Does my "hugging" doctor want more than just to make me better?
Q. How can I tell what this Doctor is up to and want from me. I go to him twice a week for therapy and in the past lets say three month he always touches me like on my shoulder and keep his hand there for a while, he has his arms out three times when I ...
A. 18 January 2006: I'd be VERY wary of this guy. If you're picking up he's interested in you, there's probably something wrong. Doctor-patient relationships should be trusting, but not to the point of seeming strange. I'd even be leery of his treatment, especially if ... (read in full...)
I told my old flame that I am still interested in him, and he responded with a metaphor! What does it mean?
Q. i wrote a while back and this is an update, but with a further question. i have been back in touch with an old flame for 10 months. he has another girlfrind of one year but is not in love with her and sees no fruture with her. i still like hi...
A. 17 January 2006: I think he's saying he doesn't know what he wants. He feels loyalty to his girlfriend, but probably also had feelings for you as well. His feelings are probably waffling, they're "sometimes fast, sometimes slow, sometimes full of garbage and ... (read in full...)
Why don't the men who use porn...ever think about the pain and hurt they can cause their partners?
Q. Why is it that a lot of men dont seem to even think about the hurt they can cause their partners by using porn. Dont they stop to think how it would feel to them if we used pictures of young hunks to get off especially as they are changing and ...
A. 17 January 2006: You men are also using your "urges" as an excuse. You have other bodily urges that you curb, do you not? If you get hungry, do you imediately start chewing on the arm of the person next to you (afte all, it's meat), or run off to the kitchen no ... (read in full...)
I hate the anxiety and paranoias I feel about my relationship..can anyone advise me?
Q. I am 27 and have been together with my girlfriend for 5 years. We are very much in love and care for each other dearly and often talk about getting married. Recently I have been getting paronoid attacks about her. That she might be losing interest ...
A. 17 January 2006: First off, ask yourself if she's giving you signals that she's losing interest, or if it's all comming from you. If you can detect visible "I'm not so interested anymore" signals, then ask her if she's lost interest in you (just don't do this at a ... (read in full...)
23 years between us. Could it work out if we really love each other?
Q. Do you think that a 23 year age difference is ok?? I'm 17 and he's 40, and he says that he really loves me, and while I don't think I love him yet (we've only known each other a few months) I do really care about him and can't stop thinking about ...
A. 11 January 2006: If the two of you truely love one another, then yes. It can work. My boyfriend and I share an age gap of 12 years (or rather, 11 years, 11 months, and one week) and do not find it awkward. People do talk, and my parents do worry, but I trust him to ... (read in full...)
How does a 25 year old virgin get a girlfriend? Advice is appreciated.
Q. This is also a 25 year old virgin question. I don't seem to have a problem talking to girls, I have kissed 2 girls since puberty (although 1 a barely remember thanks to lots of beer). I've been on a few dates as well, never a 2nd date mind you. I do ...
A. 11 January 2006: As a female myself, I have advice for you: there are plenty of girls out there who actually WANT virgins. Why, you ask? Because they wish to retain their virginity to marriage, and would be doubly-happy if their future spouse was the same. Holding ... (read in full...)
So ashamed but I still keep seeing my married lover...
Q. Im a 26 year old girl and i havent done the relationship thing for a long time for various reasons but i met a man a few months back, he turned out to be married, now as much as my morals are telling me it is wrong i have still been seeing him. Yes ...
A. 11 January 2006: I'd advise breaking this off completely, here and now. If he's willing to cheat on his wife, and you steal him away from her, what's to keep him from cheating on YOU when YOU'RE the wife and having some other girl stealing him away from YOU? "Mate ... (read in full...)
I feel too young to be tied down...
Q. i am 17 yrs old i love my bf but i feel like i am getting tied down too quickly i want to be with him but just not yet! it would brake his heart if i broke up with him! what should i do?...
A. 11 January 2006: What do you mean by "tied down"? If you're feeling tied down because he's talking marriage, then ask him to slow down. If you don't feel ready for that high a level of commitment, then of course don't go for it. If he's really that set on marriage, ... (read in full...)
What do boys look for in girls in terms of race and personality??
Q. Question about teens, especially interested in guys point of view. Would a 16 year old white guy be likely to want to date someone from a different race (asian) or do most guys tend to stick with their own race? Also what do guys think of girls ...
A. 11 January 2006: In my opinion, the majority of white guys don't have an issue with Asian women because of their race; mixed-race couples are becoming more and more common in America, so you shouldn't stand out too much (this is especially true if your facial ... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to my wife's twin!
Q. am a 30-year-old married man. I am happy with my wife but the only problem is her twin sister! I am attracted towards her too. I try to avoid them and get successful also but whenever I see her again I am back to square one. To be true, I don’t ...
A. 11 January 2006: If she's your wife's twin, then she probably shares many similarities with your wife, correct? They have similar genetics, so they likely share a strong physical resemblance (you didn't mention them being identical, but even sisters born a few years ... (read in full...)
Why did he say "I won't leave you"... Out of the blue?!
Q. My boyfriend of 2 years said a very strange thing to me out of the blue, we where talking together as usal before we both head off to work in the morning, and out of now were he starts kissing me and huggin me and then says "i wont leave you" and ...
A. 11 January 2006: I have two reasons that I think he'd say this, neither of which is the greatest of scenarios. One, he's cheating on you. He's cheating and wants you to think he'd never do that because he'd "never leave you" (and, technically, he hasn't left ... (read in full...)
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