitless, a companion i ...

A.   21 December 2014: this article may also help you to rebuild your confidence http://www.dearcupid.org/question/self-confidence---an-easy-step-by.html... (read in full...)

I'm a man who is being emotionally abused by his female partner. What should I do?

Q.   I have reason to believe I am a male in an abusive relationship. I have been with my Fiance for 7 years, we have 2 kids, and she makes me feel completely worthless on a daily basis. In the start she used to make me feel limitless, a companion i ...

A.   21 December 2014: There are partners, male and female, who choose to be so cruel, heartless and abusive to their partner. Women often use psychological abuse as it leaves no physical evidence but destroys the confidence of their victim. She is not going to lea... (read in full...)

His mothers engagement ring never feels like my own?

Q.   I got engaged last August, his mother died a year beforehand he said he will give me her ring but i never felt 100% happy with it as i never got to see it till i got engaged. The ring keeps slipping off and when he tries it on my finger he says its...

A.   11 December 2014: He's a whole lot of trouble and he's not considering your feelings. It also sounds like he was extraordinarily close to his mother. I'm not saying that is bad but his attitudes are a concern. Is he still grieving for his mother? Is it too earl... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   1 September 2014: Always on the lookout for new good articles to group together in this archive of great articles on dearCupid.org. It makes it easier to find the articles so that I can recommend the articles to others . Today I am adding a guide o teen dating w... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   1 September 2014: I am adding a new Article to the DEAR CUPID Hall of Fame. It is about DATING TIPS and deserves to be here with the Best http://www.dearcupid.org/question/first-date-tips.html Although it started off as a question it is so good that the ans... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   28 June 2014: Online dating: Thank you Mark1978 I just added an article by Mark1978 to my list of TOP articles. Mark1978 has just created this excellent article on online dating. http://www.de... (read in full...)

Answer number 1200000 has been posted. Achievements on dearcupid.org. Who will ask question number 300,000 on this site?

Q.   One question this week, a few days before the end of the year 2012 on DearCupid.org has reached a real Zenith. A milestone. And a great achievement for the site dearcupid.org. Poster called CMMP has penned an answer and it is answer number 1200...

A.   23 June 2013: this is question number 300,000 on this site. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/she-shows-no-interest-in-me-except-pushing.html So I think the next goal answer number 1250000 answers. I will keep you all posted when that achievement is reached. ... (read in full...)

Answer number 1200000 has been posted. Achievements on dearcupid.org. Who will ask question number 300,000 on this site?

Q.   One question this week, a few days before the end of the year 2012 on DearCupid.org has reached a real Zenith. A milestone. And a great achievement for the site dearcupid.org. Poster called CMMP has penned an answer and it is answer number 1200...

A.   20 June 2013: Three Hundred Thousand Questions Asked. Yes yes yes yes! The Milestone has happened! Yes, this week question number 300,000 was asked. The question was anonymous. But I will post on the question just so that the poster knows they were part of this ... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   29 May 2013: This compilation is so useful. I just recommended three articles celebrated within this Article. You can find out which articles I just recommended by clicking on to the link below. My responses to the question below are all about datings. a... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   1 March 2013: Thank you for reading the article on articles. You Should be on the list of my favorite Articles DirtBall. You write some wonderful advice. Not only is the article a great way to find a group of good articles I also hope it alerts people ne... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   6 February 2013: Valentine’s Day – that special time each year for lovers. To some people Valentine’s day is very very special. To others the day passes without another thought. So often people start thinking about Valentine’s day and need some ideas or some sup... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   6 February 2013: When I see an outstanding Article I intend to add it to this resource. So I can easily find the article again in the future. So now this resource holds 58 really Great Articles by really thoughtful and excellent Aunts and Uncles on this site. ... (read in full...)

Answer number 1200000 has been posted. Achievements on dearcupid.org. Who will ask question number 300,000 on this site?

Q.   One question this week, a few days before the end of the year 2012 on DearCupid.org has reached a real Zenith. A milestone. And a great achievement for the site dearcupid.org. Poster called CMMP has penned an answer and it is answer number 1200...

A.   26 December 2012: And now the very same week DearCupid has gone past 290,000 questions asked on DearCupid. That's much faster than I expected. Though it was anonymous so congratulations to a particular question asker aren't possible. But there is still that elus... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   19 September 2012: There can always be new variations and new issues that have not yet been asked and have not yet been posted on Dear Cupid. So if you are in love with your teacher or your lecturer then DO post your NEW question please Sometimes some addition... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   15 September 2012: Teacher Student Crushes keep on happening. Often the student wants to know if others understand their feelings So today I thought I would create the Definitive resource on past advice on Students in love with their teacher or with a Crush on their... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   12 September 2012: Thank you anonymous, for your Recommendation for an Article that really Resonates with you, and no doubt many other readers. And "I am here to help you" is indeed a big contributer on this site. Well spotted. There is nothing worse than that hor... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   12 September 2012: This following question from 2010 has a response by Yos. There are 66 responses to this question on Retroactive Jealously from some amazing Aunts and Uncles in Dearcupid.org. Now Amazing Yos if you do not yet know it is, seriously, the BEST expo... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   2 September 2012: Now over 40 articles so far in this resource - the ones in the initial article at left, plus the additional articles I have added in through followups, including this new follow up. And it is not finished yet. I am still going through lists of... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   1 September 2012: Another reason not to post an Article as Anonymous. I have been trawling through some Articles that might be almost impossible to find. Except some digging around has revealed four more articles from the past that deserve to be read again. I cou... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   31 August 2012: Thank you So Very Confused. I am not finished yet. Still looking for more good articles Regards Abella. ... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   31 August 2012: Thank you CTR And I intend to add any article I need to find in a hurry and think might be useful in the future, be it an article published 4 years ago or 4 minutes ago I can't guarantee to put up every article. Only the ones that I think might ... (read in full...)

22 Great Articles from Great Aunts and Uncles on this site. Can you add to the list? Do you have a favourite article on DearCupid?

Q.   Articles written by other Aunts and Uncles on DearCupid. Which ones are your personal favourites and which ones helped you the most? I often find it hard to find the best articles on DearCupid. I know there are some great articles on the site, bu...

A.   31 August 2012: I have just found some more articles that deserve to be added to the list of my favourites This resource is already proving to be very useful when I go looking for that amazing article. wish I had thought of this earlier. Here are the extra ar... (read in full...)

*bella's friends

These are mutual friends, so *bella has added them and they have added *bella!

 agonyauntsanonymous agony aunt agonyauntsanonymous
 Amethyst  agony aunt Amethyst
 Ben ja min agony aunt Ben ja min
*problems* agony aunt*problems*
[?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] agony aunt[?]BitterSweetFinale;[?]
0000BraveHeart0000 agony aunt0000BraveHeart0000
02DuszJ agony aunt02DuszJ
0Guest0 agony aunt0Guest0
1000lies1000sorrys agony aunt1000lies1000sorrys
1sunshine agony aunt1sunshine
3much4u agony aunt3much4u
a_maldita agony aunta_maldita
Abass Abassi agony auntAbass Abassi
adamskidude agony auntadamskidude
ailemaaax agony auntailemaaax
alex74 agony auntalex74
Ali_x agony auntAli_x
AlisaVali agony auntAlisaVali
Alkalign agony auntAlkalign
Allenwhite agony auntAllenwhite
alley96 agony auntalley96
allthatjazz agony auntallthatjazz
Aluenee agony auntAluenee
Ambassadeur Koko agony auntAmbassadeur Koko
Amy cares agony auntAmy cares
Anarch agony auntAnarch
Andie's Thoughts agony auntAndie's Thoughts
Andy00 agony auntAndy00
angelDlite agony auntangelDlite
angelic08 agony auntangelic08
angelvoice agony auntangelvoice
AnnalisaV agony auntAnnalisaV
anonem agony auntanonem
Anonny agony auntAnonny
Anonymous 123 agony auntAnonymous 123
anonymous12345150 agony auntanonymous12345150
anonymous2016 agony auntanonymous2016
anonymous206 agony auntanonymous206
Anonymousmale1 agony auntAnonymousmale1
answerfromtheheart agony auntanswerfromtheheart
anya jayne agony auntanya jayne
ArtisticBiscuit agony auntArtisticBiscuit
Artistry agony auntArtistry
AskCatherine agony auntAskCatherine
AskEve agony auntAskEve
Atsweet1 agony auntAtsweet1
audrey millicent agony auntaudrey millicent
Aunty Susie agony auntAunty Susie
AvgGuy1 agony auntAvgGuy1
Awkward_and_Confused agony auntAwkward_and_Confused
Ayan Ganguly agony auntAyan Ganguly
B123 agony auntB123
badger543 agony auntbadger543
Barnes66 agony auntBarnes66
bat1410 agony auntbat1410
BazingaToZulus agony auntBazingaToZulus
BE125 agony auntBE125
beautifulwoman agony auntbeautifulwoman
Been there   Now over it agony auntBeen there Now over it
Beile agony auntBeile
Believe what you see agony auntBelieve what you see
belle1 agony auntbelle1
BettyBoup agony auntBettyBoup
Billy Bathgate agony auntBilly Bathgate
bini magna agony auntbini magna
birdwriter agony auntbirdwriter
birdynumnums agony auntbirdynumnums
blessing80 agony auntblessing80
Blod agony auntBlod
blue_warrior agony auntblue_warrior
Blue10 agony auntBlue10
bluecow agony auntbluecow
blueskyday agony auntblueskyday
boo22 agony auntboo22
boogie4 agony auntboogie4
Briggy agony auntBriggy
bronzed adonis agony auntbronzed adonis
BrownWolf agony auntBrownWolf
bubbletea agony auntbubbletea
C. Grant agony auntC. Grant
Candid Cally agony auntCandid Cally
cantpretendanymore agony auntcantpretendanymore
Capri2 agony auntCapri2
captainh agony auntcaptainh
carefree agony auntcarefree
Caring Aunty A agony auntCaring Aunty A
caringgirl agony auntcaringgirl
CaringGuy agony auntCaringGuy
cattycakes agony auntcattycakes
celtic_tiger agony auntceltic_tiger
cheers agony auntcheers
chickpea2011 agony auntchickpea2011
chigirl agony auntchigirl
ChiRaven agony auntChiRaven
chrysie agony auntchrysie
Ciar agony auntCiar
CindyCares agony auntCindyCares
CJH agony auntCJH
Claraw1 agony auntClaraw1
cloran14 agony auntcloran14
clueless8989 agony auntclueless8989
cmarieky agony auntcmarieky
CMMP agony auntCMMP
code_red agony auntcode_red
Crazysecret agony auntCrazysecret
Crissydavelle agony auntCrissydavelle
cupid lover agony auntcupid lover
cupidus agony auntcupidus
cute angel agony auntcute angel
Daisy_Daisy agony auntDaisy_Daisy
DancerGirl1984 agony auntDancerGirl1984
Danielepew agony auntDanielepew
dannythatsme agony auntdannythatsme
Darrell Goodliffe agony auntDarrell Goodliffe
DarrellG agony auntDarrellG
Dave356 agony auntDave356
dayvide agony auntdayvide
dean93 agony auntdean93
dearkelja agony auntdearkelja
Deeksha agony auntDeeksha
deirdre agony auntdeirdre
DenimandLace44 agony auntDenimandLace44
denis49 agony auntdenis49
Denizen agony auntDenizen
Denizli agony auntDenizli
devont agony auntdevont
Devoted love agony auntDevoted love
dharshanie agony auntdharshanie
DieHard88 agony auntDieHard88
dineshbhati agony auntdineshbhati
Dionee' agony auntDionee'
dirtball agony auntdirtball
Disappointment_Ghurl agony auntDisappointment_Ghurl
DisenchantedMan agony auntDisenchantedMan
Dodds agony auntDodds
donna.keenan agony auntdonna.keenan
Donna35 agony auntDonna35
donofanewage agony auntdonofanewage
DoubleL agony auntDoubleL
Dr.LanceMerryweather agony auntDr.LanceMerryweather
DRAGBOY agony auntDRAGBOY
DrPsych agony auntDrPsych
eddie agony aunteddie
eddie85 agony aunteddie85
eek agony aunteek
EFM94 agony auntEFM94
ellsie96 agony auntellsie96
EmilyTheStrange agony auntEmilyTheStrange
empty-1 agony auntempty-1
Erick Rens agony auntErick Rens
erico agony aunterico
eternallyinfinite agony aunteternallyinfinite
Euphoria30 agony auntEuphoria30
Euphoric29 agony auntEuphoric29
eyeswideopen agony aunteyeswideopen
Fatherly Advice agony auntFatherly Advice
Fefi agony auntFefi
Felicity160 agony auntFelicity160
femmenoir agony auntfemmenoir
fi_the_tree agony auntfi_the_tree
fishdish agony auntfishdish
fishy fish agony auntfishy fish
followtheblackrabbit agony auntfollowtheblackrabbit
Forge agony auntForge
Frank B Kermit agony auntFrank B Kermit
frogs84 agony auntfrogs84
fullmetal agony auntfullmetal
Gabrielle Stoker agony auntGabrielle Stoker
Gaea agony auntGaea
Garamba agony auntGaramba
Garbo agony auntGarbo
Garm agony auntGarm
GD agony auntGD
GeeGee255 agony auntGeeGee255
Gherkinsaregrim agony auntGherkinsaregrim
gimmeansers agony auntgimmeansers
Glacier agony auntGlacier
goldie22 agony auntgoldie22
Got Issues agony auntGot Issues
Grayscreetch agony auntGrayscreetch
Guardian wings agony auntGuardian wings
H8Reality217 agony auntH8Reality217
HAPPYMAN MAGEZA agony auntHAPPYMAN MAGEZA
HappyPlace agony auntHappyPlace
haveiafuture agony aunthaveiafuture
HayleyAlice agony auntHayleyAlice
Hellofriends2014 agony auntHellofriends2014
Help from Lisa agony auntHelp from Lisa
Helpmeeee agony auntHelpmeeee
hendrietta agony aunthendrietta
HisGirl0516 agony auntHisGirl0516
holeymoley agony auntholeymoley
Honeygirl agony auntHoneygirl
Hotchick169 agony auntHotchick169
howcomehoney agony aunthowcomehoney
hustler.bustler agony aunthustler.bustler
I am available agony auntI am available
IanHenryCooper agony auntIanHenryCooper
Ilha agony auntIlha
Ima FreAk!  agony auntIma FreAk!
ImmortalPrincess agony auntImmortalPrincess
Intrigued3000 agony auntIntrigued3000
Invincible agony auntInvincible
Irish49 agony auntIrish49
Ivyblue agony auntIvyblue
izzygurl agony auntizzygurl
jadedpearl agony auntjadedpearl
janniepeg agony auntjanniepeg
Jayne wayne agony auntJayne wayne
JDinCali agony auntJDinCali
Jeanette82 agony auntJeanette82
Jessica M Payne agony auntJessica M Payne
Jessica1350 agony auntJessica1350
jls022 agony auntjls022
Jmtmj agony auntJmtmj
john michael lewis agony auntjohn michael lewis
jpcomputer87 agony auntjpcomputer87
jrns96 agony auntjrns96
judgedick agony auntjudgedick
Juliet79 agony auntJuliet79
just say lovely agony auntjust say lovely
justmen agony auntjustmen
Justneed2know  agony auntJustneed2know
k_c100 agony auntk_c100
k4ren agony auntk4ren
Kalyani agony auntKalyani
Karlos83  agony auntKarlos83
Keeley345 agony auntKeeley345
KeighleySky agony auntKeighleySky
Kendle agony auntKendle
kenny agony auntkenny
kim.2013 agony auntkim.2013
kingjoe king agony auntkingjoe king
KingZeus agony auntKingZeus
KlassyKirsty agony auntKlassyKirsty
kloren82 agony auntkloren82
KristenJ agony auntKristenJ
Kutiedamsel agony auntKutiedamsel
la petite belle agony auntla petite belle
Lady in Love agony auntLady in Love
Ladycandy2911 agony auntLadycandy2911
ladyInLove2 agony auntladyInLove2
lalanay1 agony auntlalanay1
landomando agony auntlandomando
Lasterloh agony auntLasterloh
lawncare agony auntlawncare
Lexine07 agony auntLexine07
like I see it agony auntlike I see it
lillylightly agony auntlillylightly
Limpet agony auntLimpet
linzey agony auntlinzey
little lollypop  agony auntlittle lollypop
Little Miss Love agony auntLittle Miss Love
LivingWithBadDecisions agony auntLivingWithBadDecisions
LJCX agony auntLJCX
llifton agony auntllifton
Lola1 agony auntLola1
Lola333 agony auntLola333
looloo123 agony auntlooloo123
love wife agony auntlove wife
lovehel agony auntlovehel
Love-Wisely agony auntLove-Wisely
lOvex3Jenny agony auntlOvex3Jenny
Lucky786 agony auntLucky786
lucy.whittaker agony auntlucy.whittaker
Mabugs agony auntMabugs
macdubh712 agony auntmacdubh712
Madalo 1 agony auntMadalo 1
maisy1 agony auntmaisy1
malvern agony auntmalvern
marianox agony auntmarianox
Mark1978 agony auntMark1978
MarlonT agony auntMarlonT
MaskOn agony auntMaskOn
masquerade711 agony auntmasquerade711
Maua agony auntMaua
maverick494 agony auntmaverick494
me7654321 agony auntme7654321
MenLoveMe agony auntMenLoveMe
mfj78 agony auntmfj78
Militaryman1234 agony auntMilitaryman1234
Milo117 agony auntMilo117
Milo118 agony auntMilo118
mima agony auntmima
Mina_Bhamji agony auntMina_Bhamji
mirabelle1-3 agony auntmirabelle1-3
mis_2017 agony auntmis_2017
mishi 1 agony auntmishi 1
miss frank agony auntmiss frank
Miss35 agony auntMiss35
MissKin agony auntMissKin
missy_25 agony auntmissy_25
Mistercatbean agony auntMistercatbean
mj390 agony auntmj390
mrspiggy agony auntmrspiggy
MsSadie agony auntMsSadie
mum2two agony auntmum2two
Myau agony auntMyau
mystiquek agony auntmystiquek
N91 agony auntN91
naley agony auntnaley
Nehemie Mb agony auntNehemie Mb
NFenix agony auntNFenix
nirotam agony auntnirotam
nisha23 agony auntnisha23
nisreen agony auntnisreen
Nittynora agony auntNittynora
no nonsense Aidan agony auntno nonsense Aidan
NORA B agony auntNORA B
Not good enough agony auntNot good enough
notconfused agony auntnotconfused
ocean425 agony auntocean425
Odds agony auntOdds
OhGetReal agony auntOhGetReal
okito agony auntokito
omg.its.me agony auntomg.its.me
Ormskirk360 agony auntOrmskirk360
Pac-Man18 agony auntPac-Man18
passionatelynumb agony auntpassionatelynumb
patersonOx agony auntpatersonOx
PaulDove agony auntPaulDove
Pazima agony auntPazima
peekn'boo agony auntpeekn'boo
Peregrine_UK agony auntPeregrine_UK
person12345 agony auntperson12345
peteloevely agony auntpeteloevely
PeterPan agony auntPeterPan
Phil052 agony auntPhil052
PRETTY KITTEN agony auntPRETTY KITTEN
princessjasmine agony auntprincessjasmine
princessparkles agony auntprincessparkles
Pureflame agony auntPureflame
Pussycat Akeela agony auntPussycat Akeela
Queenie2015 agony auntQueenie2015
quintonwayne agony auntquintonwayne
RAINORFIRE agony auntRAINORFIRE
rasblak agony auntrasblak
rayray72 agony auntrayray72
rc1 agony auntrc1
rcn agony auntrcn
reef95 agony auntreef95
remy agony auntremy
RevMick agony auntRevMick
Rey agony auntRey
rhub agony auntrhub
Richard.S agony auntRichard.S
ricky177 agony auntricky177
riya sen agony auntriya sen
Rock chick agony auntRock chick
rohit nair agony auntrohit nair
RoseLovex agony auntRoseLovex
RubyBirtle agony auntRubyBirtle
RUKM agony auntRUKM
ryeann agony auntryeann
Sad eyed gurrl agony auntSad eyed gurrl
Saeyoung agony auntSaeyoung
Sageoldguy1465 agony auntSageoldguy1465
Sahara z agony auntSahara z
Sallyn11 agony auntSallyn11
Sam Wilson agony auntSam Wilson
samia23 agony auntsamia23
sammi star agony auntsammi star
sammy621aa agony auntsammy621aa
sandy san agony auntsandy san
sanetlaagan agony auntsanetlaagan
sanguine303 agony auntsanguine303
sanza agony auntsanza
Seeker360 agony auntSeeker360
SensitiveBloke agony auntSensitiveBloke
Shadow Rose agony auntShadow Rose
shalley agony auntshalley
shameless agony auntshameless
Share Bear agony auntShare Bear
shelly5 agony auntshelly5
shescute agony auntshescute
shrodingerscat agony auntshrodingerscat
singinbluebird agony auntsinginbluebird
Sionell agony auntSionell
Skeez agony auntSkeez
sleeptimegirl agony auntsleeptimegirl
Slippers  agony auntSlippers
smeedle agony auntsmeedle
sneha09 agony auntsneha09
So_Very_Confused agony auntSo_Very_Confused
Solidus  agony auntSolidus
Songwr1ter agony auntSongwr1ter
soul83 agony auntsoul83
Staceily agony auntStaceily
Stayc63088 agony auntStayc63088
Sterlight agony auntSterlight
stillstrong agony auntstillstrong
sugarplum786 agony auntsugarplum786
suman-mishra agony auntsuman-mishra
sup!! agony auntsup!!
suzzzque269 agony auntsuzzzque269
sweetlove96 agony auntsweetlove96
TAKSHSHEELA agony auntTAKSHSHEELA
TasteofIndia agony auntTasteofIndia
tby1 agony aunttby1
the_phoenic agony auntthe_phoenic
Tiggzy agony auntTiggzy
tinkercharlie agony aunttinkercharlie
Tisha-1 agony auntTisha-1
Tom Obler  agony auntTom Obler
Tottochan agony auntTottochan
tre101 agony aunttre101
TrinityHunter agony auntTrinityHunter
Trinklett agony auntTrinklett
Ugo vera agony auntUgo vera
ukjay85 agony auntukjay85
usc8231 agony auntusc8231
Ushley agony auntUshley
vanita agony auntvanita
violet_tears13 agony auntviolet_tears13
virgomaniac agony auntvirgomaniac
VitaminZ agony auntVitaminZ
Vixxxy agony auntVixxxy
VSAddict agony auntVSAddict
warblerbird agony auntwarblerbird
Welsh Uncle Dave agony auntWelsh Uncle Dave
weysally1972 agony auntweysally1972
Wheeler agony auntWheeler
when nothing goes right go left agony auntwhen nothing goes right go left
wherelifewouldtakeus agony auntwherelifewouldtakeus
Whos that chick xxx agony auntWhos that chick xxx
WickedPoet agony auntWickedPoet
Wisdom agony auntWisdom
wiseoldman agony auntwiseoldman
wrathykins agony auntwrathykins
Xearo agony auntXearo
xian31 agony auntxian31
xinhua agony auntxinhua
xnickx agony auntxnickx
xoxemilyxox agony auntxoxemilyxox
xTheAlmightyDuckx agony auntxTheAlmightyDuckx
xtwinklex agony auntxtwinklex
xxx.unknown.xxx agony auntxxx.unknown.xxx
Y_v agony auntY_v
yeknom_nam agony auntyeknom_nam
Yos agony auntYos
young_and_confused agony auntyoung_and_confused
yours2015 agony auntyours2015
YouWish agony auntYouWish
Yung.N.Stylish23 agony auntYung.N.Stylish23
Zacmcgraw agony auntZacmcgraw

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.32812790000753!