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Husband is great but he looks at teen porn

Q.   So i am 40 weeks pregnant and just got married 2 months ago. My husband is great to me and we planned on having this baby. Problem is, he looks at teen porn. I caught him on the computer before so now he looks at it on his phone..The girls look ...

A.   31 December 2010: I doubt it is teen (under 18). If it were, that is super illegal. If he got busted doing that, he would have to register as a sex offender, your address would be posted on Megans law website, etc. ... (read in full...)

Is there anything wrong with a young woman having a "sugar daddy"?

Q.   Hi All, I am a young guy still trying to figure out life and love. I am wondering if you all can give me your opinion on a girl I met. I met this girl a few months back.She's gorgeous, a model, wants to be an actress.She's from Czech Republi...

A.   31 December 2010: European women are different and not as hung up on the sex act. ... (read in full...)

First time he hasn't been in touch! Is it because of his son?

Q.   I have been seeing this guy for the past few weeks. He is separated and shares a son with his ex part-time. Unfortunatly over the holidays he did not get to see his son and was pretty upset (understandably). During this time he was texting me a few ...

A.   31 December 2010: My son once had a girlfriend that rode a bicycle 10 miles just to see each him. I say that because when someone really wants to see (or be in contact) with another person, nothing will keep that from happening. On the other hand. It's possible... (read in full...)

It just disgusts, saddens, and makes me depressed everytime I think about my girlfriend's past

Q.   So this is kind of a interesting situation. My girlfriend is 16 years old, and I am 18 years old. We have been in a steady relationship for about a year now. I have been having problems getting over her past. At one time, she got mixed into the w...

A.   30 December 2010: She could have changed without you, but you would still be a blackmailer and kind of a jerk. Why did she tell you this stuff anyway or did you drag it out of her. She doesn't need to be constantly reminded about a time in her life when she wasn't h... (read in full...)

My girlfriend slept with other men and now I can't touch her without seeing them...

Q.   I met this girl back in March of 09. We had a lot of fun and built a relationship for a month before having sex. Over the next year and a half we fell apart and a lot of it was she has a lot of problems with her self esteem. I really love this girl ...

A.   29 December 2010: Most important I appreciate your service. It takes a strong man to commit to your country. Hopefully you will get to tour all over the world and visit lots of exotic places. As far as the girl, there are some that would never mess around behind y... (read in full...)

Why would she stay with him after he cheated on her?

Q.   Hello All! My question is "Why does a girl stay with a guy after she finds out that he was cheating on her?" I dated this guy for a few months and then found out he had a girlfriend the whole time. I told the girlfriend and she still is with him...

A.   27 December 2010: Maybe she knew and acted like she didn't. Maybe she doesn't care because you were just a conquest and she is the real thing. Maybe they have some sort of kinky sex sharing thing that they each do. All you know is you are not part of that craz... (read in full...)

Cheating, or loving?

Q.   hi, pl help me, I m married 6yrs old with kids,my wife gets very angry whenever i remind or remember regarding her past boy friend, regarding whom she says "I don't love now, 'I love only you' not anybody" but I feel some where she feels for him but ...

A.   27 December 2010: Stop being insecure. She is with you. If you keep bringing this up, you may just push her away. ... (read in full...)

Sex with an ex, then he had sex with another girl!

Q.   I'm an idiot...the other night I decided to have sex with my EX boyfriend...I'm only 13 years old and he's 15. I don't even know how it happened I was just supposed to hang out with him cause even if we broke up we're still like bestfriends. But i ...

A.   27 December 2010: It didn't mean anything to him for you two to have sex that day so it shouldn't mean anything to you either. But you are better than that. SO don't give away sex to just anybody. Also, I like your wording. 'Decided' is what you did. Next time may... (read in full...)

He lies about smoking weed!

Q.   Hi.. I have this problem with my boyfriend... He constantly lies to me about weed. I am so against it and i tried to forbid him of using it.. He always hangs out with his friend that smoke weed, and he claims that he does not. I convinced him that ...

A.   27 December 2010: Dump him till he no longer does what it is that you don't want him to do. You should make him go to an NA (narcotics anonymous) meeting. Lots of former pot heads go to that. The main problem with pot heads is they lack motivation. You don't wa... (read in full...)

Boyfriend saved my life and is now handicapped. Should I stay with him?

Q.   I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 24. He is the best thing that's ever happened to me. It almost sounds unreal, but he saved my life about one month ago. He pushed me out of the way from getting hit by an oncoming car, but he was badly injured. Right now, ...

A.   27 December 2010: Don't take the accident into account. Pretend it didn't happen then what would you do? He wouldn't want you around just because he saved you and you are not obligated to be around either. This accident changes nothing. ... (read in full...)

I feel so alone. Week before Christmas he left because he needed 'space'

Q.   On Monday, only 5 days before Christmas my husband and I got into a huge argument. It was really over nothing, he was drinking and going on and on about nothing. I asked him to be quiet so I could get some work done at home (I work from home) and ...

A.   27 December 2010: Drinking changes people and it usually makes them worse. I don't think I've ever heard a story about someone drinking too much and things getting better. My guess is he's got a problem committing and he is drinking to mask that. For you, I would ... (read in full...)

What causes Trictillomania?

Q.   Does anyone know what causes Trictillomania. IE: the compulsive urge to pull one's hair out? I am finding it very hard to stop doing it at present and it is becomming quite distressing....

A.   26 December 2010: It's an OCD like nail biting, etc Some people involuntarily bite their nails and then catch themselves, not even knowing that they were doing it. ... (read in full...)

Jealous girlfriend , my fault I hit her ?

Q.   My girlfriend is bi polar and jealous. She caught me with porn and got really mad about it she wol't let me have female friend and I don't care about that because I don't want her to have male friends so we made a deal no friends of oppisite sexes. ...

A.   25 December 2010: This girl is not right for you. A proper relationship makes things good. It makes each person better and brings out their best, not their worst. You bring out her worst too. It's also pretty screwed up that you would hit someone. You probably... (read in full...)

Jealous girlfriend , my fault I hit her ?

Q.   My girlfriend is bi polar and jealous. She caught me with porn and got really mad about it she wol't let me have female friend and I don't care about that because I don't want her to have male friends so we made a deal no friends of oppisite sexes. ...

A.   25 December 2010: This girl is not right for you. A proper relationship makes things good. It makes each person better and brings out their best, not their worst. You bring out her worst too. It's also pretty screwed up that you would hit someone. You probably... (read in full...)

Did I cross the line by posing as someone else and chatting to him online to trap him?

Q.   Hi, Am I in the wrong? and did I ask too much from him? Right Id had been dating this guy for a couple of months and thought it wasn't working out (We had meet on match.com) We would go to his and watch the football or racing and stu...

A.   25 December 2010: The guy didn't have to take the bait, so it's not like you did anything so bad. You were right to be suspicious but from what you said, it looked like the relationship was winding down anyway. (You don't go from lots of contact daily to very litt... (read in full...)

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