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As a friend of hers I feel she should know her boyfriend cheated! Do I tell her?

Q.   So this question is not pertaining to my relationship. My boyfriend is best friends with his cousin jon and since being with my bf for 3 years I'm close with jon as well. Jon can be a little untrustworthy and kind of conniving. Jon has been wit...

A.   12 August 2014: Well like you say, she has a RIGHT to know. Yeah it'll cause a bit of a rift with your boyfriend but hes not your best friend- he's your boyfriend's and tbh he's obviously a jerk. You wouldn't want to be her? Your bf won't like it but if he doesn't ... (read in full...)

My anxiety is destroying my relationships!

Q.   Hi everyone, thanks so much for helping. I get extremely stressed/anxious over tiny things, and overanalyze everything, whether it is with friends, my boyfriend, or a random person. Generally, my anxiety is unwarranted: for example, if my b...

A.   11 August 2014: Anxiety disorders have a serious effect on people's entire lives, more than people who don't have it, (or those who don't know they have a disorder) realise- and you need to realise that if it's seriously affecting your happiness, you DO go n see a ... (read in full...)

4 year relationship ended, why is he making out like I meant nothing?

Q.   I was asked to leave by my former boyfriend of 4 years 3 weeks ago. I left, packed my life into boxes. I had relocated, enrolled into college and generally uprooted myself for this guy, and after doing so much for him and his family, that is how he ...

A.   11 August 2014: Sometimes it seems like a bit of compassion, courtesy and basic decency is pretty hard to come by... One minute things seem wonderful, then they switch and unleash their full colours. You can't do anything to change the fact that this guy is an ... (read in full...)

I don't wish to waste my time but I like him

Q.   I started talking to this guy that I knew of through my friend at uni. We started talking on facebook about a month ago and hit it off right away. He always flirts with me and still does but his texts are getting very short and he's less attentiv...

A.   11 August 2014: You're both very young and at the exact stage when partying, boozing the single student life is new and seems like the most exciting thing on this earth... Lol, just saying that something SERIOUS like a relationship is guna be hard to find with guys ... (read in full...)

Four months of dating and he's giving me mixed signals

Q.   Hello uncle and auntie's, I have posted a concern before regarding my four-month relationship with this guy. This guy and I have been together for four months and everything was going well it's just that he has and ask me to be his girlfriend. ...

A.   1 July 2014: I'm sorry but holding back your leukaemia for four months... He's gonna be having all kinds of doubts, thinking you're not at ease with each other as much as he thought, he probably knew that you were worried it was gunna scare him off? So it likely ... (read in full...)

LDR issues. Do I confront her over her Ex issues ? Do I insist on seeing her to work things out?

Q.   LDR issues.Do I confront the issues? Do I insist on seeing her next weekend? To try to work things out with her? For years I ignored the feeling in the back of my mind that I may be gay. However about 3 months ago a friend signed me up to a gay dati...

A.   30 June 2014: You're trying so hard not to cry but crying is just a given with any relationship- this is your first whirlwind relationship with a girl, and although those unforgettable memories, your love will seem indispensable, you're both on different pages ... (read in full...)

Am I wasting my time? Is he using me?

Q.   Okay so in march I started speaking to this guy, he's really nice and stuff. Anyhow we finally met in April at a house party and one thug led to another and well - we had what you would call a 'one night stand' however afterward due to him being in ...

A.   30 June 2014: Yeah I agree with wise owl that it's futile to try and build something really meaningful from a one night stand... 99% of the time people are under influence , judgement is clouded, inhibitions lowered and people do wild, reckless things without ... (read in full...)

Should I get away from her? I'm having trouble keeping my emotions at bay

Q.   We've known each other for about a year now. In the beginning, I always thought she was pretty but never felt any real attraction to her, mainly because I was seeing someone else. She also said that she thought I was cute but she too was with ...

A.   30 June 2014: She knows full well how you feel and if she doesn't feel the same, she's being a pr**k tease tbh... Giggling, inviting you into her personal space, coyly prancing around half naked? Come on this girl has got you in a mouse trap, and unless you make ... (read in full...)

He didn't check up on me when I was in the hospital

Q.   Hey everyone... I'm really going through a lot right now and it's hurting me. So me and my boyfriend been going out for a while now but he broke up with me because he said we have different personality, but we started talking again and tried to...

A.   29 June 2014: This guy is NOT someone you need spend another milithought on... He is a scumbag that can't treat another person with basic COURTESY and decency... What kind of soulless freak doesn't even check you're ok when you're in a hospital bed?? Lol! Even if ... (read in full...)

Am I crazy to want a partner who desires me and finds me attractive?

Q.   I have been married 16 years and have been bothered by something that may seem trivial to some people. I am aware that all people will notice other attractive people but my husband seems to have a real issue with this and I have talked to him about ...

A.   29 June 2014: Not only must it do your head in, but it's extremely Disrespectful, hurtful, humiliating for him to ogle to the point where he trips over table legs??? SERIOUSLY?? It's no secret men like to appreciate beautiful women, but to this extent?? It r... (read in full...)

He's lost his job and now I feel like we're over. He's cold and distant. Is this relationship over?

Q.   He's lost his job and now I feel like we're over? My bf was the sweetest, caring and very attentive when he had a job. But he's lost his job 6 months now and he's just so distant and cold. He hardly calls or texts me. We argue every time w...

A.   29 June 2014: Honestly it sounds like he's depressed... Depression isn't just a case of feeling down when something bad happens but it's an emotional physiological state, where you literally get hooked on negative thought patterns, which lead to more depressive ... (read in full...)

Why couldn't we look away from each other?

Q.   This is just a quick question. What does holding a gaze mean? I don't need an explanation of that but why could i not look away when someone was looking at me and held my gaze for around 8-10 seconds, no words just gazing. I couldn't have lo...

A.   29 June 2014: It's well known that eye contact is the most effective way of communication between humans, either used to convey hostility or interest... So unless he was giving you a death stare, I think it's pretty sure that prolonged intense gaze between you ... (read in full...)

Am I in a hopeless position re my Bf and confused? I very lonely here, my family lives overseas

Q.   Being with this Muslim guy for about 4 months. Is the second time he break up with me saying that he's a bad guy and I am too "drama" for him.. But he changes his mind 10 min after and is like everything is fine.. Then he says he wants to be only...

A.   29 June 2014: He's not your bf... He's a bloke that plays ups and downs with you, because you let him... Because of your loneliness, you're emotionally dependent on him, but it's ok for him to toy with you like a yoyo?? When he gets angry, it's him transfe... (read in full...)

Lost him before I could express my feelings, what should I do now?

Q.   I met this guy off of a hookup site about a year and half ago. We met up countless times over that period of time and i began to catch feelings for him. I kept them quiet because he was on dl and i wasn't sure if he as looking for a relationship. ...

A.   29 June 2014: It's completely normal to feel like your heart's been deflated, but you did all you could in the situation- and everyone has the experience of feeling like they're so close to something really special, then being deprived is like taking the oxygen ... (read in full...)

I like her a lot, but don't know how to ask her out!

Q.   Ive known this girl For 2 years already, weve been best friends, we talk alot and even Talked about dating but she sometimes gives me signs to show she dont care anymore, I really Like her and want to ask her out, But dont know what to say, any ...

A.   29 June 2014: Ouch... It's intense crushing on a best friend... Most if us have been there and there is ALWAYS that world- crushing possibility they'll reject you... But possibility of rejection will NEVER go away... At your age, I would advise taking things v... (read in full...)

Don't know what to do, why am I still thinking about a guy I haven't seen for 2 years?

Q.   hi. i'm in a little bummer here... ok here goes, i kinda like this guy (since childhood days actually) but we only see each other every 3 years and he's 2 years older than i am and i don't know if he will or does like me, but then i met this other ...

A.   29 June 2014: At your age, it's all about obsessive thought patterns, hormones and getting fixated on people in a major way... Girls in particular I was an extreme obsessive at your age! At this stage it's futile to dwell on "does he/ doesn't he like me?" From ... (read in full...)

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