24 y/o single male....

..is me.....any uncomplicated, loving, caring, kind, fun females out there?

Posted on 24 March 2006 @ 13:43 (London time) - permalink
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hehehe, sure there are fun girls out there, cool and pretty but uncomplicated, no chance!!!! hehehehhe, we are girls, complicated is our second name!

Posted on 24 March 2006 @ 14:52 (London time) - permalink
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lol....well you know what i mean...the non-userous, non-messing with your head kind lol

Posted on 24 March 2006 @ 16:12 (London time) - permalink
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you will find that lots of women tell you they are what you want, but a little down the line when they have tightened the net and they can call you there own then they show there true colours, but I am sure that with patience and maybe with a little help from this site you will find the ideal lady, were do you live?

Posted on 24 March 2006 @ 18:59 (London time) - permalink
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England Smeedle. East of :)

Posted on 25 March 2006 @ 11:55 (London time) - permalink
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is your picture one of you? Mine is not one of me!!

Posted on 25 March 2006 @ 13:44 (London time) - permalink
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yes it is of me lol....kinda guessed that otherwise ur name would be skippy not smeedle

Posted on 26 March 2006 @ 12:6 (London time) - permalink
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Very observant, "whats that skippy a man trapped down the mine!!" I loved skippy maybe I should be skippy and not smeedle?

Posted on 27 March 2006 @ 23:15 (London time) - permalink
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lol maybe...or maybe skippys twin smeedle....

Posted on 28 March 2006 @ 2:3 (London time) - permalink
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Ha! now there is an idea to foster when sitting behind my desk today, instead of solving the problems of my clients maybe I will be thinking of skippy stuff, how delightful that will be in my own little head world, much better than the client stuff!! Off to ponder in my head it is then!!!lol

Posted on 30 March 2006 @ 8:57 (London time) - permalink
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Lol what do you work as?

Posted on 30 March 2006 @ 13:3 (London time) - permalink
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Just been made redundant after working for a big housing association for 20 years, used to manage hostels and schemes for offenders and homeless, also managed a scheme for mental health and learning dissability. Now I have another fantastic job and im in week 3, I manage a court (housing scheme) for older people. It is the same kind of work only different client group. What do you do?

Posted on 3 April 2006 @ 9:1 (London time) - permalink
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I used to live with a housing association, what ones have you worked for?

Posted on 3 April 2006 @ 9:56 (London time) - permalink
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Awwww Smeedle sorri to hear tha

Posted on 3 April 2006 @ 13:17 (London time) - permalink
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Worked for Stonham for 20 years, and thanks Dazerg for your kind comments, was that a hug and if so I do feel all warm and fuzzy now. lol!! It was hard being made redundant as it was a job I did well, one I loved and one I lost through no fault of my own. I went through a really depressing time and it was only finding dear cupid that kept me sane, as I had to work out notice period of nearly 6 months and as other managers and friends with less service were leaving I was still there, slogging on keeping my services running with very low staff moral. I made some very good friends and one in particular in the years I worked for the company, she knows who she is and she is very special to me, she saved my sanity and gave me unconditional support when I needed it most. I now have a fantastic job and was lucky enough to find that job before my one with Stonham ended.

Posted on 3 April 2006 @ 22:48 (London time) - permalink
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Yes it is a hug....alls well that ends well Smeedle :D, I havent had a job in nearly 4 months now :(

Posted on 4 April 2006 @ 13:51 (London time) - permalink
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Whats wrong, is it just that there is no work in your field or were you made redundant, dont say if you dont want too, im just being nosey. Thanks for the hug, feel good now!!

Posted on 4 April 2006 @ 22:27 (London time) - permalink
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Not settled where I am, dont want to do telesales which seems to be the only job left here, kinda depressed being here (back wid my dad and his gf), all sorts lol

Posted on 9 April 2006 @ 20:50 (London time) - permalink
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and i had quite a few jobs in various locations last year which kind of counts against me

Posted on 9 April 2006 @ 20:50 (London time) - permalink
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what about going back to college, as you are living at home this may be a plan, if you could maybe get a part time job in a bar or supermarket etc then do college in the day, I know it would be hard but it would mean that you opened up your options, what is your trade so to speak? Or try working for a holiday company abroad as a rep, that way you would have fun and meet loads of people, I know the pay is not much but you do get accommodation and it is different.

Posted on 12 April 2006 @ 19:5 (London time) - permalink
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I dont have a trade, I have minimal qualifications. I do write though. Well I am told. Dont want to go back to college, have never been one for formal education, my kind of crazy-ass scattish mind is far too all over the place. Would like to work in a bar but there really isnt alot about right now.

Posted on 12 April 2006 @ 22:30 (London time) - permalink
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Have you ever thought about working in hostels, night shelters and homeless people hostels oftern are looking for good relief staff, It pays well and it is away in to working with offenders, or people who need support, I started as a cleaner in a hostel 22 years ago then ended up managing it! I left school with no qualifications just an interest in people and a family background that had challenged me and given me an insight into the darker side of life and humankind and wish to help people to turn there lives around what ever the circumstances. From the answers you give to people I think you have a deep understanding of people and you are definatly a people person. Give it some thought, having no qualifications needed except the ones gained at the university of life. If you are not sure it is for you try volanteering.

Posted on 13 April 2006 @ 21:10 (London time) - permalink
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Id love to do something like that Smeedle because I am pretty sick of having a job which pays a wage but leaves me feeling like I have done nothing worthwhile of note with my day. I applied to a homeless shelter in Glasgow but I think they found me too soft lol....

Posted on 14 April 2006 @ 13:31 (London time) - permalink
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Dont give up, I had to keep trying when I decided to move from cleaning in the hostel to being a project worker the way I got around this was to be a relief worker, this gave me the experience and knowledge I needed when I next applied for a permanant post. If you have to then be a volanteer as this way they can see how good you are!!

Posted on 14 April 2006 @ 13:53 (London time) - permalink
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ty...maybe its something i can do later but i have to have paid employment right now too....nice to see you back on the main boards

Posted on 15 April 2006 @ 13:26 (London time) - permalink
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Ah the need for money, wish I could just win the lottery and have the life that I dream of and not the one I have got!!

Posted on 17 April 2006 @ 16:36 (London time) - permalink
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