Why am I so angry about threesome I had

Okay! I am wih a girl who admits to being bi sexual. I am not opposed to that, but have been becoming worried that it may be affecting our relationship. One night at my house I was letting a friend stay over who had just been in a domestic issue with her girlfriend. Not only that, but she was a model for my firm. I was also waiting for my girlfriend to come over. She had asked to spend the night. (Back Story) My girlfriend had seen a picture of the model that was over my house and pleaded to have sex with her.(Back to orignal) When my girlfriend arrived at the house she seemed excited yet angry about who was laying on the couch reading a book. Soon it seemed like everything was mellowing out. Everyone was getting very homey and comfortable. Even to the point that joking yet seriousl I brought up the fact that my girlfriend wanted to have sex with my model friend. Soon it became very serious and talk of them having sex became the key subject. It being my house I told them nothing was going down without me. Soon my girlfriend was like what about a threesome. I was hesitant to the idea but excited to try something to re flame our relationship. Soon they were taking a shower while I listened to their conversation. I then turned out the lights and suddenly heard them kissing. I watched from over the top of the curtain. I then uttered something that had them laughing, but soon they began going back at it. Surprisingly it was my girlfriend who initiated the kissing again. And sitting their watching I saw something that I hadn't seen in months from my girlfriend desire and passion. I felt sick yet could not stop watching as my girlfriend and this model went at it like I still do not get. I had a very hard time getting hard as I felt disgusted. I still participated in the threesome as I saw the model which in earlier conversations with her 20 year old nephew that she is fond of stealing women away from their lovers. I still feel upset because from what I saw she succeeded in this endavor and my bi sexual girlfriend fell in willingly. Can you shed some light on this endeavor for me... any one why am I so mad.

Posted on 19 September 2007 @ 7:6 (London time) - permalink
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You are one very lucky guy! What you describe is many men's dream, (so they tell me) and to have a bi-sexual g/f gives you that opportunity. Don't worry about it, you should enjoy it!

Posted on 29 September 2007 @ 19:37 (London time) - permalink
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I don't know I guess I still liked the fantasy its just how I feel about what seemed to be going down on the back end the whole, im gonna take you away from him, thing. I was just upset from that alone plus, the problems seemed to go away once she had a woman not a man. I guess I'm confused about the whole situation. But I will enjoy it.

Posted on 30 September 2007 @ 2:9 (London time) - permalink
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Jealousy. She's your girlfriend. Just because guys would love to be the meat in the middle of a sandwich, it doesn't take away the fact of her being with someone different than you. There's still an element of jealousy that can take place.

Posted on 4 October 2007 @ 4:7 (London time) - permalink
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Yeap i think you got that right on the nose.

Posted on 6 October 2007 @ 3:27 (London time) - permalink
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Yes you are in love with your girl friend but I promise you this will not be the girl you will marry and not because she is bi sexual. That woman may steal your girl friend but she will never take that smile from your face. You said she displayed passion you had never seen towards you. Sorry you lost the battle and never fired a shot. Their is only one thing left to do. As long as you still have her around you can make a last ditch effort to drive a wedge between them. If I were you I would use my penis. That's just about the perfect size to pry them apart.

Posted on 6 February 2008 @ 1:12 (London time) - permalink
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