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Age For Sex?

Sweetie PieSweetie Pie, posted over a year ago

I'm only 12 but i'm still curious about sex.Is there a certain age for sex or an age that is most common to have sex?Also if i had sex would something bad happen to me since i'm young?

Posted on 8 April 2006 @ 17:47 (London time) - permalink
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tuxtux, posted over a year ago

45.. neah.. not thsat long.. I would say 16 is a safe number.. 12 is too young. and something bad can happen if you have sex at any age.. moreso when you are 12 because at that age many people lack the knowledge to know better. Sex is more than just a physical act which is often mistaken.. It's emotional as well which is overlooked. At a young age, you may be emotionally scarred into having bad sexual relationships as you grow older.. Don't be too much in a rush to have sex, you have many years ahead for that.

Posted on 8 April 2006 @ 19:26 (London time) - permalink
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matt4dca4, posted over a year ago

yes i agree 16 is the age for concent and this is when most people are more mature and hopefully they are becoming adults

Posted on 8 April 2006 @ 20:27 (London time) - permalink
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Romeo_69Romeo_69, posted over a year ago

12 ????, NOOOOOOOOOOOO !!! please, PLEASE, wait, your time will come. your heart will know. Wait, 18, 19, 25, just wait please. Your fingers might help you, try them. Books will help also, please do not make a mistake that you will regret.

Posted on 8 April 2006 @ 21:55 (London time) - permalink
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Sweetie PieSweetie Pie, posted over a year ago

Relax Romeo 69 i know better than to have sew at 12 i plan to have it when i am 18 or maybe even older!Also can you put me as one of your friends?Thankx Sweetie Pie

Posted on 9 April 2006 @ 19:42 (London time) - permalink
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PrunellaGringepithPrunellaGringepith, posted over a year ago

Apart from the emotional scarring that Tux mentioned and of course the risk of sexually transmitted diseases, girls who have sex at a young age put themselves at a much higher risk of cervical cancer when they are older. Strangely enough the nuns at my old school never told me that one...just that I would burn in hell for all eternity for sex out of wedlock...go figure.

Posted on 10 April 2006 @ 1:0 (London time) - permalink
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Romeo_69Romeo_69, posted over a year ago

Thank you - how do i put you as a friend? I am new to this.

Posted on 14 April 2006 @ 5:38 (London time) - permalink
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chachacha, posted over a year ago

You should not have sex until you are at least 16.

You should take care to use birth control, to avoid having a baby.

You should take care to ensure you don't catch diseases from the person you have sex with.

Ideally, wait till you are at least 16 and have been going with a nice boy for at least 3 months and know him well before thinking about having sex with him.

Posted on 16 April 2006 @ 22:15 (London time) - permalink
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doublethinkdoublethink, posted over a year ago

I agree you should wait until you're older. Don't do anything too much yet - you'll look back on it later and regret it. The most mature thing you can do right now is realise you're not mature enough for a full-blown sexual relationship!

But that doesn't mean you can't enjoy yourself! You can kiss, cuddle, explore above the waist and talk about sex - a huge turn-on for lots of people.

Just take care of yourself!

Posted on 30 July 2006 @ 14:38 (London time) - permalink
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DazzergDazzerg, posted over a year ago

I waited till I was 21 and I think that was too long in alot of ways. I think its a question of when you feel you are ready and how you feel, i dont think there is a set-in-stone right or wrong answer.

Posted on 31 July 2006 @ 13:26 (London time) - permalink
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snowbirdsnowbird, posted over a year ago

And - when it does NOT feel right - DON'T DO IT!!!; i.e. If you are under age, without protection, or with a stranger, or because your friends are making you feel odd about not 'doing it' (I bet they are not); with someone who does not have your best interests at heart - you catch my drift? Be responsible, and don't take risks you will regret, and end up yet another unhappy statistic pushing a pram around, or carrying a dangerous disease... Make the most of other things in your life - travel a bit, learn about the world. You are too young to get bogged down worrying about sex - it isn't the be-all and end-all, and once you have lost your precious virginity, that's it, you can't get it back!!! Take care, and don't be in too much of a hurry to be grown-up - it takes a lot more than just having sex! Take care, I'll climb down off this soap box now, before I get dizzy!!! x

Posted on 16 August 2006 @ 15:25 (London time) - permalink
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NorexNorex, posted over a year ago

12 is young i did it when i was 14 and it's been good.

Posted on 20 July 2007 @ 0:49 (London time) - permalink
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kukundrelkukundrel, posted 49 weeks ago

hey,well I`m 17 years old.. and I made sex last year.. I think depends of your boyfriend.. if you are sure he is the best guy who ever met you are ready for sex.. But if he is a backage.. he dosen`t deserve you..;o) well,you are only 12.. you are to small,to feel the sense of sex.. ;o) `coz if you make sex,you will be disapointed and you`ll never notice the amazing part of sex.. And.. doesn`t happen any bad thing if you make sex now.. only will be grieve.. ;)

Posted on 16 August 2007 @ 13:31 (London time) - permalink
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