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Man with autism.

Patrickthesyrup, posted 36 weeks ago

yeah....

I'm 20 years old, and I have been living with autism. sometimes it can be real painful to be single when I look at other couples that are happy. sometimes I get suicidal over it. I am antisocial, but I do have feelings sometimes. I wish I never had autism. I never got a GF because of it. I went on 1 date once, and that was over. I called her, she never calls me back, which shows me a sign. then I look at myself. I'm not meant to be happy.

I try not to think about it, but everywhere I go, I see couples, happy couples, then I get suicidal.

I have feelings for guys too, therefore I must be a bisexual.

If there is a way to change feelings towards things like that. theres nothing that can change my autism, as there is no cure for autism. I wish I never had these emotional feelings.

... I know I should not beat myself up like this, but this has been a problem going for years now. I'm 20 years old, and only went out once. (it was a movie, then I got sick and had to go home early, which messed the whole date up) I pushed my self to go out with a girl at least once in my life, and I got what I wanted. I didn't get my first kiss yet. but as this is the real world, I cannot go 1 day without seeing a female, which changes my feelings.

I know this probably isn't the place to let out the emotions, but I can't take it anymore, and I'm sure I'm not the only guy getting old that has never had a GF.

I'm just saying I have autism, and I don't know how to express all of my feelings towards one person, or to one person.

Posted on 13 November 2007 @ 4:17 (London time) - permalink
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Cat_87, posted 36 weeks ago

Hi,

Your story really made me sad :o( but the fact is you shouldn't make having a girlf the most important thing in your life! I'm your age and boyfriends are not the most important things in my life!

You will find a girl who understands your autism and will go at the pace you want to! Don't worry i no people a lot older than you who have never had girlf's/ had sex or been on dates its normal! Everyone develops at different times!

You seem like a nice genuine boy and im sure a girl will come along soon! If you ever want to talk message me! I hope that helps! Also with the sucidal thoughts the samaritians can help check out their website! x

Posted on 13 November 2007 @ 18:50 (London time) - permalink
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