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Is it a bad idea to let any potential bf know that you have been in an abusive relationship?

Q.   Is it a bad idea to let any potential bf know that you have been in an abusive relationship? Could this make you more open to abusers? At what stage is it safe to let someone know that you were in an abusive relationship? ...

A.   31 December 2007: You should never be ashamed of who you are or where you came from. I believe that those of us that have been abused should accept that we own a portion of the responsibility for the abuse. Be proud that you have taken steps to remove yourself from ... (read in full...)

Am I allowing myself to be abused?

Q.   I am a successful business woman earning a very good living, am well-respected and have plenty of friends and good family. I live with a man that is now unemployed (for the second time in 1 1/2 years) due to the volatile automotive industry at this ...

A.   31 December 2007: thanks to all three of you for even responding and asking for clarification...I've never been on one of these blogs before and I feel I have benefited. Thank you all...... (read in full...)

Am I allowing myself to be abused?

Q.   I am a successful business woman earning a very good living, am well-respected and have plenty of friends and good family. I live with a man that is now unemployed (for the second time in 1 1/2 years) due to the volatile automotive industry at this ...

A.   30 December 2007: He has grabbed my arms and thrown me up on the kitchen counter, hard enough to leave bruises in the imprint of five fingers on both arms...He has thrown a couple of items at me, the remote control and a spoon. I'm ok, I'm just concerned it will ... (read in full...)

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