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| | a Ginger-Rabbit-Fairy's profile: Hey, my name is Callie, I am what some people call 'different' and some people call 'insane' depending on your interpretation.
I have curly hair, sometimes.
I have an inevitably crazy life. I like to read Heat magazine upside-down while talking about pigeons for hours on end. I like to read long books that make you cry and paint the world in a psychedelic blend of mixed emotions and talk but not listen and say stupid things without thinking and recreate fairytales and listen to Bryan Adams and watch Andrew Lloyd Webber talent shows and wear fairy wings and bunny ears and watches that tell the wrong time and chew the skin around my nails.
I obsessively compulsively suffer from Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and I am apparently Autistic. Most of the time I write erratically irrelevant thoughts all over my hands and arms if I feel stressed, or sometimes on stray pieces of paper. I see the world in orange and purple; a unique mix of craziness and controversiality. I often laugh hysterically for no reason - generally when I am unsure whether to laugh or cry. I often flirt with people I dislike, mainly because it makes life easier. If I am nice to you and laugh at everything you say then I probably don't like you at all. Most of the time I take things literally, which is often a source of great amusement for nasty, heartless people.
I am terribly melodramatic.
My life is influenced heavily by the psychic world. I believe everything I read in horoscopes, and enjoy socialising with wayward spirits. People in general can be very stupid, so animals and spirits and single-celled organisms and inanimate objects are generally easier to get along with.
If you are left-handed and have curly hair I am liable to fall hopelessly in love with you so please do stay away for your own benefit. This is an important safety procedure and cannot be ignored.
I enjoy flapping around in my spare time and being flamboyant. I also like to put up umbrellas when it sunny.
Most of the time I live in my own world and daydream about nothing in particular. www: www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=611234627 |
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What makes a guy attractive?
Q. Hello, I just have a quick question, sorry if it sounds ignorant. I have tried to figure this out, but I have failed. What makes a guy physically attractive? I know that it's really the personality and all, but being attractive doesn't hurt, so I ...
A. 16 November 2008: I think they would have to have longish curly hair which they often straighten, wear glasses, a baseball cap, brown eyes, slightly overweight and have a fondness for black clothes, a bit spotty doesn't go amiss. A sexy voice always helps... I like u... (read in full...)
I'm really shy and insecure and afraid she will never like me, what to do here??
Q. Okay, so... I like a girl who I talk since a couple of months. I never confessed because I'm really shy and insecure... I also suffer from BDD (at least I have some of the symptoms). So, I guess I'm a shy and ugly teenage boy. That's why I don't ...
A. 2 November 2008: Sweetie, you shouldn't feel this way! You sound like a beautiful person inside and out! I would say it is obvious she likes you ... maybe her talking about all these hot guys she meets could be her way of finding out if you like her, depending on ... (read in full...)
Why does she keep calling after we have broken up?
Q. my ex gf and i have been broken up for 3 months. i havent talked to her in 3 months either. we got into a huge fight too. she has a new bf but still stares at me in school and when she is with her bf. since our fight she has called about 5 times. 2 ...
A. 14 September 2008: Your ex-girlfriend obviously still likes you and is hoping for a reconciliation. Have you tried talking to her; what does she say when she calls?
I imagine she stares at you to observe your reaction to her new 'boyfriend', who she is using to inci... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose him! Should I sleep with him? Help!?
Q. hiya.. ive been with this man for a few month and its been perfect.. just he rang me saying is this going to go further ? .. I havnt slept with him yet .. and im only 16 .. hes 20 .. im just scared incase he only wants me for one thing .. and i have ...
A. 8 September 2008: No, that wouldn't be a good reason to sleep with anybody. If he's going to leave you because you won't sleep with him then he isn't worth it, is he, sweetie? Are you sure that's what he meant, though? Has he said anything else? He could have just ... (read in full...)
I still can't reach an orgasm with a partner, please help!
Q. Ok, so I'm 29 years old and I've only seriously been with 2 sexual partners, both of whom I've been pretty comfortable with in bed. My concern is that I can't have an orgasm. They both tried to give me one orally and through manual stimulation, ...
A. 7 September 2008: This is a really common problem for lot of women so you are definitely not abnormal! It sounds as if you have developed a psychological aversion which prevents you from climaxing, in which case the only thing you can do is relax during sex and focus ... (read in full...)
Please awnser this question, are ghosts real or fake?
Q. Look i know this aint a love question, but i want your opinion on something. Ghosts, are they real or fake? i want to know what you think, as personally i think they are real. please awnser this question with your honest opinion, i will apre...
A. 7 September 2008: I believe they are real. I have talked to them on occasion and they are no different from a anyone else; they just happen to have died. Some people do pass away at a time which they find inconvinient, in which case it it is understandable they ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on this guy and I can't focus on school! Why won't he approach me?
Q. In high school, there's this sophomore that, when I saw his face, completely started to crush on him. My heart aches during classes when I don't see him. I always see him around between my classes and during lunch. Thing is, I don't know who he is ...
A. 7 September 2008: If he talks to you because you are dressed in a way that implies sexual promiscuity, he can only be after one thing. I wonder - does dressing this way give you confidence in who you are, or in who you want to be?
You must try talking to him - don'... (read in full...)
Mixed messages from my ex, is there still hope?
Q. My ex-boyfriend and I started hanging out again and it was like we were back together, we even said "I Love You" to each other. I go to school 3 hours away from where he lives and he just told me that he met this girl 2 weeks ago and said they "get ...
A. 7 September 2008: God, this situation does sound as if it is very confusing for everybody involved!
I do think your ex-boyfriend cares about you. You have been together for a long time and he isn't going to throw that away - he just needs time to sort out his feel... (read in full...)
How do I stop the obsession I have for my teacher?
Q. well, where do i start? it all started in seventh grade. i fell in love. with my gym teacher. he's 26, and i am 13. he hates me, but i love him. he doesnt make eye contact with me, and i have a poster of him in my closet. i'm so deeply passionately ...
A. 6 September 2008: However did you get a poster of him? The idea of having 'a poster of him in your closet' is so interesting, it could be seen as an analogy - that you love him but you do not want anyone to know about it! Except they do!
I'm sorry to say this is defi... (read in full...)
How do I stop my crush on my teacher?
Q. i am in love with my 58 yr old physical education teacher n i am abt to turn 15.i was totally depressed in my 9th grade when my boyfriend cheated on me,he helped me get out of the stuff.its been 2 years and we are now very good friends.we frequently ...
A. 5 September 2008: This really doesn't sound good sweetie, you seem quite vunerable and he is old enough you be your grandfather! Are you sure you don't just enjoy having someone older who you can confide it? Please don't fight, just tell him you are not interest... (read in full...)
Would a woman find a love letter touching even if she doesn't fancy the sender?
Q. Hi. Just wanted to know whether love is fickle. Allow me to go into slightly more details! If a woman receives a love letter from someone she fancies, she may well like him even more - correct? If the very same words came from someone she does not...
A. 5 September 2008: Personally I feel uncomfortable if somebody I am not romantically interested in says they are in love with me, simply because I feel bad and I do not want to upset them! But I don't think she well be 'creeped-out'. Who knows, she may be feeling ... (read in full...)
How tight is a normal vagina?
Q. I am 19 and i am a virgin but my boyfriend and I have discussed it and we have both decided we are ready for sex and I am excited but also very worried because I have some concerns about my vagina I have been fingered a couple of times and both peo...
A. 5 September 2008: If these men have been telling you that you are tight I am sure they mean it as a compliment, it is a better sensation for them so I don't think you should worry! There was a really interesting programme called 'Designer Vaginas' on Channel 4 recent... (read in full...)
How can I tell if my student feels something about me?
Q. I´m a 30 year old married teacher with 2 kids and I having some difficulties with my husband at the moment. But the problem is that I´m having second thougths with my 18 year old student. We have a lot in common and he has individual classes ...
A. 5 September 2008: This reminds me of Notes On A Scandal ... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Notes_on_a_Scandal
I don't think you should show him your feelings, partially because it is inappropriate but also because I don't think an 18-year-old can give you the emot... (read in full...)
Does this dream have any meaning?
Q. I just transfered to a new school, and I feel great about it. Except for the fact that a certain person won't be there and never will. This particular person is my teacher, well, now ex-teacher. I start school tomorrow at my new school, going in...
A. 5 September 2008: I'm sorry if this isn't what you want to hear; however if anything I think your dream implies that the feelings you have for your ex-teacher are verging on superficial. In the dream, he insulted you and you threw mud at him (flirtatiously, I ... (read in full...)
Do our ages really matter if we are teens?
Q. Does age really matter?? Me and this girl have started talking and we are meeting up soon just to go cinema and that, we are kind of seing each other at the mo but nothing serious, she's 14 and im 17. I dont want anyone to think that im with he...
A. 4 September 2008: I don't think it does ... but then I'm in a similar situation to the girl you like so I suppose that's inevitable! As long as you aren't using her for sex then I don't see a problem ... people worry about age differences far too much in my opinion, ... (read in full...)
He acts weird since the death of his grandfather. What can I do?
Q. Help! My boyfriend's Grandfather died a few months ago, and he was really upset, so he seemed to ignore me a bit... But he then started to talk to me again... Now he very rarely talks to me and he acts really weird if he is with his friends and I'm ...
A. 4 September 2008: Sorry sweetie it's still quite recent and he's obviously really upset ... I'm not sure there IS much you can to, just try not to take anything he says - or doesn't say! - to heart! You need to be strong for him, at least one of you needs to be ... (read in full...)
How do you write erotic fiction with or for your partner?
Q. How can you write erotic fiction with/for your partner without it just being a long wish-list of things you'd like to do? In my case I keep writing about facials (about which I am obsessed). I guess we just need to talk about it more. OK, I ha...
A. 3 September 2008: Oh and don't hold back - make sure the language you use is as filthy as possible!
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How do you write erotic fiction with or for your partner?
Q. How can you write erotic fiction with/for your partner without it just being a long wish-list of things you'd like to do? In my case I keep writing about facials (about which I am obsessed). I guess we just need to talk about it more. OK, I ha...
A. 3 September 2008: It's just like any other story ... the important thing is to make sure it's exciting and believable and isn't just about you having sex. It has to be in context: for example, you might be at a music festival, you start feeling horny and he ends up ... (read in full...)
Should I talk to this girl about my old guy or just leave it?
Q. Should I message a guy's old lover to find out the whole story of what happened? Im currently in the process of getting over a guy I've liked for a while. I found out he's a jerk and was seeing other women while we were a thing. He now has a new...
A. 2 September 2008: Yes, I have a feeling that would help you - as long as he doesn't find out!
I was/still am in love with this guy and he has alot of issues ... I tried to find out more about him and although I hated some of the things I found, it hasn't damp... (read in full...)
I think he likes me but his actions sometimes confuse me!
Q. Well theres this guy and well basically i'm confused. We're mates and eveything but i like him and i mean i REALLY like him. ut anyway lately we haven't been talking much, we went back to school on the 1st and we barely spoke then but today [...
A. 2 September 2008: Nooo ... men are from Mars and women are from Venus! So yes, they are both very confusing! People don't make sense! I'd say he definately likes you. You're getting all the obvious signals. Maybe he's nervous about asking you out? Tell him you like... (read in full...)
What exactly is phone sex?
Q. Hi every one, My questions a bit weird, but i can't help but be curious! I was just wandering what is phone sex? And what do you do to have it? Well I know it can't be having sex whilst on the phone because if you are having phone sex with yo...
A. 2 September 2008: It means pleasuring youself/masturbating while telling your partner what you are doing over the phone so that he can listen and fantasise while he pleasures himself at the same time. x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sent his ex an email. What's the best way to handle this?
Q. My boyfriend has sent an ex-girl friend a email reading "remember me? thinking of you" now this is making my skin crawl!!!! How should it be handled? fuming red...
A. 2 September 2008: Talk this through with him and explain your concerns. If all else fails, leave him and find someone else - you deserve better. Then send him an email saying: 'Remember me? Thinking of you.' Maybe he isn't quite over his ex-girlfriend. G... (read in full...)
Do you think changing my facebook status will prove anything or was it a mistake?
Q. hi all, just started a new relationship with a really nice guy..... the relationship didnt start well i was seeing someone casually which broke off and he flirted with a female friend to make me jealous. i went over his last night and as we...
A. 2 September 2008: If you haven't consulted him then he may be a little surprised, but I'm sure he won't mind. At least you haven't changed your relationship status to 'engaged to (his hot best mate)' - now that would be very silly! Your new guy sounds quite ins... (read in full...)
Will God forgive my dead cousin for her gesture? I am open minded to all different beliefs.
Q. My cousin killed herself. She was 27yrs old. In my church we were always taught that if you kill youself then you are going to burn in hell forever. And I was eavesdropping when some family didnt know I was there and I heard them saying things about ...
A. 2 September 2008: I don't think God will be angry with your cousin. I'm not religious myself, but I'm sure he will understand how much she was suffering and that the life she experienced wasn't making her happy. It wasn't the fault of your cousin, it was the awful ... (read in full...)
She took my dog away from me!
Q. I've had my dog, Benji she is a chow. Anyway i've had her for 9 years since before my mommy past away so benji kinda all i have left my mom. My dad remarried months after her death. Anyways a few nights ago my step-mother ask how i felt i she got ...
A. 30 August 2008: I know it doesn't make sense does it?
I think it's so lovely that you have all these dogs to keep you company ... I used to have a dog called Monty but I just didn't have the time and energy required to look after him. But ohwell, I'm moving out ... (read in full...)
I'm too shy to talk to this boy.
Q. i like this boy but i am to shy to talk to him any where. please help. i have talked to him before and he likes me. but that time i screwed it....
A. 30 August 2008: He probably thinks it's sweet that you screwed up, alot of guys would find that very attractive, believe it or not!
If you like him and he likes you, go for it!
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Should I tell her I love her online or to her face?
Q. hi, i know a girl for 3 weeks and she lives near my house, i had a long conversation through one night and i got out with her one time and we walked through the city, i gave her flowers and she said that is very kind of you and she huged me. ...
A. 30 August 2008: Telling her personally would be far more beautiful and I'm sure it would make her happy. Nowadays the world of MSN and the 'real' world are entirely different things all together ...
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I don't know whether I go out with him or not. He did ask me out didn't he?
Q. A few nights ago I was talking to a very good friend of mine, we were both just talking about how we were single and He said " so your single then?" and I said "yes" then he said "well i could fill that gap for you" I said "if you want to then you ...
A. 30 August 2008: I have no idea - why don't you ask!
If you are interested, that is, as it would be unfair to lead him to believe you are in a relationship unless you are prepared for the emotional commitment.
I expect he does like you but is nervous about telling ... (read in full...)
I walked in my sister's room and she was masturbating!
Q. okay i have a 12 year old sister and one day i walked in her room and she was masturbating...like really u could tell dhe was having a oragasm..... is this normal? is something wrong with her? --Confused...
A. 30 August 2008: Of course not, It is perfectly normal ... although I expect she may feel a little embarrassed that you are aware of it!
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Do teenagers need to be accompanied by an adult to have an abortion done? What is the cost of an abortion?
Q. I think im pregnant, but the signs of me coming on my period are hear. My boyfriend and i dont like using condoms, and he aparently came a litlle bit. I feel really sick asif im car sick and dizzy alot, but my boobs are very sensative and a few ...
A. 30 August 2008: No, I don't think you do if you ask for it to be done confidentially ... but it could be very traumatic all the same. You really do need to get a pregnancy test ... and USE CONDOMS IN FUTURE!!!
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I'm not sure if my boyfriend just wants me for sex.
Q. i've been with this boy for 3 months now. He is like so obessed with sex but we havent done it. Now im not sure if he likes me for who i am or what he can get from me. what should i do?...
A. 30 August 2008: Don't let him get it, then! I used to have a friend like that. He would talk about sex all the time but that was all it was. One day I bought him a bondage kit complete with whip and handcuffs and the look on his face said it all ... he didn't h... (read in full...)
Which boy should I go for?
Q. Hello, rather basic question here: I currently have a rather embarrising crush on too great boys - one in the year above me and one of my friends mates who is just going into sixth form who i have known since year 2. I really REALLY like my f...
A. 30 August 2008: Without personally knowing both of them (or you for that matter) I couldn't possibly tell you! I assume you are going into Year 8? It really depends on who you like more! Try spending time with both of them and see what happens. x... (read in full...)
She's my friend's sister, how can I tell if she likes me back?
Q. i like my best friend's sister but she's 4 years younger than me how can i tell if she likes me back ...
A. 30 August 2008: God, she's a bit young, isn't she? Maybe try just being friends for now! x... (read in full...)
Sexual crush on my cousin! I'm tempted to try something,,,advice needed!..
Q. I've had a sexual crush on my cousin, I would always get a "hard on" when I thought about her. Then one night, 2 yrs ago, we slept in the same bed, since she usually slept with my lil sisters, but she didnt like them. I found out she was a REALLY ...
A. 30 August 2008: No, PLEASE don't act on your feelings unless she is consenting to it, you could find yourself in alot of trouble both legally and within your family!
Maybe try talking to her first and finding out whether your feelings are recipriocated ... BEFO... (read in full...)
How can I get more info on this teacher to aid in my fantasies?
Q. How can I find out information about my TAFE teacher in order to better enjoy my sexual fantasies? I am studying part-time at TAFE (Technical and Further Education - look it up if you don't understand) and working full-time. I am 22 years o...
A. 30 August 2008: Mmmm I think it would be quite difficult to ask somebody if he is into BDSM/kinky sex without making it apparent you are interested in him and lust after him sexually! Try not to mix fantasy with reality ... otherwise it may threaten to change y... (read in full...)
She took my dog away from me!
Q. I've had my dog, Benji she is a chow. Anyway i've had her for 9 years since before my mommy past away so benji kinda all i have left my mom. My dad remarried months after her death. Anyways a few nights ago my step-mother ask how i felt i she got ...
A. 30 August 2008: I know how you feel ... not about Benji, but about your dad. I have been in a similar position - my dad's girlfriend can be very abusive and controlling, yet he refuses to stand up to her. Personally I think it is pathetic, that HE is pathetic ... ... (read in full...)
My friend had sex with my crush! How should I react now?
Q. You seriously won't believe this : In the past few weeks i was getting quite close to this guy, lets call him "Bob". I say quite close because the 'closest' we ever got was a kiss -but for me that is really intimate, because i'm a little bit gawk...
A. 29 August 2008: I'm so so sorry - that's an awful thing to happen! Try talking to Mary about it and see how she responds - understandably she was probably unaware that your feelings for Bob had grown more serious. Still, it was very insensitive and she should ... (read in full...)
Is it OK to have an affair with a friend who's a hooker even though I have a girlfriend?
Q. wow...! this' a little funny, but here it goes. I went to a pub one evening after a tiring day from work, and met a hooker. out of curiosity I thought I could just disturb her a little but without being serious on it. so I bought her a drink. b...
A. 21 August 2008: No, it isn't! x... (read in full...)
Am I too young to have sex? My bf really wants to and I do too.
Q. Okayy so we both really wanna have sex but we dont know if we should cause were both scared it'll hurt me and we dont kno if were to young. Please help... What should we do?:( ...
A. 20 August 2008: If you are scared, then yes, emotionally you are too young to have sex. When you are ready it will happen naturally.
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I'll never be able to have her out of my life, but to date her would be too inappropriate. What can I do?
Q. im 17, there's a friend of mine who's 14 and she admitted she liked me, i like her too, but i keep lying to her and say, dont, because i know it would never work, and i would feel like i'm taking advantage of her and it would be too innapropriate. ...
A. 20 August 2008: If she is mature and intelligent then a) it shouldn't be a problem b) she will not have sex until she is of legal age But that doesn't stop you from having a relationship. Loving and trusting the other person is more important to a relationship... (read in full...)
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