Flatmates

Lotus, posted over a year ago

If there's a guy you like and he's living with two female flatmates what type of guy is he?

Posted on 13 July 2006 @ 19:23 (London time) - permalink
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Dr Pete, posted over a year ago

Ummm. A guy that *probably* doesn't mind living with two female flatmates!!

That's probably the most information you can guess about him based on what you have said :P

... Unless you were wanting something more like "A kind, gentle man who is in touch with his feminine side, he is probably a good communicator and doesn't mind getting house work done when necessary. This man's living arrangements indicates that he is comfortable with the opposite sex, and so is better equiped to manage relationships and to understanding to women's needs" :)

Posted on 14 July 2006 @ 9:20 (London time) - permalink
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AvocadoMilkTea, posted over a year ago

I agree. The question is too broad. You might as well tell us what you think about it, instead of asking the question. Then again, if you need confirmation for what you think, we won't be much help anyway.

Posted on 14 July 2006 @ 20:55 (London time) - permalink
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Lotus, posted over a year ago

Well I'm not sure what I think that's why I ask, I agree with the getting the housework done because that's what they do for him ie is cook and do his washing, but he goes out to the cinema with them too and says they are friends. Anymore views.

Posted on 14 July 2006 @ 22:7 (London time) - permalink
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AvocadoMilkTea, posted over a year ago

I don't think it matters whether he lives with two girls or one, or live with two guys or one, or lives by himself, or with his parents, or with his siblings. What actually matters is what type of guy is he anyway?

It would be more clear if your question was more like this: "What type of guy is he that lets his roommates do all his washing, cooking, cleaning, picking up his mess - basically baby him?"

Then my response might have been, "He is probably a lazy guy who likes to be taken care of. He might also be lazy, possibly inconsiderate, and might take advantage of the generosity of his roommates."

It really depends. Like my brother stayed with two girls for awhile, but he cleans up himself, sometimes cook for himself, and share responsibilities. Then there's another guy I know who lives with two girls and is totally irresponsible when it comes to mutual cleaning up. Then another guy I work with who lives with three girls, and he's a total gentleman, hard working, sporty, and not a womanizer at all.

Posted on 15 July 2006 @ 0:34 (London time) - permalink
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Dr Pete, posted over a year ago

What's wrong with going to the cinema with your friends?

Posted on 16 July 2006 @ 22:57 (London time) - permalink
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Lotus, posted over a year ago

there's nothing wrong with going to the cinema with friends.

Posted on 18 July 2006 @ 21:58 (London time) - permalink
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Wendyg, posted over a year ago

Ok not sure I get whats going on here and what your point is... you cant ever really tell what sort of person someone is until you spend time with them, they may appear great on the surface but like all of us may have habits... its not a clear cut and dry to try and suss what sort of person someone is by who they live with... it probably suits him to live with females as they may be easier to live with due to being better at mess and the like, or it could be that the flat share was the best option at the time, or hes just not up for the lad pad which can sometimes be messy etc.. it doesnt mean he loves it cos woman will clean up after him it could just mean that he likes it tidy and woman are more tidy than men, if you want to get to know him and see what sort of person he is i think you will have to date him first or at least be friends with him. Doesnt matter that hes off out with this girls they are flatmates afterall and hes just enjoys thier company.

Posted on 19 July 2006 @ 21:11 (London time) - permalink
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lillaum, posted over a year ago

Why dont you ask him how it came about? He is the only one who can answer you. Maybe the real question is why does it bother you?

Posted on 21 July 2006 @ 9:9 (London time) - permalink
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kat14, posted over a year ago

seems like they r just mates but its hard 2 tell from what u've said.

Posted on 22 July 2006 @ 9:36 (London time) - permalink
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Lotus, posted over a year ago

I suppose it bothers me because they get to spend time with him although it could be that he doesn't even see them all time, and the other day he was saying that it's difficult to find somewhere to live as he needs to be near the station. So I suppose I'm a little jealous!!

Posted on 22 July 2006 @ 13:31 (London time) - permalink
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