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I look so young for my age...any way I can make myself look older?

Q.   I need help, asap. The thing is, I look really young for my age. I'm 19, 20 in November and I still get asked for ID. Most of the time I even get asked ID for a 15 rated movie. When I got to clubs it's really embarrassing to be stopped infront of ...

A.   27 November 2008: I feel you. I'm 24 and I'm constantly looked at as fourteen! I think it's partly because young people look older than they are nowadays or dress older, like you see Miley Cyrus, she's 15, just turned 16, and yet if you look at the clothes she wears, ... (read in full...)

We're second cousins, and my parents would freak if they knew we're in love!

Q.   I have a boyfriend that lives 2 hours away for me. I have been with him for a year and almost three months, but we have a huge problem: we love each other but our parents don't want us to be together because we are second cousins. My parents ...

A.   18 August 2005: I don't like what Becky05 had to say and those others who think that it isn't illegal to marry or have a relationship with your cousin or even second cousin because in a lot of places, it is! If you are religious, it is definately a no-no!... (read in full...)

I like a boy who's still a minor!

Q.   I really like this guy at school but the problem is that I'm 18 and he's 15, which makes him under the age of consent. I think I'm in love with him- or at least really obsessed. I know he likes me too but I don't know whether to act on it or not. ...

A.   18 August 2005: I agree with the poster below, but I had the same situation and so me being a shy senior, I just forgot about him completely and didn't for legal reasons and the fact that he didn't really like me was the reason I backed away. I also prayed for ... (read in full...)

Boys never want me as a girlfriend. I'm always "just a friend"...

Q.   Hiya, I have trouble getting boyfriends. It's that Im always the friend, never the girlfriend. I've tried asking my friends whats wrong with me and they say I'm a fine atractive girl and it's their loss if they dont like me that way, but if t...

A.   17 August 2005: Well I don't know what's the problem with you because I dono't know you personally, but at least you have friends that are guys. I can't even get that far! Anyway, I'm not a professional advice giver, but all I can say is to keep trying and stop ... (read in full...)

My son is getting into trouble causing "emergencies", and I don't know why...

Q.   I am a mother with a 14-year-old son and a 19-year-old daughter. He seems to have a worrying obsession with emergencies and said to me the other day "Emergencies are funny. As long as no-one is killed or seriously hurt, then an emergency is fun...

A.   17 August 2005: Maybe it's a cry for help and a costly one at that! I think it also may be a phase, but talk to him and tell him your problem. Maybe he'll mature, if not, there's always boot camp!! Jk, also you could make sure that you and him always ... (read in full...)

I'm ready to start a family, but my b/f would rather wait another 5 years. What do I do?

Q.   Hi I'm 25 yrs and have been with my boyf for 7yrs. He is 35yrs old and just recently I have been getting broody and feel ready to have a baby. We have a beautiful home and our own business. He's not so keen and says that he's not ready and wants to...

A.   17 August 2005: I just noticed that you were 18 when you started dating this guy and he was 28!!! Wow that's a big age difference considering the ten year age gap. Maybe he's in a different point in life, and doesn't want kids anymore. If he's at that point then ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and falling for a 21-year-old!

Q.   I'm 14 years old and I've recently become involved with a guy who is 21. I know this is quite a big age gap but I think I'm falling for him. He's told me that he likes me and we get on really well and talk all the time, but revently he's been ...

A.   17 August 2005: it depends on the person whether they think that's a big age gap. Cruised the message boards lately? I see these posts of people getting married or being with guys 10 years or so older than them. So this answer would be up to you, maybe also since ... (read in full...)

I think I'm pregnant and my boyfriend now says we should see other people...

Q.   My bf can be very nasty sometimes and I think I'm pregnant. He has now told me I can meet other boys. I dont know what to make of this or what to do. Any ideas?...

A.   17 August 2005: first you take a pregnancy test or go to the doctor to find out. Then, go tell him if you think that it's ok, but I think the sooner he finds out the situation the better, either way cuz if you are pregnant then he has to pay for child support ... (read in full...)

Is the age gap too big?

Q.   I am an 18 year old female and I am kind of seeing a 27 year old guy. Is this age gap too big? And how do I tell my parents...they would kill me! Is he only after sex?...

A.   17 August 2005: That depends. you'll only know after he respects your decisions to wait for you in terms of if you don't want to have sex yet. Also some couples have a big age gap, so it also depends from couple to couple. If you're mature for your age and he's ... (read in full...)

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