IN love with my 21 year old soccer coach
Q. I think I'm in love with my soccer coach he is 5 years older then me, he is 21. He is funny, cute and smart. He spends most of his time at training with me and at games he often sits next to me on the bench. I didn't think I liked him till...
A. 12 November 2009: Tell him...? I don't know about the legalities in your state, but if it is an issue maybe talk to him and find out if he feels the same way, or try and establish a friendship on an equal basis. Then you can wait until you're a little older before ... (read in full...)
Is it ok that I am 21 and she is 15?
Q. OK... If i am 21 can i go out with this girl that is 15 and she loves me and i love her. her parents like me and trust me, they don't mind if i go out with there daughter. I am a Cristian and i wear a purity ring and i am faithful to my promise with ...
A. 28 October 2009: No, it's fine, as long as you're not having sex. :)... (read in full...)
What is the maximum age I can go for?
Q. Right i am 16 years old and a girl and i want to know what is the maximum age limit i can go for before people think its weird. Because i know this guy who is 22 nothing has happened but he is soooooo nice (: But i also had an emotional affair...
A. 14 October 2009: If both of you feel comfortable with the age gap then you shouldn't let it hold you back.
To quote Mark Twain: "Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter.” :)
x... (read in full...)
How do you get your ex back when he is in another country?
Q. how do you get your ex back?when he's in another country? now i know some of you would say:why do you want him back?or he's not worth trying..and blablabla... but i know for a fact that this is what i really want..i know he has feelings for me b...
A. 25 September 2009: Oh my God, I've totally been there. My instinct is to say don't bother, save face, I do worry you're going to get hurt.
If he contacts you then you're onto a winner, but otherwise - what makes you so sure it is just stubbornness? If he's making you ... (read in full...)
I'm a 36C, do I still need breast implants?
Q. Ive always loved my breasts. Im a full 36c. Well a few months ago my bf at the time always made fun of my breasts saying that they were small and sagging(im only 18, there's no way their saggy). We would have sex and he would still comment on them. ...
A. 25 September 2009: No.
(I'm a bisexual female if that counts.)
Honestly, you don't need that. I'm sure you look lovely, and I'm quite against plastic surgery - it can easily become addictive, and apparently boobs can keep developing into your 20s so you shouldn'... (read in full...)
I needed a hug, not a French kiss!
Q. is it normal that a girl would just want a hug from her boyfriend rathar than a french kiss ,,you see ,2 of my friends died at a car accident, and i was crying so when we met , i hugged him and i started crying he hugged me back but then afterwards ...
A. 25 September 2009: You were in an (understandably) vunerable position and it seems as though he took advantage of your state. He sounds immature, one-dimensional and quite frankly pathetic. Dump him? x... (read in full...)
His sister walked in on the two of us while we were nude and kissing. Do we talk to her about it?
Q. My friend and I are bicurious and we were having some fun (both of us were fully nude and french kissing). He is 19 years old and I am 24 years old. While we were nude and kissing, his 14 year old sister walk into the room (next time we will lock ...
A. 25 September 2009: I'm 99 percent sure she didn't think you were playing tag, and if you spend a lot of time at your boyfriend's house she may have already picked up on the signals. Still, I can see where you're coming from, assuming you aren't yet ready to come out ... (read in full...)
How to get to know this guy I can't stop thinking about?
Q. So i really like this boy whos 2 years above me, but i havent really ever spoke to him and i very rarely see him, i might pass him like once a week or somethin withhim been in sixth form. He has flirted with me at a party before but not verbally ...
A. 25 September 2009: Being forward is probably the best approach - guys love confidence. You don't see much of him so you have nothing to lose - tell him you love something he has written on his profile (assuming you actually like it) and ask him to tell you more about ... (read in full...)
Does the way I dress scare women?
Q. The reason I ask is because I often get some strange looks from women as I walk past. They often give me a look like they're scared. I'm wondering if its because of the way I dress. I often wear a black coat, usually wear black jeans, have black ...
A. 24 September 2009: I think you sound pretty cool. Strange looks are ten a penny, simply because we live in a society that thrives on ignorance - people are brought up to fear the unknown. That's their problem though, not yours. Unless of course you were hoping to ... (read in full...)
"piercings make a girl look slutty"
Q. guys, do u like tattoos and piercings on a girl?? is a tongue piercing trashy? i want to get my tongue pierced for my 16th birthday in a few months but my boyfriend, who is covered in tattoos but no piercings, says that it will make me look slu...
A. 20 September 2009: I am only a few months older than the girl who asked this question, and as I stated earlier, I have 4 piercings (bridge, tongue, septum and vertical labret). I would not get a tattoo at the age I am now, and I doubt I would at any point in the ... (read in full...)
"piercings make a girl look slutty"
Q. guys, do u like tattoos and piercings on a girl?? is a tongue piercing trashy? i want to get my tongue pierced for my 16th birthday in a few months but my boyfriend, who is covered in tattoos but no piercings, says that it will make me look slu...
A. 20 September 2009: I have 4 pretty feral piercings, including my tongue. People generally don't notice I have my it pierced though, and I don't lisp, as far as I know anyway? I agree they are not the most elegant piercings, however I rarely notice it so I have left it ... (read in full...)
Why are girls aged 15-17 still classed as children?
Q. Just wondering, because people seem to be under the impression that anyone under the age of 18 is naive, easily-influenced within relationships and does not know their own mind? I would like to argue that in many cases, this is not true. If you take ...
A. 20 September 2009: 256Actually... I love video games, and I really dislike clubs, although I have been a few times - I do not see any point in a social activity where it is impossible to hear what anybody else is saying. I think in actual fact a lot of what I was doin... (read in full...)
She hates me, but I love her!
Q. there this girl at my school, i dont really know her well, and thats cos, for as long as she's been her, she's always said that she doesnt like me, and i wasnt bothered but lately, i've been thinking about her in a sexual way, i saw her today , and ...
A. 5 June 2009: You don't love her. You just think she's fit, and I'm quite sure you’ll find many others who are just as visually gratifying. Go and find a mannequin with sexy legs à la the hottie... if it’s wearing PE shorts, wahey… do whatever makes you happy. :D... (read in full...)
How you would feel about going with a girl 3 or 4 years younger?
Q. okay so im fourteen and i hang about with people 3 years older than me , i dont know why i suppose ive always just got on with older people better. ive only had one boyfriend before.. no boys ever like me, any i like back,. im quite a picky pers...
A. 17 April 2009: Babes I understand what you are saying... I think it's the story of my life... I am 15, and I have loved this guy who is 18 for nearly a year now... and yet, he believes that my age is too much of an issue. I thought he felt the same way as I did - ... (read in full...)
What's the big deal? I called her I dyke and she overheard it!
Q. Me (we're all 15) and some of my friends went this school dance last week. Well one of my super annoying friends (I think she likes me but I don't) kept asking me to dance with her finally I gave in (and I wanted to make my ex a bit jealous). After ...
A. 14 February 2009: I'm shocked - is this a serious question??... (read in full...)
I feel as if I'm making all the sacrifices here...
Q. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 months, we want to move in together. I'm willing to move away and take my 3 kids with me. My eldest doesn't want to go, she's 15, which would mean me going without her. This is a big sacrifice ...
A. 19 January 2009: I think you need to assess your priorities. I'm the same age as your daughter, and it would seem she is being the sensible, level-headed participant while you are behaving like an infatuated teenager. Sorry to be blunt. What is more important to ... (read in full...)
I seem to be the only one struggling to hold my bladder and only release twice a day. What should I do?
Q. As you are already aware - I suffer from OAB. Not only does this influence my sex, love and social life - it also provokes difficulties at school. I attend a boarding school, and teachers love to prevent me from using the toilets, using whatever ...
A. 4 January 2009: I'm sorry babes, it all sounds a little sadistic if you ask me. Have you explained to them your medical situation? Message me if you want to talk about anything... xxx... (read in full...)
He is always talking about sex, is that all he wants?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now and all he ever talks about is sex. Am 15 and he is 17. Yes I know its a pretty large age gap. On msn he always says to me Shona .... would you ever do anal n am like no n he always asks me ...
A. 22 December 2008: 'Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now and all he ever talks about is sex.'
BECAUSE HE WANTS SEX...?
Actually, I know what you mean. I'm the same age as you, and have alot of 17/18-year-old guy friends. Oh, and they do spend fa... (read in full...)
Poll question: What is the most arousing part of a mans body?
Q. Poll(for women/gay men): Whats the most arousing part of the mens body? Shoulders, Abs, Penis, Ass, Back, Legs, Face...
A. 12 December 2008: If a man has dark, alluring eyes... that is very arousing. The eyes are the windows to our very souls...x... (read in full...)
Will he ever drop all the other women and just be with me?
Q. I will try to make this as short as possible. I met my BF, we'll call him Ami, when I was 17 and he was 24. I moved in the middle of my senior year to a totally different state and had to leave all of my friends and family. I gained a new group of ...
A. 10 December 2008: I was left genuinely shocked upon reading of your dilemma. I understand you feel the need to justify his behaviour, don't we all, in our moments blinded by love and viewing the love of our life through rose-tinted glasses! However, I must tell you - ... (read in full...)
What makes a guy attractive?
Q. Hello, I just have a quick question, sorry if it sounds ignorant. I have tried to figure this out, but I have failed. What makes a guy physically attractive? I know that it's really the personality and all, but being attractive doesn't hurt, so I ...
A. 16 November 2008: I think they would have to have longish curly hair which they often straighten, wear glasses, a baseball cap, brown eyes, slightly overweight and have a fondness for black clothes, a bit spotty doesn't go amiss. A sexy voice always helps... I like u... (read in full...)
I'm really shy and insecure and afraid she will never like me, what to do here??
Q. Okay, so... I like a girl who I talk since a couple of months. I never confessed because I'm really shy and insecure... I also suffer from BDD (at least I have some of the symptoms). So, I guess I'm a shy and ugly teenage boy. That's why I don't ...
A. 2 November 2008: Sweetie, you shouldn't feel this way! You sound like a beautiful person inside and out! I would say it is obvious she likes you ... maybe her talking about all these hot guys she meets could be her way of finding out if you like her, depending on ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose him! Should I sleep with him? Help!?
Q. hiya.. ive been with this man for a few month and its been perfect.. just he rang me saying is this going to go further ? .. I havnt slept with him yet .. and im only 16 .. hes 20 .. im just scared incase he only wants me for one thing .. and i have ...
A. 8 September 2008: No, that wouldn't be a good reason to sleep with anybody. If he's going to leave you because you won't sleep with him then he isn't worth it, is he, sweetie? Are you sure that's what he meant, though? Has he said anything else? He could have just ... (read in full...)
I still can't reach an orgasm with a partner, please help!
Q. Ok, so I'm 29 years old and I've only seriously been with 2 sexual partners, both of whom I've been pretty comfortable with in bed. My concern is that I can't have an orgasm. They both tried to give me one orally and through manual stimulation, ...
A. 7 September 2008: This is a really common problem for lot of women so you are definitely not abnormal! It sounds as if you have developed a psychological aversion which prevents you from climaxing, in which case the only thing you can do is relax during sex and focus ... (read in full...)
Please awnser this question, are ghosts real or fake?
Q. Look i know this aint a love question, but i want your opinion on something. Ghosts, are they real or fake? i want to know what you think, as personally i think they are real. please awnser this question with your honest opinion, i will apre...
A. 7 September 2008: I believe they are real. I have talked to them on occasion and they are no different from a anyone else; they just happen to have died. Some people do pass away at a time which they find inconvinient, in which case it it is understandable they ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on this guy and I can't focus on school! Why won't he approach me?
Q. In high school, there's this sophomore that, when I saw his face, completely started to crush on him. My heart aches during classes when I don't see him. I always see him around between my classes and during lunch. Thing is, I don't know who he is ...
A. 7 September 2008: If he talks to you because you are dressed in a way that implies sexual promiscuity, he can only be after one thing. I wonder - does dressing this way give you confidence in who you are, or in who you want to be?
You must try talking to him - don'... (read in full...)
Mixed messages from my ex, is there still hope?
Q. My ex-boyfriend and I started hanging out again and it was like we were back together, we even said "I Love You" to each other. I go to school 3 hours away from where he lives and he just told me that he met this girl 2 weeks ago and said they "get ...
A. 7 September 2008: God, this situation does sound as if it is very confusing for everybody involved!
I do think your ex-boyfriend cares about you. You have been together for a long time and he isn't going to throw that away - he just needs time to sort out his feel... (read in full...)
How do I stop the obsession I have for my teacher?
Q. well, where do i start? it all started in seventh grade. i fell in love. with my gym teacher. he's 26, and i am 13. he hates me, but i love him. he doesnt make eye contact with me, and i have a poster of him in my closet. i'm so deeply passionately ...
A. 6 September 2008: However did you get a poster of him? The idea of having 'a poster of him in your closet' is so interesting, it could be seen as an analogy - that you love him but you do not want anyone to know about it! Except they do!
I'm sorry to say this is defi... (read in full...)
How do I stop my crush on my teacher?
Q. i am in love with my 58 yr old physical education teacher n i am abt to turn 15.i was totally depressed in my 9th grade when my boyfriend cheated on me,he helped me get out of the stuff.its been 2 years and we are now very good friends.we frequently ...
A. 5 September 2008: This really doesn't sound good sweetie, you seem quite vunerable and he is old enough you be your grandfather! Are you sure you don't just enjoy having someone older who you can confide it? Please don't fight, just tell him you are not interest... (read in full...)
Would a woman find a love letter touching even if she doesn't fancy the sender?
Q. Hi. Just wanted to know whether love is fickle. Allow me to go into slightly more details! If a woman receives a love letter from someone she fancies, she may well like him even more - correct? If the very same words came from someone she does not...
A. 5 September 2008: Personally I feel uncomfortable if somebody I am not romantically interested in says they are in love with me, simply because I feel bad and I do not want to upset them! But I don't think she well be 'creeped-out'. Who knows, she may be feeling ... (read in full...)
How tight is a normal vagina?
Q. I am 19 and i am a virgin but my boyfriend and I have discussed it and we have both decided we are ready for sex and I am excited but also very worried because I have some concerns about my vagina I have been fingered a couple of times and both peo...
A. 5 September 2008: If these men have been telling you that you are tight I am sure they mean it as a compliment, it is a better sensation for them so I don't think you should worry! There was a really interesting programme called 'Designer Vaginas' on Channel 4 recent... (read in full...)
Does this dream have any meaning?
Q. I just transfered to a new school, and I feel great about it. Except for the fact that a certain person won't be there and never will. This particular person is my teacher, well, now ex-teacher. I start school tomorrow at my new school, going in...
A. 5 September 2008: I'm sorry if this isn't what you want to hear; however if anything I think your dream implies that the feelings you have for your ex-teacher are verging on superficial. In the dream, he insulted you and you threw mud at him (flirtatiously, I ... (read in full...)
Do our ages really matter if we are teens?
Q. Does age really matter?? Me and this girl have started talking and we are meeting up soon just to go cinema and that, we are kind of seing each other at the mo but nothing serious, she's 14 and im 17. I dont want anyone to think that im with he...
A. 4 September 2008: I don't think it does ... but then I'm in a similar situation to the girl you like so I suppose that's inevitable! As long as you aren't using her for sex then I don't see a problem ... people worry about age differences far too much in my opinion, ... (read in full...)
He acts weird since the death of his grandfather. What can I do?
Q. Help! My boyfriend's Grandfather died a few months ago, and he was really upset, so he seemed to ignore me a bit... But he then started to talk to me again... Now he very rarely talks to me and he acts really weird if he is with his friends and I'm ...
A. 4 September 2008: Sorry sweetie it's still quite recent and he's obviously really upset ... I'm not sure there IS much you can to, just try not to take anything he says - or doesn't say! - to heart! You need to be strong for him, at least one of you needs to be ... (read in full...)
How do you write erotic fiction with or for your partner?
Q. How can you write erotic fiction with/for your partner without it just being a long wish-list of things you'd like to do? In my case I keep writing about facials (about which I am obsessed). I guess we just need to talk about it more. OK, I ha...
A. 3 September 2008: Oh and don't hold back - make sure the language you use is as filthy as possible!
x... (read in full...)
How do you write erotic fiction with or for your partner?
Q. How can you write erotic fiction with/for your partner without it just being a long wish-list of things you'd like to do? In my case I keep writing about facials (about which I am obsessed). I guess we just need to talk about it more. OK, I ha...
A. 3 September 2008: It's just like any other story ... the important thing is to make sure it's exciting and believable and isn't just about you having sex. It has to be in context: for example, you might be at a music festival, you start feeling horny and he ends up ... (read in full...)
Should I talk to this girl about my old guy or just leave it?
Q. Should I message a guy's old lover to find out the whole story of what happened? Im currently in the process of getting over a guy I've liked for a while. I found out he's a jerk and was seeing other women while we were a thing. He now has a new...
A. 2 September 2008: Yes, I have a feeling that would help you - as long as he doesn't find out!
I was/still am in love with this guy and he has alot of issues ... I tried to find out more about him and although I hated some of the things I found, it hasn't damp... (read in full...)
I think he likes me but his actions sometimes confuse me!
Q. Well theres this guy and well basically i'm confused. We're mates and eveything but i like him and i mean i REALLY like him. ut anyway lately we haven't been talking much, we went back to school on the 1st and we barely spoke then but today [...
A. 2 September 2008: Nooo ... men are from Mars and women are from Venus! So yes, they are both very confusing! People don't make sense! I'd say he definately likes you. You're getting all the obvious signals. Maybe he's nervous about asking you out? Tell him you like... (read in full...)
What exactly is phone sex?
Q. Hi every one, My questions a bit weird, but i can't help but be curious! I was just wandering what is phone sex? And what do you do to have it? Well I know it can't be having sex whilst on the phone because if you are having phone sex with yo...
A. 2 September 2008: It means pleasuring youself/masturbating while telling your partner what you are doing over the phone so that he can listen and fantasise while he pleasures himself at the same time. x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sent his ex an email. What's the best way to handle this?
Q. My boyfriend has sent an ex-girl friend a email reading "remember me? thinking of you" now this is making my skin crawl!!!! How should it be handled? fuming red...
A. 2 September 2008: Talk this through with him and explain your concerns. If all else fails, leave him and find someone else - you deserve better. Then send him an email saying: 'Remember me? Thinking of you.' Maybe he isn't quite over his ex-girlfriend. G... (read in full...)
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