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Im 37 im married with an 8 yr old daughter, i live in Nottinghamshire.
i think i have had quite a few life experiences some good, some not so good, hopfully i can be there when someone needs advice and help or at least just be there !
I dont stand on high moral ground and judge, we all do things that are not perfect or ideal, i just try to help the person who is asking for help and not dictate to them what they should or shouldn't of done.www: www.vacparts.net |
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Is it OK for a women to watch porn on her own?
Q. I was hoping some girls out there could help me with a little problem that is almost ruining my relationship. Is it wrong for a women to watch porn on her own? My boyfriend, of 3 years came by my flat one night after work, and i was horny so i put ...
A. 9 November 2007: hi there, maddie is quite right, i watch porn alone and with hubbie, he doesnt have a prob at all but alot of people are brought up to believe women should be ashamed of and hide there sexual feelings, i think your boyfriend is inhibited, trying to ... (read in full...)
Any advice on how to be a step mother?
Q. Any advice on how to be a step mother? My husband-to-be has a kid from his previous marriage. I don't have any kids myself. Is there anything I should be aware of in order to have a good relationship with my husband and his kid? (He doesn't live ...
A. 6 September 2007: try to be more of a friend to the child than a parental figure.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to not be able to orgasm with penetration only?
Q. I have been married a month but have known my husband for 2 years. I cant orgasm with penetration on when he fingers me, is this normal? I have always assumed it is but then he gets upset with me and says its because all i want him to do is finger ...
A. 28 August 2007: Hiya tell him to take a look at this site http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/orgasmtrouble.htm X X X... (read in full...)
I'm having fantasies about rape advice please!
Q. Hey guys. Well, I'm not sure if it's normal or not, but I've been have these fantasies that I was being raped, and I enjoyed it. I'm only 14 years of age, and I know I'm going through puberty and all. But is it normal to feel like wanting to get ...
A. 28 August 2007: its quite normal to have fantasys about things you would never do, especially at your age its just curiositys, alot of women have that sort of fantasy, society generally makes us feel we should sort of be a little ashamed of our sexual feelins and ... (read in full...)
Has anyone had experiences of skin grafts?
Q. i spilt hot oil on my foot over a month ago, despite constant visits to docs for dressing and antibiotics, the burn has not even started to heal, its about he size of a 50 pence piece, they now referred me to specialist burns unit and they said ...
A. 26 August 2007: i had the skin graft last tuesday, they said now this has gone on so long it will still scar, a little dissapointed but hey ho.... (read in full...)
I get violent and moody just before my period! Help!?
Q. heya im just wondering for help from either a proffesional or another girl that has something to help her. Before im due for my period i get really violent and moody and shout at everyone for no reason or for the slightest thing. I want to c...
A. 13 August 2007: hi there, i too struggle to deal with my temper and have got violent, it gradually gets worse 7 days before my period till about a day after i have started, i find it helps to look on this site and see you not alone http://pms.org.uk/ there is also ... (read in full...)
I'm fed up of having casual sex, I want a boyfriend.
Q. I think i'm falling for this guy... He told me the other night that he was into me and also said he would love to "have fun" with me. The thing is, this guy is gay...(I'm a girl). He said although he's gay he likes a very select few girls. I'm very ...
A. 11 August 2007: sounds like hes bi and like brief encounters with women, you wont get anything perminent with him sweetie id steer clear. xxxx... (read in full...)
Was this RAPE?
Q. Around 10 months ago I was out with an old friend from school and she met 2 of her friends which were 2 lads that I did not really know but had seen around the area a couple of times. They got pretty drunk and at first I didn't touch any drink but ...
A. 11 August 2007: i dont need to ask if you said no, from your details it was 100% rape, you poor thing, i really feel for you, this moron wants bringing to task. xxx... (read in full...)
He can only do it once.
Q. Is there something I can do to help? I am in a FWB relationship. The sex is good but he can only get off once. We both want to go again and it is really fustraiting him. I don't think he has ED, I think it has a lot to do with stress and drinking. I ...
A. 11 August 2007: a lot of men take a long time to recover after they have come, once my hubbie has its time to forget it till the next day haha, spend more time pleasuring each other, other ways and leave the actual sex bit till last off, dont rush so much. xx... (read in full...)
Yes, it is very nice that he wanted to buy that for me but I don't agree with where he looked or what he look at.
Q. Hello everyone, I am curious if anybody else would have the same problem or if it is somehow reasonable that I thought this: My boyfriend and I had a conversation about web sites we visit (to see if we go to any porn sites etc). He said that he...
A. 7 August 2007: do you really think he would even consider buying sexy underwear for you if he didnt think you would look hot in it, hes right, you dont find really hot sexy underwear down the high street, dont be so hard on him babe.
xxx... (read in full...)
Should I be settle for being his 'friend with benefits' or wait until he's ready to have a real relationship?
Q. I've met a guy through a friend of mine an known each other for quite a while now, i had friends over an he was one of them an i got quite drunk an told him a few times i like him....now the other day he told me a few things, one thing i didnt get ...
A. 6 August 2007: that sort of arrangement is fine so long as from the outset, neither party can ever imagin they would want anything more from each other.
i think it would be a big mistake if someone were to settle for that if really they want something more, you ... (read in full...)
Whats anal sex like for a woman?
Q. whats anal sex like, for a woman...
A. 2 August 2007: i think you either really enjoy it or hate it, you have to be 100% wanting it to happen, its extremly erotic, and theres so many nerve endings in there, it can be very pleasurable. but its dificult to get over the thoughts of it will hurt and it ... (read in full...)
What positions are good for anal sex?
Q. what positions are good for anal sex...
A. 2 August 2007: its also nice lying on your side with him behind you, you can still kiss and he can touch you easier.
xx... (read in full...)
12 and been having sex with a married man. What should I do?
Q. hi i am 12 years old ands I live in wisconsin. I've been having sex with this guy (i baby sit for) he does not use condums when we doit he says hes alergic to them. I dont know what to do but i think i am pregnant. for the last 3 months he has not ...
A. 29 July 2007: this man should be locked up, hes totally taken advantage of you, cant use condoms, my ass. go see a doctor, dont let this piece of s*** ruin your life you need to get help soon sweetie xxx... (read in full...)
my wife wanted to know my past, now she cant handle it. help!
Q. my wife and I are married 2 years. since the begining she has asked about my sexual past. not really feeling comfortable with this I reluctantly started to discuss my past. I am one that believes in not discussing this. my wife wants to know how ...
A. 29 July 2007: i think your wife is very jealous and would like the chance to make you jealous over her past, i think id play along, and act like you are jealous, but dont over do it lol. she sounds like me good luck xxx... (read in full...)
I'm 15, and have accidently kissed an older married man in the same room as his wife! Should I feel guilty?
Q. I'm 15, and have accidently kissed an older married man in the same room as his wife. I'm really not the type who does this sort of thing, and I did happen to be extremely drunk. So I'm faced with the problem of whether I should hate myself and feel ...
A. 29 July 2007: dont beat yourself up, your very young to be drunk and obviously arnt yet used to dealing with what is your limit regarding drink. he took advantage, your not a slag at all, just think about this and how your feeling when faced with a simler ... (read in full...)
I can't seem to orgasm anymore.
Q. Hey For the last couple of months no matter what my boyfriend does and how long he does it for I just can't seem to orgasm!! I really enjoy it when he gives me oral and for ages he used to be able to satisfy me in every way but at the moment I jus...
A. 26 July 2007: just a thought but have you changed Contraception or started taking any type of medication, i tried the contraception that they inject a few yrs ago and it lasts for 3 month, i could never orgasm while that injection was in my system and i think it ... (read in full...)
My bf is really upset that I can't orgasm! How can I get it through his head that only 30% of woman orgasm during sex?
Q. So, My boyfriend and I have been having intercourse for 5 months and i cant orgasm. I've been having sex for four years and never have. I'm okay with it, but my boyfriends not.... He gets very upset and tells me to believe in myself that i can. How ...
A. 20 July 2007: hi there try showing him this site http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/orgasmtrouble.htm... (read in full...)
Is it dangerous to have oral sex with him right after anal sex?
Q. My boyfriend likes to come in my mouth and have me swallow his semen. I'm ok with that...but we've been thinking of trying anal and I'm worried about how dangerous it is to do him orally after anal. Can I do it safely? Is it safe to swallow ? ...
A. 20 July 2007: no its not safe, he needs to wash after anal sex before any other sexual act with you, theres lots of bacteria in there that will cause infection in other body areas, anal sex is fine but hygene is something you need to take very seriously.
xxx... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to have kids because of the pain and way my body may look afterwards!
Q. right, one for the mums i think. i know i'm young but i am talking about way way in the future, but i know my bf really wants kids. i love him very much and we see a future with each other. i, however, am not sure i can give him what he wants. i ...
A. 19 July 2007: i had my daughter 8 yrs ago, if you look after yourself during your preg and after and dont eat too much while you are pregnant your body wont change, and down there wont be any different, as far as pain, yes chidbirth is painfull but in this day ... (read in full...)
I'm thinking about having anal intercourse only my problem is that it has happened to me before a while back and it wasn't such a good experience...
Q. I'm thinking about having anal intercourse only my problem is that it has happened to me before a while back and it wasn't such a good experience at least not one that I was expecting or consenting to.... I watch porn and it turns me on to see the ...
A. 19 July 2007: hi there with your bad experience you do need to take it very slow, its all about feeling confident that it wont be uncomfortable, the hint of doubt in your mind will make your body tense and make it impossible and very painfull, once you have had... (read in full...)
I have been married 2 years, but I am still a virgin!
Q. I am in need of urgent help. I am almost 28 years old and married since last two years now. it was a love marriage and we both love each other a lot. But i am still a virgin. I am just so scared of the pain even before we start kissing that i do not ...
A. 12 July 2007: im understand there is a pill that the doctor can prescribe to make it a little numb in that area to help with the first time.
xx... (read in full...)
I want my guy to go down on me
Q. What can you all use to have your guy go down on you? Guys what do you like?...
A. 12 July 2007: eyeswideopen... i like your approach hehe, have you spoke to him about it, most guys normally like to do that, maybe hes inexperienced and is unsure of what hes supposed to do once down there. ask him !
xxx... (read in full...)
I can't climax though sex alone - is there anything I can do to change this?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend 8 months and i love him very much. He has been my first and only sexual partner. I was his second but i am the only person he has ever had sex with without a condom. Anyway i have no problem reaching orgasm during oral ...
A. 10 July 2007: hi there, i dont know any female friends that can reach orgasm through intercourse alone, and i have never been able to, take a look at this site
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/orgasmtrouble.htm... (read in full...)
Why is it so hard for me ( a girl) to keep female friends?
Q. Why is it so hard for me (a girl) to keep female friends? I seem to be able to have close bonds with men, but not with women. I do have girl friends but they never seem to last for very long. Is this common? I just don't know what I'm doing ...
A. 9 July 2007: your not doing anything wrong, i have never been able to keep female friends very long, they all seem to be in so much competition with each other. its a shame but thats how i have found it to be.
xxx... (read in full...)
My dad told my mom that I didn't like her very much, because she doesn't treat me that nice. This was suppose to be secret between me and my dad.
Q. My dad told my mom that I didn't like her very much, because she doesn't treat me that nice. This was suppose to be secret between me and my dad. Now I feel embarassed. My mom is on vacation right now. However when she comes back home I don't know ...
A. 9 July 2007: i totally agree, hes trying to give her a reality check, dont be to hard on him.
xxx... (read in full...)
Recently my pet died and i was wondering if there is anything that can give me some advice to help me get over him please?
Q. Recently my pet died and i was wondering if there is anything that can give me some advice to help me get over him please?...
A. 8 July 2007: hi there, Losing a loved pet is very hard to come to terms with, i loved my dog tanya she was my best friend, i had her when i was 8 and she died when i was about 22. what got me over her was the thought of the life id given her and the fact i... (read in full...)
He asked where he would cum and asked if I could lick it off.
Q. Me and my boyfriend were discussing oral sex and then I told him I wasn't really ready for oral but I would give him a hand job, so he asked where he would cum and asked if I could lick it off. Would it taste bitter like everyone says because it's ...
A. 7 July 2007: i understand your fears but i think its better to let him come in your mouth than to lick it from somewhere, if he comes in your mouth the body temp is about the same and all you will notice is a strange but not unpleasent taste, visually and the ... (read in full...)
I have really bad acne! What can I do to solve my problem?
Q. hey guys i'm turning 16 in a few months from now... and i have this acne problem... i have acne all over my torso... which is so embarassing... worst case is at my back, then at upper arm... i'm really annoyed and even embarrassed to swim... can ...
A. 7 July 2007: hi there. have you spoken to your doctor, there is some medication that they give to stop it, i know someone who used to get it really bad on his face and the tablets worked a treat. xx... (read in full...)
Having promiscuous sex didn't help me get over him, what will?
Q. Right, I've still got a problem with the lad I've previously left a question about, but this isn't about him now.. I went on holiday last week and slept with three people whilst there. I used protection with all except for one, who, unknown to ...
A. 5 July 2007: hi there
sweetie you really need to get checked out, this guy is such a moron to remove a condom without you knowing its so irresponsible, i would think hes done that before, put your mind at rest and get yourself checked, the doctor will of seen ... (read in full...)
I get turned on when we kiss but turned off when we touch!
Q. I love my girlfriend. Every time we kiss, she turns me on. But when we touch each other, it feels great, but I can't get turned on. I might just be really nervous, so I'm really worried about what will happen if and when we decide to have sex. P...
A. 5 July 2007: hi there,
its just the pressure to make everything perfect when you have no experience thats causing you a little stress thus turning you off, kissing does not put pressure on because it doesnt mean you are going to have sex, so you have a natura... (read in full...)
He got me pregnant but was sleeping with his ex the whole time! Want to meet someone else but don't know how...
Q. i met this really nice bloke who treated me like a princess and really spoiled me and made me feel loved! he had recently split from his girlfriend with which he had to children with! i made him wait 6 months before we slept together as i wanted to ...
A. 3 June 2007: netmums is a great resource..........
http://www.netmums.com/index.html... (read in full...)
My mother discovered my husband looking at online porn! At the end of my tether and unsure what to do...
Q. PLEASE HELP. My husband and i have been together for 3 years+ I found pornographic dvd's 2years ago and explained to him how bad it made me feel. He promised it would not happen again, then my mother discovered him looking at online porn(humilating ...
A. 3 June 2007: hiya i dont think your hubbie looking at porn is that bad, i used to have a problem with it when i was with my ex boyfriend i made him get rid of mags and a couple of films i felt in a way like he was being unfaithfull.
but its just a material... (read in full...)
My wife is terrified about giving birth and I don't know what to do about it.
Q. Hi me and my wife are due to have a baby girl. Shes 7 months pregnant and has been ok so far but she's been talking about how painful it will be and how scared she is. She wants a natural birth no needdles to take the pain away or anything. She's ...
A. 2 June 2007: hi there. i think if your wife decided on pain relief it would take away her fears, i was so afraid of the birth when i was having my daughter i requested a caesarean. this didnt happen but i had an epidural which took my fear away and helped ... (read in full...)
I have been married for almost 6 months now, and haven't had sex with my husband yet.
Q. I am married for almost 6 months now, and haven't had sex with my husband yet. He has been very tolerant and patient about this subject as he don't want to hurt me. However i can't see him go through all this. i feel like having sex with him, but ...
A. 2 June 2007: oh i really feel for you, there is nothing worse than fear of pain and the thought of embarrassment aswell. you two could be having so much fun but i understand totally, ive never heard of the pill but id go for it and have a couple of glasse... (read in full...)
I cheated so I don't know who the father is! Boyfriend or the other guy!?
Q. i am pregnant but i cheated on my partner and fell pregnant around the same day i slept with the guy i cheated on him with but he said he never ejectulated inside me, whereas my boyfriend does every time we have sex plus i fell pregnant with him ...
A. 2 June 2007: hi there, its unlikely but possible this baby is not your boyfriends, all things considered is it worth messing everyones life up just because you made a silly mistake, put this other guy out of your mind and accept in your mind this is your ... (read in full...)
I've never felt him cum, so how do I know when he is ??
Q. I've been with only a few men, sexually and before the boyfriend I have now, I've never had an orgasm with foreplay or during sex. I realized that I just wasn't comfortable enough with the partners I had before. I was finally lucky enough to find ...
A. 1 June 2007: i cant see most women being able to feel when their partner comes inside them, there is no nerve endings in there, tell him you like to know when he does and to tell you when hes about too.... (read in full...)
How would you react if your new boyfriend told you his last girlfriend had "a lovely big pair of tits"?
Q. hey girls id like your opinion. How would you react if your new boyfriend told you his last girlfriend had "a lovely big pair of tits" sorry to use this kind of language- these are his words not mine...
A. 1 June 2007: men can be very tactless sometimes, and not at all be meaning anything disrespecfull to you and not compairing you, it was probably her best feature to him haha, i wouldnt take it to bad but i think i would of replyed jokingly saying "and i dont?" ... (read in full...)
Why is it that I can't have an orgasm?
Q. hi im a 19 female ive never done this before but i was just wanting some advice.i was wondering why is it that i can never have an actual orgasm. my friend said that shes only had one and shes 20 and she was kinda wonderin too why she cant have ...
A. 1 June 2007: hi there you are not alone, you and your friend should take a look at this site, i do think if the male orgasm was so complicated there was much more infomation out there about it.
http:... (read in full...)
We had an argument and now my bf won't return my calls! What do I do?
Q. my boyfriend and i quarrelled just this monday and he refuses to return my calls what should i do?...
A. 31 May 2007: sometimes after a good row people need a cooling off time, you didnt say who was too blame or if the matter was resolved, i'd write him a letter as he prob thinks the row will kick off again if he answers your call. explain how you feel and that you ... (read in full...)
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